Kevin Howard Schaefer

1954 - 2017

Kevin Howard Schaefer obituary, 1954-2017

BORN

1954

DIED

2017

FUNERAL HOME

Pixley Funeral Home

322 West University Drive

Rochester, Michigan

Kevin Schaefer Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Mar. 13, 2017.

Kevin Howard Schaefer, a beloved child of God, born into this world on July 12, 1954 has completed his baptism and entered into his heavenly home prepared just for him on March 9, 2017.

Kevin is survived by his loving wife Anne, and his two cherished daughters Emma and Molly. He is also survived by his Mother-in-law Pat Webster, sister-in-law Libby (Scott) Benner and Susan (Tim) Griffen, as well as many Nieces, Nephews and extended family and friends.

Kevin graduated from Farmington High School and Albion College where he played football and wrestled. He was the captain of the 1976 undefeated Football team at Albion College.

He was a member of Kirk in the Hills Church, Albion College Hall of Fame, Orchard Lake Country Club, and Detroit Gun Club.

Kevin worked for Dell Financial Services.

He has found his way home to be in the closest presence of his God, whom he loved, adored and was thankful to every day of his life.

A Memorial Service will be held 1 pm Thursday, March 16, 2017 at Kirk in the Hills, 1340 West Long Lake Road, Bloomfield Hills. The family will receive friends from 11 am until time of the service.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Kirk in the Hills or First Presbyterian Church of Plymouth.

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March 8, 2024

Friend

Dave Wood

Miss you my brother...

March 9, 2023

Friend

Mike Cochran

Miss you Kevin. I enjoy our talks daily and special events. Hugs sent your way.

March 8, 2023

Friend

Dave Wood

Miss you Kevin..... you made the world a better place

March 8, 2022

Mike Cochran

Miss you Kevin. I enjoy our daily talks.

March 8, 2022

Friend

Dave Wood

Still missing you very much my brother....

March 8, 2021

Friend

Dave Wood

Miss you zKevin. There is a big hole you left when you made the trip to heaven..... thoughts and prayers to all family and friends

March 19, 2020

David Hough

Ahhh, my Dear Sweet Chrome-Bald Giant!! I was away Fly fishing in a desolate spot of Chile ~ that youd have adored ~ when this sad anniversary came around. My photos of us give me nothin but HUGE and Joyful grins. Blessed to have you in my Life, sweet Kevin!!

March 8, 2020

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Pamela Corridor

Miss you still my dear friend. Think of you and your family frequently. I am sure heaven is everything we have been promised. Until we meet again.

September 27, 2017

Sam Puma

Kevin and I worked together at GE in the 90's and remained friends, speaking at least once or twice a year. We reunited again at DFS. He was a very genuine person and friend. I was told today of his passing and am truly sorry for your families loss. I will miss him.

June 27, 2017

Brian Jankins

I had the pleasure of working with Kevin a few years ago at GE and I am a better person for having him pass through my life. My conversations while we worked together and also after our tenure together were a true joy. He had an inner peace and way about him that always made those around him feel better. Pure and simple that is the presence of God. God speed Kevin.

March 27, 2017

Peter Blom

So sorry Thinking of you.

March 25, 2017

Jack Gardner

I knew Kevin years ago (wrestled with him at Farmington High) and always thought highly of him. I want to extend my condolences to his family from mine and know that your family is in our prayers. I am truly sorry he was taken from us so soon.
Jack Gardner and family

March 20, 2017

Curtis Pope

Dear Anne,
Our thoughts and prayers our with you and your family. Carol and I have been out of the country and just heard. Kevin was a very special man.
Sincerely,
Curtis J. Pope

March 16, 2017

Kay Gilmore

Dear Anne, Emma, and Molly,
This loving video is such a beautiful tribute to Kevin's loving, warm, and silly nature. How wonderful to have shared life with this special person. He will be missed by everyone who was lucky enough to have had him in their life.
Sincerely,
Kay Talesnick Gilmore

March 16, 2017

Rick Otis

Anne, Emma, Molly and Family,
So sorry I was unable to attend the services today. Kevin was a great teammate, leader, brother and great friend. I know how much he loved you all. His faith was great, may God rest his soul and bring comfort to all of you in this time of need.

March 16, 2017

Jerry and Nancy Burton

Will always treasure our time with Kevin, Anne and the Schaefer family at the Sports Club swim meets, where we could watch Emma, Molly, Michael and all of their other Sports Club teammates having a ball. Rest easy Kevin, as God holds you close.

March 16, 2017

Tom Freeland

The pictures you provided show a loving husband, devoted father, great son, tremendous friend, and revered teammate.
This was Kevin. My last conversation with him was at the MSU vs Air Force game, and it was about how proud he was of his girls. This man will truly be missed.

March 16, 2017

Richard Keier

We remember with joy, the years that we were blessed to have Anne and Kevin at Northbrook Presbyterian Church in Beverly Hills. We know that God is with both of you and your daughters at this difficult time.
Richard Keier (and Karen, too)

March 16, 2017

Celeste Bozzi

Rest In Peace Kevin. My condolences to the entire Schaefer family.

March 15, 2017

Dear Anne, Emma and Molly...We are so very sorry for your broken hearts. We feel so fortunate to have shared part of your lives watching the girls grow.
Truly a beautiful family...
All our Love,
Lois Nolen, Terri Diegel and family

March 15, 2017

Anne, I am so very sorry to hear of Kevin's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Emma, Molly, and the entire family. - Kathren (Pierce) O'Brien

March 15, 2017

Tom Crane

Anne, I was very saddened to see that Kevin had passed. My condolences to you and your family. I enjoyed talking to him on Sunday mornings during your time at O.L.C.C.,P.
I thought he was a really great, kind man and well respected. My prayers and thoughts are with you!

March 15, 2017

Corrine Kemmish

Dear Anne, Emma and Molly. My heart is deeply saddened for your loss. I loved Kevin and I'm spending time remembering our childhood, teen yrs and adult yrs. All the cousins had so much fun. Kevin was a kind and gentle person. I am certain he is in a good place. God Bless.

March 15, 2017

Shirley Braatz

Anne, our hearts are hurting for you and your girls. Praying for peace and comfort.... Bill and Shirley

March 15, 2017

Mark & Joann Ratliff

Anne, I am so sorry to learn of Kevin's passing. I have such fond memories of beginning our career together at Burroughs Corporation as our first job out of college. Also, great memories of visiting the Schaefer's beautiful home on Torch Lake. Kevin was such a gentle, compassionate and caring man with a bear hug like Grizzly Adams that conveyed his love for his friends. Joann and I are in Florida so we cannot attend the service for Kevin tomorrow, however, you and your family are in our prayers. Mark & Joann Ratliff

March 15, 2017

Robb Churella

Pastor Anne, Emily & Molly:
What a glorious day when we graduate into the larger life of eternity with our LORD. The sudden & unexpected call home brings with it a special kind of grief but rest assured our Comforter will provide you with all the strength and courage to weather this storm. Will raise you up in prayer during these times of sadness and joy. Kevin's been a fellow teammate on Power Jr High 8th grade football and all three years of Farmington Senior High wrestling. We last saw each other when our coach, Mr. Cook, was honored several years ago. What a joy catching up! Especially learning about you answering His call into pastoral ministry. May God continue to richly bless you, now...and forevermore. Amen

Your sincere friend in Christ,

Robb Churella
Senior Pastor
Bartlett Grove Ministries

March 15, 2017

Dear Annie and family,

I am deeply saddened to learn of your loss. Kevin and I grew up together in a sense as youngsters playing around at our Grandfather's home in Detroit. Kevin was always the most caring and considerate member of our family. Although I last saw Kevin at my mother's funeral, you and he, and Emma and Molly have never been far from my thoughts and prayers.

Please accept my most sincere condolences to you, Emma, and Molly, at this most difficult of times. Kevin has definitely left the world a better place for his having been here with us, before going home to our Lord and Savior.

With love and affection always,

Your cousin Kenny

March 15, 2017

Dave Wood

Cannot tell you how sad I am to hear of Kevin's passing. I know Kevin is in a far better place but he sure made this world a lot more enjoyable!! I was a teammate of Kevin's on the Albion Football team. Kevin was this big, blonde, tough guy with a heart of gold..... Such a great honor to have been able to call Kevin a friend of mine....... Rest well Kevin....... Anne and girls, you are in my thoughts and prayers .......

March 15, 2017

Kimberly Accurso

Dear Anne and Family,

I'm so sorry for your loss. I worked with Kevin for a brief period of time and he was a very good and kind man. He always spoke very fondly of all of you. I wish you comfort during this difficult time.

March 15, 2017

Jason Underwood

I am sorry for your loss. Kevin was a good man. Always had a smile. He was always cheerful and willing to help. He will be missed.

March 15, 2017

Mike & Deb Cochran

I have no words for this sudden passing of Kevin. I feel so blessed to have experienced Kevin, Anne, Emma and Molly. Many peoples lives are enriched because of Kevin. Prayers your way and God is great. He will be truly missed.

March 15, 2017

Sergio Patiño

Our sincere condolences to Kevin's family. I knew Kevin through work and he was a very nice person always smiling and very approachable. He will be greatly missed.

March 15, 2017

Jennifer Kerr

Dear Anne, Emma, and, Molly
I am praying for you and the rest of the family. He loved you all so much. Please know I am here for you all night or day, as you have been there for me.

March 14, 2017

Catherine Biasello

Emma and family we are so sorry to hear of your father's passing. Your parents have been so good to Sarah through the years and she always speaks so highly of your family. Please know you're all in our thoughts and prayers.

March 14, 2017

Barbara Corn

I am so sorry to hear this. My prayers are with you all at this difficult time. Although I can not be there on Thursday I will be with you in spirit. May God bless you all and hold you in his arms.

March 14, 2017

Kathleen Kennedy-Torgerson

Dear Anne, Molly and Emma,
Jackie and I are heartbroken to hear of your loss, you're in our thoughts and prayers.

March 14, 2017

Brad Steusloff

My condolences on the passing of Kevin. I want you to know he was a kind man even back in HS when I knew him well.

March 14, 2017

Jeffrey Krause

Kevin was a great teammate and friend. I never saw him in a bad mood: Just one helluva NICE GUY! Jeff Krause

March 14, 2017

Dennis Neubacher

Reverend Schaefer, Karel and I are deeply saddened to hear of your husband's passing. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

March 14, 2017

Our sincere laugh be and hugs are sent your way! Rick and Anne Howe

March 14, 2017

Janet Trafeli

Your example, your gentle, kind and understanding spirit will be missed, not just by me, Jack, and Sam and all of your friends and your beautiful family, but by this earthly world which you have left a little bit emptier but I think, undoubtedly better, for your presence in it.
Godspeed to you, Kevin and thank you.

March 14, 2017

Frank Saad

Anne, Emma, and Molly, Kevin was a very, very special person from the first moment I met him. I feel blessed to be able to call him a friend. He was so proud of his family and his faith. He will live on through you. Jennie and I are storming heaven with prayers for all of you. We send our love.

March 14, 2017

Sandra Trombley

Dear Anne, Emma, Molly and family: We are so sad to hear of this very, very sad news. Our prayers and love are with all of you! Bob and Sandy Trombley

March 14, 2017

Rev. Dr. Brad Palmer

Anne and Family we send our love and prayers to you Molly and Emma. You are a remarkable person Hold tight to one another Love The Palmers: Sherry, Brad and Charley

March 14, 2017

Bob Southwell

One of the most kind man I have ever known.

March 14, 2017

Carol Rillema

Anne, Emma and Molly,

I am shocked and saddened upon hearing the news of Kevin's death. The loss of a husband and father so young and unexpectedly is huge. My deepest sympathy to all of you and my prayers for all of you.

March 14, 2017

Leila Charlesworth

Dear Anne, Emma and Molly. I am still in a state of shock with the sad news of Kevin passing. I have wonderful memories of the most kind and caring neighbor I have ever known. I still remember Kevin standing at my front door welcoming me with a huge bouquet of flowers. It was 11 years ago. May God bless you all. I am praying for you. Much Love, Leila Charlesworth

March 14, 2017

Marijo Hockley

Dear Anne,
My heart and prayers are with now. You are amazingly strong person, but take the time to lean on others. May God's love and peace be with you! Much love, Marijo Hockley

March 14, 2017

Dorothy Buchan

Dear Anne, Emma and Molly, My deepest sympathy is with you and your family. Kevin was a great guy and had an infectious laughter and wonderful smile. He was so proud of his family and loved each of you dearly. I will hold you in prayer during these difficult days and as you begin your journey of grief. When a friend loses a loved one words are difficult...I pray that you will find comfort in the love of God and God's grace as the power is with you. I am so blessed that our life paths did cross.
Dorothy Buchan

March 14, 2017

James Fay

Anne and family,
My sincere sympathies to you all. Thank you for sharing the excellent photos. It is apparent that his cup was overflowing with love and will greatly be missed. God bless you all.

March 14, 2017

Dear Anne and family, The Lawrence family was shocked when the news of Kevin's passing was shared with Celtic Cross on Sunday. We pray that God's peace be with you all in these tough days ahead and we pray that Jesus was there to greet Kevin with outstretched arms when he entered his eternal home. Our thoughts, love and prayers will be with you Emma and Molly. God Bless, Bob and Dawn Lawrence

March 14, 2017

Mark Owen

My Deepest Sympathies to Anne, and family on Kevin's passing. He was truly a good man with a strong heart. Mark D. Owen

March 14, 2017

gloria stanley

Dear Anne, Emma and Molly - My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as well as the congregation of First Presbyterian Church of Warren. Peace Love & Faith be with you.

March 14, 2017

Ken Cowan

I have many fond memories of fun times had with Kevin. The world has lost a quality human being. Sending positive energy to Anne, Molly, and Emma. I regret that I will be unable to attend the service, but will be there in spirit. Kevin will be dearly missed by all who knew him.

March 14, 2017

Pamela Corridor

Anne, Emma and Molly, my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time. Kevin was a blessing to everyone he touched. His kind spirit and warm soul will be missed. Heaven has gained another angel.

March 14, 2017

Anne, Emma and Molly,

Tony and I were shocked and heartbroken for you, and all the people you and Kevin touched.
Looking at the pictures, reminds me of how much love and happiness you brought wherever you went.

First United of Warren was so blessed to have you for the short time you were our interim. Thank you for sharing Kevin and the girls with us, too.

Hold on to those wonderful memories and find peace and comfort in your friends and faith.

Love and peace,

Jane and Tony Wong
Waren First Presbyterian.

March 14, 2017

Penny Anderson

Anne my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless

March 14, 2017

Dick & Nancy Cook

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughters. Kevin was not only a great athlete but a great guy. He was a kind and gentle person. Dick and Nancy Cook.

March 14, 2017

Dick Cook

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your daughters. Kevin was not only a great athlete but a great guy. He was a kind and gentle person. Dick and Nancy Cook.

March 14, 2017

Pamela Nagle

Anne my thoughts prayers and love are with you and the girls. I will be at the Kirk in spirit as I can remember us running into you and Kevin there for Christmas service. My heart breaks. Love.

March 13, 2017

David R. Hough

What more can be said than, that huge, warm, tall and thoughtful bald guy touched my life, and I have been so blessed by his being a dear sweet friend. Gonna so miss you, Kevin!

March 13, 2017

Kellie McCarthy-Watts

Anne, Emma and Molly, so sorry for your loss. Lifting you all up in prayer and sending lots of love during this most difficult time. Forever in your hearts till that one day you meet again. God Bless. KellIe

March 13, 2017

Mike Tyler

No one had a bigger heart and a more sincere smile than Kevin. It was a privilege to know Kevin and an honor to play on his team at Albion. Anne, we all love your family. RIP Captain Schaefer, jersey #74 will not be forgotten.

March 13, 2017

Dave McGuigan

Life is the most beautiful and delicate gift we can ever imagine. Kevin appreciated this great gift by blessing everyone he encountered with his smile, friendship and gentile nature. The three most important women in his life were blessed with this every day. May his goodness and generosity continue to shine bright for you, Anne, and the girls, always...

March 13, 2017

Bill Schram

My prayers of sympathy and support are with the family.

March 13, 2017

Dottie Holmes

Anne and girls,

My heart aches for all of you. Kevin was one of those larger than life people. You didn't have to know him well to know what a great guy he was. Billy and I are keeping you in our prayers and hoping the memories of your wonderful life together will bring you peace.

Sending so much love and comfort,
Dottie Holmes

March 13, 2017

Amy Nault

Anne, I am very sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you Emma and Molly at this difficult time.

March 13, 2017

Tim Newsted

My sincere condolences to all of Kevin's family & friends and all in the Albion College family. We were blessed to know Kevin and my prayers are with you.

March 13, 2017

Deborah Lankford

Anne, I was so shocked to learn of Kevin's passing. You, Emma and Molly are in my prayers at this very difficult time. Love to all...

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