Brian Matthew Carman

1980 - 2012

Brian Matthew Carman obituary, 1980-2012, Olathe, KS

Brian Carman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 31, 2012.

Brian Matthew Carman, 32, passed away on December 30, 2012. He was born November 17, 1980 in Jacksonville, FL. He graduated from Blue Valley Northwest High School and Johnson County Community College, and was a senior at KU-Edwards. Brian proudly served his country in the U.S. Marines and the Kansas National Guard. During his service, he was deployed to Kosovo, Iraq, and Saudi Arabia. Brian was a Master Mason in the Lawrence Masonic Lodge #6 A.F. & A.M. in Lawrence, KS. He was an Eagle Scout and Warrior in the Tribe of Mic-O-Say at H. Rowe Bartle Scout Reservation.
He is survived by his parents, Susan and Gerald Carman, his brother, William Carman; and aunts, uncles, and cousins throughout the country.
Brian was articulate and intelligent, with a quick sense of humor and strong leadership skills. As many friends and family members will attest, Brian thoroughly enjoyed a good debate. He had a wide range of interests, and he was able to convincingly support his positions. Brian's talent for computers surfaced in his middle school years and remained a passion throughout his life. He was dedicated to physical fitness and enjoyed playing KU rugby. He was a faithful Kansas City Chiefs fan.
Brian will be remembered for his strong sense of honor and loyalty. He expected much of himself and others. He is loved by family, friends, and those with whom he served. He will be deeply missed.
Memorial services will be held on Monday, January 7, 2013. The graveside service with Military Honors will be held at 10 AM at Leavenworth National Cemetery, 150 Muncie Rd, Leavenworth, KS 66048. A Memorial service to celebrate Brian's life will be held at 2 PM at St. Thomas Episcopal Church, 12251 Antioch, Overland Park, KS. A reception will be held at the church immediately following the service. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in memory of Brian Carman to The Wounded Warrior Project, 4899 Belfort Rd, Jacksonville, FL 32256, or at www.woundedwarriorproject.org. Memories of Brian and condolences for the family may be left at www.mtmoriah-freeman.com.

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January 25, 2014

Jenna Turnipseed

“There are many people in the military with whom I have shared my life and will never forget…….The closet relationship of all though, was a guy by the name of Carmen. We met because he was friends with one of my roommates. They had worked at the same compound. He turned into my boxing coach and then, eventually my tutor. We both took classes, and even though we both had other military goals, we would yell at the other person for considering doing anything other than finish their degree first. Carmen was the only person I ever really had meaningful conversations with. We could talk about education and politics. He taught me about the stock market and I managed to crack his nose one day in the ring (probably only because he had already gotten it cracked in a fight a few weeks earlier, but I still like to take credit for it). He reminded me that I could anything; and that all I had to do was try.”

-The above is an excerpt from “To Serve My Country”, a book that could not have been written and published, without the help of Brain's encouragement.

January 1, 2014

Jay Golden

Brian was the first person I met upon joining Boy Scout Troop 324, Oxford Middle School. He was fun to be around, both in scouting and at BVNW. From one Eagle Scout to another, you are missed, Brian.

January 19, 2013

Meghan Moberly

Carman,
It's been a while since we last saw each other. I just learned you've left us... I have so many great memories that include you over the years. You will be missed Brian.

January 18, 2013

Helen Macdonald

Still thinking and praying that you are surrounded by Gods angels during your time of grief and loss. Hugs to all and the vision of a more peaceful time for all who grieve.

January 16, 2013

Christine O'Brien

Susan,
I am so sorry for your loss. May you and your family find some peace and healing in memories of your beloved son.

January 15, 2013

Barbara, Doug and Jeff (Spahr) Wischropp

Susan, Jerry and Will, I just heard this devastating news. Our deepest and heartfelt sympathy and condolences. I pray for God's peace and love for Brian, you and all of his family and friends.

January 12, 2013

Kevin Mcquain

Our condolences and prayers to your Family. My Daughter counted Brian as one of her best friends and will miss him terribly. His light will shine on in the hearts of all who loved him.
Kevin J. McQuain

January 11, 2013

Jerry and Family: Words cannot express what I feel for your loss. You have my deepest sympathies. Doug Jones

January 10, 2013

Suzanne & Gary Chawk

Gerald, Susan & Will, we are so very sorry for your loss of Brian. There are not any words to describe a tragedy such as this and in particular for such a wonderful young man. This world has lost an unbelievable human being and we pray for you and the healing of your wounds.

God bless you...

January 9, 2013

Susan I'm so sorry for your loss - I can't imagine. I'm praying for your family. Nancy Beverage

January 8, 2013

Jerry and Susan, My thoughts are with you. I was stunned when Ruby told me today. Susan Welsh

January 8, 2013

Nancy Tillmon

Jerry & Family,

I offer my deepest condolences for your loss. I pray you find comfort in each other and I will keep you in my prayers.

January 8, 2013

Ruby Banks

To Jerry & Susan - My heart is so heavy for your loss right now. Jerry, you and I have spent many years talking about the happiness & joy our sons have brought us. My family and I send our deepest heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

January 7, 2013

David McKinney

I had the pleasure of getting to know Brian through the Masonic fraternity. I knew Brian to be eager, patience, and very thoughtful. He will be missed by the friends he had at the Lodge. He will be remembered fondly.

January 7, 2013

Jo Cress

Susan and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I pray your faith and the love and prayers of your family and friends will sustain you in this time of such sorrow.

January 7, 2013

You brought joy to everyone who knew you.We all loved you so much. Peace be with you and all the Carmen family.
Scott Volkmer Bella Vista Arkansas

January 7, 2013

Bailie Bickford

You always knew how to make me smile.You will be greatly Missed my friend. My thoughts an prayers go out to your loving family.
-Nugget

January 7, 2013

Amy Randolph

Jerry, Susan and Will, I am so deeply sorry for your loss. I know that Brian is now in God's hands and at peace. The Carman family is in my prayers. Sending my love your way. xoxo

January 6, 2013

Wendy Carman

No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. My deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.

January 6, 2013

Pamela Carman

Uncle Gerald, Aunt Susan and Will,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Words can never grasp my sorrow. Just know that Brian has found peace and will always live in our hearts and memories.
I love you,
Pamela

January 5, 2013

Susan, Jerry and Will,
We are truly sorry to hear of your loss.
You are in our thoughts are prayers.

Joel, Annette and Bryan Fish

January 5, 2013

Al, Diane, Carly Ivan and Lindsey and Justin Gross

Susan, Jerry and Will,
We have been truely blessed to have Brian as a member of our family. He will be greatly missed. You all are in our prayers.

January 5, 2013

Mike and Donna Hamlet

Prayers go up for all the family and friends, may God hold you close during this time of sorrow.

January 5, 2013

Natalie Perez

Uncle Gerald, Aunt Susan and Will,
Words can not express how sorry I am. Marty and I are thinking of all of you in this difficult time.
We love you!

January 5, 2013

Lisa Sullivan

Uncle Gerald, Aunt Susan and Will I am so sorry about the loss of Brian. Cullen and I have been praying for you guys everyday. We love you guys and are truly so sorry.

January 5, 2013

On behalf of the entire faculty and staff of the KU School of Public Affairs and Administration wish to extend our condolences to Brian's family. We very much enjoyed having him in our classes at the Edwards Campus and will miss his presence.

Marilu Goodyear, Director
School of Public Affairs and Administration
University of Kansas

January 5, 2013

Philip, Sonya & Ian Hubbard

Susan and Jerry, We were truly sorry to learn of Brian's passing. You are in our hearts and prayers, but please let us know if we can help in any other way. And may God comfort you and lift you up in this difficult time.

January 5, 2013

Jerry, Susan and Will,
Deepest condolences from myself and everyone in your Troop 257 family. We're holding you in our prayers during this very difficult time.

Sincerely,
Brian Miles

January 4, 2013

Dan and Jennie Stolper

Susan, Jerry and Will,

We're so sorry to learn of Brian's passing. We remember him very fondly and are thinking of you now. With our sincere condolences.

January 4, 2013

Cindi and Jeff Morris

Susan, Jerry and Will,
Our hearts are breaking for you. We pray that Brian is at peace.

January 4, 2013

Margaret Herndon

Brad, ben, erin and I are so sorry for your loss. So many wonderful childhood memories to keep brian in our hearts.

January 4, 2013

Maril Crabtree

Susan, sending healing thoughts - so sorry for your loss.

January 4, 2013

Mary Jane Pfuetze

Susan and Jerry. I am so very sorry for your loss. Brian accomplished so much in his life. I'm sure you are truly proud of him. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything I can do for you please let me know.

January 4, 2013

Philip Ozorkiewicz

He was a true soldier and an even better man. Those are both tough to find these days and he encompassed both. One heck of a rugby player and teammate.

January 4, 2013

Dear Susan, Jerry and Will,
My deep condolences for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Cathy Anderson

January 4, 2013

Kansas Jayhawks Rugby Football Club

Words cannot describe the kind of teammate Brian was on the rugby field. We all called him "Sarge," and he certainly had that presence about him that demanded respect and hard work from all of us on the team. But he was also so energetic and easy going, and a blast to be around. To all of the members of his family and friends, the Kansas Jayhawks Rugby Football Club sends its sincere condolences, thoughts, and prayers with you at this time.

January 4, 2013

Shelly Doucet

Susan, Jerry and family, we are so sorry for this tragic loss, and are keeping you in our prayers and thoughts.

January 4, 2013

Jonathan Knapp

I am sorry for your loss.

January 4, 2013

Joseph Arnold

I am so sorry for your loss. I served with Brian in the Kansas Army National Guard and overseas in Kosovo. I am a better person for knowing him and he will be missed. God Bless your family.

January 4, 2013

Sharon Procaccini

Susan and Family - My prayers are with you. I am so sorry for your loss. Please let me know if I can do anything to help.

January 4, 2013

Bob

I am grateful for the life of Mr. Carman. Thanks to his service and to the service of others in our armed forces, my family and I have been able to lead our lives in freedom and peace.

January 4, 2013

Bill Gintzel

Susan and Jerry, There are no words to express the loss of a child because it is not a natural thing. My prayers and thoughts go to you and your entire family. Barb and I are still in Florida so our hugs will have to wait. Know that we love you all!

January 4, 2013

Kevin Adams

May I express my condolences for your family, loved ones and friends. My daughter had served with Brian In Kosovo and spoke of him highly.

January 4, 2013

Christopher Boyer

A Highly Motivated Strike Hard Soldier!!! He Is Great to Have On the Team!!!

January 3, 2013

Matthew Gerbitz

There are no words to define friendship. It is only found in the actions of one towards another. I would put him in the category of defender of weak, helper to those in need and a seeker of knowledge. Our country will lay to rest one of its finest I have known. Brian, thank you for your help when I had troubles. You shared your home and family and I am forever greatfull.

January 3, 2013

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January 3, 2013

Carol Gay

For the man who taught my daughter to love, feel love and opened her heart, you will live there forever as well as in the hearts of all who knew you. My thoughts and prayers go out to all whose lives were touched by Brian.

January 3, 2013

Lisa Sullivan

Uncle Gerald, Aunt Susan and Will I am so sorry for the loss of Brian. Cullen and I are praying you for you guys every day. We love you all.

January 3, 2013

Caroline Travis

Susan and Jerry you perhaps won't remember me because I haven't been in church for quite a while, but I remember with gratitude the way you welcomed me from across the aisle when I was new to St. Thomas. You are in my prayers especially at this sad time. Caroline Travis

January 3, 2013

Jon Woodward

To Brian's family and friends:

My deepest condolences.

I was truly saddened to hear of Brian's passing. I raised him as a Master Mason last January and was proud to sponsor him for membership into the Scottish Rite. As a Master, he is entitled to all Masonic honors.

Jon Woodward, PWM, 33rd

January 3, 2013

Sherry Blaser

May God's healing light surround you, Susan, and your entire family during this time of loss and grief.

January 3, 2013

Shirley Collins

Susan, I cannot begin to imagine how you feel. However, I can only provide my loving support as you move through this time of your lives. If there is anything I can do that would ease some of your pain, please know that I am available. I did not know Brian but I do know that you gave him all that you had and that is why he is remembered as such a wonderful presence today by all that knew him. Shirley Collins (Overland Park, KS)

January 3, 2013

Kimberly Paul

Susan and Family. I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my prayers.

January 3, 2013

Leah Swindle

Susan, Jerry and Will-
You all have been my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I am deeply sorry for your loss

January 3, 2013

Warren and Marianne Hamer

Susan, Jerry and Will, our hearts grieve with you at this time. Know that we love you. You are held up in our prayers.

January 3, 2013

Jan Abbey

My deepest sympathy goes out to Brian's family and friends. All of you are in my prayers for comfort and healing.

January 3, 2013

Kayla Adams

I met Brian during our deployment to Kosovo. You could always find a crew of us on the volleyball courts passing the time. He kept my spirits high that year with his amazing personality and knack for making people smile. I am blessed to have met him. My thoughts and prayers go to his family and friends.

January 2, 2013

Lacey Elliston

Although I did not know Brian for very long, he quickly became one of my best friends. He was a good man and the best gym buddy anyone could ask for, I will miss him a great deal. My deepest condolences to his family and the many friends he had made along the way. You will forever be in my heart.

January 2, 2013

Kelly Seager

I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

January 2, 2013

The last time we saw Brian was Christmas night, we watched "Aliens" (which both the guys thought was the perfect Xmas movie) and had a great time-as we always did hanging out with Brian & Lindsey. Even though at first Justin wanted to not like the guy dating his little sister, it was impossible not to like Brian. We thought we'd have many more times to get together and never imagined that night would be the last time we'd see him. He made Lindsey so very happy. Our condolences to Brian's parents, brother, family and friends, we'll miss him very much and our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

~Lisa & Justin Ferguson

January 2, 2013

Australian Soldiers

"They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old;
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning
We will remember them." BP Australia

January 2, 2013

Tom Strouse

It was my Honor to have served with Brian in Kosovo and Iraq. He was well liked, a great soldier, and will be truely missed. My families prayers in this sad time to Brians family.

January 2, 2013

Kelly Floyd

My heart breaks for Brian's family and close friends. Brian will be missed greatly.

January 2, 2013

Mike L

My brother Donkers served with him in Iraq. My condolences to you and your family

January 2, 2013

Melissa Diamond

May you rest in peace now Brian. Our heartfelt thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and all of your friends who loved you so dearly. Mahalo, the Diamond Family (sister of Bruce McFarlane)

January 2, 2013

Shawn LeHotta

To Brian's friends and family. My heart goes out to you. Brian was one of my Soldiers. More than that he was a very good friend that will truly be missed. I'm so sorry for your lose.

January 2, 2013

It was heart wrenching to hear the news of his passing. I too service with Brian (SPC Carman) at home and on deployment. About 8 year ago Brian was a key player/joker in my bachelor party at the restaurant he managed in Manhattan. A lot of fun and laughs! Brian you will be missed greatly and we 'Band-of-Brothers' will meet on the other side at "Fiddlers Green" before we ride!!! My heart goes out the family!
V/R
SFC (DS) Bartlett, Keith

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January 2, 2013

Sean O'Neill

I met him once, and we talked on the internet. I always wanted to know him better. I'm so sorry.

January 2, 2013

Heather & Bob Sommer

Susan and Jerry, we are deeply saddened to learn of Brian's passing. Our most heartfelt sympathies are extended to you, Will, and all your family.

January 2, 2013

Angela Shelton

I thank you Brain for keeping our country safe. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family. God will hold you and keep you because you are his child.

January 2, 2013

Walk your path in peace my friend.

January 2, 2013

Cherie Cathlina

Sending love, light, peace and comfort to your family.

January 1, 2013

I served with Brian. He was a great soldier and he will be missed. You and the family are in our prayers. God's peace be with you all during this time.

SSG David Mundy

January 1, 2013

hal johnson

for those who knew brian you are blessed may his pain be lifted and his soul be free you can stand down solider your watch is done .sgt hal johnson ret

January 1, 2013

Dan Wright

On the day I met Brian I knew I found a truely good soldier which later became a great friend. I will sincerely miss Brian and my prayers go out to his family.

January 1, 2013

Angi Sierra

I didn't know Brian very well other than the get-together's at Sean's house for LAN parties. I'm very sorry for his family's loss and offer them my prayers and condolences.

January 1, 2013

Mandy Unruh

Brian was a great friend and someone I could always count on. You will be greatly missed.

January 1, 2013

Mike Jenson

Susan, Jerry and family, I am so sorry for your loss. We are praying for your family.

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