BORN

1930

DIED

2016

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Stamford, Connecticut

Betty Martinik Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 25, 2016.

Betty Jean Stewart Martinik, a lifelong resident of Stamford, passed away peacefully at Stamford Hospital on Sunday, January 24, 2016, after a brief illness. Betty Jean was born in Daytona, Florida on November 19, 1930. She graduated from Stamford High School in 1949, and married her high school sweetheart Robert A. Martinik, Sr. Together they had five children; Robert A. Martinik Jr. (Sylvia) of Darien, CT; Jeffery (Mary) Martinik of Monroe, CT; Tracey (Doug) Kersteen of Madison, CT; Kevin (Terri) Martinik of Stamford, CT; and Kim (John) Scala of Ridgefield, CT and eight grandchildren; Christina, Jay, Michelle, Barbara Jean, Andrew, Mark, Lauren, Taylor, and two great-granddaughters; Addison and Mackenzie Jean.
Betty Jean was employed as an interior designer and then later, manager of PPG Industries in Stamford. Subsequently she spent over 10 years as a real estate agent in the Stamford area. She was a member of the Stamford Woman's Club since 1994, where she served as secretary and more recently President. After retirement she dedicated much of her time as a volunteer at Stamford Hospital. She enjoyed playing golf and was a member of the Hubbard Heights Woman's Golf Association. Betty Jean was a most generous, kind and loving person to all. She was a dedicated and loving homemaker, mother, grandmother and great grandmother. She will be terribly missed but her legacy of unconditional love, traditions and values will carry on for many generations to come.
Betty Jean was extremely generous and contributed to many charities. In lieu of flowers the family asks that donations be made in memory of Betty Jean Martinik to Stamford Hospital ICU, 1351 Washington Boulevard, Suite 202, Stamford, CT 06902 in care of Stamford Hospital Foundation.
Services will be held as follows:
Relatives and friends may call at the Bouton & Reynolds Funeral Home at 2900 Summer Street, Stamford CT on Friday January 29th, 2016 from 4:00-8:00 PM
There will be a church service at the First Presbyterian Church at 1101 Bedford Street, Stamford CT on Saturday, January 30th, 2016 at 12:00 noon. Interment will be scheduled for a later date.
Thank you for keeping our family in your thoughts.

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February 3, 2016

Dear Tracy,
We are so sorry to hear of Mom's passing. Remember Betty from so many years ago. We were den mothers together when our boys were 8 or 9. Bless you all. Laurie and Al Lyon

February 2, 2016

Deepest sympathies for the loss of your Mom. Fond memories going far back!

Gasiewski Family Stamford, CT

February 1, 2016

Walter and Marge Donovan

So sorry for your loss.You are all in our thoughts and prayers

February 1, 2016

Bonnie Kim Campbell

Dear Tracy,
I send love and care to you and your entire family and circle of friends touched by the transition of your lovely mother. I always felt as if those of us who attended Rippowam had been blessed in the parent department. May she continue to shine and thrive in all of your hearts, in your smiles and in the laughter of your children. I know the good-bye of a mother and I know also her love does not leave us.

Love and regards,

February 1, 2016

Ellen OConnell

Dear Jeff and Mary,
Sorry to hear about your Moms passing. RIP Ms.Betty

February 1, 2016

Holly Altieri

Dear Martinik Family,

I went to Rippowam High School with Jeff and remember him fondly, and then 30 years later my daughter, Rachel, comes home with a new friend named AJ from Monroe. To my surprise it was Jeff's son! I did not know Betty Jean, but I am sure she was a wonderful Mom and Grandmother, as her son and grandson were a delight.
Our condolences to your family and we hope that your fond memories of your mother and grandmother carry you through this difficult time.

Sincerely, Holly Thornton Altieri and Family

January 31, 2016

So sorry to hear of Mrs.Martinik's passing. Prayers and thoughts. Queenie Dempsey (Donna Poller)

January 30, 2016

Carol Robertino Hennessey

So sorry to hear of the loss of Betty. I will always remember her beautiful smile. She was a great lady .Remember:May your memories of her bring smiles to your lips instead of tears to your eyes.

January 30, 2016

To the Martinik family,

Please accept our deepest sympathies during this difficult time. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

The Bria Family

January 30, 2016

Dr and Mrs Daniel Minchik

Dear Kim, Kevin and all the Martinik's,
So sorry to hear our your mothers passing. I know Kim has always spoke very highly of her parents. The Minchik family sends our condlences. Kim- What a beautiful letter you wrote to your mom. Love Colleen Thompson

January 29, 2016

Matt Kaye

We moved to Oaklawn Ave when I was in the 3rd grade (45 yrs ago). Betty and Bob were so gracious to let a couple of the neighborhood kids swim in their pool. We had countless late night nerf football games in front of their house, as it was the 50 yard line! Sweet Abigail used to come over to play with our dogs Yankee & Kaye~C ! I worked with Betty at Pittsburgh Paints and many years later she sold me my first home! I was graced to see her in her final weeks after so many years! Blessings to Bob and the entire family!

January 28, 2016

Don & Wendy Vernal

Dear Martiniks, I am very saddened and sorry for your loss. It doesn't seem that long ago that we were growing up together. I wish all of you the very best.

January 28, 2016

Our heartfelt condolences to the Martinik family. We are blessed to have known Betty Jean. She truly made our world a better place. May you feel
God's love and comfort. Honey & Gene O'Connell.

January 28, 2016

To the Martinik Family, please accept our deepest sympathy. Our hearts and prayers are with you all during this very difficult time.

Members of Newtown Woman's Club (Newtown, CT)

January 27, 2016

Gloria and Joe Sinaguglia

To the Martinik family,

We are deeply sorry for your profound loss. We are keeping you all in our prayers during this very difficult time.

January 27, 2016

Barbara (Vernal) and Tony Jacobs

To Bob and family, please accept our sincere deepest sympathy on the loss of Betty. It has been years since I've seen you all as my home is in Michigan. My Mom, Elsie Vernal Dayney knew Betty and Bob since school and were once very dear friends when we kids were little. Mom and Betty wrote cards and letters up until this past Christmas, so naturally Mom was quite shocked and saddened by this news. We are all so very sorry for your loss.

January 27, 2016

Bob and Family, So sorry for your loss of your mom. Prayers to you and family.
Kathy, Gloria, Jodi Kennedy

January 27, 2016

Mark and Donna Docimo

Dear Martinik Family,

We are so sorry for your loss. May your memories give you strength and comfort in the coming days. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

January 27, 2016

Cynthia Peters

May Our Lord Jesus Christ comfort you during this time of loss.
Sincere sympathies,
Brian and Cynthia Dixon Peters

January 27, 2016

Cindy Keegan

To Jeffrey and the Martinik Family,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. I always enjoyed her company at your family celebrations. I hope loving memories of her bring you all comfort and peace during this difficult time. I will miss seeing her at your family gatherings.
Sincerely,
Cindy Keegan

January 27, 2016

Jeff and Mary,
Please accept our deepest sympathies on the loss of your Mom....may your memories keep her always close.

Gary & Joan Stevenson

January 27, 2016

Joyce Burgess

Robert, I am sorry for your loss of your mother. May God comfort you and your family at this time. I ask that he hold all of you tighter and than tighter again. Wish deepest sympathy, Joyce Burgess

January 27, 2016

Bob and family: I'm so sorry about the loss of your gorgeous mom. What a lovely lady. Beautiful inside and out. I'm glad I had the opportunity to meet her years ago. Love and prayers to all of you. Linda Lombardo

January 27, 2016

Mark Rosenbaum

To Kim, Kevin, and the Martinik family,
Please accept my sincere condolences. Hold the memories of your mom close to your heart and she will always be with you. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

January 27, 2016

Wendy Casey

Our sincere & deepest condolences to your mother, Betty. May she rest in eternal peace forever. God bless her beautiful family and friends. You're in our thoughts & prayers.
The Casey Family,
John, Wendy, Jacquelyn & Garrett Casey

January 27, 2016

Vanessa Jackson

To Tracey and the Martinik Family;
My condolences on the loss of your Mother. May you find peace in your memories of this amazing woman.

January 27, 2016

Art Murphy

Bob... my deepest condolenceson your wife's passing.

January 27, 2016

Pam/Bill Romaniello

To the Martinik Family
Our deepest condolences in the passing of Betty Jean. May memories of her help you all through this most difficult of times. Our thought and prayers are with you all.

January 27, 2016

Ed Iacovo

I am very sorry for your loss.

Iac

January 27, 2016

Gail & Jim Mitchell

Dear Uncle Bob & Family,
I'm still in shock. I guess I never thought that call would come. Thank You Tracy for calling me. I wish I had made that call last week now. I can still hear Aunt Betty laughing on the phone, when i'd call her.. She was a blessing to me and always will be. I loved her so very much. She was my Aunt and my friend all my life. I learned alot from her. RIP Aunt Betty,fly with the angels, as you were always one of them to me. I prayed Justin would meet you. God bless and be with the family now and Lord take good care of my Aunt, she was truly a lovely,sweet and caring person to all. love Aunt Betty.Gail xxoo

January 26, 2016

Kim Scala

MY MOM
My mom has always been my anchor and my light . She has guided me through my tough times
She was always there to hear my woes and gladly give her motherly advise. My mom always wanted the best for me she gave whatever she could whenever she could. Her insight and love has made me the caring compassionate person I am today. My mom was also very funny. She would come up with some outrageous comments that would have us cracking up. She was competitive when it came to games. Over the years we rigged the games so that we could all enjoy her pleasure in winning . When mom won we all did . There is nothing I wouldn't do for mom and there was nothing she wouldn't do for me and my family. The gift of unconditional love that my parents so freely gave to me is their legacy. You hear about the power of love ! 66 years of love ...trust me it is powerful . So strong is their bond that heaven and earth are now one for every night as my dad rests his weary head on his pillow my mom comes down and wraps herself around him ,filling him with love and light and giving him the energy to face another day without her . Mom your presence will be missed you were as Lauren says "adorable" and we all adore you it was an honor to be your child . You did good mom damn good now you get to rest in peace LOVE AND LIGHT. Kimmy Amen

January 26, 2016

Stephen Martinik

To the Martinik Family. We offer our condolences and prayers to all. Betty Jean Martinik was a model human being. We all should strive to to follow in her foot steps. Our memories are all fond ones. She was one of the kindest individuals I have ever meet. GOD will truly bless you and take care of you from this day forward. All our love. Patty & Steve...

January 26, 2016

I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I am in Arizona and will be unable to attend but please know that I would if I could. My sincere condolinces to each one of you sincerely Carol sabia

January 25, 2016

Please accept my sympathy. What a nice lady.

Andrea Martinik-Devlin

January 25, 2016

Maureen Gillespie-Ellen

To all the Martinik family. I cannot imagine your sorrow. We have so many happy memories with your family, with Betty right in the center of it all. My family sends their deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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