Mary Frances Spear

1940 - 2015

Mary Frances Spear obituary, 1940-2015, Williamsburg, VA

BORN

1940

DIED

2015

FUNERAL HOME

Nelsen Funeral Home - Williamsburg

3785 Strawberry Plains Rd.

Williamsburg, Virginia

Mary Spear Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Oct. 24, 2015.

Mary Frances Gaylor Spear, beloved wife, cherished mother and grandmother, passed away peacefully at home on Friday, October 23, 2015.
Mary Frances was born on January 30, 1930 in Kinston, NC to Charles and Mary Manning Gaylor. She was the fourth of 7 children. She graduated from Grainger High School. On April 3, 1960, she married her childhood sweetheart, William Thomas Spear (Tommy). They celebrated 55 years of marriage this year. Their son, William T. Jr., was born in 1961.
Her gift from God was her love of children, and she dedicated herself to being a devoted mother, grandmother, den mother to cub scouts, pre-school teacher, kindergarten teacher and teacher's assistant.
She had a wonderful gift for decorating and flower arranging. After moving with Tommy to Williamsburg in 1984, they were fortunate to be able to live in the William Lightfoot Townhouse on Duke of Gloucester St. Her collection of folk art and antiques were so remarkable. During their 17 years there, her home was selected to be part of the Garden Club Christmas tours twice and a Spring Garden Tour. She was very proud to be awarded three blue ribbons for her Historic Area Homes Christmas Decorations
Mary Frances was preceded in death by her parents; brothers, Charles and Bobby; sisters, Jean Guthrie and Virginia Dunn.
She is survived by her husband, Tommy; son, Will; daughter-in-law, Susan; two wonderful granddaughters, Megan and Olivia who were her greatest joy; her two sisters, Marilyn Rouse and Joyce Fredrick; and a very special sister-in-law, Jennifer Gaylor. She is also survived by a host of nieces, nephews, cousins and special friends who celebrated life with her.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the St. Joseph's Indian School, 1301 North Main St., Chamberlain, SD 57325.
Online condolences may be offered at www.nelsencares.com.

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November 6, 2015

Martin Cheney

So sorry to hear of your tremendous loss. May God bless you as you continue your walk through this life until that glorious resurrection.

November 5, 2015

Kathy Gaylor Potter

Uncle Tommy, You continue to be in our thoughts and hope the continued love and support from your family and friends gives you comfort. There was no one like Aunt Mary Francis and the California Gaylors have many wonderful memories of you both from Kinston to Williamsburg. We love you....

November 4, 2015

Billy Moore

Tommy, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

November 4, 2015

Anne Caroon Stapleford

Tommy, please accept my sympathy for your loss. It is hard to lose a spouse - trust in the Lord to see you through this difficult time and He will give you peace.

November 4, 2015

So very sorry for your loss.

Pauline Haddock Hughes

November 4, 2015

Donna Meschke

As I remember Frances was a very nice and sweet person.I know she will be missed but she will be in the hearts of you and your family.

November 3, 2015

Tommy, Frances and I extend our deepest sympathy to you and family.

John Civils

November 3, 2015

Our sympathy and prayers go out to you, Tommy, and your family. She was one of my favorite classmates.
Bob Moore, Kinston, NC
Marjorie K. Moore, Kinston, NC

November 3, 2015

Lynn Woolard

Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers in the loss of Mary Francis.
Lynn and Jodie Woolard

November 3, 2015

Johnny Harvey

Tommy, I am so sorry for your loss. I share with Mary the love of beautiful antiques. I hope you and your family are doing well..

November 3, 2015

Jane Walter

Tommy, so sorry to hear of Mary Frances' passing. I remember how sweet she was when Herbie, Kay Johnson and I visited you both many years ago and you gave us the special tour of Williamsburg. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Jane Bizzell Walter

November 2, 2015

Elizabeth Chantry

Tommy, My so enjoyed visiting with you and your wife on their frequent trips to Williamsburg. Your wife was a joy...so sorry to hear of her passing. My thoughts and prayers arewith you and yours

November 2, 2015

Teresa Ponziani

Tom, I was so sorry to hear of your loss. We all loved Mary Frances and will miss her very much. God bless you and your family.

November 2, 2015

George Tennille

Tommy & Will....
Sylvia and I loved Mary Frances and will miss her dearly. Her smile and warmth are some of our fondest memories. Our annual trips to Williamsburg were always special because of the time you all shared with us. We love you and hold you, along with all the Spears and Gaylors in a special place in our hearts. Fondly, Sylvia and George

November 1, 2015

Philip Bailey

Mr. Spear, It was sad to hear your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the Spear family.

October 30, 2015

Dear Tommy,
I am so sorry to hear about Mary Frances. She was always one of my favorite people at CW. My heart goes out to you and Will,Susan and your grand daughters. I am grateful that old friends keep me up on what is happening since we are in South Carolina.
God bless you all.
Love,
Carolyn Simpson

October 30, 2015

Jane Hanson

Tom, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved wife. Praying for you and your family and please know that you are loved by many... not only your family but your many friends and colleagues at CW. May the peace of God be with you.

October 29, 2015

Carson Hudson

Tom,
I just learned of your loss. I am so sorry, as I know you loved Mary Frances greatly. My wife and I are thinking of you, Will, and Susan.

October 26, 2015

Hart Haynes

Tom I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

October 26, 2015

I am so very sorry for your loss Tom. God has called notherr of his Angels home.Becky Getkin

October 26, 2015

Chris Wright

Tom, I wish I could find words that would make this less painful for you, I would certainly speak them. I pray that you'll find them & please know you are in our warmest thoughts & prayers.

October 26, 2015

Michael Monaco

Tom, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We are very sorry for your loss, and we know that Mary Frances is beyond suffering, and at peace with the Lord.
Michael & Shari Monaco

October 26, 2015

Melissa Blank

Tom, my deepest sympathies for you and your family. I pray that God will carry you through this difficult time.

October 26, 2015

Karen Joyce

Tom, I am so sad to hear of the passing of your wife, life-long partner and friend and hope you know that your friends at CW are here for you!

October 26, 2015

Susan Pryor

Tom, my deepest sympathy to you and your family. Mary Frances was always so kind to me when I would see her in the Historic Area. Your are in my thoughts and prayers.

October 26, 2015

Richard Edwards

Very sorry to hear of the passing of Mary Frances. She was a delightful lady. Sending prayers for the family and especially to Tom.

October 26, 2015

Kris Brown

Tom, I will always remember Mary Francis. Her laugh, her smile, and her thoughtfulness, the way she decorated her house when you both lived on DoG Street. I know you treasure so many memories of your many adventures together. Tom, give yourself time to heal. We are all here for you. Kris Fox Brown (Kris Dippre) Williamsburg, Va.

October 26, 2015

Val Czerny

Mike and I are very sorry to hear about Mary Frances's passing. Our hearts are full, and we're praying for Tom and his family.

October 25, 2015

Ann Pilgrim

I am so sad for Tom and his family. Mary Frances was a sweet funny woman It was a pleasure to know her. She and Tom were and are very special to me.

October 25, 2015

James Jones

Tommy Sisley and I send our deepest sympathy to you and family.

October 25, 2015

Lyndsay Betts

My heart goes out to Mr. Spear and his family at this difficult time. Sending my deepest condolences.

October 25, 2015

Davis Byrd Longsworth

Mary Frances was a great and a faithful friend. Most of all she was more like a mother to me. I loved her much and love Tommy as a father. I am so very sad and very unhappy to hear of her death.My heart is hurting.I pray that she is at peace.My love to Tommy,Will and his family and to Mary Frances sisters. She was a grand lady.We had some good times together.eating mostly!

October 25, 2015

Ashley Meadows

May you rest in peace. I love you always

October 24, 2015

Georgia Ayscue

Our ensemble of friends and coworkers are all shocked and grieved to hear of the passing of Tom's dear wife and friend. I and we all wish Mr. Spear and the family peace and comfort at this time

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