BORN

1919

DIED

2017

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Mary Kaufman Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 10, 2017.

Mary Kaufman, born Miriam Kruter, passed away on Tuesday, May 9th 2017 accompanied by the love of family and friends. Mary lived her life with zest and fortitude. She had a fervent love for her family, especially her great grandchildren, Zack, Max and Noa. Having survived the holocaust, she landed in New York, via Ellis Island. She admired the opportunities in her new country, and would lament…"there's money on the ground here, you just have to learn to bend down to pick it up". Always standing strong, she paved her way through the world of fashion design crafting beautiful creations for famous people and big names. She worked hard, loved life and her family and always had a bit of wisdom to share. When she said "take a coat to the beach, it's going to get cold" you did…because of her uncanny ability to just know. She leaves us all with the great memories, and the lessons of overcoming adversity and living life to its fullest. Donations in her name may be made to Meals on Wheels of the Monterey Peninsula, where she spent time as a volunteer.

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May 20, 2017

Mary was truly a very lovely lady who will be greatly missed. Please know that you may find comfort with God at John11:25,26 . MB

May 15, 2017

Andrea Fuerst

Mary, aka "Grandma", was our Meals on Wheels role model for dedication to family, love for life, and care for community. For 98 years, she held on to life with courage, strength and purpose. Mary's survivor spirit will live on in our collective memories forever.
Andrea

May 15, 2017

Dear Ruth and Bob, Vainca and David, Viveca and Jim and Zack and Max and Noa,
our sincere condolences on losing Mary, the strong, loving, loved, optimistic and hardworking person. We are missing her already.
Israel and JeongYoun

May 15, 2017

Valerie B

Viv & Vainca-
Although I did not know Mary personally, I did get to know her through the pictures you posted. I will miss seeing the sparkle and love ❤ in her eyes! My condolences to you two and your families....and hugs!

May 14, 2017

Judy Jones

To the Mary Kaufman family, I'm so sorry for your loss - to hear of Mary Kaufman's passing. Much love and my deepest condolences.

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