1946
2011
Howard R. Bain, Jr.
January 31, 2011
Howard R. Bain, Jr., 64, of Solvay, passed away Monday. Born in Pittsburgh, PA, he was a US Air Force Veteran of the Vietnam War. A graduate of Lemoyne College, he was a Certified Public Accountant and partner of Bain, Brown and DeLaura, CPA's for over 25 years. Howard was a member of the Hilltop Club, the Geddes Veterans Association, past President and Treasurer of Midstate Hockey, and a proud member and Commander of the Stanley B. Pennock VFW Post #2893.
He is survived by his wife of 34 years, the former Carm Perfetto, 2 sons; Patrick, of NYC and Matthew, of Syracuse, his father; Howard R. Bain, Sr., of Syracuse, 3 brothers; Jeffrey, of Omaha, Neb, Brian (Patricia), of Camillus and Gary (Claudia), of Ft Worth, TX, nieces and nephews; Meaghan, Corey, Scott, Vanessa, Melanie, Amanda, Alex and Andrew, and many aunts, uncles and cousins.
Funeral services will be conducted at 8:45 am Friday Feb. 4th in BAGOZZI TWINS FUNERAL HOME and 9:30 am in St. Cecilia Church, where a funeral Mass will be celebrated. Burial with military honors will be in Onondaga County Veterans Memorial Cemetery. Calling hours are from 4 to 7 pm Thursday Feb. 3rd at the funeral home, 2601 Milton Ave.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Stanley B Pennock VFW Post 2893, 517 Charles Ave. Solvay, NY 13209..
Condolences may be offered at www.bagozzitwins.com.
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May 20, 2019
Brother
Jeffrey Bain
Howard Bain Jr USAF
1966-1970 Udorn 1968
The Secret War Tet
This inscription is on HB's Legacy Data Plate on the Wall of Honor at the Air Force Museum in Dayton, Ohio
March 2, 2011
Howie, I love you and miss you. As you said "your brother always and forever". Someday we will be together again.
Carm, May God Bless you and your sons.
Jeff
February 13, 2011
Elaine (cousin) Labrocca
Since I haven't seen Howie for many years, I remember him in an earlier time, always with a smile on his face. On one particular occasion, while walking home from a movie, Howie began teasing me...I still remember every word with fondness. I missed him terribly at the last family reunion in Peru, IN and had hoped that we would reconnect at the next one. Now we can't and I know that I will continue to miss him in my heart and wished I had done more to keep up the contact. If I miss him that much, how much more will he be missed by Carm, his children and his brothers. My sympathy to all of you.
February 7, 2011
To the Bain Family: Howie was my cousin, and even though we have not seen each other in a very long time, I have such fond memories of the visits we had when we were young. I especially remember our trip to New York to visit...it was the only family vacation I remember. Howie will be missed and my heart goes out to you along with my prayers. Judy (Crume) Henderson
February 5, 2011
Matt & family,
We are very sorry for your loss. We wanted to attend the services but we are out of town. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.
Matt jackson & Maureen moriarty
February 4, 2011
Dear Carm, So very sorry to hear of your husband's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Johanna Quantrille(Merchants Bank).
February 3, 2011
Matt and Bain Family, I am very sorry for your loss and Mr. Bain will be in my prayers along with The Bain Family. My mother was unable to attend due to medical issues. I wish I could have been there (for the wake) Matt, but I have classes all over the place and chasing around a 2 and half year old. If you would like to catch up with each other, please give me a call at 454-7932. Timothy C. Quantrille
February 3, 2011
Olga Doyle
Pat and Matt, I am so sorry for the loss of your Father. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Olga Doyle
February 3, 2011
Jim & Mary Kippley
Dear Bain Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Many happy childhood memories about Howard and the "Bain boys" came flooding back as we read the tribute to Howard. A life obviously well lived..... God Bless you all with a peace that only HE can provide. You are ALL in our thoughts and prayers.
Jim and Mary (Gowin) Kippley
February 3, 2011
Ed Henderson
Dear Carm and Family,
I want to express my sincere condolences for your loss. Howie was like an older brother to me and I will never forget him. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Ed Henderson
February 3, 2011
Rob Butkowski
Carm and Family,
Sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
February 3, 2011
Carm My condolences to you and yours during this difficult time. May you be comforted in the days ahead with your many memories. Sincerely, Lois Mott
February 3, 2011
Jill "Raymond" McAndrew
Carm, Matt, and Patrick,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad and difficult time. There truly are no words that are going to take the pain away, but know that you have so many friends and family that will help you get through each day. May the good times become precious memories and give you some peace. Hugs to you all!
February 3, 2011
Ken and Kate Ackerman
Matt; You and your family have our sympathy and our prayers during this sad time.
February 3, 2011
Kristin McClement
Patrick, Matt and Carm,
Words cannot even begin to express my sorrow. May all of your memories of Howard give you strength! I hope the love of those around each of you help you through the days ahead.
I'm so sorry for the loss. My love, thoughts and prayers are with you always.
February 3, 2011
Lori Morgan
Carm, so sorry to hear about your husband. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers...take strength from the family that surrounds you and cherish your memories.
February 3, 2011
Kenneth Ackerman
Matt- Kate and I are thinking about you and your family. You have our sympathy and our prayers. Ken Ackerman
February 3, 2011
Dear Carm-Pat-Matt,
Howard was a good man and I was so sorry to hear of your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Wendy O'Toole
February 3, 2011
Karen Savage
Carm,
I am so sorry for your loss. I am unable to attend the wake and services, but my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. If you need anything, even just someone to talk to, I am here for you. Hugs for you.
February 2, 2011
Eleanor Dollinger
Carm,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Ed and I send our condolences to you and your family. If you need anything please do not hesitate to call. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
February 2, 2011
Kathleen Thompson
Carmen & Family,
So sorry to hear of your loss. May your memories bring you comfort & strength in the coming days.
February 2, 2011
Karen Fitch
Carm, Sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
February 2, 2011
Kevin Healy
Matt and Pat,
Your Dad was a great guy and was a tremendous help to my parents through the years.
With deepest sympathies
Kevin and Katie Healy
February 2, 2011
Kimberly Richardson
On behalf of the Solvay Neighborhood Watch please accept our sincere condolences on the passing of Howard.
February 2, 2011
Carm, Howard was our Post Commander for the past two years ruling for the men who served in the Wars overseas.He will be together again with all our men who have passed before him.........Carmen and Emory to mention a few of them. He will be missed every Wednesday at our Bingo games announcing the winners................................................................................
Pat Welch, Stanley B.Pennock Post #2893 Ladies Auxiliary
February 2, 2011
Dear Carm & family,
our deepest sympathy goes out to you
on the loss of Howard, a friend & our
accountant. our prayers are with you.
May he rest in peace.
Love & God Bless You,
Matt & Liz Iudice
February 2, 2011
Nick & Deena Alfonsetti
Carm, Matt & Pat, we are so sorry for your loss. We will miss Howard's calls, laughs, caring nature, and especially those times together. Howard was our best friend and will be greatly missed.
February 2, 2011
Carm and Family: Our deepest sympathy is extended to you at this time of sorrow. Howard's presence and leadership in the VFW, and his contribution to other origanizations will be missed. A very dedicated man, it was a pleasure to work with him. Mike & Anne Marie Masterpole
February 2, 2011
Dear Carm, Patrick & Matthew,
Please accept the sympathy of Le Moyne College on the occasion of the death of your Husband and Father, respectively. Be assured of our prayers for him, for you and for your family.
~Le Moyne College Office of Alumni & Parent Programs
February 2, 2011
Helen Simonelli
To the Bain family,
We are so sorry for your loss and are thinking of you all.
Helen and Bud Simonelli
February 2, 2011
Dear Pat and family,
You are in our thoughts during this difficult time. We know how much your family means to you and hope that in time your memories will always keep your Dad close to you.
Sincerely,
Anne and Jeff Timmons
February 2, 2011
Mickie Femano
Carm and Family sorry for your loss, Mickie Femano
February 2, 2011
Jim Ray
I want to express my sympathy and sadness at Howard's passing. We have been friends for most of our lives and always caught up during tax season. My condolences to all of the family.
February 2, 2011
Mayor Kathy Marinelli
Bain Family:
My thoughts and pryers are with you all at this most difficult time. Howard was a kind and gentle man. His dedication to the VFW will be sorely missed.
February 2, 2011
maria Lattanzio-Wede
Carm, Matt and Jeff, We are sorry to hear about Howie- he was a very good and unique gentleman.We had a lot of laughs over the years as he was not just a friend of our family but our accountant.you can bet our Dad Rocco will be waiting with open arms for him! Our Deepest Sympathies, The Lattanzio and Wede Families
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