1944
2013
Lakewood – CARL BEDROCK died Sunday, April 21, 2013 at home. He was 69.
Born in Newark, he resided in Perth Amboy before moving to Lakewood 10 years ago.
Prior to retiring, he was an iron worker for a hall in Perth Amboy, where he worked for most of his life. Mr. Bedrock was an avid Rangers and Yankees fan.
He was predeceased by his father, Jacob in 1982 and by his brother, Alan in 1970.
Surviving is his loving fiancée, Mary Ann DeGorgue; his mother, Rita L Bedrock (nee Palumbo); a brother, Martin Bedrock and his wife Marcia of Knox, IN; 2 sisters: Candace Sussman and her husband Marty of New Castle, DE and Beverly Hartman and her husband Michael of Bradentown, FL; 3 nephews: Marcus (Rachel) & Travis Holliday and Joel Hartman; a niece, Leslie (Ryan) Baker; a great-niece: Ashton Holliday; 4 great-nephews: Jonas & Thomas Holliday, Lucas Hartman and Maxwell Martin Baker.
Graveside services will be held on Thursday at 1PM at King Solomon Memorial Park, Clifton, under the direction of D'Elia Funeral Home, Rte. 70 & Vermont Ave., Lakewood. For more information, or to post a tribute online, please visit www.deliafuneralhome.com.
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April 25, 2013
My condolences to the Family and Friends of Carl. I knew Carl from Woodbridge High School (Class of '61) and shared classes and laughs with him. It's sad to lose someone at a age when most look forward to enjoying the years ahead after working and raising a family. My sympathy to all. Rest in peace, Carl.
John Lesko Class of WHS '61
April 24, 2013
RitaLu, Matt & Ryan Cann-Donovan
My cousin Carl was a wonderful, tender,loving,compassionate and caring man. He was always helping others and so kind to me. I know I am not alone in saying he will truly be missed and the world was an amazing and better place with him in it. Until we meet again glorious and loving memories of you will remain with me.
April 24, 2013
Carl and I worked togeher as ironworkers and we had baseball in common. Soon our relaionship grew and he he learned I was an umpire. I got him an application. He did the rest and by that, I mean, he passed the written and mechanical tests and started a career as a high school official. Our relationship stayed strong more than 40 years. I moved to Las Vegas and we always had time for a call, sometimes even weekly. I got to know his family; he got to know mine, even though families were never formally introduced. So, I share your loss.
Ed Halifko
April 24, 2013
jerry smith
Carl this is your favorite baseball coach Also the one you shared your jokes with and some very nice pictures. You'll be missed as both a friend and as an umpire. Have fun in your next life and loosen up and call the corners. Jerry Smith
April 24, 2013
Vito Jaskolka
My condolences to the Bedrock family. Carl and I graduated from Woodbridge High School, Class of 1961. We also played together on the high school baseball team and were in a few classes together. I have many fond memories of his humorous side. Being an electrician by trade, I saw Carl on a few construction jobs through the years. He still had a great sense of humor during that time as well. I know he'll be greatly missed. Rest in peace, Carl!
Your high school buddy, Vito Jaskolka
April 24, 2013
Rita, Candace, Beverly and Martin,
I am so very sorry to hear about Carl's passing. Too young, too young. I will always remember him as he was when we were all children in Fords. He was a good guy, always a friend. Mom does not have a computer to respond here but speaking for her, I am sure she will miss his surprise visits. He was such a good conversationalist and kept her entertained. Mom sends sends her condolences as well.
I will try to get to see you while you are all together here in New Jersey.
Lots of love,
Gloria
April 24, 2013
Deepest condolences the Bedrock family, may fond memories of Carl bring joy in this time of sadness. Draw close to God and he will draw close to you.
April 24, 2013
Bud deGorgue
I met Carl several years ago and we maintained contact via telephone and e-mail and I will miss his wit and his caring for others more than he cared for himself. He entered my sister's life a few years ago and Carl cared for Mary Ann and loved her unconditionally.
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April 24, 2013
John Lynam
R.I.P. Carl. Carl joined our organization in the mid-80's & he was well liked by all of his fellow umpires. Being a Yankee & Rangers fan too, I would always see Carl wearing his Ranger jacket with pride. Your in a better place Carl. God bless you & your family & love one's.
April 24, 2013
Sandy & Janis Ozolins
We have known Carl, and the entire Bedrock family, for over 35 years. Carl had a unique sense of humor and always enjoyed a hearty discussion, whatever the topic! We shall treasure all the wonderful memories of times spent with him over the years. Our hearts break for Mary Ann, Rita and the entire Bedrock family. The heavenly baseball team now has a new umpire.
April 24, 2013
John Lynam
R.I.P Carl
I'vr known Carl through his membership wIth our organization - New Jersey State Federation of Umpire. He will be sorely missed by his many fellow umpires.
Being a fan of the Rangers & Yankees too, he wore his Ranger jacket with pride.
God bless you Carl & your love one's
April 23, 2013
Gary de Gorgue
First impressions; lasting impressions—Carl Bedrock
Carl loves Mam and Mam loves Carl. Mam (Mary Ann) is my big sister and Carl Bedrock loved her for better and for worse, in sickness and in health and in a way that transcends his passing and defines what love looks like.
Every family has its moments of sadness and it was during one of ours that I first met Carl Bedrock. I had just given a eulogy for a family member that I deeply loved and at the end I became very embarrassed because I began to cry as I stepped away from the podium. Carl positioned himself to conceal me from the mourners and preserved my dignity. That was my first, yet only one, of my lasting impressions of Carl.
Strong, generous, intuitive, intelligent, humble, persistent, loyal, authentic, accepting, sincere—these are my lasting impressions of Carl Bedrock. Carl is irreplaceable and my sadness must pale in comparison to that of his mother Rita, his brother, his sisters, his nephews, niece, great niece, great nephews and my wonderful sister Mam.
Sometimes tragedy and sorrow appear on a grand scale like last week in Boston. And every time these tragedies occur there are selfless individuals that help or give to those in distress. These individuals instantaneously embrace one path of action, they just seem to know that it's time to focus on others because it's the right action. That's the type of person Carl was.
He was someone to appreciate as well as emulate. Carl Bedrock was truly a righteous man and his memory will always bring me comfort and I hope it does the same for all who knew him.
Sincerely,
Gary de Gorgue
April 23, 2013
rona&steve schmidt
RIP you will be missed but not forgotten.....cousins steve and rona
April 23, 2013
Andy Rios
I worked Softball and Soccer Games with Carl and they were enjoyable.Carl was an upbeat person,and he will be miss by all of us.He was the kind of person that made me fell lucky to had known him.When ever I work a game with him I left in a better mood on my ride home,thinking of some small funny thing he might had done during the game.RIP Carl,My prayers go out to you and your Family and Friends
April 23, 2013
Craig Yetman
Carl worked several of my son's high school games 15 years ago. Could always count on a fairly called game.
RIP, Carl
April 23, 2013
Rich Cusumano
I'm going to miss my long time Umpire partner. I always enjoyed working with Carl. I will deeply miss my good friend.
April 23, 2013
Rosario Family
Carl was a unique individual who loved the game of baseball and his cars. My last game with Carl this year was a great experience regardless how long I've been a baseball offical I was still able to learn from Carl. He will be missed and my heart goes out to all his Family members with deepest condolences.
April 23, 2013
Kenneth Craddox
Carl was a wonderful man. He umpired many games I played in and it was always a pleasure talking to him between innings. He was a tru joy and will be missed. To the family we are praying for you.
April 22, 2013
Bill Cochrane
Carl worked for me as an umpire in The Greater Middlesex Conference for over 10 years. He was a reliable and professional official and will be sorely missed by me and his fellow umpires. Sincere condolences to his family and loved ones.
April 22, 2013
thomas stasik
Umpired many baseball games with Carl and we developed a great working relationship over the years. The news of his passing was stunning and reminds us all that we are all human so enjoy everyday!! Every game that I do will remind me of Carl. He will be dearly missed by many umpires but not I am sure as by his family. My Condolences and sympathies on Carl's passing but his memory will live on forever.
Tom Stasik [email protected]
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