Brenda Lyttle Vaughn

1948 - 2013

Brenda Lyttle Vaughn obituary, 1948-2013, Taylors, SC

BORN

1948

DIED

2013

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Brenda Vaughn Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 3, 2013.

Brenda L. Vaughn, wife of Dr. John C. Vaughn, went to be with the Lord, September 2nd, 2013. She passed peacefully from the arms of her beloved husband into the arms of her beloved Lord! In so doing, she finished a life lived to the glory of God and a job well done. Her death concluded a remarkable life of glorifying God and ministering to others through great personal trials and suffering. She served as a pastor's wife and mother of five in addition to counseling, writing, and sharing her testimony the world over.
Brenda was born on September 27th, 1948, in Harlan, Kentucky, to William H. Lyttle Jr. and Wilma Mills Lyttle, and received Jesus Christ as her Savior at the age of seven. In 1978, she discovered her life's message when she and two-year-old daughter Becky miraculously survived life-threatening burns in a house fire. Brenda's commitment to trust and glorify God through the trials that followed has directed untold numbers of people to draw on the all-sufficient grace of God just as she did.
Following the fire, God gave her thirty-five years filled with opportunities to serve, every one of which she counted a personal privilege. In addition to thirty years of ministry with her husband at Faith Baptist Church, she traveled to camps and churches in almost every state and to over thirty foreign countries. She and Dr. Vaughn co-authored More Precious than Gold: the Fiery Trial of a Family's Faith, in which they shared the testimony of the fire. Becky's injuries and resulting disabilities led the Vaughns to found the Hidden Treasure Christian School for children with special needs.
The final chapters of Brenda's life displayed her constant faith in her battle with Hepatitis C which she contracted from a blood transfusion in the aftermath of the fire. Despite declining health, and being less and less able to travel and speak, she rejoiced to glorify God and serve her family with her remaining strength. Though her life was truly remarkable, she thought of herself as unworthy to be so used of God and cherished, most of all, her roles as wife, mother, and "Grandma."
In addition to her husband, Dr. John Vaughn, she is survived by four children-Deborah Vaughn Locke and husband Tim, John Michael Vaughn, Rebecca Morel Vaughn, Joseph Carroll Vaughn and wife Kimberly; nine grandchildren; and two sisters, Dora Sherry of Sarasota, FL, and Sheila McLandsborough of Covington, OH. She was preceded in death by her mother, father, and step-mother, Ollie Lyttle of Heidrick, KY, and her fourth child, Daniel Wayne Vaughn of Taylors, SC.
Visitation will be held at Faith Baptist Church, 500 West Lee Road, Taylors, SC, on Friday, September 6th from 4:00 to 9:00 PM. The funeral service will be held at the church on Saturday, September 7th, at 1:00 PM. A graveside service will follow at Woodlawn Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Hidden Treasure Christian School, 500 West Lee Road, Taylors, SC, 29687. www.woodlawn-fh.com

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Theresa Ratje

I only wish I had made a conscious effort to know her better.

August 29, 2020

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Robyn Moore

I was just sharing Brenda's story to my new hair dresser on Thursday. Telling how God used her mightily in so many lives and how her legacy continues to this day. She is very missed.

December 8, 2013

Thomas Ossa

I found John C. Vaughn's ministry through a Roku Channel that was set up by his Church. While watching one of his Sermons, I was inspired to go to the website and leave a message, and soon after found that his wife passed.

I am so sorry to hear this. I pray for the soul of Mrs. Vaughn, and for Mr. Vaughn to be comforted by The Lord during this difficult time.

October 29, 2013

Pastory Vaughn and family, Bonnie and I are sorry for your loss.
Michael and Bonnie Jackson

September 12, 2013

Mrs. Vaughn was a gracious lady. We were priviledged to know her. She is one of the "great cloud of witnesses" cheering us on. Each of you are in our prayers.
the Byers
Steve, Tina, Joshua, John & Mary

September 11, 2013

Dan and Priscilla Marsceau

Mrs. Vaughn showed our family such kindness. That she took the time to reach out to others in the midst of her own pain and discomfort is a testament to the grace of God that she appropriated moment by moment. We will never hear the words, “Trust God and do right,” without thinking of her. Her Christlike example will continue to phenomenally impact lives wherever her story is heard. She is missed.
The Marsceau Family
Dan, Priscilla, Nicolas, and Nathanael

September 11, 2013

Paul and Sherry Zimmer

Dear Pastor Vaughn and family,
We love you and thank God for your faithful testimony and the ministry you've had to our family. Mrs. Vaughn touched our lives in so many ways. As she ran her race with patience, she always had a contagious spirit of joy. We will treasure the memory of our "own church service" in the hospital and look forward to singing together again someday in glory! We love you.

September 10, 2013

Eleanor Brahler

Rev. Dr. John Vaughn and Family,
It is with deepest sorrow, sympathy, love and prayers that I write this note. You all have experienced such a tremendous loss - a void that can never be filled. Your strength and faith is an inspiration and blessing - not only to us locally, but on an international level. as well. So many prayers and love to you all. A forever friend who truly cares!

September 10, 2013

Pastor Vaughn& Becky,I remember Brenda
standing beside you faithfully as you greeted the people as they left the services at Faith and knew she was a devoted christian,wife and outstanding mother to Becky.You are loved by many and look forward to seeing you all in heaven. Love and prayers for your family. A visitor of Faith during your ministry there, Carolyn Smith

September 10, 2013

Gary Lapprich

Our prayers and love go out to your family in this time of loss. You have all been such a blessing to us over the last 40 years. Brenda's great spirit and love she has shown in health and trials was a great testimony of her faith and God's goodness. Thank you for your family's blessing to others and may these examples continue to be a help to others. Love Gary & Dara Lapprich.

September 9, 2013

Jeanine Cummings

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We have appreciated your testimony. We grieve with you at your loss, and rejoice with you at Brenda's home going. May God continue to be glorified through her life and death.
Kimball and Jeanie Cummings.

September 9, 2013

John,

Jeanie and I remember with gratitude the times we spent with you and Brenda back in the mid 1970s in the Greenville area. Brenda was very gracious; we have always respected her. In the following years, we heard of the fire incident and read your booklet. Your lives so far away have yet been an inspiration to us and a confirmation of God's mercies and grace. In Christ, Kimball and Jeanie Cummings, Corcoran, Minnesota.

September 8, 2013

Rev. Bill & Cozette Gibson

Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.

September 8, 2013

Polly (and Bob) Whitmore

How I will miss my pal! So many memories, laughter and tears over the last 34 years together. Brenda's comments and insight will always be part of my day. Truly a heart for God and showed such unconditional love for her family. We are praying for you all as you continue to walk with Him.

September 7, 2013

Eva Baladjay

Dr. Vaughn, We deeply regret the news of Mrs. Vaughn's passing.May the Lord gives you the grace and comfort in times like this.Though we have not meet her in person, we know how deeply you treasure her. You have been a blessing to us Filipinos.
-Pastor Rogelio & Eva Baladjay, Phils.

September 7, 2013

Dear Pastor Vaughn and family, We had so little time with Brenda, but to know her was to love her. My children still remember being in your home and how she was so attentive to them. She was not here to be served but to serve and she did it with such a joyful heart. I thank God for putting her in our lives and for all she taught us by her cheerful spirit. May God be your source of comfort as you continue on the ministry that He has entrusted to you. You are all in our prayers. Kirk and Kathy Hickok (Brazil, South America)

September 7, 2013

Andrew and Kristine Dean

Dr. Vaughn,
You were such a blessing and an encouragement to our family and also to our church family when you spoke up here in NH about 4 years ago! We have prayed for you wife and will continue to pray for you and your sweet family. Please know that we love you and that we know God's all sufficient grace will continue to uphold you during this trial.

Pastor Andrew and Kristine Dean (Mont Vernon, NH)

September 7, 2013

Scott & Robyn Moore

Pastor Vaughn, Mrs. Vaughn touched so many lives. I am so thankful that during the 8 years we lived in Greenville, she touched my life as well. What an honor to have known her. We are praying for you and your family.

September 7, 2013

Holly Hyma

Dear friends...my heart aches for your loss...and rejoices for Brenda's gain. She was an example to me through the last few years of physical challenges. I thank the Lord for the evidence of her trust in God, and the peace that was shown through her spirit. My prayers are with you through these days of loss...until we join her in the presence of our Lord!

September 7, 2013

David & Heidi Racke Racke

Dear Pastor Vaughn, Though we could not be there to let you know of our sympathy in Brenda's home going we have thought about you and prayed for God's comfort in these days. We have very special memories of you and Brenda in the early years in Poe Mill and for the good times we had together in PR. Remember the snake in the pulpit and having to hike up the hill at the camp? When I went forward to get my salvation straightened out after you gave a message on hypocrisy, Brenda dwelt with me and prayed with me. I have never had a doubt about my salvation since that night. We are grateful for all the time you have taken to counsel us and for the relationship we have been able to have with you and Brenda. Que Dios te bendiga y te de paz.

September 7, 2013

Sharon Smith

Brenda had a holy light-heartedness, that helped show the heavenly perspective on things of this life. She knew that this was all only temporary, and, the real, true solid things are the things of God. He had touched her, and she was never the same. So thankful for the way your family has been willing to share the lessons learned from walking through the fires of suffering. And, that we can look forward to a permanent reunion with Brenda and all those in Christ.

September 7, 2013

Rick & Wendy Huntress

Mrs. Vaughn has been such a personal encouragement to our family. We praise God for her faithfulness and the faithfulness of the entire family. You are such a blessing to everyone.

September 7, 2013

Danny and Portia Blackmon

Brenda was a wonderful example of a Godly lady. We have been praying for you and will continue to do so. How blessed to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that she is with our Lord at this very moment! Hallelujah! What a Savior!

September 7, 2013

Irving Rivera

What a wonderful person and example of Christ. I will always remember her sweetness and cheer even throughout her greatest battles. Her battles are over finally and she is in Perfect Glory. Please accept our very deepest condolences from The Riveras. God bless you all!

Irving and Jinnie Rivera

September 7, 2013

Rosa Sanchez

Dear Pastor Vaughn:
In the name of my daughter Alejandra and myself, I want to express our deepest condolences and support to you and our dear Becky on the lost of Brenda. We have the most beautiful memories of her and your family in Greenville, and will always remember her main advice: Don't quit! We love you deeply.
Rosa Sanchez
Dominican Republic

September 7, 2013

Crystal Smith

Brenda has always been an encouragement to me. It must be exciting in glory with her Savior, Dan, and family. They, too, are looking for the Rapture as we. Brenda shared some of her Bible thoughts with me: "I have been reading through Revelation, using some study notes to help me understand it. I just about shouted the other day when I read about the final battle. We are on the winning side, and there isn't any way we can be caused to switch sides because our names are in the "Lamb's Book of Life" ! Hallelujah! What a merciful God we have!" Look forward to seeing her with my Savior and family. Love, Crystal Smith

September 7, 2013

We were led to FBC after listening to a tape by Brenda describing the steadfastness of Dr Vaughn's faith in the LORD. Her testifying of God's all sufficient grace has influenced countless lives. It was a great privilege to know her. You are in my prayers. Mrs Kay Smith

September 7, 2013

Lionel T. Raught

Dr. Vaughn,

The Lionel Raught family Would like to express our condolence to you and your family during this time of great sorrow. We realize what a great loss this is to you personally. Our God has blessed you greatly with a wonderful helpmate who served her savior faithfully these many years. We are praying for you and the family.

September 7, 2013

Missionary Mike Schell & Family

Dear Pastor Vaughn and Family,

Although an ocean and many miles hinder us from sharing our personal condolences, be assured of our love and great respect for you and your dear wife. Yours have been lives of mentorship and faithfulness in ministry, and your friendship and encouragement have meant much to our family for many years. We pray God will continue to use you greatly.

September 6, 2013

Frank & Margie Hall

I felt Brenda and I really became good friends back in 06 when I drove her up to The Wilds for a Ladies Retreat at which she was speaking, and I was the only one from our church who went to the Retreat. It was a real blessing to my life. Her life just shone Jesus Christ and was an inspiration to me. I think I can say I really grew to love her. God bless the rest of the family, and our prayers are with you all.

September 6, 2013

Brenda Vaughn was a role model to anyone who knew her and a beautiful example of the Proverbs 31 woman.

Jim and Barbara Collins

September 6, 2013

Carolyn Martens

Will the service be web-cast?

September 6, 2013

Charles Britt

We were honored by our Lord to know Brenda. She was a woman of wisdom and "her ways are ways of pleasantness," (Proverbs 3:17). She will be greatly missed. Charles and Gail Britt

September 6, 2013

Jean Saito

Brenda's life was a reflection of God's grace.

September 6, 2013

Denise Ellis

Praying for the family. Mrs. Vaughn will be missed. It has been several years since I left Faith Baptist Church, but I have never forgotten the Vaughn family. They were a big part in making me who I am today. Thanks!

September 6, 2013

Carl & Becky Wood

Absent from the body; present with the Lord. How your dear wife must enjoying her new home on high. Our prayers are with you sorrow, but now without hope.

September 6, 2013

Dr.Vaughn, I met your wife only once at a couple's retreat. She was a gem and her price was far above rubies.I appreciated the way you spoke about her on our trip to Isreal last spring.I could tell the deep love you had for her. Praying for God's abiding love, peace, and grace during this time. Resting in his infinite wisdom, Kathy Gabel

September 6, 2013

Marilyn Gamble

Knowing that your thoughts and prayers are with you, Dr Vaughn, and your entire family as you are going through this time. Praise God that Brenda is in a better place and we will all meet again with her one day soon. Always remember that when you are missing her. She is in Heaven preparing to be with you all one day. Love in Christ, Steve & Marilyn Gamble, formally of Faith Baptist Church of Laurens

September 6, 2013

Scott Pauley

Dr. and Mrs. Vaughn and Becky have been a tremendous encouragement to us at Crown College. We thank the Lord for Mrs. Vaughn's faithfulness and are praying for the family.

September 6, 2013

Larry and Bonnie Karsies

"Absent from the body; present with the Lord!"

September 6, 2013

Tim & Jeannette Joyner

We are praying for your family at this time, that God's grace will be sufficient. What a wonderful example for 35 years of a Pastor's Wife with a servants heart.

September 6, 2013

Angela Halstead

Brenda spoke at our Ladies' retreat at Maranatha Baptist Church, formerly McEver Road Baptist Church in Oakwood, Georgia. She was such a blessing to us, and I have continued to follow the ministry through the e-mails.
Angela Pharr Halstead, Oakwood, Georgia

September 6, 2013

Theresa Ratje

We are so sorry for you loss :( Much love & many prayers,

The Ratje family

September 6, 2013

Malcolm Cummings

God bless you all. I continue to pray for all of you. John has been a good friend and co-laborer in the days of AACS ministry. I appreciate you greatly.

September 6, 2013

Terri Hamm

Heaven keeps getting sweeter. As a young struggling youth pastor's wife, I saw Jesus in Mrs. Brenda at the Wilds camp (Ladies retreat). Out of all the many retreats I've attended at the Wilds, the Lord did a great work in my heart through the one she spoke at. It is one that I especially remember. Praise the Lord for a life well lived for the glory of God! Well done thou good and faithful servant. May you enjoy the presence of our Lord. Bro. Vaughan and Family, I am praying that His Word will be all-sufficient for you.

September 6, 2013

Wendy McCombs

What a precious life. Am praising the Lord that she is now FREE from her earthly struggles and that she is with her Lord and also her son, Daniel. My prayers are with you and your family, Pastor Vaughn.

September 6, 2013

David Whitcomb

John, I am so sorry to hear that you have lost your helper. I am praying that you will know the abundance of God's sustaining grace and that in this loss also, He will magnify Himself through you and your family.

September 6, 2013

Dear John,
I have such good memories of the time the Lord allowed us to share life years ago. I have rejoiced watching you and Brenda from a distance. From my view it has made a significant difference that you two have lived. I have grieved with you and prayed for you along the way. On God's time table, it will only be a few minutes till we join those on the other side. My husband, John, went to be with the Lord in Janurary of 2011. I take comfort knowing God knows how hard death is for us and pray He will bring comfort to your dear family in these days. Love and prayers, Romesa Faison

September 5, 2013

Ron & Marie Franke

Brenda's grace, kind and gentle spirit in spite of her physical suffering was so evident in her life and testimony and has been a source of encouragement to our family and all who knew her. She was truly a wonderfully courageous lady who will always have a special place in our heart.
May ,the Lord's love and grace continue to comfort your family

September 5, 2013

Dale and Jean Fronk

Pastor Vaughn and Family; Brenda's contageous smile and encouragment will be greatly missed but our loss is her gain. We're praying you will find assurance in God's word, peace in His presence and comfort in His love.

September 5, 2013

I sadly rejoice with the family at Brenda's homegoing. She is a beautiful woman of God and will be missed by us all who hold her dear in life and memories. To God be the glory. Pat Graham

September 5, 2013

Heidi

You are all in my prayers. I know Brenda will be sorely missed but I hope you're comforted by the knowledge that she is restored and rejoicing in the presence of Jesus.

September 5, 2013

A great loss to the world as Heaven welcomes a wonderful lady. Her impact will continue. ... He being dead yet speaketh. Heb 11:4

Tom Martin
White Lake, NC

September 5, 2013

Ed Deese

John I want you to know I am praying for you and your family. Your family has been a great inspiration and blessing to all of us over the years and I know you will now experience the grace of God during this time. Lord bless you.

September 5, 2013

Pastor and Mrs. Jerroll Martens

Our prayers are with you and your family during this time. We on earth have lost a precious servant of God but we know our loss is her gain. No more suffering !!

September 5, 2013

Jill Frederick

What a wonderful mother, wife, grandma, and beloved woman. God's final calling Mrs Vaughn to be with him was sure to be the most glorious day at heavens gate. Mrs. Vaughn will be missed and was loved by so many. Thank you Lord for the time we did have with this remarkable lady. Pastor and family, I am sure you miss her more than words can say but please remember she is in a place where some day we will all be with no pain or suffering. I know she is looking down and holding your hearts as you grieve. She will always remain a part of the lives and hearts of many. Thank you for sharing her with us. We love you all and our prayer are with you.

September 4, 2013

Steve-O Kahler

The Kahler family from Colorado has a lot of great memories with the Vaughn family and are keeping your entire family in our thoughts and prayers. Love you all!

September 4, 2013

Merrylee Mullinax

Mrs Vaughn was such a gracious and loving example. She faithfully served the Lord and gave me and my family encouragement every time we saw her. She was always so transparent and open. I and my parents are so thankful for her ministry to us. Looking forward to seeing her again in the sweet by and by. Praying for your family.

September 4, 2013

Diana Frankiln

We will uplift your loss in prayer. My husband and I learned of your family through your book,'More Precious Than Gold'. I love that book. It captivated me, and to anyone else reading this, I highly recommend it. I also got to meet Mrs. vaughn at a women's conference in WI, about 14 years ago. She's amazing. Vaughn family...my deepest condolensces.

September 4, 2013

Lisa Stapp

Thankful for Brenda's testimony of God's grace during trying times. She was a blessing. Rejoicing for her as she stands now in the presence of Jesus Christ!
Allen and Lisa Stapp

September 4, 2013

Susan Jackson

Praying for your family. I was able to hear your wife speak at the Wild's camp and I praise the Lord for her testimony.

September 4, 2013

Julia Iverson

Dear Brother Vaughn, Becky, I enjoyed listening to Brenda at Ironwood Camp in Newberry Springs, California. She was a real inspiration and blessing and encouragement. Look unto the hills for your strength. Brenda will be missed by many. My prayers are with you and your family. Your sister in Christ Julia Iverson

September 4, 2013

I'm sorry to hear that Mrs Vaughn is no longer here. I'm glad to know she is rejoicing with Jesus in heaven! Dr. Vaughn, we will be praying for you. You both have been an encouragement to many people. God is the One who upholds us when we are apart from those we love. We all are still in His care.

September 4, 2013

Carla Thomas

What a true testimony you were of the love and grace of God!!! Praising God that you are now in His Presence, and praying for your dear family.

September 4, 2013

Dave Brock

We will be reunited! Longing for that day with you. Praying for God's grace till then.

September 4, 2013

Missy Matson

Thank you, Mrs. Vaughn, for being a sweet testimony of the grace of God since I met you as a young girl. I am sure you are still gazing at Jesus through tearless eyes!

September 4, 2013

Dan & Sharon McCandless

Brother Vaughn, although physically we are so far away, out hearts are ever so near as we think upon the cherished moments of priceless fellowship with Brenda and yourself. You and your dear family are in our prayers and thoughts continually. Proverbs 31:30-31

September 4, 2013

Carla Sheeley

We were blessed at a couple's retreat to hear you and your sweet wife speak in 1995. Your lives have touched so many others' lives; and we've been encouraged through your testimonies all these many years later. Thank you. Carla Sheeley Kansas City, Missouri

September 4, 2013

Valerie Gay

It was during a time of great physical trial in my life that I read "More Precious than Gold." God used the words written there to help me continue on with the resolve to honor God in sickness or in health. Brenda's testimony has been a great blessing of submission and service to God.

September 4, 2013

Laurie Miley

She will be missed here but thankfully we will see her again in Heaven. I will pray for Dr. Vaughn and his family.

September 4, 2013

Jessie Bays

Pastor,
The Lord truly blessed you when He gave you Brenda. She was a beacon of hope for many and a wonderful person to all. She exemplified what a Godly woman should be. She will be greatly missed. My prayers are with you.

September 4, 2013

Tim and Eileen Sneeden

We love you Dr. Vaughn. May God give you great grace, peace and comfort at this precious time.

September 4, 2013

In 1994 I received a copy of "More Precious than Gold." My heart was blessed as I read Brenda's testimony. God uniquely used her in service to her Savior. May her life continue to speak and bless the lives of others. Judith Willis, Greenville SC

September 4, 2013

Brother John and family
we are praying for God's comfort and strength to you all in the home going of Brenda. She had a great testimony for the Lordrace Enochs
Temple Baptist Church, Powell,TN

September 4, 2013

Jim Oesterwind

Our prayers are with your family. Our hearts are saddened. We look to the blessed hope that our Lord Jesus offers ...the peace that passes understanding.

September 4, 2013

Linda Harper

I feel truly blessed that Brenda came to our church in Myrtle Beach, where my husband was the pastor, in 1974. Her bubbling personality made everyone feel welcomed and that helped our church grow fast. Her desire was to be used of God immediately. It was such a joy to serve with her and watch her grow. She was such an encouragement. I loved her dearly.

September 4, 2013

Dave and Karen Kaniuk

To Dr. Vaughn and family,Our deepest sympathy at this time of loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

September 4, 2013

Dawn Hughes

What a special friend! Despite her own struggles, she sent several supporting and encouraging messages to me with Mom's and Skip's home-going! Heaven gets sweeter with every loss here, especially when we know we'll see them with our Blessed Lord and Savior! May the God of all comfort be with the family at this time. Special prayers for each of you!

September 4, 2013

Gary and Annetta Small

Brother Vaughn and family,
What a joy to know that Brenda stepped from the cares and burdens of this life into the glorious presence of the Lord she loved and served so faithfully for many years. No more scars because of the One Whose scars and shed blood bought her salvation. No more suffering, for now she is forever in the presence of the One Who suffered for her and us all. May you know the peace, grace and comfort that flows compassionately from the heart of God! To Him be all praise and glory!

September 4, 2013

Cliff Gribick

The testimony of Brenda and her daily walk with the Lord impacted many others in a way that reflected encouragement, remembering to keep their eye on the Lord during difficult circumstances not easy to understand but not without Hope.
In Brenda's words: “Ask me now if I would change the circumstances of my life and I will answer, “absolutely not!” Although the things that have happened were not part of my plan, God's plan has taught me so much about Him and about His heart's longing to have fellowship with me. Through failure, I have realized my total inability to do anything except sin apart from His grace. He is my dearest Friend, my Savior, and my Heavenly Father. I look forward to someday living with Him forever. Friend, don't miss out on God's plan for your life. He won't lead you the way he led me. He has a different plan for your life, but you can be certain it is the best possible means to achieve what He created you for –Christlikeness. Knowing that brings peace.”
The testimony of the Vaughn family is more than words but a reflection of 1 Corinthians 1:4 a light that guided the path for our family during a time of personal crisis.
Remembering Pastor Vaughn and the Vaughn family in prayer.
The Gribick Family: Cliff, Carol, Jason, Meredith and Luke
www.notearsinheaven.com

September 4, 2013

Debbie Harshberger

Brenda was a lady who truly lived what she believed. God used her greatly because she completely yielded her will to the Father. She saw God's hand in all her trials and circumstances and used them to point others to Christ. When I brought a meal to the Vaughn home, Brenda was usually in her bedroom. Even though she was not feeling well, she would get up to greet me and talk. Her talk was FULL of joy!! She just bubbled!! It was so evident to me that the joy of the Lord was her strength. God gave me Brenda so I could see how I must respond to my own trials. She was a woman I want to be like! I am praying for your family.

September 4, 2013

Brenda was a very special lady and I feel so blessed that I knew her back in the 70s when we were working to put our husbands through college. She was always an inspiration to me. May the Lord richly bless the family during this time.

September 4, 2013

Leon and Clara Santana

May the Lord comfort you and be your strenght .

September 4, 2013

Keith & Sally Stensaas

We are praying for you from Uganda, East Africa.

September 4, 2013

Rodney and Yrlenia Lopez

The memories of the moments shared with Pastor and Mrs. Vaughn will always have a special place in our hearts. We were always blessed and encouraged by their unwaivering testimony for the Lord.

September 4, 2013

Penny Fry

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Psalm 27

September 4, 2013

Danny Mundy

Praying for you all. Pastor Danny Mundy, Donna, Sarah and the members of Calvary Baptist Church, Gray,GA.

September 4, 2013

Ed & Darcey Birkenstock

We are praying for your family now and grieve with you over the loss of your precious Brenda. She lived her life well to the glory of Jesus! May her service be a blessing and comfort to you all. We knew you way back when your family was at Southside Baptist Church.

September 4, 2013

Susan Ridley

I was greatly blessed to hear Brenda speak at a ladies' conference at Bethany Baptist Church in Grand Rapids, Ohio, nearly 9 years ago. I still treasure the recordings and still listen to them occasionally. Praying for your family in Brenda's home going.

September 4, 2013

Kent Prain

Brother John, We are thankful for yours and Brenda's (and Becky's) testimony through all the struggles. I remember hearing about the fire while in class at BJU. May the Good Lord demonstrate His grace to you and yours through these coming times.

September 4, 2013

Curt & Bev Doherty

What a godly, courageous lady, who touched our lives in so many ways. We are thankful she no longer suffers, but we will miss her sweet spirit. We are confident that her testimony will continue to touch lives. We love you Pastor Vaughn and will continue to pray for you and your ministries!

September 4, 2013

Tappan Hornor

To the Vaughn family, Your testimony of the steadfast love, grace and truth of our Lord has been an encouragement to our family. We will all be reunited with our Savior and what a glorious eternity that will be. We share your loss and we know the Lord has grace for all in the hour our of our greatest need. Tap and Denise Hornor

September 4, 2013

Linda Illian

Brenda spoke so eloquently at our ladies conference in Derry, NH many years ago. Her message was powerful and her spirit so sweet. She made a tremendous lasting godly impression on us all. Our prayers are with your family.

September 4, 2013

Joe and Julianne Batchelor

Mrs. Vaughn was a such a blessing to me. I was inspired by her testimony and know that will live on. I will be praying for the Vaughn family as they grieve the loss of this dear, godly lady.

September 4, 2013

Dick and Judy Knipfer

Pastor Vaughn, Dick and I grieve with you in your loss of your dear sweet wife Brenda. We have been and will continue to pray for you and the family in the days ahead. Hard to imagine going on without her but look forward to that day when we all shall join her on heaven's bright shore.

September 4, 2013

Lynn and Dick Tracy

Brenda's life greatly impacted me. It caused me to think of trials in a Biblically-focused way. She was such an inspiration to all of us--faithfulness personified. May the Lord's sustaining grace be multiplied to you Pastor Vaughn, Children, and all your family.

September 4, 2013

Pedro da Cunha

In the Dominican Republic, Iglesia Bautista Cristiana grieves with your family, Dr. Vaughn. At the same time we celebrate a great example of a life lived for Christ with no regrets. Also we rejoice that Brenda left a legacy of faithfulness that affected thousands across the world, and so she is enjoying forever her glorious Savior.

September 4, 2013

Vaughn Family,
Praying for you now as you adjust to life here without her, but what a wonderful memory/memories you will cherish of her.
Pastor John Woods and Loretta

September 4, 2013

Elliott & Sherry Rice

Pastor Vaughn, we are so sorry for your loss. We are praying for you and your family.

September 4, 2013

Ben and Cindy Franklin

We love you all and will so miss Brenda. She is however rejoicing with her Savior.

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