Antonio Fedalizo Acosta

1955 - 2011

Antonio Fedalizo Acosta obituary, 1955-2011

BORN

1955

DIED

2011

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Lima Family Milpitas Fremont Mortuary

48800 Warm Springs Blvd

Fremont, California

Antonio Acosta Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 31, 2011.

Antonio Fedalizo Acosta, of San Jose, passed away in the early morning of May 29, at home after fighting a three year battle with Lou Gehrig's disease (ALS). He was born February 20, 1955, in Quezon City, Manila Philippines, the son of the late Marita Fedalizo and Piodecimo Acebedo Acosta. He was the youngest of 7 siblings at the age of 56, and is survived by his loving wife Catherine and his son and daughter, Vincent Earl and Andrea Mae Acosta.

A Graduate of the Philippines Women's University and bearer of a Bachelor's Degree of Science in Accounting. Shortly after enlisting in the Army he met the love of his life in the summer of 1976 before leaving for training. They would later be married in Bamberg, Germany in 1978 and would return to Guam to raise his children. Serving 21 years in the Army and National Guard he retired in 2003 as Sergeant First Class and went home to Candelaria, Zambales Philippines to build the house and garden he'd always dreamed of. After five years in happy retirement he was diagnosed with Lou Gehrig's disease and moved to California to reunite and spend his remaining years with the family he loved.

He was a man of quiet discipline, a lover of classic rock, and an avid gardener who shared a love of cooking with his family and friends. He is, and always will be, loved and missed.

Arrangements under the direction of Lima Family Milpitas-Fremont Mortuary, Fremont, CA. He will be laid to rest and interred back home in the Philippines.

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September 4, 2011

Glenn Ecalne

My most fondest memory I have of Kuya Tony was when we were jogging on the beach in Zambales. It was in the summer of 1999. Kuya Tony was setting the pace as we jogged up and down the beach near Libertador. As we finished off our jog with some stretches we were approached by one of the locals who asked if I was a boxer and if Kuya Tony was my coach. We both got a good laugh out of it. From that moment on he was no longer Kuya Tony, but Coach Tony. Coach was a cousin I could truly look up to. I will miss him, but will hold the memories of him close to my heart.

August 11, 2011

Michael Sinz

Cathy, Please accept our most sincere condolences on the loss of Tony. We remember him as a kind, gentle and gracious man who loved his friends as much as his family. We are sorry for your loss.
Mike and Flora Sinz

June 19, 2011

My deepest condolences to the Acosta Family. Tony was a great person and will surely be missed.

SGM Irene Fejeran, Guam Army National Guard

June 11, 2011

Our deepest condolences and sympathies for the passing of our dear friend Daddy Groovy, who is also your great love. We truly share your grief.
We pray for his eternal rest; nonetheless, we also pray for your strength in mind, heart and body.

- from Raul and Suzanne

June 10, 2011

Monique Laceda

Our condolences to Acosta family. We have been one of those lucky ones who got to know uncle tony through my childhood. He is one of my inspiration for being a smart and disciplined man. Through auntie cathy, we met a very kind man that is always willing to listen and share things to us. Strolling at the mall, food tripp'n everywhere as long as its possible. He is a jolly person that easily manage every situation properly. We will miss you uncle tony.


from: Laceda Family

June 10, 2011

Dulce Santos

The first time I met Uncle Tony, I was intimidated because of the stories I had heard about him: military dad, strict, stern...I'm glad that I had the opportunity to get a chance to know him and refute those initial impressions. He was an avid music man, with many of the same favorites as my own dad. He was a hard worker, a jokester, and made the best fried pork chops (amongst other things). He was always thoughtful with his words. When he spoke, we all listened. There were many great things that made up who he was, but first and foremost, he was a family man with a warm heart and compassion for those around him. His family was his life, and they reciprocated, especially in the last years of his life. You could feel the love in the house every time you walked in. That tells you a lot about Uncle Tony…there are many that love him and we are all at a loss. Uncle Tony, until we meet again.

June 10, 2011

We have known Tony for a long time. In fact, we were sponsors during his and Cathy's wedding. He was a good person, a great husband and father. We will surely miss him.

Nat and Evelyn San Luis
from Kingsville, Texas

June 9, 2011

Our deepest condolences to Acosta Family for your loss. We will remember Tony through his good deeds he left behind. God Bless You always.

June 8, 2011

Kathryn Soriano

Uncle Tony,
You weren't just my best friend's dad, you were my dad too. Thank you for all the memories and lessons taught. I am thankful to have had you in my life. I love you and will miss you very much DAD.

-your one and only DaisyPinay

June 8, 2011

We will remember his as a man of great presence

June 7, 2011

Rick Tenorio

How does one discuss the passing of a friend? Not with fear or regret, but by celebrating life...my friends life and how Tony has enriched my life by being a part of my life and allowing me to be a part of his life. By remembering all of the good times, the bad times and in-between times that Tony & I shared, how those times enriched our lives and the lives of our children and families. It is these memories and the way they have shaped our perspective on lifes daily events... good, bad and in-between that will always honor Tony, always make him "present" in our lives and the lives of our families as time moves on forever. Our bodies may not last as long, but the memories and influences will go on forever. This is eternal life. Esta later, Tony, until we meet again for that next formation in heaven, HOOAH!

-Rick Tenorio and Children

June 7, 2011

Lovely Ecijan

Our deepest and sincerest condolences to your family from ours. May god bless you with strength during this time of sorrow. I know what you guys are going through. Kuya Tony will be in our hearts forever and will be missed dearly. With love from the Ecijan Family from Guam.

June 7, 2011

Joanna Ecalnir

May there be comfort in knowing that someone so special will never be forgotten. Thoughts and prayers are with you Auntie Cathy, Drea & Vince.

June 7, 2011

Rachel Gabertan

Uncle Tony (Papa Dukes)
Thank you for always making me laugh and opening your arms and your hearts to me!!! Forever in our minds ... Always in our hearts!!!



Shorty2

June 6, 2011

JULIE CAMACHO

Cathy,my sincerest condolence and prayers to you and your family. I am sorry for your loss. It was a great pleasure working with Tony in Mar 1985 to Feb 1995 in the Finance Division at the Guam Army National. Tony was a great friend and Superior NCO, I learned alot from him. May you rest in peace my friend and you will be missed by alot of people. May god bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

June 6, 2011

Dumaliang's of CA

Please accept our condolences. Tita Cathy, Vince, Dre... may you all find peace and comfort during this time. Uncle Tonying will be in our thoughts and prayers. With love from the Acosta's of Dededo and the Dumaliang's of CA.

June 6, 2011

Cathy & Mike O'Brien

We are so for your loss. Tony was a superior NCO and a good friend. He helped us have very fond memories of our years stationed on Guam.

June 6, 2011

wenese espinosa

condolence to the bereaved family of tony acosta.I felt your lost so deeply. I we will be attending the funeral in candelaria

June 6, 2011

George M. Franquez

I served with Tony in the Finance office with ARNG and we shared alot of laughs with all of the Finance folks from 1999-2000. Tony will surely be missed and it was a pleasure to have known him. God Bless.

June 5, 2011

Carmen & Rick Calvo

My family and I extend our heartfelt condolences in the loss of your loved one. May our brother at arms rest in peace. God Bless you all!

June 5, 2011

Cathy & Family, My sincere condolence to you and your family. May god bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Tony was a great friend. I'll miss him.

Bill Cardenas
Baza Gardens, Yona, Guam

June 5, 2011

Pelonia Family

Kuya Tony We Will Miss You.Thank You for Everything....
Rough, Dori, Kara, Nick & RJ

Posted by Pelonia Family

June 5, 2011

Rufino & Dori Pelonia

Ate Cathy, Our Sincere Condolences & Deepest Sympathy to You & Your Family for the loss of Your Loving Husband.May the Soul Of Kuya Tony Rest in Peace.Our Thoughts & Prayers will be with You...
Pelonia Family

June 3, 2011

Norma Castillon

Cathy, Our Sincerest Condolence and prayers to you and your family. Tony was a great friend and I recall a shy but funny sergeant. He helped many troops, he will not be forgotten. Norma C. & Al Brub

June 3, 2011

sandra proctor

Cathy and kids, Please accept my heartfelt condolences for the loss of Tony. He was a very good cousin for me. Joy and I will really miss him. I remember him so well when we visited him at Catol and he was so happy. He will be in heaven with the Lord now.
Sincerely,
Auring Fedalizo Samson Proctor

June 3, 2011

Angel Baja

Si Tony ay isang mabait na tao, magaling at matalinong sundalo. Nais kong iparating ang aking pakikiramay sa kanyang pamilya.

June 3, 2011

Ray Mendoza

Cathy, Kids and Relatives,

My family and I are very sorry for the loss of my fellow "kababayan" and fallen comrades "Tony Acosta" great friend and great soldier may he rest in peace and God be with him always.

Condolences,
Ray Mendoza & Family

June 2, 2011

Michele Limtiaco

I am so sorry for your great loss. It was a pleasure working with Tony for eight years before he retired. He was a smart, dedicated, wise friend and co-worker. It saddens me to know that such a good friend has passed on. My thoughts and prayers will be with you all during this trying time. May the lord have mercy on you all and bring Tony home to the lord.

June 2, 2011

Manuel Perez

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

June 1, 2011

Bill Smith

We are so very sorry for your loss, and especially sorry that we are not there with you at this time. You are in our prayers and we love you.
Dad and Milly

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