John "Jay" W. Moody

1937 - 2014

John  "Jay" W. Moody obituary, 1937-2014

BORN

1937

DIED

2014

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John "Jay" Moody Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 14, 2014.

John W. Moody of Safety Harbor, Florida, was born on April 12, 1937 in New York City. John or "Jay" as he would later be known, grew up in Malverne, New York.He entered the service after college in 1959. He was a Vietnam Veteran and served in the Army where he retired in 1979 as a Lieutenant Colonel. While in the Army John served for 20 years as a Special Forces officer. He earned the Silver Star while serving in Vietnam. John retired from the Army with various other awards and numerous campaign ribbons. In his spare time, John enjoyed golf, boating and spending time with his family and friends. John was also an accomplished musician playing trombone with many local bands. John was preceded in death by his parents, John W Moody and Mary Louise Moody, his brother, James Moody and sister Mary Lou Guarneri. Survivors include his beloved wife of 55 years, Barbara; son, James (Marisol) Moody, daughters, Cathy (Jay) Polt; Joan (Mark) Hollifield; Lou Anne (Chris) Kapkovic; 9 grandchildren; brothers, Thomas and Matthew Moody; sisters, Kathleen Jantzen and Diane Newman. A celebration of life is planned for Sunday, July 20, 2014 at 3:00-5:00 pm at Moss Feaster Funeral Home, 1320 Main Street, Dunedin, Florida. The family requests in lieu if flowers to please make donations to your favorite charity.

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July 21, 2014

All of us in the Cl. Band dearly miss Jay. His musicianship, warm personality and unending helpfulness were valued by all. We are better people having known such an exemplary man. Our deepest sympathy to his family. Sincerely, Ted and Kay DeCorso

July 21, 2014

John William Moody

Everybody has a few seminal moments in life that shape who they are and how they understand the world in which we all live. I am proud to share one of my experiences in which Uncle Jay played a central role. It happened during one our annual visits to Uncle Jay and Aunt Barbara's home in Tampa. I was probably 10 years old, weighed 100 pounds soaking wet, and having three sisters;knew very little about hanging out with the guys. One night, after a long day of swimming, Uncle Jay decided I was old enough to go on his weekly night time fishing trip. I wasn't much of a fisherman and thought it would pretty exciting to do learn about what can be caught at night. Uncle Jay, his close friend (I think Norm), my Dad, and me made our way out at nightfall. Uncle Jay showed me to the dock, ordered me into the boat, showed me where to sit, how to steer, and pointed out a few stars in a clear Florida sky. About 30 minutes passed and we only went a few miles into the bay. Uncle Jay dropped anchor and I was ready for the fishing. However, I noticed we did not have any fishing rods, nets, bait, or anything else one would use to catch fish. Rather, fishing at night with Uncle Jay meant a couple of cold chicken sandwiches, a cooler of Coors (old school yellow cans) and the company of some solid men who knew how to tell a story, laugh, and enjoy the company they keep. That night I got see how Uncle Jay, my Dad, and Norm shared a brotherhood that is created when guys get together. The bonding isn't really talked about as much as experienced. I remember that night because I got to see Uncle Jay and my Dad joke with each other and share a camaraderie that represents their brotherhood and friendship. Its the kind of relationship I hold with my closest friends. And although I don't have any brothers, and I probably drink more craft beers than Coors, I love a good chicken sandwich and the experience of championing a win in a football game against cousin Jimmy. Thanks Uncle Jay and God Bless the Moody's.

July 18, 2014

Paul Butler

I describe Jay as one of the "Straightest" men I ever knew. He walked straight as a person always on a mission. He talked straight so that you knew what Jay thought but you never felt offended by the way he presented his ideas. Jay

July 18, 2014

Dorothy Moody

Jay was more than a Brother-in-Law to me. He was my friend. He and Barbara were always there for me and my family in time of crisis as well as the goods times. And we had lots of good times. I will miss him.

July 17, 2014

Jay sat behind me often in several bands. We were always glad to have him play. He had a great sound and a great personality. We miss him.

Diana Belcher
10:00 Band

July 17, 2014

Matt Moody

A great husband, father, soldier, and musician, Jay will remain in our hearts until we are with him again. I have many fond memories of being together at family gatherings, boat trips and playing fine music. We love you. Matt and Arlene

July 16, 2014

Gail & Gary Dunlap

We would like to express our deepest condolence. As Father & a US Army Vet. Jay Was a man of the highest Honor and Intrgraty Our prayers go with you

July 16, 2014

Cindy Hanson

Jay was one of the most honest, nicest, bravest, warmest, kindest, and strongest men I have ever met. I worked with Jay in Tampa. Once he gave me a ride home from work because my car broke down. I lived 25 miles away in another direction. He would help anyone who needed a hand. That was the type of person he was.

July 16, 2014

I am proud to say that I was and is Jay's "baby" sister. I am also proud of the man, the soldier and of the husband father, grandfather, and friend.
I miss him terribly. The suffering is over now and I'm happy for that.
Love,
Kathleen and Roger

July 16, 2014

Lori Morgan

So sorry for your loss - May peace be with your entire family.

July 16, 2014

Maria Newman

He had a beautiful life to be celebrated. Family, friends, faith , love,and an adoring wife. Our hearts will be with you all in the coming days, as you prepare Jay for his homecoming. We love you. Rest in peace Jay.
Paul and Maria Newman

July 15, 2014

Ron & Peggy Wolf

Barbara and family,

Jay followed the path, no matter how rough it was. He followed that path with dignity and love. For his country, his family and his God.

May the Angel's lead you into Paradise, Rest in Peace sweet man.

July 15, 2014

To the Moody family. Jay was such a good, good friend for the many years I had the privilege to know him in the Clearwater and Dunedin Bands. I had some health issues but whenever I ran into Jay, he never spoke of his problems and was always concerned about me. I would have to ask him how he was to get an answer! He fought the hard battle and is now at peace and will be missed by so many of us. Rest in peace gentle man. Lisa Bright (Wisner)

July 15, 2014

Manny Espinosa

Dear Moody family, I would like to express my sympathy for your loss. Jay was a true gentleman with a good sense of humor. He was also a very strong and determined man. I've missed our occasional visits before Clearwater and Dunedin band rehearsals, and hearing those great sounds from his trombone. May he now rest in peace. Kindest regards,

July 15, 2014

Bless John and Bless all of his family.
Steve Hightower

July 15, 2014

JESUS SAID: "I AM THE WAY, THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE. WHOEVER BELIEVES IN ME, EVEN THOUGH HE DIES, WILL LIVE FOREVER."

WITH ETERNAL LOVE FOR MY BIG BROTHER JAY AND BARBARA,
DEEDEE....... AND DON NEWMAN

July 15, 2014

Wendy Parker

Dear Barbara, Sending you our deepest sympathies and warm thoughts of Jay: our hero!
love, Eddie and Wendy

July 15, 2014

Stewart Olson

Jay was a great guy and a good friend. I'll miss him very much.

July 15, 2014

Dennis & Karen Heaphy

Dear Barbara and family, our hearts and prayers go out to you. We miss Jay but he will always be in our memories of fun times with our fox terriers. Dennis and Karen Heaphy

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July 14, 2014

Norman & Teena Derocher

Dear Barb and family, You all know how we felt about Jay so words will not suffice. We miss him already but know we all will be together real soon. We pray for peace for you and your entire family.
Love always,
Norm and Teena

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