Allan T. Abess Jr.

1928 - 2011

Allan T. Abess Jr. obituary, 1928-2011, West Palm Beach, FL

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Allan Abess Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 19, 2011.

Allan T. Abess Jr. born May 4, 1928 in Long Island New York. Passed away peacefully surrounded by his family on November 18, 2011 after a brief illness. Allan's parents Allan T. Abess and M. Irene (Tootie) Abess moved with their infant son to Miami in 1929. Allan graduated from the Georgia Military College in 1946 then graduated from Emory University. Allan served in the Korean War as a Master Sergent. When he returned home in 1950 he started as a teller at City National Bank in Coral Gables. He retired 50 years later as President, Chief Operating Officer, and Vice Chairman of the Board. City National Bank was a family business. Allan's uncle Leonard Abess Sr. founded the bank in 1946. Allan's father retired from his store Abess Ltd on Miracle Mile and became the facilities manager for City National Bank. One of Allan's greatest honors was to train his cousin and best friend Leonard Abess Jr. "He guided me through every decision including what to order for lunch" his cousin Leonard said. "He was loved by employees and customers alike. He managed by walking around. I never worried what went on in back of the store. Allan protected me ever since I was a kid."
As a young man Allan enjoyed racing sports cars and flying airplanes, he also served in the civil air patrol during the Cuban Missile Crisis. Allan met the love of his life Joan Edwards at a friends home in 1963 and they married in 1965. They shared a love for sailing and were members of Coral Reef Yacht Club where Allan served as Commodore 1986 to 1987. Allan was a trustee of the Alma Jennings Foundation and a board member of South Miami Hospital where he served as Treasurer. He is survived by his wife of 46 years Joan Edwards Abess RN BSN and his son Allan T. Abess III. In lieu of flowers the family suggests donations to the University of Miami School of Nursing & Health Studies. P.O. Box 248153, Coral Gables Florida 33124.

Memorial services will be held on November 29, 2011 at 11:00 AM at St. Clare Catholic Church, 821 Prosperity Farms Road, North Palm Beach, Florida, 33408, 561-622-7477.




Arrangements under the direction of Aycock Funeral Home, Jupiter, FL.

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December 7, 2011

Pete & Debla Hargreaves

Our special Heartfelt Condolences to Leonard and Jayne Abess and to each member of the Abess Family. Although we never met Mr. Allan T. Abess, Jr, personally, we know that his passing is also felt in our Community as a whole. We are very sorry, but hope that the wonderful memories and moments you shared with him in the past give you some peace...

December 3, 2011

We were saddened to learn about Allan's passing. My husband and I will be forever grateful to God to have had the opportunity to know him. He was a great banker with a caring heart. His smiling face will remain in our heart always.
Our prayers are with you and the Abess' family.

Araceli and Diego Quiros

November 29, 2011

Ed Cutie

Dear Joan, Leonard and all the Abess family: please accept our deepest and most sincere condolences. Gigi and I cared a great deal for Allan and can only imagine the depth of our loss, We were recently remembering our visit to the cabin in Grorgia a few years ago and how welcome Joan and Allan made us feel. He was a good man who shall be greatly missed. Ed Cutie and Gigi Pardo

November 29, 2011

Dear Joan, Leonard and all the Abess family: please accept our deepest and most sincere condolences. Gigi and I cared a great deal for Allan and can only imagine the depth of our loss, We were recently remembering our visit to the cabin in Grorgia a few years ago and how welcome Joan and Allan made us feel. He was a good man who shall be greatly missed. Ed Cutie and Gigi Pardo

November 27, 2011

Dear Joan and Allan 111,
Our Love and Prayers are with both of you at this time...
The Bryant Family,
Atlanta

November 26, 2011

M D

I am sorry to hear about your loss. I hope the love from your family and friends help you cope through this difficult moment. Remember that one day God will reunite us with the love ones we have lost and we will live forever in a beautiful paradise. Please have hope. Your family will be kept in my prayers."May the God of all comfort grant your family peace at this time. 1 Cor. 1:3, 4

November 23, 2011

Dear Joan and Allan III:

My love and thoughts go out to you both as we lose a dear one. Allan was not only my boss for almost fifty years he was my mentor and devoted friend.

God Bless you both,
Evelyn Budde

November 22, 2011

David and Carol Harrison

Our prayers are with you Joan and Allan III. Your family has touched our lives for 25 years and we are saddened by your loss. Joan's and Allans support after my Mother passed was of great comfort and I only hope you will let us be there for you as well.

November 21, 2011

una/Asa Groves

Our condolences to you JOAN and Allan, Jr. Senior was a very special friend of the Asa Groves family, indeed. We are forever appreciative of our times with you at Coral Reef Yacht Club. Allan was a favorite Commodore to be sure. Wondrous memories. Oh, so fabulous 50 years. Bless you always. "all the Asa Groves family".

November 21, 2011

Mary-Keen Robinson

Joan, I am so sorry for your loss. Although I never had the opportuity to meet Allan, I remember your loving stories about this amazing man. Know that you are in my thoughts.
Mary-Keen Robinson

November 21, 2011

Linda Naughton

My prayers and thoughts are with you and the entire family.

November 21, 2011

Floyd & Carolyn Durham

Joan, Floyd and I have you and the family in our thoughts and prayers.Allen was a fine person and we have fun memories from Coral Reef. Our condolences to you. Floyd and Carolyn Durham

November 21, 2011

Joan,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and Allan III. May God bless you with wonderful memories that will bring you comfort and peace.
Ember and Xavier Prida

November 21, 2011

Dear Joan & Allan III,
We are so sorry to read of Allan's passing.
He was a great husband,father, friend/yachstman and we will miss him.
He was also a great banker who gave us, among many others, an opportunity to chase the American dream of business ownership. We will be forever grateful for that opportunity!!! He made a difference in his community!!!
Our prayers & thoughts are with you,
Juan & Martha Galan

November 21, 2011

Our condolences to Joan and Allan Abess 111.

Norma and Michael Orovitz

November 21, 2011

Linda Birdsong

To The Abess Family: I just wanted to let you all know that I am so so sorry for your loss. He was such a wonderful happy nice person. Each time he would ever call Fiduciary Trust he always made me smile. He was truly a pleasure to work with. Sincerely, Linda Birdsong Fiduciary Trust Company.

November 21, 2011

My deepest sympathies for the loss of one of the greatest bosses I have ever had. I truly can say Allan was a wonderful and carrying person and a great father and husband. He will be missed. My condolences to Joan and family. Millie Dominguez

November 20, 2011

I was sorry to hear of Allan's passing. I lost my husband,Bert Abell on Nov 16, 2008. Maybe all the City National Bank executives that have left us will be able to keep everything in place. My prayers and thoughts are with you during this difficult time. Gwen Abell

November 19, 2011

Judy & Francois Arsouze

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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