BORN

1981

DIED

2018

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Oshawa, Ontario

Lindsey Bonchek Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 15, 2018.

BONCHEK, Lindsey
Passed away on Monday, January 8th, 2018. Loving mother of Benjamin, Madeline and Jackson. Loved daughter of Darlin and Gerry Bonchek and Eric Stubbert. Dear sister of Samantha, Carly and Trevor. Loved by many nieces, nephews, relatives and friends. Visitation will be held at OSHAWA FUNERAL HOME, 847 King Street West (905-721-1234) on Wednesday, January 17th from 1 – 4 p.m. A private family service will be held at a later date. Memorial donations to the Autism Society would be appreciated.

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January 23, 2018

Barb Stead (Mamelka)

On behalf of the Mamelka families, I am sending our sincere condolences to Gerry and family on the deaths your daughter and your 2 precious grandchildren. May you cherish some wonderful memories of them and continue to share those stories with Benjamin and the rest of your friends and family. Their spirits will live on through all of you. Love and hugs from Barb Stead and the Mamelka Family

January 22, 2018

Lisa Lucchese

On behalf of the Lucchese Family, we are so very sorry for the loss of your precious angels. Our hearts are with you all.

January 19, 2018

Mercury Dougherty

A brief length of light, yet she glowed soo bright, drawing others into her realm.
Memories shared now have more meaning. Words spoken now have more depth.
Nothing is ever insignificant.
Treasure every breath that YOU have left.
Our Earthly loss is Heaven's gain.
Blessings of comfort to all who remain.

January 17, 2018

Brenda Hill

Wishing for your family peace and comfort, courage for the days ahead and loving memories to hold forever in your heart.

January 17, 2018

Michelle Figliano

On behalf of the Figliano family, I would like to extend our sincerest condolences to the Boncheck family and friends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most difficult time. My daughter Emma is in Jacksons JK class and asked if she kissed him would he wake up. If only. Such sweet innocent babies now angels. Sending our love.

January 17, 2018

Roberta Burke

On behalf of the Burke families, I would like to extend our deepest sympathies to the Bonchek family on their loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

January 17, 2018

Manuela Cameron

To the Bonchek family,
Our sincerest condolences.....you are all in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
Manuela, Kristian (Mr. Young's 5/6 class) and Alexia (Mrs. O'Neill's JK/SK class) Cameron

January 16, 2018

Elaine Mason

Dear Bonchek family,

I am so sorry to hear that Lindsey, and her children Madeline and Jackson have passed away. The devastation and loss to your family is incomprehensible. I know that your memories will sustain you during this difficult time.

I remember Lindsey as a free spirit who always stood up for what she believed to be right. She was a leader amongst her friends and she was always there to support others. She was a kind and generous person. I know she will be missed.

I pray for her son Ben and all of you. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

January 16, 2018

ELIZABETH A WRIGLEY

The Wrigley family from St Gregory's church would like to send our deepest sympathies and we know that Lindsay, Maddie and Jackson will be welcomed to Heaven with love.

January 15, 2018

Tory Sharp

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Ben and to all Lindsey, Maddie and Jackson's family and friends. Deepest sympathies from the Sharp Family.

January 15, 2018

Phil Allison

My Very Sincerest Condolences.
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

January 15, 2018

val williams

To my dearest family,
Some things i'd like to say
But first of all to let you know
That i arrived OK.

Im writing this from Heaven,
Where i dwell with God above
Where theres no more tears or sadness.
There is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy
Just because I'm out of sight;
Remember that I'm with you,
Every morning, noon and night.

That day i had to leave you
When my life on earth was through
God picked me up and hugged me
And he said I welcome you.

Its good to have you back again
You were missed while you were gone
As for your dearest family
They'll be here later on.

I need you here so badly
As part of My big plan,
There's so much that we have to do,
To help our mortal man.

Then God gave me a list of things
He wished for me to do,
And foremost on that list of mine,
Is to watch and care for you.

And i will be beside you,
Every day, week and year,
And when your sad i'm standing there
To wipe away the tear.

And when you lie in bed at night,
The day's chores put to flight,
God and I closer to you
In the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth
And all those living years,
Because your only human
They are bound to bring you tears.

But do not be afraid to cry,
It dose relieve the pain;
Remember there would be no flowers
Unless there was some rain.

I wish that i could tell you
Of all that God has planned,
But if i were to tell you,
You wouldn't understand.

But one thing is for certain
Though my life on earth is over,
I'm closer to you now
Then i ever was before.

And to my very many friends
Trust God knows what is best
I'm still not far away from you
I'm just beyond the crest.

There are rocky roads ahead of you
And many hills to climb,
But together we can do it,
Taking one day at a time.

It was always my philosophy
And i'd like it for you too
That as you give unto the World
So the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody
Who's in sorrow or in pain,
Then you can say to god at night
My day was not in vain.

And now i am contended
That my life it was worth while
Knowing that i passed along the way
I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody
Who is down and feeling low
Just lend a hand to pick him up
As on your way you go.

When you are walking down the street
And you've got me on your mind
I'm walking in your footsteps
Only half a step behind.

And when you feel that gentle breeze
Or the wind apon your face
Thats me giving you a great big hug
Or just a soft embrace

And when its time for you to go
From that body to be free
Remenber you are not going
You are coming here to me.

And i will always love you
From the land way up apove,
Will be in touch soon
P.S. God sends HIS LOVEbr>
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
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