BORN

1956

DIED

2013

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Sheboygan, Wisconsin

Terrilyn "Sonie" Borgens-Abraham Obituary

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Terrilyn "Sonie" Borgens-Abraham, 57, of Sheboygan, passed away on Wednesday, February 20, 2013 after a courageous battle with cancer at Sharon S. Richardson Community Hospice.
Sonie was born January 14, 1956 in Milwaukee to LeRoy and Sylvia (Bright) Green.
On September 10, 1982, Terrilyn and James Abraham were united in marriage. Together they raised their family in the Sheboygan area.
Sonie was known for her love of the road and the outdoors. She enjoyed hunting, fishing and spending time at the family cabin up north. She was an accomplished author, publishing two wild game cookbooks. Sonie had a big heart and she fought for what she believed in. Her grandchildren were very special to her.
In addition to her husband Jim, Sonie is survived by her mother Sylvia; her children; 8 grandchildren; two brothers; a sister; two brothers-in-law; two sisters-in-law; many nieces and nephews; special friend Sheri Wagness and "brother" Charlie McGillis.
Funeral services will be held Tuesday, February 26, 2013 at 3:00 pm at Ballhorn Chapels and Crematory. Rev. Gregory S. Whelton, pastor at St. John's United Church of Christ will officiate. A time of visitation and support will be held on Tuesday from 1:00 pm until the time of service.
The family of Sonie would like to send a special thank you to Dr. Kumar, the Vince Lombardi Cancer Center and the staff at Sharon S. Richardson Community Hospice for the care and compassion shown to her.
Sonie was quite the character and will be deeply missed.

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February 15, 2019

Son

Bob Borgens-Abraham

Lately I have had moments where I look at my daughter Analiese, and I have to take minute because every day she is looking more and more like her grandmother. We all miss mom in our own ways and she has left such a monumental impact on many.

March 5, 2013

callie abraham-schoen

i love you mom and think of you everyday and i know i will have a hard time trying to fill your shoes in holding the family together but i know i can you have taught me so will you were not only my mom but my best friend i love you

March 4, 2013

Tom and Kathy Lefeber

Dear Jim,
I know that there are no words to ease the pain of losing Sonie..But Tom and I want to express our Heartfelt sympathy to you and the family,and wanted you to know that Sonie was the free spirit that she was because of you...You gave her the wings to be the Beautiful human being that she was ! I Loved her passion for life and the kind spirit that she had,she was such a great inspiration and a wonderful listener,what some Great qualities to have in this life..And Loved you and the kids and Grandkids with all of her soul !! I used to just enjoy talking with her... you could feel the Love she had in her voice for all of you !If ever you need someone to talk to Tom and I would love to hear from you..Please take Care Jim,and hope to see you sometime soon...Friends Always, Tom and Kathy Lefeber

February 26, 2013

Lorrie Heitzmann-Pederson

I have such great memories of spending a large part of my childhood at your home. I will be thinking of you today.

February 26, 2013

Just a note to let you know I am thinking about you all today and through the weeks ahead.Sincere Sympathy Ann Moore RN

February 26, 2013

Tim & Janibeth Guillette

We loved Sonie and will miss her. Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

February 26, 2013

Jim and Family,
My heart goes out to you. I think of Sonie with such wonderful and fund memories of her. We spent many Tuesday mornings shooting trap together. I am blessed to be able to say I had her as a friend.
Eileen Dekanich

February 26, 2013

Bob Borgens-Abraham

Thank you to everyone who is thinking of her. The one thing I know for sure about my mom is that when you were speaking to her, at that moment, you were the most important person in the world to her.

February 25, 2013

CHRIS HAUCK

I AM SO SORRY TO HERE ABOUT YOUR WIFE JIM. YOU HAVE OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY THE HAUCKS

February 25, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with Jim and the entire family. Terrilyn will be greatly missed.
2 Center Staff

February 25, 2013

alicia becker (franck)

Dear jim and family
Sorry to hear about your wife and mother. I have wonderful memories and stories growing up with sonie and her children She was a good friend and listener. May god bless you in this difficult time. Your old neighbor

February 25, 2013

Jim,

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Jerry and Cleo

February 25, 2013

Jim and Netty

Jim and Family,

So sorry to hear about Sonnie. She was never afaid to say what she thought. Will be dearly missed.

February 24, 2013

Bonnie Heidemann(Backhaus)

Charlie, very sorry to hear about your loss. She is now in the arms of God and is no longer in pain. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and the rest of her family.

February 24, 2013

Bill Bolgert

Jim, you have my deepest sympathy. Sonie was quite the spitfire, I loved trap shooting with both of you and just being friends God Bless

February 24, 2013

Susan Bright-Lewandowski

I am so very sorry for your loss. My family spent a lot of time at the Green lake home. I remember all the fun times I had with my cousins especially Terri. She will always be in my heart. Susan Bright-Lewandowski

February 24, 2013

Betty & Joel Martin

Praying that God will comfort you during this difficult time.

February 24, 2013

Dearest Jim,

Clarence and I are in Arizona and wish you to know that we are sorry to hear about Sonie and her long struggle. Know that we keep you and your family in our prayers.
Clarence and Judy Salzwedel

February 24, 2013

Curtis Borgens

There is Light at the end of the tunnel,the gates to Heaven,with forever in our hearts.I will miss you And never forget the good times.

February 24, 2013

Tina

I will never forget the kindness and love you showed me when I was a kid. You were an inspiration. I also enjoyed gossiping and giggling like two "school girls" the last couple of months. You always made me laugh. I will miss you dearly.

February 24, 2013

Emma

Sorry for the lost of your dear loved one. May the god of all comfort comfort you in your time of need.

February 24, 2013

LeAnne Vasquez

Sonie I don't know what my teenage years would have been without you. You were a wonderful mother figure to me. Thank you for all the wonderful memories and letting me be part of your life. You will be missed dearly. Love

February 24, 2013

Sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. She will be greatly missed. Rosa Chavez

February 24, 2013

Brian/Cheryl /Lisa /Brad Borgens

"Sonie"You are the best sister-in-law A Brother could have.Our families have had alot of memories togher.You will be sadly missed.I Love you and will always remain in my heart.We will ride in the Wind again.

February 22, 2013

Daniel Ziegelbauer

You will always remain a wonderful memory in my childhood growing up in the Sheboygan area. I am glad to have crossed the path of you and your family in this life. May God bless you and your entire family.

February 22, 2013

Nick Green

My heart is torn and my soul is crying but the thoughts of you will always be of loving and happy memories. Your smile was infectious and lit up the room. The only regrets that I have is over time we didn't connect much but you were always in my thoughts. Not only were you my Aunt but you were also my Godmother. I miss you so much, but knowing you are reunited with grandpa brings a huge smile on my face. Knowing that you and grandpa are watching over all of us will makes me feel that my mind and spirit will be safe. I luv you and one day we will be reunited.

February 22, 2013

Nick Green

I really don't know what to say but I love you so much Auntie. Not only were you my Aunt but you were also my God Mother and my heart is torn. You and Grandpa are now reunited. I miss you so much already. I'll never forget you. Thank you for being you. Love Nick Allison Austyn Adilynn Lathan and Mylee.

February 21, 2013

Jackie Domagalski

I remember so many summers spent at the lake with all of you, but one memory of you driving the boat and we bumped into another one, me screaming my head off for my dad {Wilbur C. Bright Jr} to swim out and get me...LOL..you got us back to the pier safely. I had so much fun with your family and will always treasure the memories and sad that you had to go so soon!

February 21, 2013

Karen Ziebell

I love you and miss you dearly sis. God bless you. You will always be in my heart and with me everyday.

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