John David Stoebel III

1951 - 2016

John David Stoebel III obituary, 1951-2016, Dennisport, MA

BORN

1951

DIED

2016

FUNERAL HOME

Doane Beal & Ames

260 Main Street

West Harwich, Massachusetts

John Stoebel Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 11, 2016.

John David Stoebel III, 65, of Dennisport, formerly of Marshfield passed away at Cape Cod Hospital on October 10th. John was born in Clinton, MA to the late John David and Corinne E. (Schott) Stoebel and then later moved to Westwood at a young age.

John enjoyed nothing better than a beer and a smoke while laughing and talking with friends, while watching the Red Sox, and Sea Hawks. He was also a proud former Marine who served his country.

He was the beloved husband of Ruthanne ( MacPhail) Stoebel of many years, and is survived by his two sisters Ellen Power and her husband Kevin, Sharon Spellman and her husband Joseph, and the late Karen Reynolds, his three brothers James and wife Judith, Jeffery and his wife Kelly and Jay and his wife Eve. He is also survived by his three children Jessica, Cara, and Jennifer and his beloved cat Eliot. He is also survived by many nieces and nephews, relatives and friends.

Visiting hours will be Monday October 17th from 4-7PM at Doane, Beal & Ames Funeral Home, 260 Main St. W. Harwich, MA. Burial will follow on Tuesday October 18th 10AM at Massachusetts National Cemetery in Bourne, MA. For directions and online condolences please visit www.DoaneBealAmesHarwich.com.

In lieu of flowers donations in John's name can be made to a VFW or a charity of your own choice.

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December 5, 2016

Leslie Greeley

Roxy, I bumped into you today and was so sad to hear the passing of your wonderful husband. The time Bill and I knew u both was always full of laughter and hoping to win keno. We both wept at the same time and u apologized to me because you were working. I'm glad I got to see you and hope you can find solace and peace in time. Leslie and Bill Greeley December 5, 2016

October 18, 2016

Theresa Love

Jennifer, Bruce and I were sorry to hear about your dad please know we are thinking of you. Love Theresa

October 17, 2016

Jim & Kathy Brown

So sorry for your loss. We were sad to hear that he had passed. Our thoughts and prayers are with David and his family.

October 15, 2016

Nancy Petrus

Dear Ruthanne, Reading of John's passing today brought sadness to my heart remembering all the good times. May your memories sustain you during the dark days. Sending you sympathy and love.

October 14, 2016

Tom Eldredge

To Ruthanne and family,
Diana and I wish to express our condolences with John's passing. In the few years I knew John I found him to be very friendly and always had a smile for everyone. One of his favorite sayings was when he closed a conversion was "by a while" and "love you". Well Mr. John Stoebel Sir by a while and love you, until we meet again. P.S. I know you're ok I just looked outside and saw your bright new star

October 14, 2016

Gina Hinckley

Roxy, Tommy and I am so sorry. Johnny was one of the kindest people I've ever met. The man that would give the shirt off his back or the last quarter in his pocket.

October 12, 2016

Patricia Markley

Our thoughts and prayers are with the Stoebel family. Tom and Tricia Markley

October 12, 2016

Deb Stoebel-Grout

We're so sorry to hear about this.....our prayers and sympaty extend to the entire family..............
Bruce, Deb, Cara and Kayden

October 12, 2016

Steven Power

Rest in peace Uncle David. You will be greatly missed!

October 11, 2016

The Staff of Doane Beal & Ames Funeral Home

We wish to extend our deepest sympathies at this difficult time.

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