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Kyle Van Winkle Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 3, 2013.

Kyle Allen Van Winkle-30 of Smithville, MO passed away on December 1st, 2013. Memorial services will be 11:00 am Friday December 6th at First Christian Church of Smithville, 201 N Bridge Street. Visitation will be 5:30-8:30 pm Thursday at the church. Interment services will be private. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions are suggested to The Kyle Van Winkle Memorial Fund in care of Jenni Van Winkle to benefit the education of Kyle's son William.
Born in Smithville, MO, Kyle graduated from Belton High School. He went on to play football at William Jewell College, where he graduated with a Bachelor's degree. He was employed at Community America Credit Union. Kyle married Jenni Flanders on August 19, 2011. After two wonderful years they were blessed with a son, William Allen seven weeks ago. Kyle was an avid golfer and enjoyed cheering on Mizzou and Kansas City teams. A loving and devoted husband, father, son, grandson and brother, he loved to be with family and friends. Kyle's compassion for others showed through everything he did but nothing compared to the love he had for his wife and son.
Proceeded in death by his grandfather Ronnie Van Winkle and grandmother Patricia Blanchette. He leaves behind his wife, Jenni Van Winkle and his infant son William. His parents, Dean and Cindy Van Winkle. Siblings Kelly (Jeff) Lyon, Klinton Van Winkle. Mother and Father in law Kent and Marty Flanders. Brother in law Brad Flanders. Maternal grandparents Harold and Shirley Miller. Paternal grandmother Jan Van Winkle. Two nephews Drew and Cash Lyon.
Kyle will forever be in the hearts of those that loved him and his legacy will live on through his son.

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December 1, 2014

Dara McMurray

Dean,Cindy and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you today. May God continue to comfort you all.

February 25, 2014

Lindsey Smith-Shanks. Wayne and Kathy's daughter

Cindy and Family I am so sorry to here about your loss! I just made the connection of this whole thing! I have not seen you all in about 25 years Prayers to you all

February 21, 2014

Krisla Peterman

Ms. Cindy, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your entire family.

January 10, 2014

Niki Masteller

Miss. Cindy, my heart hurts for you and your family!! I just found out and I have no words to express my heartfelt prayers for all of you. Please, if you need anything do NOT hesitate to reach out to me! We love you Miss. Cindy!!
Love, The Masteller's

December 24, 2013

Craig Malita

Dean and Cindy, it has been years since we have spoken. This is just a short note to let you know I am thinking of your family during this tragic time.

December 19, 2013

Merry Christmas Kyle. May you rest in peace. We think about you every single day.

December 17, 2013

Cindy, Dean and family, I have been in shock since hearing of Kyle's death, I remember him as such a sweet, cute little boy when I was your neighbor several years ago in Belton. I am so sorry for your loss and hope you know that thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones. Susan Claerhout

December 11, 2013

Candy Fortner

I wanted you to know that you and Will are in our prayers.

December 9, 2013

Kimberly Walker

I don't know this family and I live in Michigan, but after reading it, it saddens my heart. I will pray for this family and God will get you through this. I am so sorry to hear this. God has an angel in his kingdom.

December 8, 2013

Cindy,Dean and family,
Though I hadn't seen Kyle since he was a young boy, I had no doubt he grew up to be an outstanding man with your guidance and love. What a senseless tragedy. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Tammy Russo (Woodard)
Brooke Woodard

December 8, 2013

Diane Lindquist

I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Kyle at the credit union. He was a wonderful person who always had a smile on his face. Keep your hearts open to God as he will help mend all the pain you feel. Kyle will be missed.

December 8, 2013

Valerie Rapp

Kelly- I am so sorry for the loss of your brother. My prayers go out to you and your family.

December 8, 2013

Angela Langdon

I am so sorry for the loss of someone you have loved and cherished. My Heart and Prayers go out to you and your son... May God Watch over you both.. Words can only do so much, as many of us know. Time is what it will take to endure this loss, and you will find, time goes faster sometimes than you want, and sometimes it feels necessary to want it to go fast, just for a bit. And God will help you with the Time.... As will the Love of your family and friends. Count on your family and friends, they won't mind at all, when you need them... I don't Know you or your family, but a friend sent your name to me, and I just wanted you to know, Sometimes, more than you know, Strangers Do Care... God Bless

December 8, 2013

Becky Starnes

My heart goes out to your family.

December 8, 2013

I dont know this family personally but I live here in Smithville and just know we are a wonderful community . If there's anything we can do to help your family please ask. My prayers go out to each and every person this has impacted.

December 8, 2013

Roxanne Arvidson

Jenni and family: I am so deeply sorry for your loss. You all will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

December 7, 2013

So sorry for you loss.No words can heal your broken heart.Kyle will be forever your Guardian Angel.William daddy will be with you always.

December 7, 2013

Brian Ross

December 7, 2013

Jeffrey Ansell

December 7, 2013

margaret p.

This is so sad..I am truly sorry this happened. My prayers go out to your family. RIP

December 6, 2013

Rich Regan

I played little league football and had some classes in High School with Kyle. I have a unique memory of him on that little league team. At practice the team was conducting football tackling drills and I was partnered up with Kyle. It was my job to tackle him because he was the one running with the football. Well I outweighed Kyle quite a bit and assumed that tackling him would be easy. I could not have been more wrong! He ended up running right through me and knocking the wind out of me! It was the first time that had ever happened so I was freaking out a bit, so Kyle runs back over to me to make sure I was ok reaches out his hand helps me up and said you should always tackle low ! He Smiled and said I will show you! So he worked with all throughout the season, not on just tackling but just how to be a better football player all around. He was only a year older than me but was wise beyond his years. He displayed outstanding leadership skills and was showed a lot of class. I am deeply saddened to hear what had happened to him! The pain and sorrow his close family and friends feel must be unbearable. I want to tell the Van Winkle family you are in my thoughts and prayers. Kyle will never be forgotten!

December 6, 2013

Haus Family

So sorry for your loss. Your family is in our prayers.

December 6, 2013

Stacie Wilson

So sorry for your loss , I don't personally know you but have followed this story. , all the family is in my thoughts and prayers.

December 6, 2013

Tina Barnes

I am so sorry for your loss, my prayers are with your family.

December 6, 2013

I am so sorry about your loss. My condolences is with you and your family. Please cherish the loves both of you have for each other because he always with you in your heart. He looked very happy with William in KC Star..
T. Taylor

December 6, 2013

Dan Price

So very sorry about your tradgedy

December 6, 2013

There are no answers to why such things happen those who bring so much joy and happiness to the lives of so many, but may you find comfort in the fact that the lives of those who knew Kyle, even for a mere second, are better simply because he was a part of them. Kyle was such a kind, caring individual that brought so much light to an often dark world and his light will continue to shine through those that knew him.

December 6, 2013

Teri Nicholas

I am so very sorry for your loss and this terrible tragedy. I did not know Kyle but understand he was a wonderful man. Your family has been and will be in my thoughts and prayers. May the wonderful memories of Kyle help you through this difficult time.

December 6, 2013

Adam & Becky Craddock

I played football with Kyle at William Jewell. Kyle was an inspiration with his continued smile. Our condolences to the Van Winkle family.

December 6, 2013

Verna & Jack Underwood

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

December 6, 2013

Theresa Cervantes

Cindy & Family, I am at a total loss of words for you and your family's pain. Nothing I say can sufficiently express how very sorry I am for you and your family. Your family is composed of the kindest and nicest people I know. I am so sorry that Kyle was taken from all of you. Prayers for you all.

December 5, 2013

Judy Kimbrough

Jenni, Cindy, Dean and the whole family...we are so sad because of the death of Kyle...I remember him as such a pleasant, kind, polite young man at the Miller Reunions. We don't understand this tragedy, but we know we live in a fallen world. "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and don't lean to your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths." Proverbs 3:5-6. We can't see it now but in Romans 8:28 God promises to bring something good out of bad if we love God and are called according to His Purpose. Lots of love to all of you, Judy Shaffner Kimbrough...

December 5, 2013

Matthew Ressegieu

I did not know your son but I can tell he was a fine young man. Your son and your family will be in my prayers during this tragic time.
Matt Ressegieu

December 5, 2013

My prayers are with your family. I have heard enough about this man to know he was a good person, a loving husband and father. I hear the love his family has for their son. I believe he was a good man. I pray God will support all of you during this difficult time and you can rest assured that Kyle lived his life well.
Laura Gooch (Liberty, Mo)

December 5, 2013

Pat Davis

I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with him at the credit union and he was a sweetheart. Always kind and happy. He will be missed.

December 5, 2013

Bob and Kathy Scott

Dean - I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with you in Grandview through Price Chopper many years ago. You were so compassionate when my father passed away, and I have never forgotten that. May God bless you and your family during this difficult time. You are certainly in our thoughts and prayers.

December 5, 2013

Val Dennis

My thoughts and prayers are with your family. So sorry for your tremendous loss.

December 5, 2013

Chiquita Singleton

God bless you all! Whatever you do, please dont harden your hearts against the Lord. He will be all that you need when you need it.

December 5, 2013

Justin Kahlich

I played football with Kyle at William Jewell. I remember he was always smiling and lifting up our spirits. Good to know you Kyle. Our condolences to the Van Winkle family.

Justin and Jody Kahlich

December 5, 2013

Anna Maxwell-Chang

Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers.

December 5, 2013

Greg and Holly Keeton

We pray that God provides you all with comfort during this senseless and difficult time. Kyle will be remembered and cherished forever. You each have been a blessing to us individually, and we love you all! Rest in peace, Buddy!

December 5, 2013

Such a tragedy...Kyle was an awesome student and all around great kid. My thoughts and prayers are with Kyle's family and friends. He touched more lives than he knows. ~Carole Smith Yeokum Middle School

December 5, 2013

Rebecca Edmonds

Our prayers go out to your family. Kyle was such a fun loving guy, kind hearted, beautiful spirit. We are very sorry for your loss.

December 5, 2013

Jonathan Rexin

Kyle was an awesome guy to work with. He always kept a positive attitude, and was always ready to go above and beyond in everything that he did. I am sorry that he is gone.

December 5, 2013

T Eichholz

So saddened by the senseless loss of your husband and your sons father. May the love that you both shared surpass the short time you had together.

December 5, 2013

Jeff & Ashley Rives

We are thinking and praying for all of you during this incredibly hard time. We are so deeply sorry for you loss.

December 5, 2013

Richard "Butch' Goddard

Dean and Family; I am still in a state of shock and at a total loss for words. My sympathy goes out to you and your entire family during this very sad time. May your memories of Kyle,last forever...

December 5, 2013

The Morton Family

My thoughts and prayers are with all of you!!!

December 5, 2013

Susie

December 5, 2013

peggy lohmann

God has another Angel at his side

December 5, 2013

Mary Reardon

Jenni ~ My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I am thinking of you during this very difficult time.

December 5, 2013

The Bruce's

We heard of this story and are Chiefs and Missouri fans. We wanted to send out our heartfelt sympathy to the family. May Kyle rest in peace.

December 5, 2013

KRISTA WHITE

December 5, 2013

Gene Hermreck

I worked with Kyle for many years at CACU, and he was a great guy. It is such a tragedy to see a great person like Kyle taken too soon. I am praying for his family, especially his son, who felt a fathers love for 7 precious weeks, that he may grow into a strong family man like Kyle was. May God reach down and comfort everyone at this terrible time.

December 5, 2013

RIP

December 5, 2013

CHIEF FAN

December 5, 2013

I DID NOT KNOW YOUR SON, BUT AT THIS TIME OF YEAR IT IS SO SAD. SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AT SUCH A BAD WAY. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU AND HIS FAMILY. FROM ANOTHER CHIEF FAN

December 5, 2013

John & Gaby Lizar

Cindy & Dean, Jenni and family,
So very sorry for your loss. It is obvious that Kyle was a wonderful man and was loved by many. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

December 5, 2013

My Prayers are with your entire family at this truly tragic and difficult time. I only kneow Kyle in passing at CACU but he always had a smile. Kyle is in my daily prayers as well as the family. Patti

December 5, 2013

Nancy Riddle-Casey

James, Jeremy, Jason and I would all like to offer our condolences to all of the Van Winkles. May you find strength in time. You all are in our thoughts at this tragic time.

December 5, 2013

Just an outsider reading about this story, words can not express how heavy my heart is for your entire family. God Bless Each One of You and always remember to talk to his son through out his life and let him know what a wonderful man his father was.
Krysti ( Blue Springs, Mo)

December 5, 2013

Heartfelt sympathy to the entire family. Thoughts and prayers are with you
Phyllis and John Lyon

December 5, 2013

Maryann Welch

To the Van Winkle family. I only know of this tragedy from the news media and I am so sorry for your loss. Kyle seemed to be a wonderful person and many people who don't know your family also mourn with you. May the love of friends and family carry you through this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

December 5, 2013

Mariele Lombardo

December 5, 2013

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

The Chandler Family
Ed, Alice, Scott, Eric and Erica.

December 5, 2013

Tim and Mary McDonough

To all the VanWinkle family - We are so very saddened and sorry for the loss of such a great person. We remember Kyle with his eternal smile.

December 5, 2013

jen hargreaves

No words can explain your pain however God knows your pain. May he surround u always!

December 5, 2013

Ryan Hay

To all of Kyle's family, I am sorry for your loss. I worked with Kyle for the past 4 years at CACU and will miss him. He was such a great guy, very funny, and easy to talk to and get along with. My family's thoughts and prayers to all.

Sincerely,
Ryan Hay

December 5, 2013

Linda Lillard

I don't know Kyle, his family or friends, but felt compelled to tell you how truly sorry I am for your loss. It's unfair that you are suffering and I pray that you find comfort and peace in the beautiful memories you shared. If we let him, God holds us closest when life falls apart, and breathes hope into darkness. I lost a son to violence 9 years ago and am here if you need a shoulder, a hug or a warm smile. God Bless, Linda Lillard 785-217-6250 [email protected]

December 5, 2013

We are just KC Star readers, but just want to let the family know how very sorry we are. You are all in our prayers and especially pray that you will feel the loving arms of Jesus around you, crying with you...
Dave & Linda Corbin
Shawnee, KS

December 5, 2013

Dwight & Pat Munn

To the Van Winkle family: We are so sorry for your loss of Kyle. Such a tragedy - there are no words for this. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

December 5, 2013

Victor Macias

To my cousins Jenni & Marty & Family:

In my prayers this morning, I prayed that God would bless you, comfort you and strengthen you and fulfill all your needs in this time of need. May God bless you always!

Love Your Cousins,
Victor, Dottie & Norbert

December 5, 2013

Randa Gaugh

I went to belton high school with kyle such a sweetheart he loved everyone and was nice to everyone. He loved life . I was so lucky to have him as a friend. Just wanted to let u guys know kyle is an angle.

December 5, 2013

Kris (Straatmann)Schneider

Your all in my thoughts and prayers, so sorry for your loss.

December 5, 2013

Diane Adkins

Jenni, Danny & I are so sorry for your loss. There are no words that will take this pain away but know that god is with you and your precious Will to lean on . My thoughts & prayers to the Flanders & Van Winkle families. God be with all of you.

Sincerely,
Diane Adkins

December 4, 2013

Dean and Cindy, we are so sorry for your loss as you know, we loved Kyle very much, and are struggling on our end too.
Love you all
Allen, Dana, Ciara, and Dakota

December 4, 2013

Theresa Globoke (fauth)

Kyle, I didn't get to know you very well, but I know you were a great guy. You will be truly missed by many. Class of 2002 lost a great guy. Your family is in my thoughts.

December 4, 2013

william varner

i am very very sorry for your loss may god bless you all,,,

December 4, 2013

beth taylor

December 4, 2013

Lisa Velasquez Palomares

So very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family during this difficult time.

December 4, 2013

Joan Jones

Jenni, there are no words to say how sorry we are for you and your precious baby boy. I am sorry we never met Kyle, though I can tell he was just as awesome as you are. We will always wish the best for you. You and all of your family are in our hearts and prayers. Love, Bruce & Joan Jones

December 4, 2013

Praying for your whole family. Although I do not know you, Kyle's story has saddened my heart. Such a senseless act over a mistake, that could have easily been explained if he had been given the chance. So sorry for your loss, may God be with you and may justice prevail.

Cynthia Mathews (Ste Genevieve, MO)

December 4, 2013

Anderson Family

Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. May you find comfort through God, Family and Friends during this most difficult of times. Chris, Susan, Christopher and Caroline Anderson - St. Louis MO

December 4, 2013

Melissa Smith Viles

I am so sorry for your loss. May God hold Kyle in his loving hands until you meet again.

December 4, 2013

Kala Handley

I remember Kyle as a friendly, intelligent, popular, athletic, compassionate 5 year old. He was the rare student that teachers wish could be cloned. His smile could light up a room. Kyle proudly shared his Dad with our class after Dean returned from deployment. My heart is heavy with grief and I am shocked beyond belief at this senseless tragedy. May God be with each of you as you go through this unbelievable, devastating time. Prayers for strength, healing, comfort, acceptance and justice. Blessings.

December 4, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in the time of great loss. He will be greatly missed. With prayers The Ricketts Family (Belton Mo)

December 4, 2013

Cindy Cornell

Our deepest condolences to the Van Winkle family. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Bruce, Cindy, Samantha & Courtney Cornell

December 4, 2013

Sandy Clark

There are no words to express what I feel my son,John went to school and played ball with Kyle I m praying God gives you peace and comfort in this difficult time

December 4, 2013

Mike & Trish Johnson

We are so very sorry for your loss and are praying for peace and comfort for you Jeni and and your whole family.

December 4, 2013

Derek Callahan

Jenni, Will, and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. This all makes me sick to my stomach and I can't imagine what your going through. I send my love and deepest sympathy. Prayers to all of you. God Bless

December 4, 2013

Annie Debo

So sorry to hear about this. Kyle was a great person and will be missed by many. God Bless! Prayers to the entire family.

December 4, 2013

Barbara Hatfield

Although I have never had the honor of meeting Kyle, I am heartbroken and saddened by his death. May God watch over all his family and friends.

December 4, 2013

Sarah Roland

Thoughts and prayers are with the family of Kyle. So sorry for your loss, Jeni. Stay strong and may time bring you peace.

December 4, 2013

Jennie Phipps

So sorry to hear your loss. Your entire family is in our prayers.

Jason and Jennie Phipps and children

December 4, 2013

Reese & Irma McCune

We are very sorry for your loss. Please know you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God give you strength and peace for the days ahead.

December 4, 2013

Joe and Debbie McKinstry

It was such an honor to know Kyle -- a great kid who grew into a great man. So quick with a smile and a laugh, he will be greatly missed by all of us who knew him. Our heartfelt condolences to Dean, Cindy and all of his family and tiny son. A very compassionate preacher once said, "When you see a ray of sunshine breaking through the clouds, that is your loved one smiling down on you." Our hearts and prayers are with you in this time of sadness.

December 4, 2013

Logan Stanley

Dear Mrs. Van Winkle, The best counselor ever, we are very sad to hear that your husband passed away. We are praying for you and all of your family.

December 4, 2013

Michael Curtis

To family, friends and loved ones of Kyle. I had the opportunity to be a part of Kyle's life as a Coach at Belton High School. I am shocked at this senseless act that took Kyles life. Kyle was an example of how one should live their life through love for your family and dedication to life. I will always remember his kindness, mannerism and sense of humor. Kyle was a pure joy to be around. In life there are certain people that just touch your life in many wonderful ways. Kyle was a person that not only touched lives but he made a difference in lives. I remember clearly the days of being at school talking with both Kyle and his sister Kelly. Both just outstanding people and both made an impact on my life. Kyle I know you are in the hands of God. Thank you for having that once in a lifetime opportunity to be your coach and your teacher. My thoughts and prayers are with everyone during this difficult time. My heart is filled with sadness as I have a 15 month old daughter. When Kyle's young child of two months is old enough to read back and reflect on all the things written about your father during this unexpected loss know that your Dad Kyle Allen Van Winkle has watched over you from heaven. God bless and never forget Kyle. Thank you for the opportunity to share. Coach Michael Curtis, former Men's Basketball Coach at Belton High School

December 4, 2013

Leslie Y.

I did not know Kyle but followed your story on the news and am so sorry for your loss. Such a tragedy that this baby will grow up without his father. Prayers and sympathy are with you and your family.

December 4, 2013

Kay Paul

Sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Kyle will be missed but not ever forgotten

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