Jason M. Massey

1981 - 2012

Jason M. Massey obituary, 1981-2012, Center Barnstead, NH

BORN

1981

DIED

2012

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Jason Massey Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 13, 2012.

Jason M. Massey August 29, 1981 – March 11, 2012

It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Jason Michael Massey. Jason was welcomed into the arms of the Lord on Sunday, March 11, 2012. Jason will always be remembered for his humanity and devotion to those he knew as well as to strangers.

He could never pass a motorist in need without stopping to help them with their troubles. In so many instances, Jay's day as an RN in the ICU & ER at Concord Hospital did not end with the end of his shift. He was always there for family to help someone through a cold or a virus, ache or pain. Jay was devoted to his family and never thought twice about working an extra shift to pay the bills.

Jay graduated from Pembroke Academy and went on to NHTI to earn his degree in nursing. Most recently he was enrolled at Franklin Pierce pursuing his bachelors to master's degree in nursing. Jay also worked with various groups at Concord Hospital.

Jay will be dearly missed by his wife and best friend, Kelley. He also leaves his son, Cullum, who was his pride and joy, and son Weston who is expected to arrive any day. Jay leaves behind his father and mother, Scott and Barbara Anstey, brother and close friend, Matthew Anstey, brother Michael Brussard and sisters Krystal Anstey and Tessa Smith, grandparents Ron and Shirley Anstey and Cynthia Coulter, his uncle Philip Massey. Jay is also survived by his mother and father-in-law Janice and James Tuttle as well as many aunts, uncles, cousins, a niece and nephew. Last but certainly not least, Jay leaves behind his core group of devoted friends since middle school, Robert Bowen and Stephen Arling.

Calling hours will be from 1-3 followed by a Celebration of Life and reception at Emmanuel Baptist Church, 14 Mammoth Road, Hooksett, NH. In lieu of flowers a contribution may be made with a check payable to the Massey Family, c/o Citizens Bank, 54 Main Street, Pittsfield, NH 03263 to help defray costs and to benefit Cullum and Weston.



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March 26, 2022

Friend

Christopher Roy

I remember the fun we had in Latin class with Debbie and the prank calls on the school pay phones. You were such a fun and positive person. I will never forget you.

March 7, 2019

Friend

Tina Bowen Potter

It seems weird to get a reminder that your anniversary is coming up, who could forget that? You are missed so much , your boys are getting big and Kelly is doing a great job raising them as Im sure you are looking down and saying the same thing,, you are missed Jay, I miss you, Rob misses you , you are
Gone but you will never be forgotten

March 7, 2019

Family

Rick Tucker

Jay you are loved and missed dearly. You have influenced everyone you touched with your life. Love you forever son.

March 7, 2019

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charles rex

We were kids and went to elementary together. I remember when we would camp out back of his apartment in a tent. It was fun and he was a great friend.

May 5, 2012

Rob Bowen

Jason, Jason, Jason, it is very difficult to fight back the tears as I write. To say that you will be missed is a severe understatement. I started this not sure what to say.I wanted to tell you how much you meant to my family, but Kristy already covered that a few post back. I wanted tell you to not to worry about Kelly and the kids, but again Trina kind of summed that up in her post. So what is left?

You were a brother to me…the void you have left in my life is vast. I have been doing a lot of thinking about the past, and keep thinking of all the fun we shared as kids and now that we are all grown up how much tighter that bond had become between the four of us. I also thought of your clumsiness and all the “things” you have broken over the years Nintendo controllers, iPods, radios, you get the point, oh wait fishing reels (lots of those). I am being gracious and wont list your luck with cars. I also thought of how you made the easiest of tasks into work that only an engineer could fix once you were done with it, I am pretty sure Kelly, your parents, Jimmy, Uncle Phil, Matt and Steve would understand what I am talking about.

Well you have done it to me again; you managed to break something only a few people in the world could accomplish… my heart, Jay.

Once again you have made the simplest of “things” in life the most difficult one I have ever faced and that is saying, “Good bye” Jay.

Heck at least you were always consistent…

Love you Jay

Rob

April 30, 2012

veronica girard

Jason, I will never forget all the times you and Kelley offered me a place to stay or how many kind words you fed me. You are amazing. I will never ever ever forget you. There are so few out there like you.

April 5, 2012

Patrick Dineen

It is with great sadness that I hear the news of Jason. I always had hoped to come back to Concord and work along side. You are a terrific nurse and were a great leader at NHTI - I always smiled when I sat in Marty Hunt's office and saw your mohawk next to Lynn K at the ribbon cutting ceremony for the student center. Jason - they broke the mold when they made you. Concord Hospital and Student Senate banquets will never be the same. Barb I wiss you the best and I am deeply sorry for this sudden loss.

April 5, 2012

Scott OLoughlin

Jay was a great husband and father. He was tremendously gifted and his loss is deeply felt by everyone who knew him. We will never forget you Jay.

March 31, 2012

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March 24, 2012

Rick Tucker

No words can describe the loss we feel. Jason, I will Love you always and all ways. " Uncle" Rick

March 22, 2012

Virginia Drew

Jay was a always a joy. Whenever I saw him he had a smile on his face and always made me feel good. He had a wonderful gift of happiness and humor. He will be sorely missed by everyone who had the luck to meet him. I am so sorry for his family as I can only imagine their immense grief. Prayers for you all and know that heaven has another angel.

March 22, 2012

Donna Heavey

Our thoughts go to Jason's family and friends for this sudden loss. Thank you Jason for helping to take care of our Keegan. You are together now.
The Heavey Family

March 20, 2012

kristen hewey

taken from us wayyyy tooo soon!!! but will never be forgotten!!!!!

March 20, 2012

Tessa Smith

Jason,

Love you always and forever. Grateful you & Kelley were able to share in my special day. You were taken too soon; but, now I know, I have guardian angel, Kelley too. I know you're watching down on Kelley, Cullum, and Weston; along with the rest of your family and friends.

I'll see you, in heaven, when you open the gates for me.
~I LOVE YOU BIG BROTHER~

Posted by Tessa Smith

March 20, 2012

ERIC BLAIS

Jay, You were my best childhood friend... I will never forget all the great memories and fun we had with your uncle Phil and aunt Jenn. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I am so thankful to have been lucky enough to be able to call you my friend, and I thank God for that. I, as well as many others, will never forget you!

March 20, 2012

September Frampton

March 19, 2012

Jay, we will miss you so very much. You brought so much joy to so many people. Kelley, Cullum, and Weston, you have our deepest sympathy and we stand ready to help in any way we can. Our love, Frank and Susan Novak (Wolfeboro, NH)

March 18, 2012

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Denise Hanscom

My thoughts and prayers are with your loviing family. My faith believes you are at peace. My own experience knows your wife will go through a lot of sadness, but you are watching over her every step of the way. My thoughts and prayers are with them and to give them the love and support they need <3

March 17, 2012

Lauren Kohlhase Coates and family

March 17, 2012

Deborah Nicatra

I remember the day you were born and I held you and looked into your eyes and knew you were a special little boy. Bless your family and thoughts are with you all.

March 17, 2012

Becky Jones

As a nursing student doing my first clinical rotation at CH, I had the opportunity to shadow Jason in the ICU for a day about a year ago. That was the only time I ever interacted with Jay, but I want you to know that he greatly affected me in the way that he cared. I was in the unique position to be a fly on the wall in the everyday life of Jay. During this day it was clear to me that the staff he worked with absolutely adored him and vice versa. He spoke of his wife with a huge smile on his face. He cared for his patients so well that when there was a second of down time, he went so far as to file his patients' nails instead of taking his lunch break! I was nervous to be shadowing him in the ICU but he made me feel comfortable and even went out of his way to make sense of confusing lab values for me. I remember when Jay was talking to a devastated family member of the patient he was taking care of, and he said, “It's not over yet.” I hope his words can speak to you now, and that you can remember that even though this feels like the end of the world, Jay is there with you in your hearts and life will go on, and it will go on with Jay in your life, but in another way. My deepest sympathies go out to Jay's wife, children, family and friends.

March 17, 2012

John Uhlig

Good Bless you and thanks for the friendship and the healing touch to all

March 17, 2012

G. Griffith

They say when someone is born into this Life that there is a plan, some of us know and some of are un sure, but I can say In the brief time I have known this young man he walked effortlessly as if his destiny was assured and forth right. Some try to make a difference but Jason made it appear easy and your Family will always be proud of you for doing just that.With my Deepest Sympathy to the Massey Family, He will be missed.

March 17, 2012

dan connolly

brother man,

you are one of the few "stand up' people in my world. i don't see you as gone, i see you as charging ahead of the rest of us. keep them laughing until i get up there with ya.

God protect and guide your family.

March 17, 2012

Amber Deshaies

My thoughts are with your family and friends. You were taken way too soon. Rest in peace.

March 17, 2012

Jay,
You have had such a positive impact on so many people's lives. As many others, I count myself lucky to have met you. You were and are a bright light in our hearts. Thank you for being such a good friend and brother to Matt and Krystal. We will all miss you very much. Dyane and Greg Anstey (Barnstead, NH)

March 17, 2012

Mike and Carrie Stecher

Kelley, Cullum, Weston, and family, We are so sorry to hear of Jay's passing, our heart's grieve with you in this incredibly difficult time. I only knew Jay through the stories Kelley would tell but it sounds like he was a wonderful husband, father and friend and he will be greatly missed. His life has touched many people and he will never be forgotten. You and your family are and will always be in our thoughts and prayers

March 17, 2012

Phil and Jennifer Massey

Hey Buckwheat I'm going to miss you bud,but don't you worry because I will be taking your boys out fishing and shooting as I did when you were young.I love you and miss you
your Uncle Phil

Jay, Words can't express how much we will miss you. Having known you since I met your uncle 22 years ago, I still remember you and your friend Eric running Uncle Phil's truck all over the yard running into whatever you could and laughing. As the years went on you were a wonderful father and husband to Kelley and grew up to be such a caring and wonderful man. We will miss you so much.
Love Aunt Jen, Jessie and Lindsey

March 17, 2012

Larry & Anne Bauer

Kelly and the boys, Scott and Barb, Krystal, Matt, Tessa, and Michael - you are all in our thoughts and prayers. On wings of angels, Jason, may God speed you to peace.

March 17, 2012

Renee' McNamara

Jason, my prayers and thoughts are with your family. "May god be holding you tightly in his hands!" God Bless

Renee McNamara (Sanbornton, NH)

March 16, 2012

mark lang

Jason you were a great Nurse and CH will never be the same without you. You always had a smile on your face and a willingness to help. It was a honor to work with you and I will miss you. Rest In Peace.
May God be with your Family in this time of loss.

March 16, 2012

Curtis Challenger

We had many great memories back at the Steeplegate Mall. Thank you for being a great friend and colleague. My prayers to the family, near and far, for peace, wisdom and guidance during this time. May his light and God's love shine in you all. Blessings for the many years to come and the legacy he's left.

March 16, 2012

Becky Wead

Jay you were such a wonderful good ol'friend and my deepest condolences to your family, our thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends. you will be missed and loved by all <3 xoxox i am so sorry <3

March 16, 2012

Heather Robinson-Osborn

Jay had the most infectious smile! He was a warm soul that will live on forever! My deepest sympathy to his friends and family at this difficult time!

March 16, 2012

Becky Wead

Jay you were always so nice to all, and you were such a good ol'friend, so happy,you always had a smile,fun. All of us loved to laugh and always had a good time, and no matter how meny years have passed, time did not matter, for all of us would just pick it up as if it was yesterday and still have a fun time <3 This is to soon and tragic for this loss.<3 my thoughts and prayers and love are forever with your family and friends. you were amazing Jay and you will be missed by all <3 xoxo Love Becky and family

March 16, 2012

Sharon Kritkausky

My deepest sympathy to Jason's family and friends. He could instantly brighten a room and lift spirits with his energy, humor and smile. His many gifts will be greatly missed by all who were fortunate to have known him.

March 16, 2012

chris moreno

I will miss you. you were always so kind to me and our pts. God Bless.

March 16, 2012

Dee Whitn

Jason had a wonderful and warm personality. I had the pleasure of working with him on many occasions. The last conversation was only a few short weeks ago. We talked about his former mohawk! that hair was a master piece! asked him if he would grow it again, his reply was if it's not right it will grow weird so I don't know, and he needed to find the time to do it! he was excited about his children and proud of his wife, have a wonderful peaceful journey Jason! Dee Whiton Washington NH

March 16, 2012

kristen hewey

jay you were a great person!! you were always a very caring person in the er!!! such a shocking, saddened and devestating loss!!! my condolences and prayers to ur family!!!!

March 16, 2012

Bethany Tozier

Jason was someone I thought would always be somewhere, and return one day to the game where I first met him and his brother. He was always quick with his unforgettable smile and fiercely loyal to those he loved. Even if we didn't keep in touch he was part of the stories I tell and someone I had hoped to see more (again).
My deepest sympathies to his family.

March 16, 2012

Marla & Perfecto Salas

Jay you were a beautiful soul and will be missed dearly~ All of our love to your family and friends~ xoxo Marla, Perfecto, Joaquin & Kendra

March 16, 2012

Charlotte Sankey

I have had the pleasure of working with Jason in the ED at CH and am still trying to make some sense of this tragic loss. He always came in with a cheerful smile and hello for everyone. He was amazing with his patients always going above and beyond to make them feel comfortable and to keep them informed. I only hope that his family will be able to take comfort in knowing how loved he was by everyone that he came in contact with. Rest in peace Jason you will truly be missed.

March 16, 2012

Jason...I loved working with you in the ICU.....You were always there when help was needed, You will be truly missed in the world. S, Petersen, Concord Hospital

March 16, 2012

Claudette Welch

Jay was a wonderful caring person who touched so many lives. He was a great comfort to me and my husband during our many visits to the ER and ICU. Jay always had a smile for everyone, he will be greatly missed.

Claudette Welch

March 16, 2012

Charles Rex

I knew Jason when I was very young. We went to Dame school and lived in the Garden Apartments. He was a great person.

March 16, 2012

John Bushey

we re going miss u bro and from Bushey family

March 16, 2012

Tanja and Tom Johnson

Our hearts go out to Jason's family in this difficult time. May you find strength and memories to celebrate Jason's life. Unforgettable smile.. Love and Respect,

March 16, 2012

Carmen Roy

So sorry for your loss. My condolenscences to Jason's family. Jason was a very upbeat and energetic guy, very sweet and kind. This world will be a sadder place without him in it. It is a shame that his boys will not have him in their lives, but he will live on in them.

March 16, 2012

Amanda St.Cyr

My deepest sympathy goes out to the Massey family.

March 16, 2012

Karen Brown

I will miss seeing your smiling face when I come into CH ED. You never complained to me about anything. My daughter told me how sweet and caring you had been to my little grand daughter when she had brought her in to the ED sick one day. I want to thank you personally but I'll never have that chance now. You made me smile many times and I know you must have made your patients smile as well. Prayers and thoughts to your wife and little ones. God bless them. I can't comprehend why but God has you now. RIP brother.

Posted by Karen Brown

March 15, 2012

Brian Searles

Jason I don't know what to say. I was left in shock when I heard. You were more than just a coworker in the ER but a genuinely a great person. I will forever remember our talks and our music band debates. I will miss you R.I.P. bud. My thoughts and prayers are with Kelley and the boys for their loss.

March 15, 2012

Barbara Hanright

I will remember him always with a smile on his face and especially his Mohawk. I remember him being so excited when he found out he was going to have his first son. He could hardly wait for him to be born. All you had to do was see the look in his eyes when he talked about his wife Kelley and the new baby that his life was beyond his wildest dreams. He was a devoted husband, father, son, brother, uncle, and nurse. He will be truely missed. R.I.P. Jason

March 15, 2012

Sue Durling

I have had the good fortune to work with Jason in the ICU. Jason rode the waves of change in the patients, census and staff with equanimity and had a great ability to connect with patients. He was a positive guy, who could always bring a smile to me no matter what was going on. The world has lost a brilliant, caring nurse. My thoughts are with his family – his face glowed when he spoke of you, which was often. His spirit will live on with his family and with all the lives he touched in his practice.

Posted by Sue Durling

March 15, 2012

Denise Logdahl

Kelley, Cullum, Weston and family,
Our deepest thought and prayers are with you and your family. Kelley, May the memories you had together, make those memories last a life time for you and your boys. I'll never forget when I first met Jason, he came right up to me and said,"Hi I am Jason, Kelley's boyfriend. He ended up to be my 2nd cousin by marriage. I knew before then he was a keeper. First impressions last a life time. The memories of Jason with everyone will last forever.


Denise Logdahl, Caryn Chassie, Audrey & Trevor.

March 15, 2012

nick metalious

Jason you were amazing on the softball field and now you will be a great hitter for gods team

March 15, 2012

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March 15, 2012

Corrine Cassavaugh

Dear Matt and Family,
I am so very saddened to hear of Jasons passing, it was way too soon. I remember Jay and Matt growing up with my son Josh in Epsom. I am so very sad. May God Bless Jays Family and Friends. I am so very, very sorry for your loss. With our Deepest Sympathy, Corrine and Terry Cassavaugh and Family

March 15, 2012

Kristine Tuttle

Kelley, We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time. Kristine & Rick Tuttle

March 15, 2012

Jason Atton

Jason.....you are going to be missed by everyone that knew you.....i will miss you

March 15, 2012

SEAN& LINDA GOONAN

Our deepest sympathy to the family.




Mr&.Mrs Sean Goonan

March 15, 2012

Shirley Munroe

Everytime I came into contact with Jason he was kind polite and always smiling. He was loved by so many. May God bring you comfort in this difficult time. My prayers are with his close friends and family. God Bless You. May You Rest in Peace.

March 15, 2012

Mandie & Tony Michniewicz

I think my last memory of Jay is of him in a gorilla costume, sitting on my deck, beer in hand, speaking dork with my husband. I only got the pleasure of hanging out with Jay a few times, but all of them were awesome. I've known Kelley for like, 7 years, and know how much love and fun they shared together. True love, true soul mates, true best friends. My heart aches for you and the boys, Kelley. Thank you for sharing Jay with Tony and I, we both feel like we didn't get to know him well enough. But I know more than I would have because of your outspoken love and friendship with him. So I thank you for that as well. Peace be with you and your family. Jay is standing with you, though you may not see or feel him; know that he's there. <3

Posted by Mandie & Tony Michniewicz

March 15, 2012

Janet Turgeon

My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to the family and friends of Jason. May tender memories lighten your sorrow and comfort you through each tomorrow.

March 15, 2012

Venessa Ellis

Last time I saw u was when we had grandpa Earls services I'm saden to hear that you have passed my thoughts are with ur wife and children may you rip and never be forgotten send grandpa my love

March 15, 2012

Tiffany Ellis

You will be missed Jason. Many prayers go out to his family and friends. May he walk with Grampa to the fishing hole they both loved so much when we were kids.

March 15, 2012

Judy Rowe

Jason,
You touched the lives of many.

Kelley, may you and your boys find strength and comfort in the LOVE that surrounds you now.

March 15, 2012

Carole Dumas

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March 15, 2012

Donna Sewall

All the wonderful things about Jason can also be said of his family, my thoughts and prayers are with them all.
Donna Sewall

March 15, 2012

Katy. Magoon

I can not even begin to express how saddened I am by Jay's passing. Although he is gone, the memories that you ALL have of him and with him will always live on in your hearts and mind. Remember him as the fun loving humanitarian that he was.

I had the capacity of knowing Jay since 2004 when I enrolled at NHTI where he was always a positive influence on everyone he came in contact with. We both held leadership positions on.campus so.we often ran into one another. I can still recall the speech he gave at graduation in 2006 and how moved and motivated I felt by it. He made me realize my full potential and drove me to tap into it. I felt even more blessed to get to know Jay outside of NHTI when I met one of Jays best friends Steve.and his.wife and Trina, my sister began working wth his beautiful wife Kelley, as well as when I became a coworker of his at CH. Jay touched my life in more ways than one and Im so thankful for the time I had with him. Wishing Kelley, Cullum and Weston solice and comfort in this ever so difficult time. <3

March 15, 2012

Misty Kjellman

Oh my gosh. He was my RN on multiple occasions when I was brought to the ER, including the night my water broke! He was always so nice and took the time to listen to my concerns while others may have brushed me off. He was a wonderful person, may he reat in peace.

March 15, 2012

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March 15, 2012

Lisa Bauer

I am so sorry for the family and friends of Jay. I remember Jay's smile and humor in my social studies classes, I also remember the care and compassion he showed me as a patient in the ER.

March 15, 2012

Donna Dooley

To the family, friends and colleagues of Jason, my thoughts and prayers are with you all. I have heard many wonderful things about his impact on so many lives.

March 15, 2012

Shirley & Bob Fowler

Kelley, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family

March 15, 2012

Bill and Sherri Walden

Jason -we can't believe you are gone. Your smile, personality, and caring be sorely missed. You were taken to early. Rest in peace friend. Our deepest condolences to your family.

March 15, 2012

Crystal Wiltshire

My deepest sympathies to your family in this time of sorrow.

March 15, 2012

Tess Schilling

Jay, you will never be forgotten. Your kindness, humor, loyalty to your friends and family was a true blessing. Rest in peace, Jason. My thoughts, prayers and support will always be with your family.

March 15, 2012

Scott and Barb, you and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers. We hope you find peace in his wonderful memories and thoughts of what a beautiful man he was. Love to you all in this tough time...the road is long and bittersweet.

Love,
The Langille Family

March 15, 2012

Tammy (Anstey) Croft

Barbara, Scot and family words cannot describe how sorry I am for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time

March 15, 2012

Kim & Jason Foss

Jay, we are still in shock to hear that you have passed. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family and friends.

March 15, 2012

Tiffany Murray

My memories of Jason are always happy ones because no matter what mood I was in, he could always make me laugh. He will definitely be missed! I will always remember you Jason!

March 14, 2012

I had jason as my nurse quite a few times at ch and worked with his son at daycare. My heart aches for.his family and cullum and his soon to.be brother! Rest easy

March 14, 2012

jeannie matei

Jason, I knew you from NHTI and the ER at CH. You were an amazing nurse that had a special calling to help all no matter their problems or lifestyle.

Jason's wife, I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of the love of your life. He will be watching over you and the boys. He was so proud and happy to have a wonderful wife and family. He loved life!

March 14, 2012

april clough

R.I.P

March 14, 2012

Janice Page

I met Jason when I first came to Concord Hospital in 2008.....he was a great nurse and will be missed by so many.....may his family find comfort in knowing all the lives he touched throughout the Concord Hospital community and beyond.....

March 14, 2012

Beth

May your spirit continue to shine brightly!

March 14, 2012

Nancy & Duane Logdahl

Jason will truely be missed. He was such a warm hearted person. He will be with you in your heart forever.

March 14, 2012

Jennifer Wilson

Jason, words cannot say....you left this world much too early. My love to your friends and family, may they stay strong and remember your vivacious personality. You will be missed....you were loved. (CHER)

March 14, 2012

Kim & Alexis Logdahl

Jay will always be watching over you and the boys. He will be your guardian angel and the brightest star in the sky.

March 14, 2012

Allison Snyder

We only worked together a short time in hospice, but I remember you being so kind and energetic and a hard worker, willing to help out anyone. I am so sorry for your family's loss of of a great man.

March 14, 2012

Jennifer Kumar

Amazing how we have to wait until this tradegy struck to tell you how much you were cared for and love by many....Let this be a lesson to all left, never let a day go bye without saying you love someone! so short...
Jenny

March 14, 2012

Jeanne Coulombe

JJ, I wonder if you truly knew how loved and respected you were and how this world was made a better place because you walked amongst us. You shared with us the love you have for your beautiful wife Kelley, how proud your are of your son Cullum and your excitement over the soon arrival of Weston.You were a man of honor and I was honored to be able to know you and to be part of your ICU family. As I say to all my "babies" in the ICU and I say it to you for the last time, "yup, I raised you", Until we meet again. Love you JJ. Jeanne "mama" Coulombe

March 14, 2012

Bridget Hanson

I have a slightly different view of Jay, many know him as the family man, the friend, co-worker in the nursing field, as a dad and best friend.....I truly believe the true beauty of others is how they treat others. Being a nurse, he is especially caring to those in pain. But he also came into the CH Cafe where I worked and treated every person in there with the same amount of friendliness and concern. Which is not always the case with people when they have such a hard and emotionally challenging job! Just seeing his huge smile coming in instantly put us in a better mood! And let's not forget what a GREAT Softball player he was and will surely live on when his boys start to play someday! Jay may not have been the tallest player, but he was CERTAINLY theFASTEST on the CH team we were on. I was the worst player and he was always encouraging and helpful to me. Rest in Peace "SPEEDY". Kelley I am so incredibly sorry you and the boys have to go through this. It it heart wrenching for all who knew him. My Deepest Sympathy to you and your families.

March 14, 2012

Valeri Behr

A life taken much too young!! Jason, you were a pleasure to work with and you WILL be missed for a long time!! My thoughts are with your family at this time.

March 14, 2012

I remember serving Jay iced coffee at Dunkin Donuts on a nightly basis as he was on his way to work. Seeing him at the hospital he was always kind and always polite. He had a smile that noone can forget. May God bless you Kelley during this difficult time. Stay strong for your boys. Rest in peace Jay.

Jamie Thoroughgood-Concord Hospital

March 14, 2012

Duhirwe Clement

"Jason...you were an amazing and caring person. You will be missed by so many people. Your family is in thougths and prayers

March 14, 2012

Jennifer Porter

My deepest sympathy goes out to the Massey family; what a wonderful man Jay was.

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