Melchior Chladek Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jun. 19, 2017.

FR. MELCHIOR ISTVAN CHLADEK
(1931-2017)

Istvan Chladek was born on July 26, 1931, in Budapest, Hungary. He attended the Saint Emery School run by Cistercian monks and graduated in 1948. On August 29, 1949, he entered the Cistercian Monastery in Zirc, Hungary and received the name Melchior, one of the three wise men. Less than a year later he took his first vows on June, 1950. The communist government, however, published within months its decree abolishing the Cistercian Order in Hungary and several other religious communities. Melchior and 20 other Cistercian monks fled Hungary through the Iron Curtain in what has come to be known as "The Great Escape." Eight of the escapees were captured and imprisoned. Melchior was among the thirteen who managed to reach Rome in October, 1950, where he studied philosophy and theology in preparation for the priesthood.

At the request of his superiors, Melchior immigrated in 1954 to the Cistercian Monastery in Spring Bank, Wisconsin, completing the last year of his theological studies at St. Francis Seminary. On May 14, 1955, he was ordained to the priesthood in Milwaukee but waited five days to say his First Mass in Dallas with the recently founded Cistercian community. He then began the study of biology at Southern Methodist University, transferring to Saint Louis University, where he earned his Master's degree in 1961. Fr. Melchior was the last survivor of the group of Hungarian Cistercians who founded the Cistercian Monastery Our Lady of Dallas. He was a member of the original faculty of Cistercian Preparatory School, which opened its doors in the fall of 1962 in rented facilities on the Ursuline Campus before moving to its present site in Irving in 1964. He served as the Form Master of Class '70, the first class to graduate from the Prep School. Afterwards, he served as Form Master for Class '75 and Class '81, while also teaching biology from 1962 to 1979. Fr. Melchior is remembered fondly by his students as a dear friend and, as one medical doctor recalled, one of "the best science teachers I ever had, the one who taught me how to really think." Others enthusiastically tell stories of his genetics experiments with fruit flies and his conscientious care for the varied animals he kept in the school. After working as the Abbot's secretary from 1979-1981, Fr. Melchior served in various pastoral assignments, including St. Monica's Catholic Church and the Catholic chaplaincy at Carswell Air Force Base in Fort Worth. Throughout his later years, he suffered from debilitating health problems. And, when no longer able to celebrate Mass, he looked forward to receiving Holy Communion daily.

Fr. Melchior was preceded in death by a brother, killed as a teenager in the siege of Budapest in 1945, his parents, Antal Chladek and Irene Maywald. He is survived by two sisters, Irene and Maria, as well as nieces and nephews and their children, all in Hungary.

A rosary will be offered for Fr. Melchior at 7:30 p.m. Friday, June 23 in the Cistercian Abbey Church, 3550 Cistercian Rd., Irving, TX 75039. The Funeral Mass will be concelebrated by Abbot Peter Verhalen O.Cist. and Fr. Melchior's brother priests on Saturday, June 24, at 10:00 a.m. in the Abbey Church, with interment in the Abbey crypt immediately following.

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February 23, 2023

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Larry Higgins

While you were not my Form Master when I was at Cistercian Prep (I was in the second class there, one class behind yours), I will never forget the spiritual encouragement you gave me (when I visited CPS a couple decades ago) that was so uplifting and has stayed with me ever since, as from the hand and heart of Jesus. When you asked me if I was married or had a family, I told you I had gone through a divorce years before, but that I was committed to those vows and patiently pursuing my "former" wife. Amazingly (usually I do not get this response), your face brightened up and you said something like, "Then you might reconcile, praise the Lord!" Though I am still pursuing her (and always have hope in the Lord), the point was that you expressed the love and commitment and heart Christ has for us! If we leave Him, He always desires and even yearns for our return (as the prodigal's Father did), or He will even pursue us as a lost sheep, whichever is most appropriate. May you eternally rest in peace with our heavenly Father and Good Shepherd who out of His mercies and love gave His life for our sins and failings and for the sake of our salvation and future life with Him!
--Yours in Christ, Larry Higgins

April 2, 2018

Becky H

Fr Melchior was the most influential priest in my life and I will always thank God for him and the guidance he gave my husband and I over the years we knew him at Carswell AFB. I just saw his obituary and will have Masses said for him.

June 21, 2017

P Lewis

My sincerest condolences to the family for your loss. I pray that you have the peace of God that surpasses all understanding
Philliphans 4:6&7
Sincerely
P. Lewis Mesa Az.

June 20, 2017

chu will

Fr. Melchior Istvan Chladek From this story had a feeling life. He seemed educated and spiritual as well. Sorry for your loss. If you get a chance please Revaluation 21: 4 Have a great day.

June 19, 2017

Carolyn

Although I didn't know Melchior I just wanted to tell the family and friends how sorry I am for the loss of your loved one. Please know that your family will be in my prayers. (John 11:1-44)

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23

Rosary

7:30 p.m.

Cistercian Abbey Church

3550 Cistercian Rd, Irving, TX 75220

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24

Funeral Mass

10:00 a.m.

Cistercian Abbey Church

3550 Cistercian Rd, Irving, TX 75220

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24

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Abbey crypt

TX 75220

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3235 Lombardy Ln, Dallas, TX 75220

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