John Palmer "J.P." Shelley

1971 - 2013

John Palmer "J.P." Shelley obituary, 1971-2013

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Memphis, Tennessee

John Shelley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 6, 2013.

John Palmer (J.P.) Shelley, 42, of Piperton, TN, passed away on October 4, 2013. Born in Memphis, TN, J.P. graduated from Germantown High School and attended Mississippi State University. J.P. leaves behind his loving wife of nearly 19 years, Beverly, son Palmer, daughter Emme (nicknamed "KoKo" by her daddy), mother Joy Hancock (Bill), brother J. Andrew (Kimberly Stegmaier) of Boston, MA, sister Alexa of Boone, NC, in-laws Jerry and Phoebe Corder, Matt and Lisa Harris, three nephews, a niece and hundreds of friends and loved ones. J.P. was an expert contractor known for his skillful craftsmanship. He spent time as a professional chef and loved to cook for his friends and family. He was a true family man who most loved spending time with his beautiful wife and children. J.P. was preceded in death by his father James (Johnny) Shelley whom J.P. lovingly took care of during a long battle with cancer. J.P. loved hunting, spending time outside gardening, and renovating homes for his family. J.P. always enjoyed making people laugh and was named "wittiest" of his high school graduating class. J.P. was very loved and will be missed by all who knew him. The family will gather at Memphis Funeral Home on Poplar Avenue for a time of sharing and refreshments on Monday, October 7th from five o'clock until eight o'clock in the evening. Services will be held at the church J.P & his family attended, Central Church, 2005 E. Winchester Road, Collierville, TN 38017, beginning at ten o'clock in the morning on Tuesday, October 8. In lieu of flowers, a fund has been set up for his family at Metropolitan Bank, 1661 Aaron Brenner Drive, Memphis, TN 38120 or donations may be made to Baptist Trinity Hospice House in Collierville. Online condolences and floral tributes may be offered by visiting www.memphisfuneralhome.net.

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December 6, 2013

Stephanie Tayloe

I can t tell you how hurt I am to learn,just today of the death of our John Palmer, he was such a sweet boy and
I loved him so.I am so sorry.

October 27, 2013

Betty Stuckey

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

October 27, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Margaret, Gary Campbell; Betty, Rick and Jarrett Stuckey

October 10, 2013

Sylvia Pegram Willis

My deepest sympathy to all the family.

October 9, 2013

Natasha Smith

MR. SHELLEY AS I CALLED HIM WAS A VERY SPECIAL MAN
WE ALL ENJOYED HIS HUMOR AT HOME DEPOT STORE 0703 ON TRUSE PARKWAY. WE ALL AS A PRO TEAM : NATASHA SMITH TONI SAMPLE BRYAN MYERS JOEY BAILEY NIC WOODS AND CHRIS HACKETT WILL MISS HIM SO VERY MUCH. I WAS TRULY HEARTBROKEN WHEN I WAS TOLD OF THIS HORRIFIC TRAGEDY.A FEW OF US HAVE J.P.S. WRITTEN ON OUR APRONS IN HONOR OF MR. SHELLEY. HE AND I WERE JUST TALKING ABOUT KOKO AND PALMER A COUPLE DAYS BEFORE HIS LIFE WAS TRAGICALLY TAKEN.

October 9, 2013

Jeff Mahoney

Alexa,

So sorry to hear about this tragedy. You and J.P's family are in my prayers.

October 8, 2013

Patrick Rowland

JP was a great man. What a loss to us all. The thoughts and prayers of the Rowlands and all the guys at Building Materials go out to the Shelley family. We will miss him greatly.

October 8, 2013

Stephanie Sloan

Dearest Alexa and Family,

We are so very sorry to hear about the sudden loss of your brother, son, spouse and father. Even thought we were not fortunate enough to have known him we want the family to know we are praying for you all. May God be with you all today and in the days to come. God Bless.

October 8, 2013

Bo Reynolds

For one you have so much respect for - words do no justice. He and Bev were great neighbors. I watched both his children grow up next to me. His love and interaction with them was priceless. He will truly be missed.

October 8, 2013

Shelby Furr

JP was a special person, the kind whose spirit will endure for a long time to come. Through the suffering of his loss may we find comfort in knowing that we have a man of his greatness up there on our side. My heart and thoughts go out to his family during this time.

October 7, 2013

Misty Barnes

I didn't know him, but he was taking the time to renovate my childhood home. He must've been a great man.

October 7, 2013

Dear Alexa,

You are on my heart and in my prayers. Words cannot express my sympathy. I pray by His Holy Spirit for that which our minds cannot fully comprehend and that you and your family are comforted through the sufficiency of His eternal grace. May His peace be with you.

Debbie Smith

October 7, 2013

Sandi Jackson

What a horrible shock to hear about J.P. this morning! We always enjoyed him when he came in to the office for his appointments. He had a shyness about him with a quick wit and always spoke of his family during his time there. Loved telling everyone that his "wife made him get braces" but he was" kind of glad she did." Such a sweet man and ,clearly, a loving husband and dad. Our prayers and sincerest, heartfelt thoughts go out to his family.

Sandi Jackson
Weiss Orthodontics

October 7, 2013

jim harrelson

Alexa, we love you and know that many here are praying for you and your family, especially for Beverly, Palmer and Emme. Praying Psalm 121 for you.

October 7, 2013

Billy Kitchens

I have known J. P. and his dad for a long time thru business and always enjoyed talking to him. It makes me very sad that this has happened and I will keep his family in my prayers. I will surly miss him!

October 7, 2013

Daphne Speer

Alexa and family, I am so sorry that your brother was taken away so early. The pictures and his life tell how very special he was to you, your family and the community. Please know that you are in my prayers.

October 7, 2013

Cristina Oprea

It was a blessing for me every time I met J.P. when I visited U.S.A. I still remember the day I was with you at Palmer's celebration! He was such a respectful and nice man, and so caring with his children...
As I hear and read about him I so much wished I could know him better...
I know it is a great loss for the entire family and community there...and I pray for you from the first moment I heard the tragic news. And I will continue to pray for your entire family and especially for the precious kids whose father is with God the Father. Both of them love you and know your hearts now...
Much love and appreciation,
Cristina

Posted by Cristina Oprea

October 7, 2013

Diane Tonelli

Bev and children....love survives all things. The love J.P. had for you, his children and friends is there forever. I love you dearly!! Diane

October 7, 2013

Milena Chotard

Our hearts break for the Shelley family - we have you in our thoughts and prayers. Please reach out if you need anything. God Bless.

October 7, 2013

gloria dorian

I was shocked to learn of JP's death. He was a fine man. I will always remember him for his love of his wife,
children and of his family. He conducted his job skills
with perfection and was always very professional, a loyal freind to all who knew him. And who can forget his sense of humor!
I hope that you can find some comfort in your many special memories and in the thought of your happy
years. Please be assured that each of you are in my
prayers for this sad loss.
Love,
Gloria Dorian

October 7, 2013

Beverly and Palmer and KoKo: We are praying for you and your family. We don't know you personally, but I feel like I do thru JP,s Aunt Sharon who loved all of you so. We have requested prayers thru a lot of people and the churches here in NC. God bless you and keep you in his loving arms!

October 7, 2013

Brenda Durden

Our deepest sympathy for your loss. We send prayers and love to your entire family. We all hope that you will find strength for healing and comfort in the days ahead. The team at Hampton Inns and Homewood Suites by Hilton Asheville, NC

October 7, 2013

Jeanette Peters

My deepest sympathies to Joy and the whole family. I will keep you all in my prayers. God willl help you all through this.

Jeanette Peters (Joyce Draughan's mother)

October 7, 2013

We are so sorry for the loss of JP. Our thoughts and prayer are going out to the family. We love JP as one of our own, as a big brother to Buddy and he will missed very much. GOD Bless. Carroll, Anita Rachel and Buddy Cotton

October 7, 2013

Carole Tucker

Joy I remember J.P.'s visits to the office and the love he showed his Mother. My heart breaks for you and your family. My Gods strength and grace help you through this time of sorrow. Remembering you in our prayers.

October 7, 2013

Andrew, all of your friends at FFL are hurting for you and the entire Shelley Family. Please know you are in our hearts and thoughts. God Bless.
Julie, Sue, David and Will

October 7, 2013

Jim Reedy

My family and I have known JP for over 20 years. He had many talents, but his greatest was his love of family and friends. He was a true professional that never cut corners in his work, nor would he allow others. We will all miss him.

October 6, 2013

Jen Huggins

I remember JP as my next door neighbor ans fellow GHS student. We love him and all of the Shelly Family. You all are in my thoughts.

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