Emily Sue Bristow

1991 - 2014

Emily Sue Bristow obituary, 1991-2014, Parker, CO

BORN

1991

DIED

2014

FUNERAL HOME

Olinger Andrews Caldwell Gibson Chapel

407 Jerry Street

Castle Rock, Colorado

Emily Bristow Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 7, 2014.

Emily Sue Porter was gifted to us from God on February 22, 1991. She was born in Denver, Colorado at St. Joseph Hospital. She was the first girl in a long line of Porter boys. Emily's big brother Wesley Porter was born July 2nd, 1989. Emily's baby brother Lucas Porter was born May 6th, 1993. We her parents, Michael and Shelley Porter, felt we were the most blessed people in the world.
Emily had a full and happy 23 years. She lived her life boldly and loved stronger than anyone we know. Emily was a great student and was involved with many activities. She participated in 4H all through her childhood. Emily was gifted with a beautiful voice and sang in many programs. In her high school years she was busy with track, student council and cheerleading. We loved to watch her perform. Her favorite thing was long horse rides with her friends.
After high school, Emily felt the wind at her back and the open spaces calling. She moved to Laramie, Wyoming to start College. Emily spent a little less than a year in Wyoming when she felt those winds again and moved to Greeley, CO to attend The University of Northern Colorado. Emily's dream was to be a first grade teacher. She loved children and frequently worked as a nanny.
During her travels she met a handsome cowboy from Cheyenne who swept her off her feet. He bravely asked our blessing to marry Emily. We saw how happy he made her and could only say yes. Emily was married in Cheyenne, WY at the age of 20 to Tyler Bristow. They lived in Cheyenne for the next 2 years. Emily loved Tyler and his family very much. Emily worked in a fabric store and became active with Special Olympics.
The last 3 months of Emily's young life she spent in Cedar Rapids, Iowa. Emily's grandmother was in failing health and Emily had a heart to go to care for her. Emily was dearly loved by all the Porters and Dubishars in Iowa.
And now the winds have taken Emily to her final residence. She is in heaven where she will live with Jesus for all eternity. We have no doubt she will serve as a mighty angel in Gods army. She will one day greet us with that big smile and contagious laugh. She leaves behind so much of herself in our hearts. She will be missed by so many.
Until we see you again sweet girl. We love you so much.
Daddy and Momma

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April 9, 2014

Kyndra Connor

I know I'm a little late for the book, but I still wanted to say how sorry I am for your loss. Em was such an amazing person - I'm so lucky and grateful that she responded to me, a perfect stranger, for the room I had for rent. I'm pretty sure she saved my life. She was so needed at that time in my life and I will never be able to fully express my gratitude or understand the forces that made it so our paths would cross or how hard it was to say goodbye when she moved back to Colorado. Em felt like a sister to me, we became so close. I would have done anything for her. Thanks for helping me remember that each day is a gift and that, despite all of the awful, it's okay to smile. I'll miss you like crazy Miss Emily.

April 5, 2014

Rawley Polk

Em,
That laugh, the most awesome laugh in the world made the hottest most earliest mornings at the stampede all worth it. Really it made every day worth it. There are so many memories to list but one of the most reminding of days was just before stampede last year. Jess, me, and you were all getting ready for the weekend and trailered the horses over to Casey Jones just to ride. We talked for a while and decided the horses weren't going to ride themselves as jess was already on one and we (you) decided put our back pain aside and saddled up. Really the only reason I knew it would be okay was because you said it would be, then you smiled and laughed. Half the day went by as the drill team practices and we chuckled on the sidelines and cracked jokes, and of course talked about how awesome our weekend was going to be; which by this point we were so thirsty anything would've done just fine, and so sunburned, well, we didn't even have words for that. You looked at me and just said "well at least we can fix the thirsty part." So instead of just grabbing water out of the truck of course we did what we do anytime were out with jess, looked at eachother and said "SONNNIIICCCCCC." So we hopped in the car and drove up there to get our giant super sized cups and then tots....and then...burgers....and then we forgot we were supposed to take jess a drink back, which of course we laughed about.... on the way back we talked about our backs and how much they were now going to hurt all weekend, and you turned to me and said, just as you always did "we can do all things through him that gives us strength ya know." I miss that emmy. And the stampede "em"mories, goodness me so so many but I will hold those close to my heart and you too; forever and ever...and probably an eternity after that... and your smile and laugh forever ingrained in my mind with ever step happy lovely "em"ories to last a lifetime :)

April 5, 2014

Krystalin Benedetto

First off I want to give my condolences to the entire Porter/ Bristow family.. I cannot even imagine what you all are going through!! Wow!!!! Emily I don't even know where to start... We met back in the sixth grade you were Spice and I was Pickle... We used to do everything together.. Between track, baseball manager, 4-H, and just being best friends we spent every waking moment together!! 4-H was always a blast we rode horses daily!! I remember one day we are outside sunbathing and fell asleep.. We both woke up looking like little tomatoes especially you with your White skin, and that night we had to go ride the horses and we could barely get our pants on we were so burnt and it hurt so bad!! You being Miss Betty Crocker when we had a project for cooking class and we burnt the popcorn and had a grease fire and covered my parents kitchen in oil... HA HA.. We were hurting and in so much trouble but all we could do is laugh!!! All the times we would play basketball at your house with Nicole and your brothers, or riding the 4 wheelers back and forth to each others houses!! I could seriously go on for days of all the memories we had together. I'll never quite understand why The lord took you so soon. We just have to remember that he has a plan for everyone of us!!! I will for ever cherish every last memory and laugh that we shared!!! To the Porter family, always remember that Emily loved you all very very much! She will be missed by every last person she came in contact with!! I will forever love and miss you Spice!!

April 5, 2014

Katie Roos

To the family who shows the world what unconditional love truly is.

This family has taught me so much about how important it is to have and show love and support from our families. I've been blessed to know this family since I was in the second grade. In high school I became a little closer to Emily and her family because I dated Lucas for about 9 months during my freshman year. I can only imagine how horrifying that was for Emily as the older sister, but she always made me feel loved anyway.

Emily and I were in student council together for a year and one thing I always remembered was how nicely she dressed even on her worst days. You have to look good to feel good and she always looked beautiful. Her smile absolutely lit up any room she walked in to.

We weren't ever on the track team together because her back pain had bothered her enough so she had stopped by the time I joined. I threw in high school though and I distinctly remember her stopping by one day to say hello to some friends and she ended up trying to teach me how to throw discus. I was pretty much unteachable in that event, but she was patient with me anyway and did what she could. It amazes me that someone could show such kindness and patience with anyone she interacts with.

I'm so thankful to have known her and I'm I am so thankful to know her family. My heart is with the Porters.

Love,
Katie

April 5, 2014

Jessie

Posted by Jessie

April 5, 2014

Jessie Noland

Emmy,
Man oh man I don't even know where to begin. We have been through so much together in the 8 years we have been friends and sisters. From boys to trucks to random dance parties and going out dancing and other random shenanigans such as putting on an obnoxious song, rolling down the windows and dancing and singing and not giving a care as to the people looking at us funny. There are the random trips to Walmart in sweat pants and boots, the trip to the NWSS on Martin Luther King day, riding horses and going on random trips in the truck, singing to just about every song that came on the radio. The conversations we would have and we knew we could talk about anything and while we may not agree on everything, we could leave it in the conversation and move on. I miss your laugh and your voice. "Funny how the good ones go too soon but the good lord knows the reasons why I guess. Sometimes the greater plan is kinda hard to understand. Right now it don't make sense, I can't make it all make sense." Emily Sue , we have sang
these words so many times riding around in Silver (my truck) but I honestly
never thought I would be singing them about you. We had many talks about what we were going to do when we decided to grow up and made plans for this summer such as Stampede, hiking and camping, riding horses, bonfires and going dancing to other places we had never been before. You were one of my own personal cheerleaders, along with my other friends, helping me and pushing me to pursue my dreams. When we talked just a week before your passing, I know we said we wouldn't put anything on Facebook because that isn't how we wanted to remember each other, and honestly I still haven't been able to go to your page and read everything because it makes me sad. You are loved by so many Em, and I know you knew that. Being around your family has helped in so many ways, there are just too many to count. The sting of your news still hurts, and I often find myself crying for no reason at a random time. I hope you are at peace Em, I know you are with The Lord. There are not many 23 year olds that spoke of their faith the way you did. I hope you watch over all those hurting, and you guide them through the dark times and rejoice with them in the happy times. I will keep saying our favorite bible verse "I can do all things through Him who strengthens me" to help get through the rough patches. Stampede will not be the same without you Emmy. As I keep telling your parents, Wes, Audrey, little soon-to-be June
Mary-Sue, Lucas and Tyler .... We will get through this together. I love you so
much Emmy Sue and miss you every single day. Rest easy Em, your entry fees have been paid. You are now a princess of the sky.

Mike, Shelley, Wes, Audrey. Louie and Tyler,
You are all in my thoughts and prayer every morning when I get up and every
night before I go to bed. I am here for you guys, you all have been a part of my
life for so long and have become a part of my family. I love you all very much.
We will be together through the good and hard times.

April 5, 2014

Jessie Noland

Emmy,
Man oh man I don't even know where to begin. We have been through so much
together in the 8 years we have been friends and sisters. From boys to trucks to random dance parties and going out dancing and other random shenanigans such as putting on an obnoxious song, rolling down the windows and dancing and singing and not giving a care as to the people looking at us funny. There are the random trips to Walmart in sweat pants and boots, the trip to the NWSS on Martin Luther King day, riding horses and going on random trips in the truck, singing to just about every song that came on the radio. The conversations we would have and we
knew we could talk about anything and while we may not agree on everything, we could leave it in the conversation and move on. I miss your laugh and your voice. "Funny how the good ones go too soon but the good lord knows the reasons why I guess. Sometimes the greater plan is kinda hard to understand. Right now it don't make sense, I can't make it all make sense." Emily Sue , we have sang
these words so many times riding around in Silver (my truck) but I honestly never thought I would be singing them about you. We had many talks about what we were going to do when we decided to grow up and made plans for this summer such as Stampede, hiking and camping, riding horses, bonfires and going dancing to other places we had never been before. You were one of my own personal Cheerleaders, along with my other friends, helping me and pushing me to pursue my dreams. When we talked just a week before your passing, I know we said we wouldn't put anything on Facebook because that isn't how we wanted to remember each other, and honestly I still haven't been able to go to your page and read everything because it makes me sad. You are loved by so many Em, and I know you knew that. Being around your family has helped in so many ways, there are just
too many to count. The sting of your news still hurts, and I often find myself crying for no reason at a random time. I hope you are at peace Em, I know you are with The Lord. There are not many 23 year olds that spoke of their faith the way you did. I hope you watch over all those hurting, and you guide them through
the dark times and rejoice with them in the happy times. I will keep saying our favorite bible verse "I can do all things through Him who strengthens me" to help get through the rough patches. Stampede will not be the same without you Emmy. As I keep telling your parents, Wes, Audrey, little soon-to-be June Mary-Sue, Lucas and Tyler .... We will get through this together. I love you so much Emmy Sue and miss you every single day. Rest easy Em, your entry fees have been paid. You are now a princess of the sky.

Mike, Shelley, Wes, Audrey. Louie and Tyler,
You are all in my thoughts and prayer every morning when I get up and every
night before I go to bed. I am here for you guys, you all have been a part of my life for so long and have become a part of my family. I love you all very much. We will be together through the good and hard times.

Posted by Jessie Noland

April 5, 2014

Allison Howell

Such an infectious laugh and a beautiful smile you have Emily! One thing I remember admiring about you years ago is that when you were talking to someone you made them feel like they were the most important person to you. I was very fortunate to know such a kind person that I looked up to for many years! When we went to stock show together a couple years in a row, you always looked like a country princess! You acted so silly sometimes but you just rocked it with a great amount of confidence (and pink!) I will forever miss your carefree nature and the way you truly loved people! God needed a princess and he knew you were the best one. Rest in paradise em, and much Love to the Porter family!

April 5, 2014

Dear Shelley, Mike, Lucas & Wes,
My heart goes out to you. I know personally how much these messages mean and will mean forever, so I wanted to share my heart with you. My love for your precious Emily grew greatly when I returned to EHS the school year after my precious Jesse went to be with our Lord and Saviour. She and her friend, made a conscious effort of making sure anytime they walked by me during passing periods, there was a sweet hug given, and so very much appreciated and received. They always had such beautiful smiles on there faces, and I can't even tell you how much that helped me get through that most difficult of times. I always found such heart warming joy in seeing her embrace her princess role. Truly a beautiful princess, in her very soul. What I remember making the biggest imprint on my heart, was how very much she loved her little brother Lucas. She was always stopping by the health room to check on him and make sure he was ok. Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers, and that I carry you in my heart. I am so very sorry for this terrible loss. I am here for you if I can help in any way.
May God's Peace be with you. You raised a beautiful, sweet daughter, and we share the longing in our hearts to see them again, on that blessed day.
With heart-felt sympathy,
Ms. Vicki
aka Vicki Kitchens

April 5, 2014

Jessica Nees

I know at a time like this no words will come even close to helping. Your sister was an amazing woman. I wasn't as close to her since she got married as I would have liked to have been or as close as we were in high school. She was such a welcoming person. She always, no matter what was happening had a way of making everyone smile. She was so positive and such a happy person. You couldn't be around her without falling victim to her positive attitude. Her giggles were contagious. I think we spent the most time together during track. That was more of an organized goof off time than actual practice for a sport. I loved when one of us would make a mistake, instead of us feeling down about it Emily would turn it around and all of us would end up rolling with laughter.
For Mrs. Grove's science class we convinced her it was necessary to go to the zoo. The day we went it was pouring rain. It was a terrible day for the zoo but we didn't let that stop us from having one of the best days of our lives. We were soaked from head to toe and ended up doing push ups in every puddle we came across. I can still see the huge smiles we had that whole day.
Lucas, your sister will forever hold a place in my heart. I am so lucky to have gotten to know her and experience the wonderful person that she was.
Please tell me anything I can do to help. I am so sorry for your loss. I know how close you two were. She talked about you all the time and she loved you so so much. That was clear to everyone.

April 5, 2014

Brynn Larson

On this day, Emily and I broke rules by driving to 6 flags (I was still only 16 and wasn't allowed to have passengers haha) then all of our stuff got stolen when we went to the water park and my dad had to come get us. We were caught red handed when he realized we only took one car lol. She was always so full of life and such a joy to be around! Love you girl!!

Posted by Brynn Larson

April 5, 2014

Jessi Gaddis

Psalm 34:17-20 ESV
When the righteous cry for help, the Lord hears and delivers them out of all their troubles. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all. He keeps all his bones; not one of them is broken.

April 5, 2014

Kerry Burek

A letter to Emily:
You were always the one who brightened up everyone's day! You were the true meaning of a princess, absolutely beautiful in side and out! Our friendship had its ups and downs but no matter what we always had each others backs. Thanks for all the memories and great times! I love and miss you! You'll NEVER be forgotten! Well princess you have now found your castle in the sky!!

April 4, 2014

Sindy Dubishar

Dearest Em, Words cannot express the gratitude for being your Aunt Nina. Many of the memories I have of you are related to water. First of many pool dates with the boys where you eagerly tested your bravery skills. Like a turtle needs lessons, lol. Then off to Maui as the most recent. I was nervous as you climbed approx 30' on wet jagged lava rocks, when I knew you were sore. And after joyfully greeting the sky as if to say, "Yes, I did it," "I'm so glad to be up here!" wahoo!! then joyfully jumped back into the deep blue ocean. Meeting turtles the next day was such excitement for you. I think they were just as happy to see you as you were of them. The next day was parasailing day. Even though I couldn't go with you that day, I knew somehow you were taken care of. As it happened a work partner of your Dad's and your high school classmate were on the very same boat as you. Taking pictures of you about 400' high, to send your parents, from the middle of Maui's ocean. How perfect! God's perfections. I know your being taken care of now, too. I am in gratitude for all the perfection! So, thank you for all the love and playfulness you brought here. Please sprinkle some joy back on us, we all need more giggles. All my love to be taken with you on your new journey!

Posted by Sindy Dubishar

April 4, 2014

Jim and Jen Porter

My favorite memory of Ms Em was at our wedding. Her and her whole family really livened up the whole reception. They stayed and closed the place down. That's just how Emily was, no matter where she went, she would brighten the room and her smile was just so contagious.

April 4, 2014

Mona Moore-Bristow

Friday,April 4, 2014

I first met Emily through, Tyler, my son and her husband.He brought her to our apartment and introduced her to me. They both stood there grinning at me like a couple of cheshire cats and I wondered what was so funny. Ty said "Mom, this is Emily", and I smiled and thought OH, that must be it. You see I have a daughter Emily, Tylers sister too. And then he proceeded to tell me the rest of the story. Emilys middle name is Sue :)Well there ya go, my daughters name is also...Emily Sue. What a wonderful surprise. We got a kick out of that and from the moment I met her, I knew she was a great fit in the family. This proved to be absolutely true. She is such a blessing. I say "is" because what she brought to our family will always be with us, until we meet again.
When she moved up to Cheyenne from Greeley, we, my daughter and I went down and helped to pack/load up her things from the house she was in.(The drive down was like trying to follow Mario Andretti-at night!)We got things loaded up in a couple of nights and the last night we had to figure out how to get the mattress and box springs to Cheyenne. Considering we all only had cars, this was a dilemma. Until...Em and I decided it would be good to bring the mattress,roll it up and duck tape it, and stuff it in the back seat of my car. Ha- we did it and it was perfect. Now the box springs..o-kay, take it apart and put it in the trash. MUCH easier said than done, but anyone that knows Emily knows it will be accomplished, one way or another! Armed with hammer, screw driver, saws-all,(Yup)10:00p.m. or later, we are outside banging on the back deck, laughing till our sides hurt and sweating, staples and springs/wires flying. A staple flew and smacked her in the eyebrow, she is laughing and telling me I almost put her eye out, no drama there,so I told her no I didn't, she was supposed to duck. Well you get the idea, of the back and forth laughing and telling each other to shush as it was by now after 10:30 or later. I had a great time, was worn out as she was, but wouldn't trade the time spent with her for anything. For her wedding to Tyler, she showed me the cake topper she wanted, and there was the option for a red haired bride.We got it! She launched herself at me and I got the best hug ever! She taught me so many life lessons, and still is, I pray I can do her justice by being as loving and accepting as she was. She loved being at the farm, walking, playing with the horses, and the neices and nephews, Grandpa & Grandma, canning ect...! She was always on the go, and so happy to take along anyone or everyone. I love this young woman that so enriched out lives and I will always hold her in my heart. She wasn't born to me, but she will always be my daughter. GOD knew best who would love and cherish her best, Mike & Shelley! and who best to be her best friends in childhood, Wes and Lucas. May GOD bless and keep you in His loving arms, to give you peace that surpasses understanding. I love you Sweet Em, thank you for your love given and laughter shared. Till We Meet Again. Mona Moore-Bristow

April 4, 2014

Val Porter

I got so spend the amazing last couple months with her. It was amazing, The love that she had for everything and how she was always smiling. One of my Most favorite memories was the day i got my prom dress. I had tried it on once at my house then was going over to my grandmas for a little bit because she had paid for it. I knew i'd have to try it on and model but I never expected to have alterations done. I had tried it on and Em just had to make sure it was perfect. one of the first things we did was make sure the corset ribbon was right and in the best place, her idea was to put in under the skirt so you couldn't see it, She started to pull of the bottom of all my poof and she got about 3/4 of the way up and then asked "are you wearing shorts or anything under this?" and I was. But we couldnt stop laughing because she could've mooned everyone. What I thought was going to be maybe a half hour turned into three and a half hours. She had to fix the bottom of my dress because it was uneven. When she had it done i was so happy to stand because my legs hurt so much. I love that memory so much because she was just like my older sister making sure everything was perfect. She was always there for me when i needed someone to talk to and we spent hours talking, well she did most of the talking. It was amazing though, the love and joy she shared was amazing. God Bless you Em!! I love you!!

April 4, 2014

Bob & Amy Moore

The first time I saw Emily she and Tyler were in the corral with the horses. I wondered who that little gal with the red gold hair was. He introduced us and she was of course talking about much she loved horses, and even though Jack had a blind eye, she knew he could learn to do anything he was asked to. Always encouraging and always smiling. From there, she moved to Cheyenne to work, and stayed with us nights at the farm for awhile. Such a ray of sunshine. We did so many things together. Going to the farmers market, canning, painting walls. Always busy and always thinking of something new to do.
Emily loved crosses, and had a wall in the living room filled with all different kinds. They are beautiful. She loved the Lord, and trusted Him to always do what is best. I'm so grateful that we had her in our lives. She had a funny way of saying Grrandpa and Grrandma. We will hear it again some day. I'm sure she's busy with the little ones in heaven. We miss her so much, but we know she's with her Saviour, and she's well and happy. So until we meet her again we'll be thankful for the time we had with her, and look forward to hugging her again. She's a wonderful hugger. Mike and Shelley, you raised a beautiful daughter. You taught her to be loving and kind, to not speak ill of others, to encourage and to share her faith. Thank you for sharing her with us. Grrandpa and I love you Em.

April 4, 2014

Emily Sue Allen

Dear Porter Family,

Thank you for sharing your beautiful Emily with the world. She is a wonderful light that will always live on in all of us.

Emily was infectious, her laugh, her smile, her faith, her pride. She gave all of herself, all of the time. She was the true meaning of "a beautiful soul."

Emily and I just understood each other, without words. We just got it. We were so much alike. We laughed and cried together and laughed until we cried. She could always make me feel better and I could help her. Emily taught me how to be fashionably late. I would pick her so we could be somewhere and either her make-up wasn't ready or I needed fixed. We would always be late. HAHA she taught me to just laugh it off because at least we looked good. She was and always will be my baby sister. She loved will all she was and if we can learn just a little bit from her we will all be better people.

I love you all and Emily will forever live as a bright flame in my heart.

Emily Sue

April 4, 2014

Tyler Bristow

I remember the very first time i met Emily, i was at Frontier Days waiting for my friend Colt to show up, which was like waiting for Lucas haha, no offense Lucas. Finally i spot him in the croud but something is weird.. he is getting pulled through the croud by probably the most beautiful girl i had ever seen! She had beautiful red hair that shined almost as bright as the smile she had on her face, and before I knew it she had pulled my friend right past me.... she was on a mission to get a funnel cake and nothing was going to stop her!! When I finally caught up to them I had to pull my friend aside and find out more about this girl! He told me her name was Emily and to "stay away she is here with me!" haha. So I introduced myself and the day went on as planned. We had been walking around the carnival for about an hour or so letting Emily ride the rides while Colt and I watched (Colt because he gets bad motion sickness and me because i dont trust those crazy things). Finally after a few rides Emily had started to beg us to go with her on the rides, to which we were both pretty reluctant to do, but for some unknown reason without any logic I gave in and bought some tickets. The first ride she took me to was the most terrifying ride in the park because it spun around and went upside down and every which way in between! We waited in line for what seemed to be an eternity because I was so nervous, and when it came to be our turn she grabbed my hand with the sweetest softest hand i had ever felt, until she used her grip so i couldnt go anywhere! They strapped us in and closed the gate and got ready to start the ride, I had never been so scared in my life! As soon as the ride started i heard something that i will never forget! The LOUDEST, most amazing laugh that i had ever heard! I opened my eyes, looked to my left and saw her with a huge smile on her bright red face and i couldnt help but laugh hysterically! I forgot all about being on a scary ride! We went on to ride every ride in that park that evening and ended up both of us getting sick to our stomachs from spinning so much. Not long after that Colt gave me her number and told me that we are much better matched than they were, so i started talking to that beautiful girl that had gotten me to come out of my comfort zone and tought me that nothing is too scary if you have someone to help you through the fear. I fell in love with Emily that night at the carnival even though we barely knew each other. i feel like the luckiest man on earth to have gotten to share my life with her and to have her do the same with me, her family, her dreams, and most of all her laughter and love. I love you Emily Sue Bristow, forever and for always!
With all of my love,
Tyler Bristow

March 25, 2014

KathRyn Card

Emily's life was a beautiful quilt,stitched full of love, joy, excitement,wonder,loss and sorrow.The center held the heart of her life, a cross giving her daily reminders of her Lord & Savior, Jesus Christ. Surrounding the cross were the reminders of moments,days, weeks, months and years with her beloved family.She loved them beyond measure, and every memory with them was precious to Em. The fabric of friends filled the squares hugging her family,some bright and loud, while others nearly seemed to fade into the background, but all were meaningful to Sweet Em. Woven among the squares were beautiful flowers, fluffy bunnies, and all of the other small things that Emily took great delight in as she added to her quilt of life. At times the stitches were perfect, showing that life was going well. Other times the stitches were hastily made or formed a crazy line. The quilt was trimmed in love. Em's quilt of life helped make her a beautiful masterpiece of God and each stitch or piece of fabric was part of her journey. To the earthly eye, Emily was taken too soon...before her quilt was completed. But to our heavenly Father, Emily's quilt was a gift ready to be carried to Heaven.She never lost her child-like wonder, and is probably in heaven sewing quilts with the littlest angels, helping them understand how they made a difference in their short time on Earth. Emily touched so many lives that she will live on in other people's quilts. She is part of ours! We mourn the lost of Sweet Em along with you. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, The Card Family

March 16, 2014

Scotty Manzanares

I really feel Re-Awakened by Emily's beautiful service.
I have been reminded again that I am truly surrounded by
the most Awesome Beautiful people on Earth. 
 I am so Thankful And Grateful for all of you.
Shelly, Mike, Wes, Lucas and families, I send you healing love… I love you guys…
   
Thank You Emily, You Are truly Amazing…

Scotty Manzanares

March 13, 2014

Keith & Carol Duner

Words fail at a time like this. Mike and Shelley, please know that you are in our prayers. God bless the Porter family in this difficult time.

March 12, 2014

Wren Craig

I never knew Emily very well; I always knew her younger brother Lucas much better. However, a few months ago, I was on Facebook and I felt compelled to give her an encouraging word. Her response was so grateful and lovely and such a beautiful reflection of her unbelievably happy personality:
"Thank you so so very much for your support and words of encouragement Wren!! I cannot tell you how much I truly appreciate it!!! I just listened to that song and it is beautiful! Thank you for sharing it with me. I am so thankful that God sends me people like you with just the right thing to say at just the right time when I need it! I am trying so hard to trust God with all of this and trust that no matter how things turn out, even if I cant see it at the time, it is all a part of his greater plan for me and is all for the best. I have to be honest though, I cant even describe just how hard it really is for me to do that! I just want things to turn out the way that I want them to so badly that I am having trouble handing it over to the Lord and believing that no matter how it turns out it is for the best and God it taking care of me. Thank you so much for your prayers and caring enough about me to send me such an uplifting message. It really does mean the world to me!!"

Rest in peace, Emily! I'm sorry I didn't know you better and I'm grateful for your sunshine.

March 12, 2014

Mary Porter

There are no words I can write to express my sorrow I am feeling today. My heart hurts for Mike and Shelly. I wish I could be there to say goodbye. It feels like yesterday I was picking Emily up from the airport for her new adventure in Cedar Rapids. I so enjoyed her company anytime I was around her. She was such a happy girl and so positive! It just does no seem real. I will forever keep miss Emily in my thoughts and prayers.

March 11, 2014

We are so saddened with the news of Emily's unexpected passing. Although our memories are not so recent, they remain very close to our hearts...she was always a young lady who knew what she wanted and was so compassionate with all God's creatures. We are thinking of you all as you make this journey into life without your precious girl. Laurie, Kyle & Hope Pavela (WI)

March 11, 2014

Calynne Marken

Its still hard for me to wrap my head around this. Emily was always so bright and bubbly. No matter the situation she always tried to find the silver lining and make people smile. She had a very contagious laugh that would brighten anyone's day. She will be truly missed. God just needed a princess in His wonderful kingdom and He got the very best one! Even though It is hard to have to say goodbye to such a wonderful person, its comforting to know we will see her again in paradise! Love you Em!

March 11, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with ALL of Emily 's family.
Frank & Sarah Ruegsegger

March 11, 2014

Mitch Porter

Emily thank you for giving me the opportunity to get to reconnect with you while you were in Iowa over the last few months. We have shared so many stories filled with laughter at your parents house over the last several days. I realized that I always knew this beautiful young woman that all of these stories filled with laughter were about. You touched my heart in a very short time like will never know. It's time to spread your wings and fly. Love you and miss you always Em. Uncle Mitch.

March 11, 2014

Kayla Robinett

It's breaks my heart knowing you are gone and I pray for your family in this time. Emily and I had some really good times and became very good friends fast. We met in a tanning salon where I worked and like myself she was trying so hard to get a tan which we all know how easy that was for her ;) but from there on out we were friends. One of my favorite things about Emily was how fun she was and could always bring a smile to people. We had this thing where when one of us was upset we would dance it out if words wouldn't help, even if there wasn't any music :) I will hold you in my heart until we meet again. I love you n miss you.

March 11, 2014

Jamie Janicek

Emily,
you were the one person who was there when i needed someone there the most!! I am truely going to miss you from the bottom of my heart! I know that you are in a better place. . . . some day we will be together again laughing and having the time of our lives!! Love you always

Love Jamie

March 11, 2014

Sarah Nading

So sorry for your loss...thinking of you.

March 11, 2014

Debra & Brad Stearns

We're so sorry to hear of your loss Mike and Shelley. May the Lord comfort you at this time as only HE can.

March 11, 2014

Angela Hass

Heartbreaking! My heart is so heavy for you Mike and Shelley. Only the Lord can comfort a loss like this. You are in my prayers!

March 10, 2014

Derek Mason

I went to school with Emily way back when, from kindergarten to the second grade. My deepest sympathies to her family. Rest in peace, Emily! May the Lord carry you up into His loving arms!

March 10, 2014

Tim & Lisa Lindeman

Our prayers are with you, Mike, Shelley and family! How our hearts break to have to say good bye!! How our hearts rejoice knowing this is a temporary "so long" and that salvation is sure through Jesus!! All of you are loved!!

March 10, 2014

Cheryl Bradford

" Beautiful girl full of life and touched the lives of so many....called too soon and will be missed so dearly. Find strength in the Lord during this difficult time. Emily you had a smile that captured my heart not to mention the cutest freckles" XOXO Love you, Mama Marsh (Cheryl Bradford)

March 10, 2014

" Beautiful girl full of life and touched the lives of so many....called too soon and will be missed so dearly. Find strength in the Lord during this difficult time. Emily you had a smile that captured my heart not to mention the cutest freckles" XOXO Love you, Mama Marsh (Cheryl Bradford)

March 10, 2014

mama Jones

May god hold all of you in the palm of his hands thru this time and always.. she was a wonderful young lady who had great moral strength. I had three pleasure of meeting her when i coached her in cheer. She will be missed

March 10, 2014

Casey McMillen

She will be missed by many

March 10, 2014

Alisa Wright

our daughters were in school together, how precious life is. I remember Emily as a wonderful young lady.

March 10, 2014

May you rest in peace, sweet emily

March 10, 2014

Linda Clark

I can't even express how sad and sorry I am for your loss. May your faith sustain you until you see her again. I am praying for all of you.

March 10, 2014

sharissa ferrel

Emily you always had the brightest smile always loved everyone around you. My thoughts and prayers go to you and your family even tho God gained an amazing angel we will never forget you love you Emily

March 10, 2014

Tom and Rhonda HOADLEY

Sorry for your loss,you are in our thoughts and prayers.

March 10, 2014

Maria Caldwell

She makes a beauty angel... We will miss u Emily!

March 9, 2014

Mahlon & Gigi Pettengill

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We know your faith will carry you through this difficult time. Praying for all of you.

March 8, 2014

Julia Miller

We are so very saddened to hear of your loss. Our prayers go out to all of you. You will be in our heats and thoughts. Love, Phil and Julia Miller~Laramie, Wyoming

March 7, 2014

Connie Melsha

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you. Thoughts and prayers to all of you!
God Bless!

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