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Carl Missal Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 16, 2017.

Carl John Missal returned home to our Lord on May 15, 2017, surrounded by his loving family. He was born July 31, 1938 in Kingston, Pennsylvania, the son of the late Dorothy and Zigmund Matchak Missal. Carl is survived by his wife of 56 years, Patricia Stile Missal. They moved to Oakdale, Connecticut from Pennsylvania in 1965. Carl is also survived by his son Karl and wife Barb of Hebron, his daughter Pamela of Columbia, his son Erik and wife Kathy of Woolwich, Maine, and his son Sean and wife Brande of Southington. He was very proud of all his children both for who they had become and what they had accomplished. Carl was also very proud of his four grandsons, Jake and Connor of Hebron, and Rory and Dylan of Southington. He enjoyed attending their many sporting events including many lacrosse, soccer, football and basketball games and cross country and track meets. As an educator, he was delighted with their academic accomplishments as well. He also is survived by his brother, Donald and wife Gail, brother, David and wife Mary from Pennsylvania, and by his brother and sister-in-law, Kathy and Rick Stile (Florida) and families.

Carl served in the United States Navy for four years aboard the USS Robert K. Huntington (the "Bouncing Bobby K"), after which he graduated from Wilkes College with a degree in education. He later completed a 6th year degree at Eastern Connecticut State University and the University of Hartford. Carl was employed as an educator in the Groton school district for 29 years.

Carl loved being involved in helping on family projects such as completing their log cabin Maine and building porches, rock walls and decks for his children. He and Patsy summered in Phippsburg, Maine after their retirement, and since 1960, have visited their fishing cabin on the Susquehanna River in Sugar Run, Pennsylvania. Besides the love he held for his family, Carl also loved his dogs, Molly, Cammie, Abbey and Bailey (some of whom are with him now at the "Rainbow Bridge") and his grand-doggies, Marley, Stegmaier, Gibbons, Cali and Banx.

A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Monday, May 22 at 11:00 a.m. at Our Lady of the Lakes Church in Oakdale. Calling hours will precede the mass, from 9:30 a.m. – 11:00 a.m. at Our Lady of the Lakes. The family invites friends and family to a luncheon afterward in the church hall. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the: Connecticut Humane Society, 169 Old Colchester Road, Quaker Hill, CT 06375.

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June 20, 2017

Maggie Day

Dear Pat and family,
My sincere condolences upon the passing of Carl.I worked with him in Groton at the C Barnum school.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Maggie Day

May 22, 2017

Joanne Horelick

thoughts and prayers are with the family. Mr. Missal was such a caring man, and always took time out of his day to say hello or chat with my kids. He will be missed by so many.

May 22, 2017

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Linda Pelchat Goodall

My words can't express my sadness for The Missal family! My heart is so heavy! I will never forget growing up with Pa Missal and the rest of you guys!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you all!!! Hugs!!

May 20, 2017

Gerry Missal

Although we had not seen each other for many years, my thoughts and prayers are with your family. I had always admired Carl's accomplishments. Your cousin,
Gerry Missal
Watertown, MA

May 19, 2017

Chuck and Gwen Johnston

We are so sorry to hear about Carl's passing. our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

May 19, 2017

Michael and Shawna Hannan

Erik and family,

So sorry to read of your loss. All thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

May 18, 2017

David Curtis

Pat, we will miss Carl and our thoughts and love are with you. Your neighbors in Phippsburg, Maine, David and Ed.

May 18, 2017

1 Thessalonians 4:13-14 - AKJV

...But, I would not have you to be ignorant, brothers, concerning those who are asleep, that you sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so those also that sleep in Jesus will God bring with him.

Sean, may these words give you and your family peace in this time of grief.

Dianne Knight-Finsecure

May 18, 2017

Laura Carchidi

Pam, I am so sorry to hear this very sad news. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.

May 17, 2017

Pat and I are so sorry for this loss your family is feeling. Our love to you all.
Deb Baldino

May 17, 2017

Betsy Good

Sean, I'm so very sorry for your loss. Your Dad sounds like an amazing man. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Betsy Good

May 17, 2017

Very sorry for your loss. He will be missed.

Love,

Pat and Dee Dee Phalon

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Our Lady of the Lakes

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Mass of Christian Burial

11:00 a.m.

Our Lady of the Lakes Church

Oakdale, CT

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