Helen Watkins Umphlet

1926 - 2017

Helen Watkins Umphlet obituary, 1926-2017, Salisbury, NC

BORN

1926

DIED

2017

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Brown-Wynne Funeral Home & Crematory

300 Saint Mary's Street

Raleigh, North Carolina

Helen Umphlet Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 1, 2017.

Mrs. Helen Watkins Umphlet, Glenaire Retirement Community, Cary, NC passed away peacefully on Tuesday, February 28, 2017. She was surrounded by family.
Born on May 7, 1926 in Vance County, North Carolina, she was the daughter of the late Clifton Malcolm and Bertha Stainback Watkins.
After graduating from Aycock High School, she moved to Raleigh and attended secretarial school to become an administrative assistant. Employed within the North Carolina Judicial System, she was an administrative assistant to the North Carolina Supreme Court, until her retirement in June 1976 following thirty years of service.
In 1949 she married Irvin S. Bagwell who predeceased her in 1970. Helen was married to the Honorable Fentress Horner from May 1976 until his death in December 1990. Dr. Thomas Umphlet and Helen were married from June 1996 until his death in December 1997.
She was also predeceased by her brother, Earnest Malcolm (Mac) Watkins in January 1994 and her sister-in-law, Ruby Faulkner Watkins in January 2006.
As long as her health permitted, Helen was an active member of First Presbyterian Church in Raleigh. She served on the Board of Visitors at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill. In 1999, she honored Dr. Umphlet by establishing the Helen Watkins and Thomas Leonard Umphlet Distinguished Professorship in Aging at the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill School of Nursing.
She was one of the first residents of Glenaire Retirement Community moving there in 1992 at age 65. In addition to singing in the Glenaire Choral Group, she served on and chaired many committees at Glenaire. At the time of her death, she was the longest surviving resident.
Helen enjoyed music of all genres, gardening, playing bridge, traveling, fishing, being in the company of family and friends and helping others.
She is survived by her sister, Billie Jean Watkins Lambert of Tampa, FL. Nieces Angela Watkins Hall of Salisbury, NC, Sangie Bazemore Gardiner of Clearwater, TX, Luwanna Bazemore Brown of Tampa, FL and Florence Allen Stone of Cary, NC. Nephews include S. M. (Sam) Watkins of Henderson, NC, Mark Watkins of Raleigh, NC, Larry Bazemore of Tampa, FL, John Bazemore of Tampa, FL, William Umphlet of Live Oak, TX, Vincent Bellis of Greenville, NC, Douglas Bellis of Washington, DC, Fentress Horner of La Fayette, GA., and Bob Howard of Chapel Hill, NC. Also surviving her is Dr. Umphlet's step-son, Dale Swift, of Greensboro, NC and numerous grand nieces and nephews.
A celebration of Helen's remarkable life will be held at 10:00 am on Saturday, March 11, 2017 at Glenaire Retirement Community Auditorium. Burial will follow at 2:00 pm at Montlawn Cemetery.
Anyone wishing to show their love for Helen may do so by making a contribution to the Umphlet Scholarship Fund at First Presbyterian Church, 112 S. Salisbury St., Raleigh, NC 27601 or to The Presbyterian Homes Foundation, Inc., 2109 Sandy Ridge Road, Colfax, NC 27235. Please designate your Foundation contribution to be used for the benefit of Glenaire.
The family wishes to express their gratitude to Editha Adams, Camille Lambe, Lori Bowers, Alicia Spence, Kotreece Morgan, Visiting Angels and the Nurses and Staff of Glenaire Retirement Community for their love, devotion, care and support of Helen during her thirty years of Parkinson's disease.
Arrangements are under the care of Brown-Wynne Funeral Home 300 Saint Mary's St. Raleigh, NC 27605

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March 9, 2017

Luwanna Brown

Aunt Helen I will miss you so much. I loved how you always had a big smile for me when I came to see you. You loved seeing Trevor and was always interested in how he was doing. I will never forget how you and Uncle Fentress let me stay with you for the Summer in the mountains. I will always cherish our memories of our time spent together. I love you so much and I will surely miss you. Rest in Peace my sweet Aunt, and I will see you again one day. Love always, Your Niece Luwanna

March 8, 2017

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Margaret Raynor

I first met Helen through the UNC-CH School of Nursing Foundation when I was on the foundation board. She was always so pleasant and such a supporter of the School of Nursing. She was so generous to the School of Nursing in the form of a gift in memory of her husband, Dr. Umphlet. I was looking through the obituaries for one of my husband's dental professors when I happened to see her name so wanted to write something to the family, particularly her niece who I have gotten to know through the foundation board.

March 6, 2017

Sandra Close

Helen was a great comfort to our friend Dr. Thomas Umjphlet until his death, and we appreciate her love and care. May she rest in peace.
Sandra and Kenny Close

March 5, 2017

Billie Lambert

Helen, you will be greatly missed and will live in my heart forever. May you rest in peace and have greater comfort. Those of us left behind will have comfort in knowing where you now reside. Love, Your sister Billie

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Celebration of Life

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Glenaire Retirement Community Auditorium

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Burial

2:00 p.m.

Montlawn Cemetery

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