Fay E. Widholm

1924 - 2016

Fay E. Widholm obituary, 1924-2016, Elmhurst, IL

BORN

1924

DIED

2016

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Fay Widholm Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 25, 2016.

Fay Elnora Lunsford Widholm, 92, of Elmhurst, IL and Naples, FL died Tuesday, October 25, 2016; beloved wife of the late Robert W. Widholm. Born June 8, 1924 in Berea, Kentucky, she was the third child of eight born to Harrison Lunsford and Carrie Jones. She attended McKell High School, graduating as senior class president and voted the friendliest girl in school.

Fay or "Nini", as she was lovingly known to her grandchildren, touched for good the lives of everyone she met. When someone was sad, she would use humor to bring a smile to their face. When someone was lonely she would become their friend. She showed love to everyone and gave generously of her means and herself. Even though Fay had red hair and freckles, she became a hostess for TWA. She also was a hostess (flight attendant) recruiter for 26 years for TWA, and loved helping women become their better selves. Fay was active with Clipped Wings, a service organization for retired hostesses. She enjoyed travel, especially with her pilot husband Bob, and traveled to many countries in Europe and Asia, including one trip to circumnavigate the world. Fay was a wonderful story teller of her lifetime adventures. The family wrote a book about her entitled "Love, Laughter, Travel", three words which describe what her life was all about.

She is survived by her daughter, Barbara Clements and her husband John of Lombard; son, Roger Widholm, and his wife Cheryl of Glen Ellyn; nine grandchildren (Paul Clements, Sharon Sagers, Julie Despain, Tom Clements, Nancy Smith, Peter Clements, Alison Kautz, Kara Walsh, and Laura Switzer); 23 great grandchildren; sisters Wilma Boyd, Joyce Congrove, Patty Congrove; and predeceased by sister Millie Wise, and brothers Orville Lunsford, Jack Lunsford, and William "Jake" Lunsford .

Relatives and friends are invited to visit at Chapel Hill Gardens, 17W201 Roosevelt Road, Oakbrook Terrace on Friday, October 28 from 3:00 to 7:00pm and Saturday, October 29 from 10:00 to 11:00am. Funeral services will follow at 11:00am.

The family would like to thank the staff at Park Place of Elmhurst for their loving care of Fay.

Interment will be in Chapel Hill Gardens following the funeral services.

Memorial contributions may be made in her memory to the American Diabetes Association, 55 E Monroe St #3420, Chicago, IL 60603 or online at https://donations.diabetes.org/site/Donation2?df_id=18806&18806.donation=form1.

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November 12, 2016

Judi Koruba

Just learned of Fay's passing. I always admired Fay as a human being. She
never had a negative word to say. Her aura made you warm and comfortable
and she will be missed. We always need beings like her in the world and
would do well to be like her. My sympathy to all.

October 31, 2016

Vonda Jacobs- Vincent

To the Widholm & Congrove Family,
I was thinking about Fay this summer and wondered if she had came home or if she was still living. Patty, I remember the picture of Fay when she was a Sterdwess.
Patty & Joyce may God's love surround you with his love as you go down
this road that we all must go.
Vonda Lee Jacobs- Vincent Chillicothe, Ohio

October 29, 2016

Frank Spizzirri

Our condolences to the Widholm Family during this time. Fay was a neighbor and a friend. Her smile and love will always be remembered. She enjoyed our visits and always spoke fondly of her family. My daughters Daniella, Francesca and Ariana miss her and pray for her. God bless Fay.

October 28, 2016

Kathryn (Kay) Williams-Sigler

Thankful to have gone with Fay's sister Patty to visit Fay and Bob at their summer home. It was many years ago but a memorable experience to meet this warm and generous
couple who are now reunited. My love and prayers to the family.

October 28, 2016

Jan Spaletto

Fay hired me in 1965 and I am eternally grateful, and will miss her as a friend. I lost my mom two months ago and no matter how happy we are that a parent is now in heaven with loved ones, we are never ready to let go. They leave us with many good memories. God bless your family.

October 27, 2016

Connie Connell

Deepest sympathies to the entire family. She was a lovely lady who carried herself with total style and class throughout her life. She hired me to fly for TWA
In 1965. Both she and Bob were made for one another. God Bless.
Connie Connell

October 27, 2016

John & Beth Schnaubelt

It is terribly sad to loose your Mom ....... but we smile every time we think of her. Memories of her and Bob, and my Mom & Dad, are sure some of my favorites. What great friends ..... what great role models for our formative years. All 4 are together again ...... what a wonderful party it must be.

October 27, 2016

BARBARA Wilcox

We were so sad to hear of Fay's passing, but know she is with her beloved Bob! Our deep sympathy goes out to Roger and Cheryl, and also Barbara and John, and all the kids. I will miss her sunny personality and her kindness. Mostly, I will miss receiving her precious thank you notes, thanking me for my thank you notes after she did something nice for us. Rest in peace Fay. You will be missed!
Love
Barbe and Jim

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