Edward Peter Kray

1969 - 2014

Edward Peter Kray obituary, 1969-2014, Ankeny, IA

BORN

1969

DIED

2014

FUNERAL HOME

Ankeny Funeral Home and Crematory

1510 West First Street

Ankeny, Iowa

Edward Kray Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 22, 2014.

Edward Peter Kray, 45, of Ankeny, went to be with his Lord surrounded by his family on Friday, March 21, 2014 at Mercy Hospice in Johnston of brain cancer. Funeral services will be Monday, March 24, 2014 at 1:30 PM at Prairie Ridge Church, 825 NW 36th St, Ankeny. A visitation will be held on Sunday, March 23, 2014 from 6 – 8 PM at Ankeny Funeral Home, 1510 W 1st St.

Ed was born on February 12, 1969 in Minneapolis; the son of Donald and Joyce Edson Kray. He graduated from St. Bernard's High School in St. Paul and University of Minnesota in Environmental Sciences. Ed married Jana Hoksbergen on July 31, 1993 and they later divorced. To this union, he was blessed with two daughters, Kaitlyn and Carleigh, whom he adored. Ed worked for the city of Ames as an Engineering Technician for the past twelve years. He grew fond of the residents of Ames who brought him treats while he was working.

Ed enjoyed the outdoors and especially fishing. He was a huge Minnesota Gophers fan and a converted Iowa State Cyclone fan. Ed loved sports and especially loved working with his daughters, tirelessly pitching balls to them so they could perfect their hitting skills. With a booming laugh, Ed was a rough and tough Teddy Bear with a heart of gold. He was an excellent cook who enjoyed grilling and was a member of Prairie Ridge Church in Ankeny. Many friends will greatly miss "Big Ed."

Ed is survived by his daughters, Kaitlyn Kray and Carleigh Kray, both of Ankeny; his parents, Don and Joyce Kray of St. Paul; his former wife, Jana Kray, and her parents, Ralph and Lois Hoksbergen, all of Ankeny; brothers, Glenn (Gina) Kray of St. Paul, David (Cathy) Kray of Roseville, MN and Thomas Kray of St. Paul; a sister, Lori (David) Stafford of Forest Lake, MN; a brother-in-law, Randy (Kallie) Hoksbergen of Ankeny; a sister-in-law, Laura (Brad) Hickman of Phoenix; 18 nieces and nephews; a great-niece; uncles, Daniel (JoAnn) Edson of Grand Marais, MN and David (Shari) Edson of Maplewood, MN; aunts, Joan (Jerome) Pieper of Norwood, MN, Gale Nelson of Woodbury, MN, Linda (Dallas) Schute of New Brighton, MN; and many cousins. He was preceded in death by his grandparents, Edward and Margaret Kray and George and Marie Edson; and his aunt and uncle, Rita and Robert Waste.

As a show of sympathy, memorial contributions should be directed to the family to be used for Ed's daughter's education. On-line condolences may be expressed at www.AnkenyFuneralHome.com.

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March 25, 2014

Todd Larson

Having Ed as a friend brought many fond memories I will always cherish. Sorry for his passing, he will now look over us peacefully from above.

March 25, 2014

Doug Clement

The entire CMT staff would like to extend our deepest sympathies to the Kray family. Ed will be missed by both his friends and colleagues, may we all remember him as we push on.

March 24, 2014

Diane Wilhelm-Johnson

I am very sad to hear of Ed's passing, and I wish to extend my most sincere sympathy to his daughters and family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I had the good fortune of working with Ed at the City of Ames.

March 24, 2014

Marty Cavegn

Ed was full of life in all he did from football, to scouts to his rumbling laugh. Deepest sympathy to the entire family and all his friends.

March 23, 2014

Rick Racine

Our prayers are with his family. It is so hard to believe. We were close friends in high school. Ed's nick name was "Big Dog". He was a great guy and will be missed.

March 23, 2014

Lisa Cullins

I was so sad to hear this. Our prayers go out to the family. Ed always cheered all the girls on in softball. He will be missed by alot of people.
Matt,Lisa,Logan and KC

March 23, 2014

Tracy Schmitz (Goar)

I am so sad to hear this news. Ed was a close high school friend and I remember his "hearty" laugh, lots of great memories. My sympathies to his entire family.

March 23, 2014

Annette Thompson

Ed was a great coworker. He was devoted to doing everything to the best of his ability. There was never any doubt how devoted he was to his daughters and how much he loved them. He was a giant of a man and a born leader. We will all miss him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.

March 22, 2014

Debi Craven

I've known Ed for several years since my work at the Iowa DOT and his at the City of Ames intertwined. I hope this song provides you with comfort. I listen to it quite often. My thoughts are with all of you. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=omM9BMOkiSc Dancing in Heaven.

March 22, 2014

Duane Hassebrock

Ed was a great guy to work with. I considered him my friend. He will be greatly missed. Prayers to all the family and friends. God Bless

March 22, 2014

Justin Clausen

Ed was a big reason I ended up at the City of Ames. Being able to work with him over past few years has been a pleasure and an honor. His commitment to his work and to his family was second to none. I am a better man for being able to work along side him and a better father from watching his tireless devotion to his girls. I will miss my co-worker, my brother, my friend. I pray that the Lord ease your sorrow now and in the time to come.
Justin and Laura Clausen

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