BORN

1956

DIED

2013

FUNERAL HOME

Veilleux Funeral Home

8 Elm Street

Waterville, Maine

James Byther Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 11, 2013.

Waterville-James "Jim" E. Byther, 56, of Winslow, Maine passed away February 6th, 2013 with his loving family by his side at MGMC Thayer unit. He was born in Millinocket, Maine on September 31, 1956, a son of Kirkland and Josephine (Moran) Byther. Graduated from Stearns High School Class of 1975 National Honors Society.

He went to work for the state in September 1976; there he worked for the Office of Information Technology as a Senior Informant Support Specialist. His boss Sharon Horn was quoted as saying "Jim was a reliable, valuable and an employee with a wealth of knowledge that is not replaceable." He was also a member of National Association of Amateur Radio. Jim had a great love for big dogs, and was very family oriented. Jim was a very loving, caring and supportive man.

Jim was predeceased by his parents, a brother Harvey Byther, and his beloved Newfoundland Dog "Og".

He is survived by his loving wife Pat Byther, a step daughter Michelle Hudson, a sister Cora MacDonald, a niece P.J. Byther, his beloved cat Amun Ra; he will also be sadly missed by a very special friend Bruce Leavitt.

A celebration of life will be held at a later date in the spring. In lieu of flowers those wishing may make donations in Jim's memory may do so to the American diabetes association. Arrangements are under the care and direction of Veilleux Funeral Home 8 Elm Street Waterville, ME 04901. 872-7676. www.veilleuxfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

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February 26, 2013

Doris Austin

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

February 16, 2013

Sherry Grunder

So hard losing someone whose life is so intertwined with yours... May God's comfort surround you all. ((((Hugs))))

February 15, 2013

Sam & Barbara Gould

May God be with you at this time of sorrow. He will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved him.

February 14, 2013

Joan Phillips Sandy

Dear Pat and Michelle,
I am so sorry for your loss. I met Jim a few times years ago and remember him as being a very kind and caring man. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

February 13, 2013

So sorry for the loss of my cousin Jim, my condolences go out to his sister Cora, wife Pat and Michelle. He sure will be missed by all that knew him. R.I.P Cousin Jim, Love, Carla Dickinson Bangor Maine

February 13, 2013

PJ Byther

To my Uncle Jim,
I wish I had been able to be around you more in my adult life. I have fond memories as a child, like when you brought me down to first meet Aunt Pat and Michelle. That was the first trip south of New England that I remember.
I will always miss and love you. Please give daddy a hug for me when you see him. Thank you everyone for keeping Aunt Pat and Michelle in your prayers. They are a bleesing to him and our family.

February 13, 2013

Barbara Brochu

deepest sympathies on your loss,
Barbara and George Brochu

February 13, 2013

Bob Lane

We should all take a page from Jim's book and aspire to be as diginified, kind and hardworking a man that Jim personified.

My condolences to Jim's family and and his many friends that have lost such a great person.

If we asked God to send us a train full of his best people and he only sent Jim, we wouldn't have been cheated.

February 13, 2013

Vicki Crommett

I am very sorry for your loss. May God comfort you. Vicki Crommett

February 13, 2013

Dorothy (Kraus) Hagins

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

February 13, 2013

shannon wakefield

Very sorry for the lost of your love Pat. You will be in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.

February 12, 2013

Roberta Doe

May the God of peace and comfort be your strength in your grief and loss. Prayers for you, Michelle, and your family.

February 12, 2013

Brenda Bates

Pat, Michelle & family, You are in my thoughts & prayers - especially during this most difficult time in your life. God Bless you.

February 12, 2013

Henry & Joan Bouchat

Sorry to hear of Jim's passing. Our prayers for both you and Jim. RIP Jim.

February 12, 2013

mark armstrong

i sat next to jim for many years in school...we used to laugh at mr ingerson together. i remember him as quiet, smart and kind. i always knew he was smarter than me so i would ask for help from him and he always gave it. i am sorry that jim passed away...he's in a good place sitting and trying to figure out how something works i'm sure.

February 12, 2013

Pat and Michelle, my thoughts and best wishes at this time of loss. Jim was my Number One reality check for so many, many years as well as a super funny dude. He will be missed.
Take Care,
Beth Symonds

February 12, 2013

Charlene Frost

I am so sorry for your loss; hewill be missed every day. May God bless.

February 12, 2013

Betty Wilson

May God give you the strength you will need to handle everything. But your hand in his and let him guide you.

February 12, 2013

Bo and Janet Bouchat

Our deepest sympathies to all of Jim's family and friends. May you find comfort in your memories of better times.

February 12, 2013

Nancy Bax

Praying God will continue to comfort you at this time. Love and Hugs!

February 12, 2013

So very sorry for your loss, Pat & Michelle. Your family is in our prayers.
With sympathy,
The St.Pierre family

February 12, 2013

Elizabeth Smith

I remmber Jim in th early 80's when he was introducing computers to the MDOT in Bangor. Not an easy task. He was patient & funny we will miss him.
Elizabeth Smith

February 12, 2013

Mr. and Mrs. John C.Kraus

With our Sympathy, may you find peace in knowing that your loved one is in a better place, and may the lord watch over you and help you in this difficult time. God Bless you and your family.

February 12, 2013

Bruce Leavitt

My dear friend, what great fun we had traveling to NH almost every year for the last 30 something years. Early on with your brother Skip. We got lost almost all of those 30 years. Your family has been a blessing, always there to help others, always a smile.
My prayers are with your family Pat, Michelle, Cora, and others.

February 12, 2013

Cheryl Griswold

So sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed Jim's quick wit and sense of humor. He was a great man and will be missed by all those that knew him.

February 12, 2013

So sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed Jim's quick wit and sense of humor. He was a great man and will be missed by all those that knew him. Cheryl Griswold

February 12, 2013

So sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed Jim's quick wit and sense of humor. He was a great man and will be missed by all those that knew him.

February 12, 2013

Barbara & Frank Bouchat

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

February 12, 2013

Mary Bouchat

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

February 12, 2013

Megan Cole

I'm so sorry for the loss of your brother Cora.It's your close relationship with the Lord that will help you through.

February 12, 2013

Cora MacDonald

I praise God that I was able to have a very close relationship with Jim over the past 7 years. I spent many good times with him and his family on picnics, rides or just plain old get togethers. I will miss Jim.

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