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Kam Thammavong Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 16, 2012.

Kam Sai Thammavong passed away on December 14, 2012 at UNC Hospital from a brain aneurysm. He was 27 years old. He is survived by his parents; Somphou Thammavong and Lee Lee Thammavong; his two sisters, Suelevahn Thammavong and Chan Som Thammavong; his three brothers, Mike Thammavong, Kham Seng Thammavong, and Alune Thammavong; and his cousin, Tou Lee along with his family.

Sai Thammavong was originally from Marion, North Carolina and graduated from McDowell High School in 2003. He went on to attend UNC Charlotte where he received his Bachelor of Science in Biology in May 2009. His favorite hobbies were snowboarding, weight lifting, playing video games, and entertaining friends.

Sai will be remembered as a compassionate person who always considered others before himself. His love and humor brought so much joy to so many people.

The family will receive friends from 12:00 PM until 8:00 PM on Friday, December 21, 2012 at Kirksey Funeral Home, located on 69 North Main Street, Marion, NC. A funeral service will be held on Saturday, December 22, 2012, from 11am to 3pm at the funeral home. Burial will follow at McDowell Memorial Park.

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November 23, 2013

Sook

hey Sai , I miss u so much! I think of u often. I can't really said I think of u everyday, bc it saddens me to realized that u're not here with me (us) anymore. although u are in our hearts and thoughts, but knowing that we can't see ur smiling face or hear ur voice or ur silly saying "hex"...makes us really sad and hurt. I know I haven't come visit u a lot, but u know my situations. since you're gone, my life hasn't been for the better nor worse, but more sad and unhappy. sometime when I drive a long way to work, I talk to u like u're right there with me. when I have troubles or situations,I always ask God to give u to me to help me with things in my life that's hard for me to deal with. I think u and I are very much alike. we both are very sensitive, kind heart, giving, compassion and funny at some point. for the holiday, please help me to over come any obstacles that might be hard for me to handle, as u know I have a very weak heart. I can't handle things or someone that would just hurt me. Sai, to be honest, most of the time, when something or someone hurts me, I just wanted to be where u are. as u can see the world is full of hates and hurts. I write to u today bc, I wanted u to know that even though I can't be with the family for the holiday and come visit u, I just wanted u to know that... I will miss u so much during this time and I will always love u !! oh please help dad and mom getting better with their health and all ur other siblings too, u know who they are.....thank you for letting me be your sis!

December 31, 2012

Judi Jarvis

May God continue to hold you tightly in the coming days. The loss of a child is something I can not imagine. Please know you are in my prayers and my heart.

December 22, 2012

My deepest sympathy to all the family, but most especially to his sister Chan Som and his parents. I can't imagine the grief in losing a child. Sai and my son, Jonathan and Chan Som and my daughter, Catherine, used to play together when they were in elementary school. May God be with you during this most difficult time. Linda Early

December 21, 2012

Julie, Nancy, Jenny V

Soy had such a great impact on our lives though we only known him for a few months. He was so sweet and funny. He will always be remembered and be in our hearts.

December 21, 2012

Autumn Pace

Sai was one of the best people I ever knew and he will be missed dearly.

December 20, 2012

John Cole

My thoughts are with your family during this difficult time. I remember him as a very kind person with a great sence of humor. I was shocked and saddened by this news. May God Bless this family.

December 20, 2012

Phil Burton

Neighbor, friend, inspiration, a big part of who I am.
Will forever be missed and forever remembered.

December 19, 2012

Catherine Reitzel

I remember Sai as a sweet kid who was friend's with my younger brother. Even though didn't know him later on, I am sure he turned into a sweet adult as well. He will be missed. It is so shocking that this happened. It is very sad. Thinking about you during this difficult time. Catherine Early Reitzel

December 18, 2012

Catherine Reitzel

We are so sorry for your family's loss, we are thinking of you during this very difficult time. Catherine Reitzel and family

December 18, 2012

I remember Sai as a very sweet and funny guy. I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family. God Bless.
Brandi Arwood Alvis

December 18, 2012

Jeffrey Hooper

Sai will forever be remembered as my Friend and Rival, who would get me to compete with him in almost anything from spelling tests, to who could give blood the fastest. You where a one of a kind partner in crime from kindergarten to college and I will truly miss you till we meet again. RIP Brother

December 18, 2012

Bill and Frankie Ingram

Our hearts and prayers are with the family. May you always remember the good times.

December 18, 2012

Ashley Duncan

Only the good die young, such a true statement! Sai was such a good person & will always be remembered for his good character & humor! RIP Sai! We will see you again!

December 18, 2012

Ashley (Seagle) Jones

Sai was truly one of the very best people I have ever known. I was blessed to go through elementary, jr. high and high school with him as a classmate. He was always kind, always friendly, and absolutely loved by all that knew him. Thank you Sai for always bringing a smile to our faces, and always being there for anyone that needed a friend. I'll never forget you and I love you so much. Can't wait to see you again!

December 18, 2012

Anh Bui

Can't believe such tragedy can occur to a dear friend. He will be the one and only "soy sauce" that can make anyone and everyone laugh. Great memories were made with him at uncc. He will be forever missed.

December 18, 2012

Jessica Mace

Sai would always put a smile on your face. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

December 18, 2012

Monica Sigmon

Sai was an awesome guy, who always knew just the thing to say to make you smile. He will be greatly missed! My thoughts and prayers are with all of his family and friends.

December 17, 2012

Tonya Nanney

Sai, you will be deeply missed. My thoughts and prayers are with the family. May God ease your souls and help you though this difficult time. See you again one day until then Godspeed.

December 17, 2012

Evan Harvey

Sad to hear of this loss. Sai was my neighbor growing up. My thoughts are with his family.

December 17, 2012

Lindsey Johnson

I was so sorry to hear of Sai's passing. He was always such a dear, sweet friend in school. Prayers for God's peace to the family during this time.

December 17, 2012

Thomas Goble

Sai was a great friend, and was always there to give you a laugh when you needed it the most. I will miss you a lot buddy, and look forward to the day when we meet again!

December 17, 2012

meagan norton

Sai you will be missed dearly!

December 17, 2012

meagan norton

Sai will be missed dearly. He was such a fun, loving, caring, and funny guy! He could always make me laugh in school. My thoughts and prayers are with the family.

December 17, 2012

Jaclyn Clark

I am so sadden by his loss, he was such a great, kind ,caring person who we all loved so very much. He will forever be missed. My prayers are with his family during this very difficult time.

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