Alan Joyce

1962 - 2013

Alan Joyce obituary, 1962-2013, Sandy Hook, CT

BORN

1962

DIED

2013

FUNERAL HOME

Alan Joyce Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 3, 2013.

Alan Michael Joyce of Sandy Hook, CT; husband of Erica Jones Joyce, died unexpectedly on July 1st, 2013 at Danbury hospital.

He was born in Elmhurst, New York on January 9, 1962 and was the son of Alan and Angela Marsico Joyce of St James, NY. Alan received an undergraduate degree from New York Tech and an MBA from Hofstra University. He was employed at Northrop Grumman Corp for the past 32 years, most recently as an IT Project Manager. Family being his biggest joy, he also loved gardening, baseball with his sons, shopping with his daughters and walking at Fairfield hills with his dog, Hadley. He was an avid New York Yankees fan and a DIY enthusiast.

You touched all of our lives so deeply. We love you, miss you and our hearts will always be with you. Thank you for being such an amazing father, husband, son, brother, uncle and friend.

Dad, you will be with us every step of the way and we will make you proud.

In addition to his wife and parents, he is survived by: his two sons, Michael and Steven Joyce, of Stamford, CT; his daughters, India Butler of Sandy Hook, CT and Annmarie Joyce Bailey and son in law Don and expecting granddaughter Scarlett Grace, of Boston MA; two sisters, Susan Schiro and Janet Joyce; a brother-in-law, Anthony Schiro; and niece and nephews, Jennifer, Anthony, and Steven.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated Saturday July 6th at 11:00 am at St. Rose of Lima Catholic Church 46 Church Hill Road Sandy Hook. Interment will take place in St. Rose of Lima Cemetery Sandy Hook. Friends may visit Friday July 5th from 4 to 8 PM at the Spadaccino and Leo P. Gallagher & Son Community Funeral Home 315 Monroe Turnpike Monroe. Online condolences may be made by visiting www.spadaccinofuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Memories and Condolences
for Alan Joyce

What is your first memory of Alan?

Share a favorite memory you have of Alan.

Tell us about a special moment you shared with Alan.

Describe a time when Alan made you laugh or smile.

What is something you will always remember about Alan?

Talk about a shared experience you had with Alan.

What is something you did together that you enjoyed?

Describe a place or activity that reminds you of Alan.

Tell us about a personal story or anecdote involving Alan.

What is something you learned from Alan?

Not sure what to say?

July 1, 2023

bernadette caligiuri

Al, Today it has been 10 years since your passing. It seems like yesterday that you were with us and yet too long. You have left to me proof that your life lives on. The kids are all beautiful and doing well, our 6 grandchildren are amazing.and speak about you.. your picture is right there in their homes as a reminder of their Grandfather that will always be with them. All of them are happy and thriving because of the life and foundation you gave them. Rest in peace, never a day goes by that we all dont miss you.. Continue to stay with us. Love Bern

June 23, 2015

Happy Father's Day Al....Thank you for the most amazing children...and now their unbelievable families...all because of your love ...we miss you today and everyday..Love, Bern

June 21, 2015

Mike Joyce

Happy Fathers Day Dad! You're the best Dad in the world. A lot of new, great stuff going on but I know you're apart of it all. Miss you and love you like crazy love Mike

April 3, 2015

Al, ...We have another grandchild..Savannah Marie..born March 26, 2015. she is precious. Scarlett is so beautiful..and Mason.. you would be priming him for little league already, I'm sure. We miss and love you every day..Love Bern

December 27, 2014

Al - We had a 2nd Christmas since your passing but your exciting spirit for it lives on through our kids... and now 2...grandkids. They are so precious ....and I believe you know it...We all miss you every single day... Love Bern

November 19, 2014

Miss you too...Al everyday...you will forever be in our hearts..

November 18, 2014

Susan Schiro

Miss you

November 16, 2014

Guy Caligiuri

Al, I just wanted to let you know I think you were the best father ,son ,brother and ex husband I have ever seen . You would be so proud (even more proud ) of your children and see how much they have grown in the past year .Scarlett is just amazing , I could just picture her in your arms touching the deepest part of your heart . Mason is so handsome , I am sure he will be a switch hitter . Mike is just glowing ,he has your personality . Married next November and Steve in May , I will do my absolute best to stand up for them, but I could never be you . You were the most selfless man I ever met . I wish you were here . God Bless You , Love Guy

August 2, 2014

Lauren Johnson

Al-
I can't believe it's already been a year. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. I know you are watching over all of us. I know you are with us, but I would give anything to just have one more conversation with you. You are one of the most caring, genuine, loving, funniest guys I know. We miss you so much. Please watch over and take care of all of us. We love you.

August 2, 2014

Mike Joyce

Posted by Mike Joyce

August 2, 2014

Mike Joyce

Posted by Mike Joyce

August 2, 2014

Mike Joyce

Posted by Mike Joyce

August 2, 2014

Mike Joyce

Posted by Mike Joyce

August 2, 2014

Mike Joyce

Posted by Mike Joyce

August 2, 2014

Mike Joyce

Posted by Mike Joyce

August 2, 2014

Mike Joyce

Posted by Mike Joyce

August 2, 2014

Mike Joyce

Posted by Mike Joyce

August 2, 2014

Mike Joyce

Posted by Mike Joyce

August 2, 2014

Mike Joyce

Posted by Mike Joyce

August 2, 2014

Posted by

August 2, 2014

Mike Joyce

Dad,
Waiting last minute to get another entry in. You're probably getting stressed to get it done haha. I cannot believe it has been 1 full year. I think about you EVERY SINGLE DAY! Your in my thoughts, my prayers, and everyday life (as I'm sure you know). Every decision has always been and still is WWDD. I see you at certain/random times which can be upsetting but comforting. I know that you will always be as close as you possibly can to all of us, to guide us, and enjoy with all of us. All I can add is please always do so, because none of us would be the people we are today without you and will be in the future without you. We have many great memories ahead of us and you will be part of them more than ever. Love you so much Dad - Mike

August 1, 2014

Steve Joyce

Dad - Amazing it has been over a year. We got through the 'first time without you' for just about everything. We miss you more every day but know you are now always with us like you've been the last year. I know every time things get tough you are there to help me. I will always make sure all the support and opportunities you always gave me are never taken for granted. Now I am going to try and do the same for my kids. I love you so much! - Steve.

July 30, 2014

Love you and miss you so much. The world was a better place when you were here. Please help us all get through the next few years. Wish I had your strength and character. I can see you shaking your head at me right now, cause I am sooo emotional! Oh well. Just help us find our way.
Love you, Sue XXOOXXOOXXOO

Posted by

July 29, 2014

Sara Caligiuri

Dear Al,

every time i think about how much i miss you i get a little choked up to be honest haha. i really miss you bringing pop 'ems to Suma's. those were the highlight of my day! I'll never forget the last time we got lunch. Me and lauren got TRIPLE decker grilled cheeses! you were one of the funniest people i knew. I love you al :) -sara

July 29, 2014

Al, Its been over a year that you passed. We all miss and love you so much. Erica,the kids, your parents, sisters, Guy, Sara and I. Now you probably know how much. We know you've been with us and always will be.. We have a beautiful granddaughter and soon to be grandson.Thank you for all you've given to all of us, We miss you and always will.. Al.. Love Bern.

August 6, 2013

Jim Marcou

My son played Little league and travel Baseball for Al you were a good man and will be missed by many.We have many fond memories of the baseball days with you and Steven.My condolences to the Joyce family God Bless

August 2, 2013

Annmarie <3

Dad, there are no words that could ever describe what you mean to me and always will. You were truly my best friend. The greatest gift you ever gave me was knowing that no matter what decisions I made in life, you were always right behind me supporting me and ready to catch me… just in case. You always took my side in every situation, and having that from you has made me the woman I've grown to become. I don't know if there are many daughters that can say this, but you were truly the light of my life, always making me laugh and putting a smile on my face. I will forever miss the absolute joy in your eyes every time you saw me, Michael or Steven. It warms my heart knowing that you are now able to see how much of a blessing you have been to me and the boys. We lived to make you proud and we always knew that every accomplishment, no matter how small, never went unnoticed in your eyes, because that's what you lived for, watching us strive and being proud of ourselves. I can only hope that I will be as great as a parent as you… but I don't think anyone could fill those shoes. I love you Daddy, you will forever be a part of me and I will continue to make you proud.

August 2, 2013

Robert Wood

I grew up with Alan and Susan(his sister) in Saint James.I lived around the corner from him until we graduated H.S..Most of us from town knew he was one those kids that placed his education above all else and he would become very successful as a adult! I did know him all that well but I can truly say that Alan was without question a good person. I am so sorry to hear about his passing,,,,,Robert Wood

August 2, 2013

Timothy O'Keefe

So sad to just hear of you passing on. You were a good friend growing up in story book homes. Will never forget playing baseball everyday in the summer and talking everyone in the neighborhood to buy those retro pit pirate hats. You were nicest and best looking kid in the neighborhood.

August 2, 2013

Jackie Lagravinese

Hi Al,
I cannot believe it has been a month already. We all miss you so much and just have so many things to tell you. I know you have been here with us, we can feel you. We will forever make you proud and I promise to take care of Steve always. I love you! Oh and we got a Hadley a new friend, so don't worry she is doing great! I will give Erica a hug and kiss for you.

July 30, 2013

Mario Panzarella

Al, you were a great father to my grandkids. I know that you will continue watching over them and guiding them from heaven. Your greatest gift to them was your humor and your guidance. God bless you and we will miss you.

July 30, 2013

Bernadette Caligiuri

Al, You have been my partner always, in raising our 3 beautiful children.. Even though we went our separate ways.. For over 30 years, even through the hardest of times, you always made me laugh... so hard that I couldn't breathe. Help me laugh again.. Help me to be the strength for our children and soon to be grandchild.. You are without a doubt the greatest father to them.. I always did, and always will appreciate and love you.. Bern

July 29, 2013

Michelle Travisano

Bernie, & kids, So very sorry to hear the loss of Al.../ your dad.
My deepest sympathy to all of you.
~Michelle De Gioia - Travisano

July 26, 2013

Sara Caligiuri

al,
i miss you so much and i will always think of you <3 -sara

July 24, 2013

Mike Pergola

Al, You were a great family man and an even greater father. You raised three beautiful children and I know they will make you proud. You left here way too early but I am sure the lord above has great plans for you. God bless you!!

July 22, 2013

Stefani Operacz

Al, you were always fantastic to work with! I will miss you greatly. My thoughts and prayers to your family.

July 21, 2013

Hi Al,

I miss you terribly everyday. I love you and miss you. What can I say, you saved my life and left me too soon. Thank you for making everyday funny, special and entertaining. There are so many good stories to tell because of you. I love you always, Erica

July 17, 2013

Susan Schiro

Al, you were the light, laughter and energy of this family. You were the guy that I could count on, always. I hope and pray that you will continue to watch over and guide all of us. I will always have a huge place in my heart for my goofy little brother. I smile every time I think of you and Rocky Point, the fake campfires, the cat, the fence, the driveway stones in St. James, your run down the Blue Ridge Mountains, Carvel, the sprinkle-less cone in NC, the unexpected gift you gave your ailing mother from CostCo, Hadling, ICUDV, your smile, your laugh, your sarcasm, etc. Thank you for loving my boys so deeply and completely and making them laugh whenever we visited grandma and grandpa. I miss you. I promise that I will try my best to support everyone you love. Take care, brother. Love, Sue XXOOXXOO
P.S. You owe me a trip to Vegas.

Posted by Susan Schiro

July 16, 2013

Susan schiro

Posted by Susan schiro

July 16, 2013

Susan schiro

Posted by Susan schiro

July 16, 2013

Susan schiro

Posted by Susan schiro

July 16, 2013

Susan schiro

Posted by Susan schiro

July 16, 2013

Susan schiro

Posted by Susan schiro

July 15, 2013

Lauren Johnson

Al, you were like a second father to me. I will always remember the special times we shared together and all the great meals. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you. I miss you so much. Take care of us and look down on us everyday. Until I see you again, xo. Love you!

July 13, 2013

Rathin Mojumdar

I worked with Al for almost 7 years and it was always fun and pleasure working with him. He was a down to earth person and his greatest joy was to make others happy. He will be deeply missed and will live on in our memories forever. Our heart-felt sympathies go out to his family.

July 13, 2013

Rajeev Chalak

I have worked with Al for few years. He was a great person, always greeted you with a smile and kind words. Real family man who loved spending time with his sons and a daughter . My deepest sympathies go out to his wife and family.

July 10, 2013

To the family of Al,

My deepest sympathy to you. Al was my son Rob's baseball coach for many years. He was a wonderfum man and it was my pleasure to be a friend.

Don Haudenschild

July 10, 2013

Dan Kusnierz

To Al's family, my deepest sympathy. Please know that as a manager he was highly regarded and respected. He always looked out for his team. He will be sorely missed

July 10, 2013

Michael Sallwasser

Al was my boss for the past six years yet I only met him once face-to-face. Al was visiting the west coast, so I came into the office for my one visit in the last three years. He looked different from what I expected, but he was just as down-to-earth and personable as he was on the phone.
Al did repeatedly make the same mistake of chuckling and guffawing at my “witty” and “clever” remarks during staff meetings.
When we would have our semi-annual, company-mandated performance evaluation calls, we spent little time on the evaluation. Instead, he wanted to make sure I had what I needed to get my job done. We discussed possibilities and opportunities within Northrop Grumman and our personal lives. What is so noteworthy is that Al managed to connect on a personal level with such a large group of people scattered between two coasts of the country and places in between.

July 10, 2013

Michael Sallwasser

July 9, 2013

Larry Toonkel

I have know Al for many years and worked with him on and off over that time. While he took his work seriously and did it well, it was his sense of humor that made him fun to work with and what I will remember most.

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

July 8, 2013

Posted by

July 8, 2013

Sue and Tony(Ant), So sorry for the loss of your brother ,Alan. Our heart is with you all at this difficult time.

All our love, Chris and family

July 8, 2013

Steve Reger

Al was one of the nicest and most genuine people I have worked with at Northrop Grumman. He was always willing to go out of his way to help anyone who needed his assistance.

July 8, 2013

Michael Joyce

Dad, it's obvious how many people you have touched in your life. I can't begin to explain how much you mean to me, and the amount of love I have for you, and the love that I feel from you. You are not only my Dad, but my best friend. I will keep you by my side every single second for the rest of my life. You do the same. Love you soooo much, and will see you soon bud.

July 8, 2013

Martha Bruneta

Our hearts go to Al's loved ones. As part of the Northrop Grumman family it lost a Mammoth of a man who paved the road for us to make it better. It was an honor to support Al all these years.

July 8, 2013

Tami Smith

To the family of Al Joyce. We here at Northrop Grumman are heartbroken over the sudden loss of Al. Many of us have known and worked with him for years while others, just a short while. All of us have nothing but wonderful memories of Al. Our most heartfelt sympathies are with you.

July 8, 2013

amy sullivan

Erica, I am so sorry for your pain. I have always judged a person's soul by the way they treat their animals. Al was a wonderful soul. My deepest condolences to you and your family.

July 8, 2013

Tracey Cruz

My prayers and sympathies for your family at this time. I have worked with Al over the years at Northrop Grumman and his ready smile always prompted one from me. He will be greatly missed, and I am truly sorry for your loss.

July 7, 2013

Anthony Schiro A.K.A. BoVice

Ooo-Al, I still can't wrap my head around the news. I keep expecting you to bust in grandma and grandpa Joyce's house with a pizza pie or box of black and white cookies. You weren't just an uncle to me, you were a father figure and a friend. I couldn't wait for our family trips up to New York so I could listen to your various stories at the dinner table. I can't begin to tell you how happy it made me that you actually enjoyed one of my songs, so much so that you would recite its lyrics almost every time I saw you. That was the greatest feeling in the world to me. When I hear someone say the phrase, "So-and-so treats me like family", I think of you. That's because you're one of the very few people I've ever known that had the ability to make anyone feel like they were family. I respect you so much for the way you looked after our family and loved-ones. You will truly be missed, I cried my eyes out at the funeral and I live 7 states away from you. That's how big of an impact you had on me. Thank you for being a part of my life, from day one.

July 7, 2013

Barbara Ann Marsico-Sant

To the Joyce Family and Angie & Allan,

In memory of your Beloved Father, Husband, and Son, our heartfelt sympathy and condolences. The photo gallery tells a story of a man with a loving family, and a man who truly loves his family. Thank you for sharing these photos, and love to you all.

July 7, 2013

Barbara Ann Marsico Sant

To the Joyce Family and Angie &Allan,


To the Joyce Family and Angie & Allan,

In memory of your Beloved Father, Husband, and Son,
Our heartfelt sympathy and condolences. The photos tell a story of a man with a loving family, and a man who truly loved his family.
Thank you for sharing this photo gallery.

Barbara Ann Marsico Sant ( Yuma, AZ)

July 6, 2013

Janet Frost

Worked with Al for a few years at Northrop Grumman. He was incredibly dependable and sincere with a great sense of humor that made people happy to be around him. You could tell that he was a real family man as that's all he spoke about (as well as the Yankees and gardening..). My condolences to his family.

July 5, 2013

Randy & Susan Johhnson

Mike & Family,
Susan and I are keeping you in our prayers everyday. We are so sorry for your loss and share your grief. May God comfort you in knowing that he'll still be guiding you everyday.

Randy & Susan Johnson

July 5, 2013

Bob O'Farrell

"For the 32 years I know Al he made Grumman (NorthropGrumman) a better place to work. Friendly , engaging and committed to excellence barley express the impact he made on my career. Eternities realms will fine out the same thing" ... Bob

July 5, 2013

Luanne DePreta

I am filled with tremendous sorrow over such an unfathomable, untimely loss for your family. Al was a prince among men in every conceivable category, so much so that it is difficult to express anything beyond my deepest condolences to your family who loved him so dearly and wholeheartedly.

July 5, 2013

Jimmy Singh

Having worked with Al for many years, this was a shock. Al was a marvelous and wonderful person with a warm personality that signified his thoughtfulness, empathy and jovialness. He'll be missed dearly. Please accept my heartfelt condolences and our prayers are with the Joyce family...

July 5, 2013

June Marsico Ballenger

Alan was a 2nd cousin that I never knew, much to my loss.
My deepest sympathies go out to my cousin Angie and husband, Allan and Alan's family and friends.
After looking at the photos posted, I can see what a loving family man and friend he was.
My prayers and love go out to all,
June Marsico Ballenger
Santa Rosa, California

July 5, 2013

Martin Zamaniego

My thoughts, prayers and deepest condolences go out to the Joyce family.
I've worked with Al for the past 5 years and was shocked and saddened by the news of his passing. He was a great guy and will be greatly missed.

July 5, 2013

Steve <3

Dad - You were my hero, my idol and best friend. Like I have always done, I will continue to live my life trying to make you proud, thinking about what would you do, and making the most of the opportunities that you gave me because of all your sacrifices. Your shoes are too big for me to fill on my own, but I will try my best to give to others like you always did for everyone else. You lit up the room no matter where you were and had a magical power of putting everyone in a good mood no matter the circumstance. You were my rock for everything and relied on you for every decision I ever had to make. To say you are missed and loved doesn't come close to beginning to tell the feelings myself and our family feels, you were the best dad ever. I Love You.

Posted by Steve <3

July 5, 2013

Judy McFarland

May the sorrow you feel in your heart lighten by your everlasting love for Al and his for you and his entire family. I had the honor and great pleasure to work with Al for many years. He was a wonderful, kind, caring man who was a joy to work with. He will be greatly missed by his Northrop Grumman family. With deepest sympathy, Judy McFarland

July 5, 2013

Jackie Todaro

I worked with Al on and off during the last twenty years and the last three years very closely. Al was a wonderful caring man, a dedicated father, a committed and hardworing employee. He was a manager who earned deep respect and admiration from his staff by being a great leader. He had a wonderful sense of humor, a great attitude and brought excellence to everything he worked on. He will be deeply missed. My heart goes out to his family and I will keep everyone in my prayers.

July 4, 2013

Hoda Bibi

Our thoughts and prayers are with you Erica and with the entire Joyce family. Al was a truly loving and caring person and his loss is heartbreaking. May God give you strength , peace and comfort.
With our heartfelt sympathy,
Hoda and Faisal Bibi.

July 4, 2013

Paula and Michael Sotomayor

May God bless Al's family and friends, bring them comfort and give them strength. He was a dear man, who will live on in our hearts and memories.

July 4, 2013

Marie D'Esposito

With heartfelt sympathy to the Joyce Family.
Ray, Marie D'Esposito & family

July 4, 2013

Bill Zirkel

I have worked with Al for many years. He was a great guy, always greeted you with a smile and kind words. He will be missed by all of us at Grumman. My deepest sympathies go out to his wife and family.

July 4, 2013

Beth and Ben Atkeson

Our hearts go out to your entire family for the loss of Al and all that he was to you and still is. Sue and Tony Schiro are dear friends of ours in North Carolina.

July 4, 2013

Susan and Steve Peterman/ Dawley

Our heartfelt sympathy to Al's dear family and friends. We are sending you love and prayers to comfort you. He will always be there for you in spirit. Susan and Steve

July 4, 2013

Bill & Pauline Pignataro

Our deepest sympathy goes out to the entire family. This unexpected loss has heavy hands on our hearts and know these days will be hard going forward. A true angel is now sitting on your shoulder.

July 4, 2013

Beverly Fishman

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. My husband and I worked with Alan for almost 32 of the years he was with Grumman. Our deepest heartfelt sympathy

July 4, 2013

LuAnne and Michael Reynolds

Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

July 4, 2013

At this great time of sorrow, may you find comfort from God and in the loving memories of your husband. (Psalm 147:3)

July 4, 2013

We would like to offer our deepest sympathy for your loss and although death is a time of much grief and anxiety may Gods words found at 2 Cor1:3 bring you comfort.

July 3, 2013

JoAnn Lodice

Erica, those that know you know that Al made your life complete. I can hear him saying "Are you kidding me?" with his unique Long Island accent. Sure he's saying that now too! He was a wonderful man and will NEVER be forgotten. Life is better for having known him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, India, Al's parents and children! You're not alone and we'll be with you always!

July 4, 2013

The Staff of Spadaccino Funeral Home

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

Showing 1 - 85 of 85 results

Make a Donation
in Alan Joyce's name

Memorial Events
for Alan Joyce

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

Funeral services provided by:

Spadaccino and Leo P. Gallagher & Son Community Funeral Home - Monroe

315 Monroe Turnpike, Monroe, CT 06468

How to support Alan's loved ones
Commemorate a cherished Veteran with a special tribute of Taps at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Alan Joyce's life and legacy
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more