Thomas "Buter" Butzen Jr.

1964 - 2014

Thomas "Buter" Butzen Jr. obituary, 1964-2014, Sheboygan, WI

BORN

1964

DIED

2014

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Ballhorn Chapels Funeral & Cremation Care Center

1201 N 8th Street

Sheboygan, Wisconsin

Thomas Butzen Obituary

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Thomas "Buter" Butzen Jr., 49, died unexpectedly on Saturday, February 15, 2014. He was born December 2, 1964 in Sheboygan to Thomas and Lynda (Sykes)Butzen. Tommy was a graduate of North High School, Class of 1984. After graduation, he worked at his family's business, Butzen Contracting/Roofing until the time of his death. On March 18, 1996 Tommy and Karen Krutzik were united in marriage on the Carnival Cruise, Ecstasy. Tommy loved rock music, especially Van Halen and enjoyed being involved with the bands' sound and lighting systems. He loved talking and laughing with his cousin Jesse about anything to do with music. Tommy enjoyed Karen's cooking and also liked family get-togethers. He was an avid Packer fan. Tommy was especially known for his sense of humor, big hugs, kisses and the ability to make people laugh. He is survived by his loving wife of 17 years, Karen Butzen; his father, Thomas (significant other Bonnie Rousse) Butzen Sr.; his mother, Lynda Butzen; grandma, Joyce Butzen; brother, Robert Butzen; sister Elizabeth Haneman; sister Marcy (James) Psichopaidas; brothers-in-law, Jerry (Jill) Krutzik; Brad (Special friend, Renee) Krutzik, Kevin (Melissa) Krutzik; sister-in-law, Susan Niquette (Special friend, Doug); parents-in-law, Jerome (Betty) Krutzik; 5 nieces and 5 nephews; as well as numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. Tommy was preceded in death by his grandparents; sister-in-law, Terri Krutzik; and cousin, David Butzen. In lieu of flowers, a memorial fund has been established in Tommy's name. Funeral services will be held Friday, February 21, 2014 at 6:00 pm at Ballhorn Chapels in Sheboygan. Rev. Daniel J. Lasecki will officiate. A time of visitation and support will be held at Ballhorn Chapels from 4:00 pm until the time of the service. Tommy will always be remembered for his smile and his willingness to help people.

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February 14, 2024

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Dixie C Hummitzsch

Wish he was still around. Such a nice person.

February 13, 2019

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Dixie Hummitzsch

He was such a kind person. My husband best buddy. Won't ever forget him.

February 23, 2014

Linda (lawoman) Aschenbach (Berger)

Sorry to hear this sad news. I remember the many nights with both of you and all the Renegade gigs and adventures. Surely his presence will be missed in many lives, as well as, you and family. May the memories provide some comfort for you.

February 23, 2014

Judy Stiefvater(Engeldinger)

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

February 22, 2014

V. Michael Schaeve

Karen:
My thoughts & prayers were with you & family Fri, sorry I couldn't attend & give you a hug. It's always the living that hurt the most. Hope to see you soon & we can talk old times over a glass of beer & pack of olives.

All my love & best wishes
TEDDY

February 21, 2014

My thoughts and prayers go out to the entire Butzen family. I have many fond memories of Tom from Holy Name. May you cherish all the wonderful memories you have of him.
Martha Mittelstaedt (Trilling)

February 21, 2014

Robert Butcher

Sad to hear the loss of a classmate and friend. I will miss yelling, Buter!! as I drove past where he was working , he would waive and laugh. Sometimes I would stop, shake his hand and say Hi, he was a nice guy. My prayers and thoughts go out to the entire Butzen Family, he will be sadly missed.

February 21, 2014

Karen, Tom and family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You have our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.
Ed and Brenda (Wettstein) Justinger

February 21, 2014

Dear Psichopaidas Family,
We are so sorry to hear about your loss! The staff of the Quality Inn wants to send our condolences to you and all of your family.

February 20, 2014

Nicki Hering Boldt

Thoughts and prayers to Tom's family.
He was one of the good guys.
RIP Tom.

February 20, 2014

Blake Sommer

Dear Karen and the entire Butzen family,
Our deepest sympathies and condolences go out to you at this time. I have so many wonderful memories of Buter over the years ever since I first met him when he was a teenager chumming around with my brother Michael and over the years he became my dear friend too. We sure shared some good times over the years and his good spirit and wonderful smile will surely be missed by all. Take care and God Bless
Blake and Sheryl Sommer

February 20, 2014

Diane & Brett Hanson

so sorry for your loss Karen ! you an your family are in our thoughts an prays. I love an miss you !

February 20, 2014

Gene Decker

Karen and family , may the Lord comfort you at this time, the loss of a loved one.

February 20, 2014

"Tommy" and I have only had the fortune of getting together a handful of times as adults, but I have fond childhood memories of my visits with my cousins in Sheboygan. There were wrestle fights with my brother, Mike, riding bikes on the driveway, and playing on the swing set. Tommy, as a young boy, always had a huge appetite polishing off a whole box of cereal at breakfast and consuming a whole steak at dinner. We shared lots of laughs and fun. These memories I will keep close to my heart. Tommy, may God hold you in the palm of his hand.
My sincerest sympathy to all my family in Sheboygan (and those who have moved). I will always keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
With all my love,
Cousin Debbie Mikkelson Long and family

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February 20, 2014

Dan & Gail Riemer

Tom, Bonnie, Bob & family,
Our heartfelt sorrow for your loss of Tommy. We all had some great times together, and memories last forever. We will keep all of you in our prayers.
Dan & Gail Riemer

February 20, 2014

Jim and Roberta Ehnert

Karen and family: Sorry for your loss.

February 20, 2014

Ben & JoAnn McCoy

To Tommy's Family & My Beautiful Friend Karen Me & Ben are so sorry for your loss This is so Hard Karen You Had a WONDERFUL Man He will be So Very MISSED We are All Here for You Girl We LOVE You So Very, Very MUCH. LOVE Ben & JoAnn

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February 20, 2014

Lynn Meyer ( Olsen )

Karen and family , I'am so sorry for your Loss . Haven't seen Tommy in Years , But he was a very nice Person , So sorry for your Loss . My Deepest Sympathy

February 20, 2014

Gregg Wagner (wags)

Many memories from Holy Name to NHS have come to light this week. Sister Gertrude to the days at Journeys End. Rest in peace.

February 19, 2014

mike davidson

My thoughts and prayers are with Tom's loved ones. I have many special memories of Tom as were good friends dating back to 1st grade. He was a good guy and a great friend. May your memories of Tom comfort you during this difficult time.

February 19, 2014

H.D. Knight

My heart goes out to Tommy's family. He was a true friend and just an all around great guy. God bless him.

February 19, 2014

With deepest sympathy , very sorry to hear of your unexpected loss.
Mark & Kim Kallas

February 19, 2014

Dixie Hummitzsch

We will miss you so bad

February 19, 2014

Jamie Russo (Puksich)

Tom Sr and family,
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. Although I haven't seen Tommy in years, I still have many fond memories of him from when I was a kid at the old shop by Washington Elementary. I'm so very sorry to hear about his passing. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

February 19, 2014

Lisa (Urbas) Warner

My thoughts and prayers to all of Tom's family. I have many good memories of Tom from grade school. Peace to all of you.

February 19, 2014

I was so sad to hear about the passing of a childhood schoolmate and Holynamer. The world will miss his laugh. My deepest sympathies to his family.

February 19, 2014

Mark Anhalt

My condolences to family, very sad, old neighborhood friend .

February 19, 2014

Vickie Stoelb-Moran

Tom Sr and family, my sympathies to you all. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

February 19, 2014

Scott Berry

My prayers and sympathy to Tom's family during this time. Been out of touch with Tom since High school, but I will never forget his infectious laugh!

February 19, 2014

Jody and Danielle Sommer

Karen,

We are so sorry for your loss, Tom was a pleasant person to be around. If there is anything we can do for you, please let us know.





Jody and Danielle Sommer

February 19, 2014

Ed Stalter

My condolences to Karen as well as the family and friends of Tom. He was always a kind and pleasant person to cross paths with.

February 19, 2014

Susan Herman

Our deepest sympathy. Sue & Rick Herman (38th St.)

February 19, 2014

John&Gloria Schmidt

Hi Tom and Linda, We are so sorry for your lose it is hard to loose a loved one so young. You have our thoughts and prayers. God Bless. Gloria and John Schmidt

February 19, 2014

Robert Schaefer

I was very saddened to hear of Tom's passing. I have great memories of Tom from our days at Holy Name and NHS. Great guy with such an infectious laugh. The guy could throw a ball for a mile! I pray for perfect peace for Tom, and for comfort for his wife and all his loved ones.

February 19, 2014

Jim, Paige, Nicholas Psichopaidas

What a great smile and infectious personality. Tom was loved by all and never failed to light up a room with his love and enthusiasm.He was also the protector of our "mouse" and everything else near and dear to him, of which I will always be greatful. Tommy immediatly welcomed me into the family and we shared many commenalities with our love of music and the performing arts.
Today God has another angel... But as mere mortals we grieve and are deeply saddened by your passing and miss you already..
My sympathies to Karen and the entire Butzen family.

February 19, 2014

Dawn Zeier

Karen and Family,
You have my deepest sympathy. Hold your memories close to your heart.

February 19, 2014

Karen if you need anything we are here for you 100%! we are so so sorry . Jessica Spender AND family

February 19, 2014

Becki Halverson

Karen,
My prayers and thoughts are with you & your family in your time of need, I'm so sorry for
your loss.

February 19, 2014

Louicia Fanslau

I am so sorry for your loss Karen. My God be with you through these times

February 19, 2014

Louicia

February 19, 2014

Louicia

Karen my thoughts and prayers are with you.. Tommy really was a good man. Funny and always smiling

February 19, 2014

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