BORN

1944

DIED

2015

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Allen Hoefelman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 31, 2015.

Allen Dale Hoefelman, age 71, of Clark, Missouri, passed away on Tuesday, March 31, 2015 at his home. He was born on June 24, 1944 in Garden City, Kansas, the son of Reba (Proffitt) and Allen Hoefelman. Allen married Martha Ann Creed on October 6, 1962 in Harrison, Arkansas.



Allen served as a fireman at Station 2 for over 20 years and also served Station 4 and Station 5, spanning a total of over 27 years. Patience and understanding are two virtues that Allen will always be remembered for. Allen’s friends and family knew him as the go to guy who would be able to fix anything that you presented to him.



Survivors include his wife, Ann; his mother, Reba; sons, Brian (Tricia) and Kevin (Shelly); grandchildren, Cole (Brent), Brad (Katelynn), Jenifer (Zack), Andrea, Cody, Jacob and Landrie; great grandchildren, Tyler and Cooper; sisters, Mirian Jo and Peggy; sisters in law, Ruby M., Ruby A. and Alice; numerous nieces and nephews. Allen was preceded in death by his father, Allen Charles Hoefelman in 1984, one daughter, Michelle in 1977 and one daughter in law, Shauna in 1995.



Funeral Services will be held at 1:00 pm, Saturday, April 4, 2015 at Memorial Funeral Home. Visitation will be held from 10:00-1:00pm, Saturday. Private family burial will be held. Memorial contributions may be made to Missouri Children’s Burn Camp.

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May 1, 2015

Peggy

I really miss you big brother. You were always there to help me figure things out and help fill in the void when Dad died.
I will think of you every day. I'm glad you will not have to fight that awful disease any longer. You are greatly loved by all of your family and friends. You may be Al to some but you will always be my Buddy.

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Shelly

Al...one of a kind. You always made me feel special and welcome from the first day I met you. I'm happy that I had the chance to know such a pure person and share our children with you. We miss you like crazy! I will miss that smile you had...mostly because I always wondered what you were really thinking. Love.

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Today I sit and think, like every single day since you left us.

I wonder if , how and why .
How can I live without ?
Can I be a dad and grandpa like you ?
How do I learn to live like you ?
How do I teach like you ?
How do I love like you ?
Will the pain in my chest ever go away?
What if I really need to ask you ?
What if I really need to tell you ?
Are you sitting with Her ?
Did you hug Her after all these years ?
Why can't we have a little longer ?
Does everyone know just how special you are ?
Do people really know how wise you really are ?
Does everyone know just how much you care ?
Will Mom be okay ?
Will Brian be okay ?
And mostly , Do you know just how much I love you ?

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CJ Long

Grandpa, I will always miss you. But I do have so many great memories of us to hang on to. The Thanksgivings we shared will be highlights for the rest of my life. You were and always will be a great grandpa and an even better friend. Your love will carry me through to the end of my life. I wish I could of spent more time with you in these last few years, but we will have many years to make up for it in heaven. I love you Grandpa, until we meet again.

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To the most important person that has been in my life longer then anyone else that I have known . What an adventure we had . We certainly have had to climb some hills but it was all worth it in the end . I just really wish that you could have stayed a while longer. I'm not the only one that still needs to see you and hear your voice and use your wisdom . But it takes my breath away when I think that I will be here with out you . I still need your voice and your caring love for me nothing in this world could ever replace that . I miss you and love you so much and I feel so sad for the grandkids and our boys for they will have a longer life to live without you and your love and knowledge. Remember the deal was that what I remembered you didn't have to and what you remembered I didn't to be concerned with and besides you knew about more stuff then I did . I just really love you and miss you every minute of every day .. As we often said We were so lucky to have each other and the great family that we have and now a new chapter that no one is ready to begin because to all miss you so much , Love you always (Annie)

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Brad Hoefelman

It is hard not to take for granted the love that you are shown by family until it is gone. I never truly appreciated that warm feeling I got anytime I visited my grandparents. Grandpa always made things so simple and comfortable. He was always there to listen to any issues I had, and no matter how angry I got he never criticized me, but only encouraged me. It never mattered how badly or how often anyone screwed up, the only thing that mattered to him was that everyone who came to his home was treated with warmth, encouragement, and so much love. In the 25 short years that I knew him he showed me so much wisdom, and gave me some real attributes to strive for. One that sticks out is his ability to put himself in other people's shoes and show true selflessness. I have no doubt that his wisdom and love will continue to effect people's lives for many years to come. Thank you for all that you gave us grandpa, I Love You!

April 28, 2015

Cody Hoefelman

Nothing is harder for me than talking about the loss of my grandpa, everything just doesn't seem right anymore. People say that time heals things but that is not the case. No one knows of the relationship that my grandpa had with his grandchildren. Its hard not to think of him throughout the day, I only know that I miss him and I always will. I love you grandpa!

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Evangeline Jacques

Uncle Allen would always put a smile on my face with his witticisms and jokes. I'll miss him. Aunt Ann, I love you!

April 28, 2015

Nial Champ

The summers spent with Uncle Al and Aunt Ann will always be remarkable. As a kid from California, to be able to come to the midwest and see a farm, ride horses, chase fireflies and play with my younger cousins was a mindblowing experience. I had so much fun and the experience lasted all throughout the years as I was in school. I would tell people that I go horseback riding. I would draw pictures of 'Coppertop' who was my favorite horse to ride. In my daydreams I would ride Coppertop like the wind. Having those experiences changed who I was and helped make me who I am. At the center of these experiences was Uncle Al. He ran the show. He was the hero that would take you out on the tractor, show you what to do so you dont hurt yourself in the barn, share stories of working as a fireman, A Fireman! And keep you out of the woods so you wouldnt end up covered in Chigger bites.
Uncle Al always had a smile on his face and a twinkle in his eye. I looked up to him as a kid, and to this day as an adult. Upon hearing of his passing My sister and I thought of all the memories we had of him and both of us kept saying the same thing. He knew more than you did! He knew what you were doing, and sometimes he was A OK with you breaking the rules a bit in the name of fun. He was always happy to see you, and the most important thing was his all knowing twinkle in his eye.
To this day, whenever I picture him in my mind. He has a wink and a smile.
I will miss him dearly.

April 28, 2015

Kevin Hoefelman

It has been nearly a month since I've gotten to hear your voice . I thought I had been through hard times but the hardest is not talking to my dad .I look at pictures and smile , I have memories and smile and I hear your voice in my dreams and I realize that this broken heart is forever. So many times I've needed to call and ask you ,so many times I wanted to call just to tell you. I think of you everyday and my love for you fights to keep the sadness out . It's hard and I hate it more than God himself could possibly know , I love you Dad .

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April 28, 2015

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Every time I saw him, he always had a smile to give. I loved that about him!

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Cole Hoefelman

There is no way that I could possibly sum up my feelings about Grandpa in this little box. To say he was a great man would be the world's greatest understatement. There isn't a day that has gone by that I haven't thought about him, and all the wisdom he shared with me. He was the one that I called for the most random things that I knew only he could answer, because he has always been the smartest man in the world to me. Not only was he wise, but he was also the very definition of love. He loved everyone around him with a passion that you could just sense from his smile, and I will strive for the rest of my life to be able to love that hard. I miss you so much Grandpa, but I know that you and my mom will be watching over me. We all just gained another guardian angel. I love you!

April 17, 2015

Rose & Dan Mayfield

Ann, so very sad to hear your devastating news of Allen's passing. Love to you and your family. Dan and Rose

April 14, 2015

Callie Jacques

I'm glad I had a chance to reconnect with this awesome man before he passed. He was such a strong man, and always laughing! I hope he's having fun and laughing wherever he is now. He will be missed dearly.

April 10, 2015

Allen was the friendliest person I have ever known and my brother-in-law! Always he had a big smile on his face and usually greeted you with" how are you doing" and then he waited for the answer! He loved the beach and we have spent many hours together there. Right now I am sure he, Michele and Tom are running their toes through the sand and throwing skippy rocks into the waves!. Miss you buddy! Rest in peace and know that we will all be looking forward to seeing that beautiful smile again! Abrazos y besitos! ruby(Panama)

April 10, 2015

Chelsey Longoria

There is not enough words for me to express how much you truly meant to me. I feel like I took for granted always having you around. You will be truly be missed. Even though Anastasia will never get to meet you, I will make sure she knows all about you and what a wonderful man you were. I want to make sure that she knows that there are men out there that are loving, kind, forgiving, patient, and true gentlemen. Thank you for being such a big part of my life. I love you.

April 9, 2015

Landrie Cole

I didn't ever think that my life would turn out for me so well with a new family but with Grandpa he always made me feel like I was a one of a kind and special. He was a man that every body wanted to meet and talk to. At first I thought no body would like me but Grandpa and the rest of the family always made me feel welcome. He was one of the first people that I warmed up to when Kevin and my mom (Shelly) first started dating.Grandpa was an actual grandpa not just one married in by, but he was the best Grandpa a grandkid could ask for. I think that Grandpa Al's heart was 2 times as big as anyone else's. I will always be thinking about the day we see each other again. I never got to say this but, I love you.

April 9, 2015

Alice Gravino

Allen was my family, my friend and always the calm in the storm. Everyone that came to his home was welcomed with a big smile and a heartfelt welcome. He loved his family with his whole heart. When he knew the end was near his thoughts were centered around Ann and all of the people he loved. He was a man with a big heart and we will all miss him greatly. Going to the farm will never be the same. Love Alice

April 9, 2015

Alex Long

Uncle Al treated me like one of his own. Treated me like one of his grandchildren and I can never thank him enough for that. I know he will always be there looking out for me, just as he will be for his own grandkids. He was what every young man aspires to be and I hope one day to be half the man he was. Of course I wish he would have been around to offer advice as I take on some huge steps in my life but I know he is looking down and I can only hope that I make him proud. I love you grandpa and I hope you, Aunt Michelle, Aunt Shauna, and Elvis are having one heck of a time in paradise.

April 9, 2015

Dawn Long

Uncle Allen I don't think you ever knew the love I have for you! You were honest, kind, generous, forgiving, and loving. You were truly like a Dad to me. Better yet you were an amazing Grandpa. Thank you for the memories you gave Chelsey, Alexander, and CJ.

April 8, 2015

Jacob Cole

Never once did I imagine having another grandpa in my life, but Grandpa Al accepted me as his own. It didn't ever matter what I needed or what I wanted to do, he encouraged me to do so. With a little laughter involved every time! He is the man every grandkid wants to be. I'm not sure there was something he didn't know, anytime I asked he answered. I'll miss you until we meet again, I love you.

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Jenifer Hoefelman

Monday was the first time driving home from work without calling Grandpa. I had my phone in my hand and his number dialed, only to be hit like a ton of bricks when I remembered. It's been two days since, and it hasn't gotten any easier. We didn't talk about anything, really... Our day, the weather, my kids. I'd stop at the top of the hill on my road and talk to him another 20 minutes, knowing I'd lose service at the bottom; I never told him I was sitting there, just that I had gotten to the hill and had to go before I lost service. He knew I wasn't a big talker - that I just liked to listen. That was our relationship. We sat at the kitchen table, sometimes talking, others just sitting there, listening to each other not say a word. He could see right through me, right down into my soul; the only person in this world who has ever truly understood me. The day that my mom died I was sitting on his lap, drawing pictures of her. You can bet that he kept those pictures... He was there for me then, and has been ever since. He wasn't just a great man.... He was a beautiful soul.

April 8, 2015

Jeff Long

I was walking the farm the other day and looked around and saw you everywhere. The barn you built with your own hands, the truck you learned to drive in....and I thought what a great legacy for your family. Then it dawned on me that that place doesn't compare to the legacy you left in the lives that you touched everyday. You were the rock this family was built on and you bore that burden with patience and love. You will be missed greatly, but your legacy lives on in your family and I will strive every day to be the husband, father, grandfather and friend that you were. I love you Uncle Al.

April 3, 2015

We will always remember Al as being instrumental in getting us some financial help when our house burned. I liked that he would always take time to stop and talk no matter what he was doing. Rest In Peace Al. You were taken too soon! Richard and Judy Baker Hermitage Mo

April 3, 2015

David and Kristin Bradley

Al was a wonderful man. He always made my wife and I feel like we were a part of his family. Kristin wanted so bad to ride one of the horses one time, that he even led her around the yard on one...just because she wanted to ride that horse, but was afraid to do it alone. We will miss him dearly, and know that he will live on in the hearts of all of us. We send our love and prayers to Ann and the family. Love, David and Kristin

April 3, 2015

Brian Hoefelman

He was my dad!He was a better man than I will ever be.I am gonna miss sitting at the dining room table argueing with him then five minutes later hes helping me with something I didnt understand .Ten years ago I told him that he needed to quit being so passive and patient and now that hes gone I see why he was . I'm gonna miss you dad , I love you!!!

April 3, 2015

Andrea Hoefelman

My whole life my grandpa was always there anytime I needed him, from taking stiches out to teaching me how to put oil in my car. He was a great, loving and understanding man. He welcomed everyone with open arms and made everyone feel like family. I love you Grandpa, and ill miss you everyday till the day we meet again!

April 2, 2015

Paul Godfrey

Allen was always such a great guy, a friend to all in the Hickman Class of 1962. He will truly be missed!

April 2, 2015

Jane (Moore) Elledge

Ann and family, Peggy, Mirian Jo, and Mrs. Hoefelman, our prayers are with you and we send our love.

April 2, 2015

Monnie Sue Proffitt

Buddy will be sorely missed, I know that he loved his family so much, I remember when he met Ann, He was so much in love & I know that love got stronger over the years. My heart & Prayers go out to you Ann & your family. Love Monnie Sue

April 2, 2015

JR Clarke

Buddy always had a smile and always ready to help & serve (how else would you get a nickname like Buddy), he loved & served his family and his country with all that he had. Our hearts & prayers go out to you & we love you guys. Love Jr, Debbie, Kristi, Kari & Kati

April 2, 2015

Kevin Hoefelman

People always say "the greatest " when their loved one dies and I don't want to sound like other folks . So I am just going to say that I will be broken hearted and will miss this beautiful man until the day we meet again. Such a huge loss to everyone who knows just how great he is ,.........Give her a hug for me Dad , I love you .

April 2, 2015

Jonathan Sparks

Allen was a great man who welcomed all with open arms. He was a great person who will be dearly missed. My dearest condolences to the family. -J.T. Sparks & Shaun Roland

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