BORN

1931

DIED

2015

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Southport, North Carolina

Bernard Van Meter Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Apr. 5, 2015.

Bernard F, Whitey' Van Meter age 84 of Oak Island passed away peacefully on April 4, 2015 at Dosher Nursing Center in Southport. He was born on March 4, 1931 in Luke, Maryland the son of Fredericka and John H. Van Meter. He retired form J & L Steel Corporation, Aliquippa, PA following thirty-one years of service in 1983 and later from the Naval Department of Defense, David Taylor Research & Development in Annapolis, MD in 1994.

Following retirement, he and his wife, Mary Ann moved to Oak Island in 1995 where he thoroughly enjoyed his weekly golf games with the Tuesday Travelers. He was one of the original founding members of the group and enjoyed the fellowship shared with the other members of the group. He also enjoyed hunting and fishing when his health permitted.

He served in the United States Army from January, 1947 to December, 1949. He was sent to Japan and was assigned to serve at the Japanese World War II Crimes Trials of the top Japanese war criminals.

Surviving are his wife, Mary Ann, step-daughter, Diane Navecky and her husband, Allan, daughter, Karen Stine and husband, David, Janet Ash and husband, Dean, Step-daughter, Deborah Brown and daughter-in law, Raylene Woods. He leaves five grandchildren, Dean and Dillon Ash, Jay and Erin Brown and Allan Navecky, III and nephew, Vernon Miller and wife, Mary Jane.
In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his son, Bernard H. Van Meter, his previous wife, Zoe Leatherman Van Meter, two brothers, Herbert Lee and Roy Van Meter and his sisters, Margaret Louise Van Meter and Jean Miller.

In 1969, he became an active member and served as Past-Master of the Ancient Free and Accepted Masons Monaca Center # 791 in Monaca, Pennsylvania. He was a 32nd Degree Mason, a member of the New Castle Consistory and a member of the Syria Shrine.

He was a lifetime member of the VFW, American Legion, the 720th MP Battalion and a longtime member of the Moose Lodge in Southport.

Visitation will be held at Peacock-Newnam & White Funeral and Cremation Service on Wednesday, April 8th from 4:00 to 8:00 PM.
Funeral services will be at 10:30 AM Thursday, April 9, 2015 at St. Peter Lutheran Church with Pastor David Nelson officiating.

Interment will be at Cape Fear Memorial Park.

On line condolences may be sent to peacocknewnamwhite.com.

The family wishes to publicly thank the staff and all of the employees of the Dosher Nursing Center who made his last days comfortable with their wonderful, Compassionate and loving care.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Shriner's Children's Hospital, 1645 West Eighth Street, Erie, PA 16505 or to the Dosher Nursing Center Activities Department in Southport, NC.

A service of Peacock Newnam & White Funeral and Cremation Service Southport.

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April 17, 2015

Donna Joyner

Hello Mary Ann and Family, I am so sorry to hear about Whitey passing. I am sure you will miss him greatly. Roy and I send our love

Donna Joyner

April 8, 2015

Christine Navecky

Sorry for your loss. Maryann. I know times like these seem impossible.But with a lot of prayers, I hope you see Heaven Gained another Beautiful angel. My deepest Condolences are for you and the family.

April 7, 2015

Darlene Gibbs

I am very sorry for you and your family's loss. Whitey was a wonderful and caring person and loved his family very much. He will be greatly missed.
Blessings,

April 7, 2015

ANDREA KRYSIAK

I was so sorry to hear about Whitey. I've sent a donation to the Shriner's Hospital in Erie per his wishes. Whitey was a good person and many children in the future will benefit from his having lived. My deepest sympathy to the family. Love and prayer, Andrea Krysiak and Family

April 7, 2015

Ed Hill

Mary Ann: I am sorry to hear about Whitey, is has been so long since i have seen you all, however i have thought fondly of you both many times over the years. You have my deepest sympathy.

Ed Hill

April 6, 2015

In deepest sympathy over the loss of "Whitey" We will miss our special visits with you and MaryAnn. We shared many years of vacations and a couple of cruises with you. You will always be in our fondest thoughts May your soul rest in peace. Love & Prayers Eloise & Art

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