1966
2017
John P. Gallucci, adored father, husband and brother, age 50, a lifetime resident of Oneonta, N.Y., passed away suddenly and unexpectedly on Thursday, May 11th at Albany Medical Center with his beloved family by his side. John was born on July 7, 1966 to Jacqueline (LaSalle) and John E. Gallucci.
John graduated from Oneonta Senior High School in 1985 and attended the State University of New York at Oneonta where he became a member of the ZBT Fraternity and found brothers for life. John found his calling in the bar and restaurant business when he opened The Silver Bullet in Oneonta in 1991, where he perfected his culinary skills, befriended and helped many of his patrons and employees, and created lifelong friendships. Years later, John owned and operated Rail benders in Oneonta, where he provided patrons with delicious food, drinks, friendship, and sage advice.
John had a strong connection with young people, having worked at the Youth Leadership Academy of South Kortright where he displayed his compassion and talents for guiding youth in a positive direction. Most recently, John found his niche with RSS working at the Elmwood Community Residence in Oneonta where he enriched the lives of many residents and their families.
John was a loving and devoted father to his three children, of whom he was exceedingly proud. He was an Eagle Scout, lifeguard, loved hiking, swimming, cooking, antiques, drawing, working out, helping others whenever possible, adventure, experiencing new things, exploring his cultural heritage, travel, and, most of all, living. John had a tremendous sense of humor and provided comic relief to all he knew. John's heart was full of love and he gave it most generously and freely. He will be dearly and deeply missed by all who had the joy of knowing him.
John is survived by his cherished wife Marcella Gallucci and his three adored children: Anthony, Nicholas, and Holdyn; his loving sister Helyn L. Gallucci and her companion David S. Erbe, of Hilton Head Island, South Carolina, formerly of Oneonta; his paternal Uncle and Aunt Frank and Aida Gallucci; his paternal Uncle Arthur; maternal Uncle and Aunt Richard and Cindy LaSalle; three very dear friends: Cary Panullo, Antonio Vasquez and Scott Foster; cousins, nephews, and in-laws; and his loyal black labrador Noel Gallucci.
John was predeceased by his loving parents John (10/12/03) and Jacqueline (10/27/16); his maternal and paternal grandparents; and by his beloved German Shepherd Bullet.
Friends are invited to greet the family on Thursday, May 18, 2017 from 5pm-8pm at the Lester R Grummons Funeral Home, 14 Grand St, Oneonta.
A funeral Mass will take place on Friday, May 19, 2017 at 10:15 am at St. Mary's Church, 39 Walnut Street, Oneonta. A reception will follow across the street at the hospitality center.
Burial will take place at the convenience of the family.
Donations in John's memory are asked to be made to The Boys Scouts Of America, 6134 State Highway 23, Oneonta, NY 13820.
Condolences to the family may be offered online by visiting www.grummonsfuneralhome.com.
Arrangements are by the Lester R. Grummons Funeral Home of Oneonta, NY.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Sponsored by Lester R. Grummons Funeral Home.
December 10, 2017
Karen Stoeger
You'll be very missed by many! It's been a lot of years since high school... Condolences to family and friends. May you rest in His arms!
August 25, 2017
Chris Sarter
So sorry to hear this. I knew John back at crumhorn. "Guch" was fun on the water front and reconnected with him years later at margaritaville, then the bullet, and eventually rail benders! Always a heartfelt hello and hug! RIP big guy!!
June 2, 2017
Rhonda Meeks
Sorry to hear of John's passing. He was a funny guy who helped make HS tolerable. It sounds like he had a good life, for that I am happy. I know he will be sorely missed. We were all blessed by his generous spirit, kindness, and upbeat positive attitude. I am sending my prayers to his family and friends. He definitely will be missed. We were all blessed to have known him and better off for having known him. Rhonda Tourtellotte Meeks, Brighton Colorado
May 26, 2017
Don Weiss
To John's family, my condolences. It's been many years since I've seen John, but think of him and the rest of the gang at Crumhorn where he so much enjoyed working on the waterfront. Our conversations will always be remembered, whether is was about the waterfront, or his trip down the rail road tracks with some friends. Good by "Al Capone", you will be fondly remembered.
May 19, 2017
Jennifer O'Donnell
From the Staff of the Oneonta Boys and Girls Club I would like to say how sorry we are for your loss. We were shocked to hear about the news and all of us knew how wonderful and amazing John was. He will be missed by so many. Our prayers and thoughts are with you. The Delberta Family, The Dilello Family and the Staff at the Oneonta Boys and Girls Club.
May 19, 2017
Laurie Morales
Rest in peace John. You will be missed. Thoughts and prayers to the family during this very difficult time. I am truly sorry for your loss. May you be comforted by all the wonderful memories you share.
May 19, 2017
Doug & Annmarie Hoag
John, I will always cherish the time that I spent working for you at The Bullet, your huge smile , and your even bigger heart. You were always kind to my family as well as me, a true one of a kind, rest easy my friend, the world has lost a true class act! To your family , our sincere condolences, a great friend, father, brother!
May 19, 2017
Nichole Conklin
The world lost a great man far too soon! John was a dear friend of mine who helped me through some of the worst times in my life and for that i will always be eternally greatful! His laugh and jokes were infectious and his generous ways should be mirrored by all... my condolences go out to the entire gallucci family. Umfortunately i dont think i will be able to make the funeral but i hooe everyone takes comfort in the memeries they got to make with him! R.I.P. johnny.. until we meet in heaven! Nichole Conklin
May 17, 2017
Diane Knowles-Hennessy
Life can be very unkind sometimes. We have lost a beautiful human being much much too soon. Your kind heart, infectious smile and true gentlemen ways will be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing you. Rest in Peace Dear Friend. My condolences to the Gallucci Family. May you find comfort in the many beautiful memories you have made as a family.
With Heartfelt Sympathy, Diane Knowles-Hennessy
May 16, 2017
Cary Panullo
Marci, Holdyn, Nick, Anthony and the Gallucci family, My deepest condolences, thoughts and prayers are with each of you during this extremely difficult time. John was my "brother" and dearest friend and this loss is so heartbreaking and will leave an ache in our hearts for eternity but knowing he leaves behind children who will live on and contribute the love and generosity they inherited from their father means he left this world a better place by being a part of it. May you all learn to smile at the memories and find comfort in knowing he is watching over all he loved.
May 16, 2017
Bruce "llama" Clink
John very saddened that we didn't get that chance to get together brother on behalf of the Clink family and myself You Will be truly missed !!
The way you open your heart as you always did when my mother and father passed away just shows the type of person you were !!!
Thanks for everything !!
May 16, 2017
James Harkenreader
John I still cant believe you are gone. I am deeply saddened & will cherish all the memories & times we had with eachother. You were & will still always be the legend of Onteonta. I'll see you on the other side one day brother. You will be missed by so many John. I love you brother!
My sincere condolences to Marcie, the kids & Helyn. You are all in my thoughts & prayers.
May 16, 2017
Giuseppe Papandrea
John,
There are no words that express the sadness of this loss. 5am at the Neptune Diner after the bars close on those late summer nights before the students came back. Laughs and Sarcasm about the nights action. I miss home and I miss those times and you were part of them buddy. REST EASY OLD FRIEND....GOD SPEED
With Love.. Joe Papandrea
May 16, 2017
Having known John was a gift. He was genuine, kind and funny. His smile lit up the room and his to see him laugh...well it was contagious. Rest in peace my friend. My deepest Sympathy, Jen
May 16, 2017
Liz Erbe Wilcox
So very sad to learn of John's passing. It's been a rough year for your family.
Sending love and hugs your way.
May 16, 2017
Sheliah Chase
You are in all of our hearts John. We had you such a short time here on earth but I take comfort in my belief that you are now watching over everyone you love from a beautiful place. Despite some very difficult times this past year I had never seen you so happy and proud of your wife and children. The pouring out of love and admiration we are seeing from your family and friends is truly a testament to how you lived your life. May they bring comfort to your family as they mark your passing.
May 16, 2017
Johanna Schrom
My Deepest Heartfelt Condolences Go Out To Your Family John,
Your Sudden Loss Came As such a Shock to so Many of Us. You Were So Special to So Many, and Your Light, and Memory will Live on in All of Our Heart's Forever.
Fly High on Eagle Wings John, And Forever watch over All those you Loved So Much!!!!
May 15, 2017
Michael Lazaris the old owner of Laskaris restaurant
I was so saddened to hear of your passing so young . Your mom and dad will be waiting for you with open arm's have I great journey my friend till we meet again may God bless your soul.
May 15, 2017
Ruben Reyes
I was shocked and saddened to hear of John's passing. I was the Director of the Youth Leadership Academy and got to know John through his work with the boys there. It was a privilege to know and work with him. He had a beautiful heart and a great smile. I'm so sorry for your loss and pray for God's peace for the entire family.
May 15, 2017
Ivy Harkenreader
John you were loved & cherished by so many. You will be missed by all. I was privilaged to know you. We had so many plans we wanted to do & its just so sad how tragically you left us all. My heart goes out to everyone who loved you & was a part of your life. My sincere condolences to Marcie, the kids, & his sister Helyn. May god give you all the strength to carry on. John is now in a better place & will be looking out over you all. John will help lift your strength & spirts because we all know how deeply he loved & how strong he was mentally & physically. John will be forever missed & forever in our thoughts. Godspeed my friend. Xoxo
May 15, 2017
Darren Wilsey
I'm so sorry to learn of John's unexpected passing. I first got to know John during the spring and summer of 1990. My band began performing at a bar where John was working at the time called Paradise Lost. I will always remember John's kind demeanor, and how he was super encouraging and treated all of us like gold. Those are some of my favorite memories from Oneonta. He was a great spirit and will be missed by anyone who crossed paths with him. My sincere condolences to John's family.
May 15, 2017
So very sorry for your loss, we thought the world of John, and will miss him very much, all our prayers go out to his family, a good man gone way to soon, all our love to you...Robert Bell Sr, Carolyn Bell and family
May 15, 2017
Bob Reed
My sympathies for the family . I worked with John and his uncle Art at Suco . I will miss him .
May 15, 2017
Rene Fink
Helyn and family I am so sorry for your loss- my heart is breaking for each and everyone of you.
May 15, 2017
Neal Hanzalik
Neal and La-Sita Hanzalik send our heartfelt Condolences to you and family members! we are so heartbroken over John's passing !Continue to be strong and continue to pray for acceptance! Neal said that John was his High school buddy!
May 15, 2017
Ray
The first word that comes to my mind about John is "generosity". Whether it was his time, attention or food serving portions, John was a giver and his helpings were always large and generous.
May 15, 2017
My heart is breaking for you Helyn and your family.
May 12, 2017
Duane & Mary Colone Hathaway
So sorry to Heleyn and John's family, aunts and uncles on your loss. John is now with his mother and father and in a better place. God Bless all of you.
May 12, 2017
Kim MacPherson
I love you my friend❤. You will always be in my heart and the many memories that I have treasured throughout the years. I know you will watch over all of us. Your strength, compassion, love and and generousity will live on within your children. Thank you for having me be a part of your life❤❤.
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