Larry Thomas Neal, Jr. "Tommy"

1970 - 2013

Larry Thomas Neal, Jr. "Tommy" obituary, 1970-2013, Virginia Beach, VA

BORN

1970

DIED

2013

FUNERAL HOME

Rosewood-Kellum Funeral Home

601 North Witchduck Road

Virginia Beach, Virginia

Larry Neal, Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Feb. 27, 2013.

VIRGINIA BEACH – Larry Thomas Neal, Jr. "Tommy", 42, went home to be with The Lord on February 24, 2013 after a long courageous battle with cancer. He was born on July 8, 1970 to Larry T. Neal, Sr. and Lena F. Walker in Portsmouth, VA.

He is survived by his wife, Sarah H. Neal; daughter, Jordan A. Neal, 10 years old; father and step-mother, Larry and Nell Neal; mother and step-father, Lena and Richard Walker; and many aunts, uncles and cousins.
He was preceded in death by his maternal grandparents, Mrs. Frances Haddock, and Mr. William A. Haddock; fraternal grandparents, Mrs. Eunice Neal and Mr. Dixie B. Neal, respectively.

Tommy was a loving and devoted husband to his beloved wife and a wonderfully loving father to his beautiful daughter. He had many remarkable accomplishments with anything that he set out to do. His career was in the field of information technology where he became a 'blue screen' master otherwise known as a computer wizard. His passion was sport fishing in the warm Gulf Stream waters off the east coast. His dream was to captain his own charter boat one day. He was an avid golfer and could give any professional golfer a great match. Tommy came to The Lord with his baptism at Rock Church in 2004.

A funeral will be held this Saturday, March 2, at 11am with a visitation one hour prior at the Rock Church, 640 Kempsville Road, Va. Beach, VA 23464. Burial will follow at Rosewood Memorial Park, 601 North Witchduck Road, Va. Beach, VA 23462. A reception to celebrate Tommy's life will be held at the Cavalier Golf and Yacht Club, 1052 Cardinal Road, Va. Beach, VA 23451 beginning at 2:30pm.

In lieu of flowers, you may make a contribution to the American Cancer Society, http://www.cancer.org/ or an organization very close to Tommy's heart, Cerebral Palsy of Virginia http://www.cerebralpalsyofvirginia.org/.

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March 24, 2014

Tommy, Sara & Family,
Each time we gather at a birthday party for the kids a huge part is missing, that is you and Sara and your daughter. In the years I knew you,you always where so respectful, loving and kind. The world changed the day you left us,so did HEAVEN, God had a special need for you there! I know it is hard on your Mom & Dad each time we gather, as I am sure it raises a flood of memories. God has guided and strengthened them, I think since that day one year ago, we ALL look at life differently! REST IN PEACE, you will never be forgotten..Sharon/Justins Mom

March 28, 2013

Joe Matarazzo

Lena, my sincerest sympathy and I share in your sadness that Tommy is gone, but know that he is in heaven and no longer in pain. I am sure he will be looking down at you this Easter with a smile on his face and love in his heart.

March 27, 2013

Kenny & Jill Brown

Sarah, We just learned of Tommy's passing tonight. Our condolences are with you and your family. Tommy was a great pool player and great guy. Many good memories with him at the pool table and on the golf course. Kenny & Jill Brown

March 12, 2013

Connie Adkins Raby

It is so challenging to fathom this once 6-year old boy becoming such an incredible man and then leaving you so soon. Yet, we know that we all belong to our Father in Heaven and are only on this earth temporarily. There is consolation in knowing that Tommy rests with our Abba Father in Glory. I pray that the Lord's comfort and peace dwell in your hearts as each day comes. May God bless and keep you.

March 7, 2013

WE ARE SO SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF TOMMY. HE & YOUR FAMILY HAVE BEEN IN OUR PRAYERS ALL ALONG & YOU WILL CONTINUE TO BE. MAY GOD GIVE YOU PEACE.LOVE AND PRAYERS TO ALL.. GOD BLESS. CHUCK & SUE ADKINS, BARCO NC

March 6, 2013

Elizabeth 'Beth' Kirk

Dear Family, The last time I spoke with Tommy,he was arriving in Texas for treatments.I never dreamt this and I have prayed for you Sarah and Jordan especially for he was constant in your lives expectant to be there. I believe God evidently needed Tommy's strength and determination and the term 'please be patient God isn't finished with me yet' fits here. Tommy and I have been friends since junior high school at the Alliance Christian School and he is irreplacable. I love you all as much as I love him. I pray comfort over all loved ones. Sincerely always a friend, Beth Kirk 7572925347

March 6, 2013

Anne &Zachary Doughtie

March 4, 2013

Cathy M Kahn

Dear Sarah and Family, I just learned of Tommy's passing and I'm so very sorry for your loss. I met Tommy just before you were engaged and looking for the townhouse. The most that I remember was he was so in love and couldn't wait to share his life with you. He was so sweet and you could tell he was so happy and excited during that time. What a great loss and how lucky he was to have you by his side during his courageous fight. My heart is heavy from the news , may God give you comfort during this time.

March 4, 2013

Lynne Scott

Tommy was always full of life and eager to tell a story. He always seemed happiest with you, Sarah and on the water. We take comfort in knowing he is resting peacefully. Thinking of all those touched by Tommy's loss.

March 4, 2013

JoAnne Landgrave

Larry and family I am so sorry Tommy lost the battle. Shouldn't have to bury your child.Please know our hearts are heavy with your loss..Joanne Rigdon Landgrave

March 2, 2013

Sharon Reed

I am so sorry for your loss! Somethings here on earth are beyond our realm of understanding, just know it is all a part of God's big plan! He has a greater need for your Tommy! My heart hurts for you all, I know it is not easy. May GOD Bless you all and give you strenth and healing as you rebuild your lives, always remember the good times! I know you must have a zillion in the memory bank! Tommy Neal go rest high on the mountain and fullfill the need GOD has called you to do! I have you all in my prayers!

March 2, 2013

Dianne Sexton

Brother Larry and Sister Nell
Thank you for allowing me to play such a small part in the homegoing service for Tommy. Chory, Timmy, and I will be praying for your family and especially for Jordan as you walk through the next few days.....Love You
Sister Dianne Chory and Timmy

March 2, 2013

Sharon Shrieves Hughes

I am so sorry for your loss. Remembering all the good times we all had growing up together. Your families are in my prayers. It was a beautiful celebration of Tommy's life today and I am glad I could be there. Love to you all.

March 1, 2013

Elaine & Dale Brown

We are so sorry for your loss of your beloved and courageous Tommy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.....

March 1, 2013

nancy neal turco

To the whole Neal family,my thoughts and prayers are with you,tommy is with jesus now and all our family that has gone before him. I love you all.nancy neal turco

March 1, 2013

ANNE & ZACHARY DOUGHTIE

WE ARE VERY SORRY FOR LOSS OF TOMMY . HIS GRANDMOTHER AUDREY DOUGHTIE IS MY SON ZACHARYS GREAT GRANDMOTHER . BUDDY IS MY MY FATHER IN LAW . YOU AND ENTRE FAMILY IS OUR THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. ANYTHING WE CAN DO PLEASE DI=ONT HESITATE TO CALL US 757 749 8846. ALWAYS , ANNE AND ZACHARY DOUGHTIE .

March 1, 2013

Stefanie Kazouris

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

March 1, 2013

Jessica York

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Neal,
I'm sorry to hear of your loss. May God give you the strength, comfort and peace to get through this difficult time. You and your family are in my prayers and have been for some time. Please lean on your friends and family and focus on the wonderful memories of your son, Tommy. Sincerely, Jessica York

March 1, 2013

Julie Jenney

Dear Lena, I woke up this past Monday quite early and was praying for Tommy and for you. GG called me a little later to tell me that Tommy had passed into the arms of the Lord. Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss. I am so very sorry.

March 1, 2013

Michelle Hewitt

God made you my cousin, Love made you my friend! Love you always, Michelle

Posted by Michelle Hewitt

March 1, 2013

Dolores Murphy

I've never met your son, Tommy, but if he was anything like his mother, he was a wonderful man. May you find comfort in the memories that will eventually bring you smiles instead of tears.

March 1, 2013

Jonelle

Sarah, I'm going to miss my events salesman!:)He will truly be missed, God bless and anything you need, please don't hesitate to ask!

March 1, 2013

I am so sorry for the loss of this wonderful young man, son and father. Lena my heart goes out to you and your family.

Mary Jane Mason Jonas

February 28, 2013

Glenn and Mary Wilson

Lena and Rick,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May the cherished memories of your son bring you comfort and peace in the days ahead and may the Lord give you strength with each passing day. We love you and miss you.

February 28, 2013

Lena and Rick, our deepest sympathies go out to you at this most difficult time. You have been in our thoughts and we pray that the Lord's strength will support and sustain you through all that you must face. Judy and Doug Henry (Portsmouth,VA)

February 28, 2013

Larry & Nell
My thoughts and prayers are with you both at this most difficult time. May God give you strength and peace.
Bill Dorson, Edenton ,NC

February 28, 2013

Angela St. John

Sarah, I hope in time that you will find comfort and peace. Tommy was a great person and he will be truly missed. Thoughts are with you through this difficult time.

February 28, 2013

Shawn James

Tommy my friend, you will be missed by many, you touched the souls of a lot of people you came in contact with, I will miss the days of old on the golf course, but we will play again. Love you my friend

February 28, 2013

Valerie Costello

Sarah, you have my deepest sympathy. But Tommy will always be with you! It may be hard to imagine right now - but one day, believe me, when you feel him near you or hear him whispering to you or chuckling with you - you will be so very comforted. Peace, my friend.

February 28, 2013

Tonya Etheridge

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family through this difficult time. Trust in The Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will direct your paths. Prov: 3 5,6

February 28, 2013

Ron and Wendy Parish

Lena and Rick, Our heartfelt prayers are with you and all the family. Love, Ron and Wendy Parish

February 28, 2013

Deneen Evans

My heart is with each one of you,Dee

February 28, 2013

Sherri Apgar

Larry and Nell, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sherri Apgar

February 28, 2013

Katrina Britt

Larry and Nell I am sorry for your lost. I will be praying for you and your family.

February 28, 2013

Sue & Danny Sarig

Lena and Rick - our thoughts and prayers are with both of you, Sarah, Jordan and the rest of Tommy's family. May your memories of Tommy bring you comfort and healing, and the peace of the Lord be with all of you as he is with Tommy.

February 28, 2013

Ginger Rouse

Larry and Nell, my thoughts and prayers are with you as well as the whole family. I never knew Tommy, but knowing you, I am sure he was and is very loved and resting in the arms of the Savior now.

February 28, 2013

Jason Sager

We are so sorry.

February 28, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time, keep those wonderful memories of Tommy close to you forever!
Cindy & Glen

February 28, 2013

Larry and Nell May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.I can not even begin to express how much I feel for you and your sons family. Steve Secondino

February 28, 2013

Roberta & Karl Karch

We are so sorry for your loss, we pray with and for his parents, family and friends. Roberta and Karl

February 28, 2013

Holly & Jordan Sides

We're all better having known you, dear friend. May you rest peacefully, and your family find comfort during this difficult time. We love & miss you.

February 28, 2013

Rachel Griffin

When I posted this online, Tommy guessed that it was maybe 1991-92.

Posted by Rachel Griffin

February 28, 2013

You all are in our thoughts and prayers
much love
Ralph and Terry

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