BORN

1944

DIED

2016

FUNERAL HOME

New Britain Memorial-Sagarino Funeral Home

444 Farmington Ave

New Britain, Connecticut

Francis Gentile Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Aug. 1, 2016.

Francis "Fran" "The Captain" "Mayor" Gentile, 72 of Kensington died unexpectedly on Saturday, July 30, 2016. He was born in Hartford, the son of Mary (DeMarco) Gentile and the late Edward Gentile.

Besides his mother, he is survived by his devoted wife, Ellen (Perry) Gentile, his beloved children: daughter Tara Bialek and her husband, TJ Bialek, and son David Gentile and his fiancée Kinga Kostaniak.

He also leaves behind his precious grandchildren: Layna, Hunter and Cade; his sister Donna Gentile and brother Stephen Gentile and his wife, Patricia Gentile; and many nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews, and friends. He will be dearly missed by all who knew him, as he touched the lives of everyone he met. There is no person that met The Captain, that didn't instantly call him a friend.

To briefly describe Fran is nearly impossible as there are no words to fully describe a man that was loved by everyone who knew him. Fran was a model husband and father which was shown through his work ethic, selflessness towards others and unwavering love for his children. He was a true gentleman who inspired everyone he encountered as he was a kind hearted soul with a selfless need to help others.

Fran proudly served with the US Navy and retired from CL&P after 38 years of service. After retirement, Fran took up boating and spending time with his family and friends. He stayed young by swimming daily at the YMCA.

Calling hours will be Thursday, August 4, 2016 from 4:00PM to 7:00 PM at New Britain Memorial Sagarino Funeral Home, 444 Farmington Ave, New Britain. ( Directions Exit 37 off I-84 take a right at the exit, 1 ½ miles on your right.) Funeral services will be Friday, August 5, 2016 at 10:00 AM at St. Paul's Church, 485 Alling Street, Kensington. Burial with military honors to follow at Maple Cemetery, Berlin. In lieu of flowers, donations to be made to St. Jude's Children Hospital. To share a memory with the family, please go to www.newbritainsagarino.com

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November 16, 2016

Carol Notaro

We were saddened to hear of the passing of your mom and now your brother Fran.

August 12, 2016

To Ellen and Family, we were so unbelievably shocked to hear of Frans passing.No words could ever express how sorry we are. Fran was very kind and wonderful to us at the marina. Our love, hugs and prayers to you and all your family. Vicki and Paul Dorothy

August 10, 2016

Diana Gilberto Ward

I'm so sorry for your loss. Fran, Stephen & I were friends at Nathan Hale Junior High... In the same home room... I remember him as a kind, mild manner young gentleman. Thank you for sharing the wonderful gallery of photos. I can see Fran led a life full of close family and friends and loved his grand children. There are some people who hold a special memory in your heart... Fran was one of them.

August 10, 2016

James Parent

Spent two years in the Navy with Fran and his brother Stephen (USS Lookout) I'm truly sorry to hear of his passing.
Two years ago, we were pleased to have Fran and Ellen to our home in Old Lyme for lunch and reminiscing. We knew how much they loved the boat at the marina and were looking forward to more visits.
Unfortunately we were not aware of Fran's passing in time to come to his wake.
Our sincere thoughts and prayers go to the entire Gentile family.
James and Laura Parent

August 7, 2016

Bob Peters

So sorry for your loss. Fran was a great guy who cared about others. He will be missed!

August 6, 2016

Although years and distance have separated the family, the ties that bind are strong. To Mary and all Francis' family I send prayers and love for your sad loss.
Dorothy Ricker

August 6, 2016

Regina (Tranchida) Dery

Dear Entire Gentile Family, My heart is breaking for all of you. Fran and I were GREAT friends during High School and many years later spending time at my parents house in Old Saybrook. I was fortunate to have married a very kind and caring person just as Fran was. I did lose him twenty years ago so I truly empathize with the grief you all are enduring. My prayers are with you all.

August 5, 2016

Ellen and Family,
I'm so very sorry for your Loss.
I remember at our Work Family events, Fran would always include me and love to tell stories about his boat and the work he had done to it with Pride and Passion. He was a very kind man.
God Bless, Timco

August 5, 2016

Raymond DiCenso

My deepest sympathy goes out to the family of Fran. As a company rep., in Labor Relations I spent many years neg. and dealing with Fran. We respected his sincerity, integrity and capability.

August 5, 2016

Judy Ortiz

I am so so sorry Ellen for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and in my prayers.

August 5, 2016

Bob Peters

So sorry to here, Fran was a great man. He was dedicated to make this a better place for everyone. Truly a class act!

August 4, 2016

Rose and Tom Luddy

Tom and I are truly sorry for your loss,,,our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. He was one of a kind...the best kind.
THE LUDDYS ..Tom and Rose Mary.

August 4, 2016

Michelle Forte

I was so very saddened to hear the shocking news . I will be keeping you all in prayer as you go through this sorrowful time.

Michelle Forte

August 4, 2016

Catherine Dixon

Gentile family,
Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. Fran was an exceptional man and he will be truly missed. Our thoughts are with you all.

love,
Catherine and Colton

August 4, 2016

Dennis Fawk

I am totally unprepared for this, fumbling for words. I had the honor of working with Fran at CL&P. he was my guardian when I climbed. together we wired his house in Kensington. So many laughs!! Such love and respect !
He will truly be missed, my love to the family, God Bless All
Dennis J. Fawk

August 3, 2016

Dear Family-Our hearts go out to you on
the loss of a great person who became our friend-we shared boating stories with
Fran at Luigi's Restaurant-he was always
upbeat and fun to be around-we are devastated as we know you all are-
Love John and Michele Elpi

August 3, 2016

Brotherhood of Linemen Local

Fran Gentile was a fellow worker ,
UNION brother and TRUE friend. He
is one of the the reasons CL&P
Line employees stuck TOGETHER
and protected one another (each other)
in our contract talks with the company.
A man's man , who was respected.
May Fran rest in peace. He will be missed.

August 3, 2016

Nancy Sowa

I was so very sorry to read that Fran had passed away. My late husband, Reggie Sowa, worked with Fran at CL&P who was a special friend/ co-worker of his. Fran came to Reggie's wake in October 2014, and my family and I were very touched to see him. Now, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this very difficult time... God Bless you all.

August 3, 2016

Jack Sterry

Mrs. Mary Gentile and family,

I am so very sorry to hear about Francis. Please know that my good thoughts and prayers are of you today. My best always,

August 3, 2016

Erica

My sincerest condolences for your loss. Psalms 86:17 tells us that God is our helper and comforter. So may you allow Him to help and comfort you through this very difficult time.

August 3, 2016

Val Tosta

Ellen, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. My deepest condolences at this time of loss.

August 3, 2016

Sal salmoiraghi

Dear Ellen and Family I had the pleasure of working with Fran for 32 years at CL&P. I will miss our visits that we use to have on his boat, Overtime, he will be dearly missed by his family and friends. We will keep your family in our prayers.


Sincerely, Sal & Sandy Salmoiraghi
Charlestown, RI

August 3, 2016

Anne and Steve Kornacki

Ellen, you introduced us to Fran more than 40 years ago and we knew immediately why you loved him. We send our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We hope you will find comfort in the shared memories of his love for all of you.

August 3, 2016

JAMES RICHARDSON

It is hard to imagine a World without Fran . I had the honor of working with and calling him Friend over 30 years at CL&P.
Fran was one of those extraordinary people who will never be forgotten,
Please accept my deepest sympathy,
Sincerely yours

James Richardson

August 3, 2016

So sorry for your whole family. Fran did so much for Scott & Christi when they moved to Conn. When I was there for a visit, he always seemed to enjoy what he was doing. We will have our cherished memories of a really nice guy. My condolences to all-Ruth McBrayer

August 3, 2016

Barbara & Bob Nieman

Ellen:

We are so sad to hear about your tragic loss. Fran was just such a fantastic man - always smiling and caring for others. He will be deeply missed by so many people. You are all in our prayers.

August 3, 2016

Michael and Cynthia Bazzano

Dear Steve and Patti,
We are incredibly saddened by the news of the loss of your brother. Our deepest condolences to you and your family.

August 3, 2016

Dan Dallaire

Ellen (and family),

Sheila and I cannot express in words the loss of Fran. Saying sorry never seems enough, but, it's what we have. We hope that you and the family can make it through this difficult time, and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

August 3, 2016

Celeste and John Clark

Ellen and family our hearts are broken, so sorry for your Lost, he will be greatly missed by all.

August 3, 2016

clarky

Simply the best, I'm gonna miss you buddy, you were a great friend!!

August 3, 2016

Sorry for your loss,
Bob and Nancy Page

August 3, 2016

Nancy (Poppel) Bonamico

Ellen,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

August 3, 2016

John DiNardi

I first met Fran when he worked at CL&P and I was with the Newington Police Dept. We became friends instantly. He would always talk about his family. We worked many road jobs together and he was a very authentic person. The world would be a better place with more people like Fran in it. I was so sorry to hear of his passing. Rest in Peace my friend.

John F.DiNardi (Newington Police (RETIRED)

August 3, 2016

We are very sorry for your loss, Bob and Nancy Page

August 3, 2016

Leon

I'm very sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please allow God to comfort you during this difficult time.

Phillipians 4:6,7

August 3, 2016

Mark Garavel

I swam every morning at the YMCA with Fran. I appreciate all the advice he has given me over the years. I will miss seeing him.

August 2, 2016

Mary Tess and Bang Tran

Gentile Family-
We were devastated to hear of the loss of your beloved Fran, a man who not only selflessly served his country but also dedicated himself to serving his family and friends. We hope that you are able to find comfort in each other during this difficult time. May he rest in peace.

August 2, 2016

Betsy Smith

I will cherish my memories of Uncle Fran! He was so special and loved. Prayers for everyone who loved him as this is a huge loss.

August 2, 2016

Betsy Smith

Dear Gentile Family, I will cherish my memories with Uncle Fran he was always smiling! He was a wonderful family man! He will be dearly missed. Now an angel in heaven. Prayers for everyone who knew him!

August 2, 2016

Dennis Coscina

Steve, Ellen, Donna and the rest of the Gentile family.
We are sadden by the loss of Fran. He was a great person and long time friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you!
Dennis Coscina

August 2, 2016

theresa kmetetz

My sincere sympathy at your loss. Fran was a great guy.

August 2, 2016

Brian & Debbie Florin

Ellen- We are so sorry to hear of Fran's passing... He was a real gentleman and a great guy to talk with. Debbie and I have you in our prayers.

August 2, 2016

Ella Ashwell

Ellen, Tara and David, My heart aches for you and all who knew a loved your wonderful husband and father. We were so blessed to have Fran in our lives and will miss his genuine love and caring of all who knew him. Our last memories of him were so precious. Thank you for sharing him with us.

August 2, 2016

Rob & Karen Ennen

Dear Ellen and Family -

Our hearts ache for you. Fran was such a wonderful caring person with a huge smile and even a bigger heart. You are all in our thoughts and prayers as you struggle through this difficult time. We love you!

August 2, 2016

Ellen and family, so sorry for your loss.
Thinking of you all.
Linda Beaudoin

August 2, 2016

Leslie Judd

Ellen,
I am so sorry for your loss. May the lord bless you and hold you close in your time of need. All my love and prayers are with you.

August 2, 2016

Pat Nigro

This world has lost an amazing man who loved his family and friends and just brought a smile to your face every time you saw him. My heart breaks for the whole family and my love and prayers are with you all. I know he will watch over all of you.

August 2, 2016

Cortney Gadomski and Family

Gentile Family,

We are so, so sorry for you loss. Our hearts ache for your family. You are all in our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

August 2, 2016

I just found out about Franny's passing at the YMCA. Shocked and in dis-belief. We swam together for years. We had been friends since the high school years. My sincere condolences to the Gentile family. joe cisz

August 2, 2016

Elaine Squillacote Osipowicz

Sending Love and Prayers to all.

August 2, 2016

Nancy Lockwood

The Gentile Family,
So sad to hear such awefully sad news of Fran's passing. My heart aches for you Ellen, and as you know Fran was one of the nicest men on this earth. I will never forget his smiling happy face. My deepest sympathy to you all.

August 2, 2016

Desiree Agosto

So sad to hear of your passing Fran. We will always remember you here at the YMCA!

August 2, 2016

Kristen Woodmansee

Ellen and family,
Words cannot express how saddened we were to learn of Fran's passing. Our hearts are truly aching for all of you. Fran was very near and dear to our hearts. We wish there was more we could offer you than our prayers and friendship. He will forever be in our hearts.

It is now, more than ever before, that Fran will take care of each of you. With our deepest sympathies and love, Dave and Kristen.

August 1, 2016

Nick Martino

So sorry for your loss. Uncle Fran was the best. So many great memories at the vineyard and other times for so many years. Your family is in my prayers.

August 1, 2016

William and Clara Colon

So sorry for your loss

August 1, 2016

Ken & Cathy Batorski

We will always remember Fran as a shining light with an unforgettable smile. He was taken too soon and will be missed by all who knew him.

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Aug

4

Calling hours

4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

New Britain Memorial-Sagarino Funeral Home

444 Farmington Ave, New Britain, CT 06053

Aug

5

Funeral service

10:00 a.m.

St. Paul's Church

485 Alling Street, Kensington, CT

Aug

5

Burial

Maple Cemetery

Berlin, CT

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444 Farmington Ave, New Britain, CT 06053

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