James Myron Benge

1940 - 2016

BORN

1940

DIED

2016

FUNERAL HOME

Strate Funeral Home

505 10th St

Davenport, Washington

James Benge Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 21, 2016.

James Myron Benge –

Was born November 8th, 1940 to Porter and Vera Benge in Emmett, Idaho. Jim married Marilyn Lucille Heath, his high school sweetheart, on November 15th, 1958 in Emmett Idaho.

Jim and Marilyn have 3 children Rick (Paula) of E. Wenatchee, WA, Woody of Costa Mesa, CA, and Marci (Rob) of Snohomish, WA.

They moved to Brewster, WA in March of 1977. They moved to Davenport, WA in December of 2011.

Survivors include his wife Marilyn, their 3 children, 5 grandchildren: Olivia, Megan, Grace, Sydney, Audrey; brother Wesley Benge (Ruth) and sister Karalee Dobbs (Reg).

Jim had just turned 76 years old when he went to be with his loving Savior Sunday November 20th, 2016.

Jim worked many years as a powerplant operator. First at Black Canyon Dam in Emmett, then Anderson Ranch Dam in Mt. Home, Idaho and then after moving to Brewster, Chief Joseph Dam. In his youth, Jim was a farmer, milking cows, cutting hay, birthing calves and taking care of the family farm. His dog Oscar always at his side. After the chores were done, Jim loved playing sports. He was a member of DeMolay and a Mason.
The love of his life was his high school sweetheart Marilyn. They celebrated 58 years together just 5 days ago.
When grandma said 'no', the granddaughters all knew to go to Papa who would give in to his 'little sweethearts'. One thing all the grandkids wanted was for Papa to butter their bread, he always loaded the butter on making it 'mighty fine'. And sharing ice cream with Papa was always a special treat and the great tradition of making dough gobbies was a must, even in a blizzard. He loved his country music and when his kids started listening to it he stated "they are going to turn out alright".
Jim was a very kind and encouraging father. He always believed in his kids. He was friends with all and smiled lots despite his introverted nature. Many said "a quiet man he was, but when he spoke, we listened". He enjoyed his baseball; coaching little league, watching it and going to spring training. Jim was a jack of all trades, working as a mechanic, electrician, and overall handyman. He loved to tinker; taking things apart to see how they worked, then putting them back together gave him great satisfaction. Loyalty and honesty above all else described his character. He will be missed by all of us, especially his wife of 58 years, Marilyn. As requested by Jim, there will be no services. Memorials in Jim's name may be made to any local charity. Please feel free to sign the online guest book at www.stratefuneralhome.com. STRATE FUNERAL HOME, DAVENPORT, WA is caring for the Benge family.

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January 15, 2017

Woody Benge

Miss you so much Dad! Thank you for instilling in me the things I need to survive and succeed in life! You're always in my heart and I love talking with you in my dreams! ♡♡♡

December 29, 2016

Sorry for your loss may you draw comfort from Gods word at Hosea 13:14. L Ohio

December 10, 2016

I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 119:76.

December 10, 2016

Larry & Lou Ann Sutton (Martin)

Our heartfelt sympathy at the loss of Jim.

December 9, 2016

Jane Gothard

I have many wonderful memories from attending Hanna and Emmett High School with Jim.

Please accept my sympathy and prayers at this difficult time, Marilyn.

Jane Stephens Gothard

December 7, 2016

I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 119:76.

December 5, 2016

It certainly pains the family to see our loved ones fall asleep in death. Our prayers are with the family

December 2, 2016

Vic Henderson

Sorry to hear about Jims passing.
He was a good friend & fellow worker.

December 2, 2016

Sheri Rogers

Sending our heartfelt thoughts and prayers to your family. I didn't get to know Uncle Jim well but know that he will be deeply missed by Aunt Marilyn, his children, grandchildren and other family and friends. May God hold you all close and give you comfort at this time.

December 1, 2016

Beth Hoagland

So sorry for your loss. I am thinking of all of you during this difficult time.

December 1, 2016

Jack and Sharon McMillan

What a fabulous man Jim Benge was!! He accomplished the greatest with his wife Marilyn . . . a fantastic family! The Benge family will go down in the books as one of the best ever. He loved so many people and so many people loved him. We send our love to you Marilyn, Rick and Paula, Marci and Rob and Woody and all of those wonderful grandchildren. Live on with the strength of love he left with you. Jack and Sharon McMillan

December 1, 2016

Diane Wright

I am so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in the memories left behind.

November 30, 2016

Bill A. Campbell

I am so sorry for your loss. I went to High School with Jim and he was a very kind person. He will be greatly missed.

With deepest sympathy

November 28, 2016

Offering deepest sympathy to the family for your loss. May you draw close to God during this difficult time and He will draw close to you. James 4: 8

November 27, 2016

Natalie Thorson

Every time I saw Uncle Jim he was so kind to me. He had a gentle, sweet nature and he didn't have to say much to know that he had a beautiful soul. I'm grateful for his life and grateful for his love as a big brother to my mom. I love you Aunt Marilyn, Rick, Woody and Marci. May God bless and comfort you always. Hugs and prayers for you and your families.

November 27, 2016

Ryan Dobbs

I love you, Uncle Jim. You will be missed.

November 27, 2016

Reg & Karalee Dobbs

I love this quote by Thornton Wilder..."The highest tribute to the dead, is not grief but gratitude." I am so grateful for my memories of a protective, loving, and kind older brother. Reg and I both have the greatest admiration for the example he was to us as a devoted husband and father and grandfather. Marilyn, you were Jim's angel here on earth. May God bless and comfort you and your children and grandchildren at this time. We love you forever.

Posted by Reg & Karalee Dobbs

November 27, 2016

Norma Sanchez

My deepest sympathy and prayers for the families and friends. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal but Almighty God can, pray daily for comfort and God will comfort each of you, Love leaves memories no one can steal, so remember your love one daily

November 25, 2016

Nancy and Marc Goodman

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Marilyn, and family.

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