1971
2016
Melissa Mitchell McLain, age 44, died January 9th, 2016 in Apex. Born in Apex, NC, she graduated from Fuquay High School in 1989. She also graduated from Lucas Travel School in Transportation and was employed by Mastec in Morrisville, NC.
Melissa departed with her daughter, Ashley Nicole Fite. She is survived by daughter, Caitlin Crosson, of Apex; father and mother, Alfred J and Diana Mitchell (Apex Sales), of Apex; brother, Todd and Wendy Mitchell, of Apex; grandmother, Florine Goodwin "Dini"; nephews, Matthew and Ethan Mitchell, Austin and Tyler Edwards and by numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Family will receive friends on Friday evening from 6-8 pm at Apex Funeral Home. Memorial Services for Melissa and her daughter, Ashley, will be held on Saturday, January 16, 2016 at 11 am at Olive Chapel Baptist Church in Apex.
Memorial Contributions are preferred to the Union Pines NJROTC program in her daughter Ashley's memory - 1981 Union Church Road - Cameron, NC 28326.
Missy will always be remembered for her smile, generous heart and willingness to do for others. She will soar on wings with eagles forever. Isaiah 40:31
"We all have a stairway that we climb everyday. Our staircase is lined with our surrounding that we are put or allow in our lives. My stairway is lined with memories; some good and bad. But each step on my stairway has a special place in my heart to remind me of what life once was, what life is and what life will be. Our stairways are built on life's lessons. Some call them stepping stones but I prefer a stairway because I would rather climb to a higher ground than be moving along without growth.
Make your stairway worth climbing every day. Each step is closer to your destination."
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July 12, 2016
Doris Fite
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July 12, 2016
Doris Fite
Happy Birthday Melissa..I know you and Ashley are sharing your love together now.
Your time together here wasn't enough.But now its eternal. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
January 17, 2016
Alfred & Diane,
I was shocked and saddened by the tragic death of Melissa and Ashley. May the good memories your have give you strength at this time. Your are in my thoughts and prayers.
Frank Boone
January 16, 2016
Danny Dangerfield
RIP Melissa you will forever be in my heart.
January 15, 2016
Carter and Tina Elston
There are no words that can express the sorrow Carter and I feel and the sorrow we feel for you. Melissa made an impact on everyone she touched. Her radiant smile and generosity towards others will be greatly missed. She gave me so many joyful memories. My favorite times were when we went fishing. I think that was what put the biggest smile on her face. We spent many hours by the water talking, laughing and just looking out over the water admiring the wonderful view. Those times I will cherish dearly.You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Melissa and Ashley will be dearly missed by many. I will miss my dear friend Melissa.
January 15, 2016
Mike&Velma McDougald
It is hard to express in words of feeling for your loss of your loved one. Hope there is some comfort knowing she is with the Lord now. You have our deepest sympathy and in our prayers. If needed , let us know. Our prayers are with each and everyone of the family, May God be with you, Alfred & Diana. Mike & Velma McDougald
January 15, 2016
Bryan Farrar
Rest in peace "Sister" enjoy your journey to your everlasting home, at least you will have your sweet Daughter with you on your journey. Love to you and Ashley
Bryan
January 15, 2016
Deepest sympathy for your family at this time of loss.
Lauren and Linda Barbour
January 15, 2016
Mutch Landscaping Rojas
You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if there's anything we can do.
January 15, 2016
Eric Klang
Our family is heartbroken. Please accept our deepest feelings for your family.
Eric, Mary, Karla & Melinda
January 15, 2016
Gerald Atkins, Sr.
Reminding you warmly how much others care and would like to bring comfort somehow. And hoping you feel that God's presence is with you, supporting and helping you now. With Deepest Sympathy.
January 14, 2016
Susie Lowe
Prayers from my family to yours.
January 14, 2016
Kent & Teresa Fussell
Alfred, Diane, Todd and Family, We are saddened to hear of the tragic loss of your sweet girls. Please know that we will be praying for all of you during this time.
January 14, 2016
monica taylor
May God give you peace in your heart and know that Melissa and Ashley are in a much better place. They will be missed!!!
January 14, 2016
Paige Walker
I lost a son three years ago. Cant image losing two children at one time. My sincere prayers go out to your entire family. Melissa was a great person to know. We will see them both again, hold on to that, its Gods promise to us.
January 13, 2016
Jill & James Ferguson
So very sorry for your loss. Melissa was such a friendly, sweet lady and will truly be missed by so many.
January 13, 2016
Tammy Pizzino Clark
Sincere prayers for your family during this loss. Melissa was truly a wonderful person very out going, very supportive and the best of friends and person could ever want. She always spoke very highly and loving of her family and children. She and Ashley will be greatly missed. She will be watching over everyone still as she moves on.
January 13, 2016
Lyndie Karleski
So sorry to hear of the passing of your loved one. Although I didn't know her personally I had graduated with friend's from Apex that did!!!! May Melissa rest in peace and may God give you strength to get pass the hurt you'll indure in the next coming day's!
January 13, 2016
Alfred, Dianne and Family, Words cannot express the saddest we feel for each of you. Praying God's strength and peace be with you all.
Bobby and Deborah Judd
January 13, 2016
Alfred, Diane and family, we are praying for you. May you feel the Presence of God in the days ahead. Nathan and Barbara Benson
January 13, 2016
Alfred,Diane,and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss.If we can do anything do not hesitate to call.
Donnie and Mike Fowler
January 13, 2016
Mickey Mann
Melissa your smile was contagious, prayers for the entire family and may you all find peace and understanding in our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ
January 13, 2016
Shirley Dangerfield
Caitlin praying for you and your family.
January 13, 2016
So sorry for your loss . Everyone one is in my prayers . Marie swain
January 13, 2016
We lift up our hearts to you and your family. We keep you in our prayers. May the peace of the Lord provide comfort for you.
Bill and Evelyn Sturtevant
January 13, 2016
Holt and Sons Auto
You all are in our thoughts and prayers. May God give you all strength.
January 13, 2016
Steve and Jenn McCarty
So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for your family.
January 12, 2016
Celia Jones
We are truly sorry about your daughter and granddaughter. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you at this time. Michael and Celia Jones
January 12, 2016
Lesley Mitchell
You brightened so many lives while you were here. The last words you said to me were words of encouragement. I know you and Ashley are with the Angels in heaven. May your beautiful souls rest in peace, with no more of the worries of this world.
January 12, 2016
Shelley Butler
Sending my deepest condolences to the family. I pray each of you find comfort in the memories of the days when life was simple and happy. May God bless you and help to ease your pain and sorrow in these difficult times. Rest In Peace Melissa. You will be missed.
January 12, 2016
Nancy Fish
Alfred, Diane, Todd and family's, I am so sorry for your loss, May God wrap his loving arms around you and give you peace and comfort. I will hold you in my prayers ❤
January 12, 2016
Debbie Evans
Caitlin,
Im so sorry for your loss.we keep you and your family in our prayers.
January 12, 2016
Nell Jones (Goodwin)
Sending love and prayers to your entire family. Caitlin, you have been on my heart and I just wanted to let you know all my love to you. Love lives on and memories never fade <3 Alfred, Diane and Todd, my deepest condolences and you all are in my prayers in the next days, weeks and months!
January 12, 2016
Lisa McNeil
This is so sad. My prayers goes out to all those affected by the loss of these two lives.
January 12, 2016
Deidre Horne
Praying for your daughter and family. You will be truly missed.
January 12, 2016
Peggy Ferguson
Diana & Alfred I have been very saddened to learn about Missy & her daughter. It is very difficult to find the right words to say at this terribly sad and difficult time. The God of love and comfort will be with you holding you close in his arms. Please know that I am sending you my deepest thoughts of sympathy and love. You and your family will be in my prayers.
January 12, 2016
Leah Ketring
Todd and family. So sorry about your loss. My thoughts are with you all
January 12, 2016
Heather Beckwith
Such a tragic loss of 2 beautiful women. So sad.
January 12, 2016
Pete, Betty Jane, Laura & Ray Holt
Our sincerest prayers go out to all of Melissa's and Ashley's family. Heaven has two more sweet angels, who will be looking after their wonderful family until they meet again. May God provide comfort during this most difficult time.
January 12, 2016
Jeff Beckwith
miss you more than you know love,,,,may GOD BE WITH YOU ,YOUR DAUGHTER AND FAMILY
January 12, 2016
Babe Basquill
I will pray for you and your family ~ genuine and fantastic person that will be deeply missed by all
January 12, 2016
Michael scholl
Melissa will be miss beyond words that can be said. We all myself included should live with a happy heart and huge smile as she did. Love the one's you have while we have them.
January 12, 2016
Harold Williford
So very sorry for your lose
January 12, 2016
Sheri Woodie
Melissa, So hard to believe that you are gone. May God comfort Caitlin in this time of sadness. I used to love working with you. God Bless
January 12, 2016
tom airington
Melissa my heart is broken so bad for the lost from this crazy world...but I know that you and Ashley are in a better place...my thoughts and prayers are with the Mitchell family....RIP....
January 12, 2016
cherry hilliard
I am so very sorry for the loss of such a sweet and wonderful person. I know she is looking down on us with that wonderful smile of hers.
January 12, 2016
May the God of comfort wrap his loving arms around ya'll in a special way. Keeping you in prayer.
January 12, 2016
Tim and Ann McCrimmon
Melissa, we are heartbroken you have been taken from this world so soon. You made a difference and touched some many lives. We send prayers to all of your family and friends. Rest in peace our dear dear friend. Love Tim, Ann, Patrick and Jack McCrimmon (Apex, NC).
January 12, 2016
Deborah and Rob Gates
We are so very sorry for the loss of Melissa. We recently saw her at church and she gave us a hug and that is a good memory and so now we send a hug and love to her family and friends.
January 12, 2016
Wade & Doris Cabe
We are so sorry for your loss and keeping you in our prayers. We know how What you must we going through as we experienced and are still trying to deal with the loss of our daughter Pam over 2 years ago. Just know they are both in a lot better place and we will meet again some day. Wade & Doris Cabe
January 12, 2016
Randy and Carolyn Sink
Alfred, Diane, Todd, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
January 12, 2016
Cheryl Thompson
Rest in peace Melissa. I hope you get to go fishing in Heaven! I'll be thinking of you each and every time I catch an eel! I don't think you ever stopped laughing over that one! My fondest memory with you! See you in Heaven. Keep smiling!
January 12, 2016
Neoma Disney
Melissa, I am so heartbroken to have lost you so soon. I wish I could have had you in my life longer. You were loved by many and I pray that your family can find comfort and peace in knowing that you were so well loved. Heaven has gained two beautiful Angels. Love you, Neoma
January 12, 2016
Rev. Robert Rivers
Thank you Lord for allowing Missy to be a part of Pam's and my life. Praying for God to wrap His arms around her family
January 12, 2016
Paul Nelson
The world needs more people like Melissa. She is loved by many and our loss is heaven's gain.
January 12, 2016
Dianne Holland
Diane & Alfred, so sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers
January 11, 2016
Kathy Evans
My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this time. I pray for comfort and peace for the family. Melissa was a beautiful person inside and out, she will be remembered. It is a comfort to know she knew Jesus.
January 11, 2016
Lesley Mitchell
Rest in peace sweet lady.
January 11, 2016
Tracy Collins
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