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2012
Bernard Joseph McAndrews, 62, passed away Saturday, December 22, 2012, at a local medical center in Abilene, Tex. Funeral services will be held at 11:00 a.m. on Saturday, December 29, 2012, at Sacred Heart Catholic Church with Father Joey Faylona officiating under the direction of Elliott-Hamil Funeral Home, 5701 Hwy 277 South, Abilene, Tex. Rosary will be held on Friday at 7:00 p.m. at the funeral home.
Bernard was born June 10, 1950, to Bartholomew and Frances J. Murphy McAndrews in North Adams, Mass. He graduated from North Adams State College and went on to serve his country in the United States Air Force for four years. After the service, he was employed as a Department of Defense contract specialist at Dyess Air Force Base for 33 years.
Bernard officiated high school football, volleyball, and basketball and coached youth league baseball, softball, and basketball. He was a Girl Scout leader and was very active at Sacred Heart Catholic Church and with Cursillo. Bernard was also a member of the Ancient Order of Hibernians, and he coordinated the St. Patrick's Day parade in Abilene for 10 years.
He loved to travel across the country with his family, visiting national parks, museums, and battlefields. Bernard was an avid New York Yankees and New York Giants fan.
Preceding him in death were his parents; his sister, Maureen McAndrews; and his son, Patrick McAndrews.
Survivors include his wife, Susan McAndrews of Abilene; son Emory McAndrews and wife Jennifer of San Angelo, Tex.; three daughters, Cora Moellendick and husband Mitch of South Korea, Sarah Ruggiero and husband Paul of Pittsburgh, Pa., and Martha McAndrews of Lewisville, Tex.; and grandchildren Murphy Moellendick, Gregory Moellendick, Caelan McAndrews, and Arno Ruggiero.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Meals On Wheels, P.O. Box 903, Abilene, Tex., 79604.
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January 2, 2013
Princecia Kuminga
I pray that the love of God enfolds you during your difficult times and he helps you heal with the passage of time.
January 2, 2013
Dear Susan and family,
We are very sad to learn of Bernie's passing, and will keep you in our prayers. Bernie was a great one for keeping the family connections strong, and he will always be remembered for his fun company at various family events. Today I am thinking of him fondly, wearing a bright AOH sash from a parade many years ago. He will be missed. Please keep in touch, with love
Cousin Rita McAndrews Giblin & Dan Giblin
January 1, 2013
Cheryl Ruggiero
I wish I had known Bernie longer--what a wonderful man to have become my son's father-in-law! To all of you who are his children, his friends, his family, and especially Susan, his wife, you are so blessed in him and his memory! My love and prayers to you all.
December 31, 2012
Ginger Rowley Lamb
To the family of Bernie McAndrews my deepest sympathy. Bernie was a cousin of mine. Many of us grew up in Adams and North Adams. During this Christmas season I have fond memories of many of our cousins coming together to visit our grandparents in Adams. I am very sorry to hear of Bernie's death.
December 29, 2012
Maria Edna Pabruada
Grief can be so hard during the holidays but our special memories help us cope. I have lost a good buddy at the chapel.
May God bless you all always.
December 29, 2012
Tiffany Cartwright
keeping the McAndrews family in my thoughts and prayers...those we love don't go away, they live beside us every day, unseen, unheard, but always near. Still.loved, still missed, still always dear
December 29, 2012
Dennis McDermott
Bernie, may the long time sunshine on you, all love surround you, and the pure light within you guide your way home. Dennis
December 28, 2012
Troylene & John Stewart
Bernie was such a vibrant man. He will be sorely missed by all of us. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
December 28, 2012
Paula Wilson
Martha,
I'm so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you & your family as you go though this difficult time.
I don't know what all you believe, but I believe that though his physical being is gone, his spirit is still with you. You will always be watched over from above.
HUGS to you my friend!
December 28, 2012
Martha and Emory,
I am so very sorry for the loss of your dad. I cannot imagine the terrible depth of your grief. May God's peace that surpasses all understanding give you comfort, until He reunites you in our eternal home.
Laura Foreman Washington
December 28, 2012
Dennis McDermott
Words can never express what is in my heart. Susan, we are so so sorry. Please let your family know ,from a very old friend ,how much the memories of Tech mean to me. Judy and I and our family will keep you and yours in our prayers until we meet again. Dennis & Judy McDermott Cape Cod Mass
December 28, 2012
Carol Myers
Martha, I was so sorry to learn of your dads death. My heart aches for you and your family. I pray that God will ease your grief and soon replace the emptiness with fond memories of times spent together. Your family remains in my prayers.
December 28, 2012
Lindsey Wallace
Martha,
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
December 28, 2012
Carol Myers
Martha, I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart aches for you and your family. I pray that God will ease your pain and replace your grief with fond and cherished memories. Your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers.
December 28, 2012
Katina Emert
Martha,
I am so very sorry to hear about your dad!! My thoughts and prayers are definitely with you and your family! You have to take comfort in knowing he's your special guardian angel watching over you now! Love ya - God Bless!
December 28, 2012
Martha, I am so sorry to hear the loss of your father, my sincere condolence to you and your family. It can be so hard to face the new year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.
Chris soto
December 28, 2012
Wanda Schorlemmer
You all continue to be in my thoughts and prayers at this time. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Wanda Schorlemmer
December 28, 2012
Peggy Mulcahy
I am so sorry Martha and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you.--Peggy Mulcahy, Flower Mound, TX
December 28, 2012
DeDe Garrett
Martha,
I am so sorry for your loss. We are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers through this difficult time.
December 28, 2012
BLANCA DE LA ROSA
MARTHA, EMORY AND FAMILY,
WITH GREAT SADNESS WE EXPRESS OUR CONDOLENCES FOR YOUR LOSS. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. MAY YOU KNOW THAT THE ARMS OF JESUS HAVE WELCOMED YOUR FATHER IN HEAVEN. ROSALIND PAYNE, BLANCA DE LA ROSA, IRMA RODRIGUEZ
December 28, 2012
Felicia Evans
Sarah and Paul, you have my deepest condolences. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. "Earth has no sorrow that Heaven cannot heal." 2 Corinthians verse 1.
Felicia Evans, SEI Pittsburgh
December 28, 2012
Fredda Morse
I also knew Bernie when I worked at Dyess and he was always upbeat about everything and had a smile for everyone. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to his family and may God give them peace and comfort.
December 28, 2012
Randy Blanton
I have know Bernie for over 25 years from working at Dyess AFB. Bernie would always ask about my kids and tell me how his were doing. I always enjoyed his sincerity and his funny sense of humor. He will be greatly missed. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
December 27, 2012
Pete Miller
Bernie always had a smile on his face and a genuine concern for others. He was a mentor & friend that with his faith inspired me. I will miss talking Yankee baseball with my friend. God Bless
December 27, 2012
Dewey Kennedy
I knew Bernie from our high school years in North Adams and later. He stopped by my house a few years back during a trip to this area and we had a great time reminiscing. I am sorry for your loss.
December 27, 2012
Patti Harris
Martha,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
December 27, 2012
Cathy and Larry O'Neil
Susie and family - Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. We will sorely miss Bernie and will remember him as a kind, generous man. We are proud to have had Bernie as our brother in law. Although we cannot be with you physically, our hearts are with you now. Peace. All our love,
December 27, 2012
Carol McBride
McAndrews Family, I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Bernie for many years and learned a lot from him. I so admired his commitment to family and church. He truly cared about people and he was so supportive to me when my husband was ill. I will miss him and his funny emails but I will remember him with a smile. Treasure your memories to keep him close. My prayers are with you.
December 27, 2012
James Anderson
Our dear daughter, Jennifer, couldn't have chosen a better father-in-law. Bernie was the epitome of the gentle giant -- always a big, teddy bear to our granddaughter. We are sorry for your loss, but assured the whole family will be reunited in time. -- James & Janet Anderson
December 27, 2012
Mayra Hernandez-Olivas
Martha, I am very sorry for the loss of your dad. He was a great man and I'm very happy I had the opportunity to meet him. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers, I love you my friend!
December 27, 2012
Chrissie and Dwayne Bell
Susan and Family, We are so sorry to hear about Bernie's passing. He was always such a force of fun and happiness at all of our family events. He will be greatly missed. Love, Chrissie McAndrews Bell and Family
December 27, 2012
jacob & Lisa brown
We are so sorry for your loss.
December 27, 2012
Brandi Dyer
Martha, Sarah, Emory, Cora, Mrs. McAndrews, and family. I am deeply sadden by his passing. He was quite a character and raised some amazing kids who I am happy to call my friends. I will miss his infamous homemade pizza as Im sure you all will. Just remember, his love & spirit will always surround you. Blessings!!
December 27, 2012
Sarah Waldmann-Garcia
Words can not express how sorry I am that you guys have to go through this...my heart goes out to each of you!
December 27, 2012
Faye Murrell
Martha and Sarah, I am sorry very sorry for your loss. May GOD keep you in his arms. Praying for you all.
December 27, 2012
Robert Mueller
Susan,
I am so sorry for your loss. Bernie made coming to work enjoyable. I always considered him as a role model for his example of caring for others and love of family. He has and will continue to make my family's life better by his example. He is missed.
December 27, 2012
Diane Mirante
Dear Susan and Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Bernie's passing. Although I hadn't seen him in such a long time, my memory goes back to old times when he lived around the corner from us and I saw him regularly. He was always a sweet boy; lots of laughs. I remember a trip to Lake George when I was under 10 yrs old; we sang the whole way!
He grew into a loving father and a kind and compassionate human being. I can surely tell from all of his accomplishments.
I am so sorry for your loss and I wish you all peace in your memories.
Diane Mirante
December 27, 2012
Heidi Watson
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
December 27, 2012
Joseph & Irene Lopez
We are so deeply sorry for the loss of Bernie. We really appreciated his kindness and generosity to Sacred Heart Church & the Adoration Chapel of Abilene, but especially the time he spent with our son, Adam. Bernie will surely be missed by so many. May the family find comfort in the love and peace of our Lord.
December 27, 2012
Janie O'Neil
Susie and family,
If my hug was strong enough to take away your pain I would start now and never stop. May the sorrow you feel in your heart lighten by the love that surrounds you. We, the cousins, love you and our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love Janie
December 27, 2012
Kathy & Rodney Abbott
We hope that at this time you find comfort and strength in your faith.
Bernie is in the arms of our Lord and will be watching over you. Know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers at this time. God bless.
December 27, 2012
Michael Kerr
Martha and Sarah - I'm so sorry for the loss of your Daddy. The amazing people that you are is a testament to his character. You continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Love you both !
December 27, 2012
Martha, you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Karen
Flower Mound Police Department
December 27, 2012
Donald Cobb
Bernie we had some great times officiating football together. I have lost a wonderful friend. May you rest in the peace of our Lords grace.
December 27, 2012
Floyd Lambert
We are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with your family.
December 26, 2012
Barry and Carol Kramer
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness we feel about Bernie's death. Our Love, Prayers, and thoughts are with the family. We are here to support you. May you find comfort in your faith. With sincere sympathy,
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