Lisa L. Bender-Zuleski, age 50, of Maple Grove, Minnesota, passed away into eternal life on February 2, 2013, at her home with her son and husband at her side, after a 17 month battle with pancreatic cancer.
Funeral services were held on Thursday, February 7, 2013, at Sunset Funeral Home in Minneapolis, MN, with Fr. Tony Dinseo officiating. Interment followed at Sunset Memorial Park in Minneapolis.
Lisa was born on March 2, 1962, in Aberdeen, SD, to Darrell and Irene (Stiles) Bender, and was baptized into the Roman Catholic Church. Due to her father's frequent employment transfers, she attended elementary school in Mobridge, Pierre and Rapid City before her family moved back to Mobridge where she graduated from high school in 1980.
Following high school, she managed the Super 8 Motel in Mobridge before moving to Minneapolis, MN in 1982. Lisa became employed with Twin City Federal Bank in the mortgage loan business as a loan processor from 1985 to 1993, and was promoted to the position of corporate processing manager, responsible for training and supervising over 100 loan processors. She then created her own loan processing business, Mortgage Loan Processing Center. Lisa sub contracted with large banks in Minneapolis to originate and process sometimes up to 65 mortgage loans in a single month. Shortly prior to her cancer diagnosis, she became employed with Thrivent Financial for Lutherans in Minneapolis.
In 1988, Lisa married Richard Zuleski, and in 1990, their only child, Carson was born.
Lisa will be remembered for her generosity, cooking and entertaining. She had a wonderful sense of humor and loved to laugh. She also enjoyed taking the family boat out on Lake Minnetonka entertaining friends, and loved to be around babies and small children. She had a love for the holidays including decorating her yard for Halloween and handing out the neighborhoods favorite treats to the trick or treaters, and giving and receiving gag gifts for Christmas.
Upon learning of her terminal diagnosis, Lisa didn't return to work, and fought her cancer with the most aggressive forms of chemotherapy available. She never complained about the side affects, and never wanted anybody to see her in pain. During breaks in her treatments, she enjoyed traveling to Phoenix to visit her relatives and friends. Lisa, her husband and son were also able to take a long anticipated trip to the islands of Hawaii. Her home backed up to a small wildlife preserve, and Lisa had several bird feeders she kept filled so she could watch the birds while she was undergoing her treatments. Her loyal Boston Terriers, Max and Winnie, and cat, Kizmo were also there to keep her company.
Lisa is survived by her devoted husband of 25 years, Richard Zuleski of Maple Grove, MN; loving son, Carson Zuleski of Maple Grove; her parents, Darrell and Irene Bender of Mobridge; brother, Kim Bender of Cooke City, MT; brother, Darren Bender of Phoenix, AZ; nieces, Jennifer Cornett of Sioux Falls and Kari (Jordan) Nehls of Lincoln, ND; great nephew, Jackson Cornett; great-nieces, Ella Cornett, Laila and Brittyn Nehls. Other survivors include sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, Kathleen and Roger Starks, and Debra an Ron Brown; nephews: Justin and Ryan Brown and Christopher Stark; and uncles, aunts and many cousins.
Preceding in death were her grandparents, Jacob and Minnie Bender, and John and Dorothy Stiles.
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