Melissa Mitchell McLain

1971 - 2016

Melissa Mitchell McLain obituary, 1971-2016

BORN

1971

DIED

2016

FUNERAL HOME

Apex Funeral Home

550 W Williams St

Apex, North Carolina

Melissa McLain Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 11, 2016.

Melissa Mitchell McLain, age 44, died January 9th, 2016 in Apex. Born in Apex, NC, she graduated from Fuquay High School in 1989. She also graduated from Lucas Travel School in Transportation and was employed by Mastec in Morrisville, NC.

Melissa departed with her daughter, Ashley Nicole Fite. She is survived by daughter, Caitlin Crosson, of Apex; father and mother, Alfred J and Diana Mitchell (Apex Sales), of Apex; brother, Todd and Wendy Mitchell, of Apex; grandmother, Florine Goodwin "Dini"; nephews, Matthew and Ethan Mitchell, Austin and Tyler Edwards and by numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins.

Family will receive friends on Friday evening from 6-8 pm at Apex Funeral Home. Memorial Services for Melissa and her daughter, Ashley, will be held on Saturday, January 16, 2016 at 11 am at Olive Chapel Baptist Church in Apex.

Memorial Contributions are preferred to the Union Pines NJROTC program in her daughter Ashley's memory - 1981 Union Church Road - Cameron, NC 28326.

Missy will always be remembered for her smile, generous heart and willingness to do for others. She will soar on wings with eagles forever. Isaiah 40:31

"We all have a stairway that we climb everyday. Our staircase is lined with our surrounding that we are put or allow in our lives. My stairway is lined with memories; some good and bad. But each step on my stairway has a special place in my heart to remind me of what life once was, what life is and what life will be. Our stairways are built on life's lessons. Some call them stepping stones but I prefer a stairway because I would rather climb to a higher ground than be moving along without growth.

Make your stairway worth climbing every day. Each step is closer to your destination."

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July 12, 2016

Doris Fite

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July 12, 2016

Doris Fite

Happy Birthday Melissa..I know you and Ashley are sharing your love together now.
Your time together here wasn't enough.But now its eternal. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

January 17, 2016

Alfred & Diane,
I was shocked and saddened by the tragic death of Melissa and Ashley. May the good memories your have give you strength at this time. Your are in my thoughts and prayers.
Frank Boone

January 16, 2016

Danny Dangerfield

RIP Melissa you will forever be in my heart.

January 15, 2016

Carter and Tina Elston

There are no words that can express the sorrow Carter and I feel and the sorrow we feel for you. Melissa made an impact on everyone she touched. Her radiant smile and generosity towards others will be greatly missed. She gave me so many joyful memories. My favorite times were when we went fishing. I think that was what put the biggest smile on her face. We spent many hours by the water talking, laughing and just looking out over the water admiring the wonderful view. Those times I will cherish dearly.You all are in our thoughts and prayers. Melissa and Ashley will be dearly missed by many. I will miss my dear friend Melissa.

January 15, 2016

Mike&Velma McDougald

It is hard to express in words of feeling for your loss of your loved one. Hope there is some comfort knowing she is with the Lord now. You have our deepest sympathy and in our prayers. If needed , let us know. Our prayers are with each and everyone of the family, May God be with you, Alfred & Diana. Mike & Velma McDougald

January 15, 2016

Bryan Farrar

Rest in peace "Sister" enjoy your journey to your everlasting home, at least you will have your sweet Daughter with you on your journey. Love to you and Ashley

Bryan

January 15, 2016

Deepest sympathy for your family at this time of loss.
Lauren and Linda Barbour

January 15, 2016

Mutch Landscaping Rojas

You are in our thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if there's anything we can do.

January 15, 2016

Eric Klang

Our family is heartbroken. Please accept our deepest feelings for your family.

Eric, Mary, Karla & Melinda

January 15, 2016

Gerald Atkins, Sr.

Reminding you warmly how much others care and would like to bring comfort somehow. And hoping you feel that God's presence is with you, supporting and helping you now. With Deepest Sympathy.

January 14, 2016

Susie Lowe

Prayers from my family to yours.

January 14, 2016

Kent & Teresa Fussell

Alfred, Diane, Todd and Family, We are saddened to hear of the tragic loss of your sweet girls. Please know that we will be praying for all of you during this time.

January 14, 2016

monica taylor

May God give you peace in your heart and know that Melissa and Ashley are in a much better place. They will be missed!!!

January 14, 2016

Paige Walker

I lost a son three years ago. Cant image losing two children at one time. My sincere prayers go out to your entire family. Melissa was a great person to know. We will see them both again, hold on to that, its Gods promise to us.

January 13, 2016

Jill & James Ferguson

So very sorry for your loss. Melissa was such a friendly, sweet lady and will truly be missed by so many.

January 13, 2016

Tammy Pizzino Clark

Sincere prayers for your family during this loss. Melissa was truly a wonderful person very out going, very supportive and the best of friends and person could ever want. She always spoke very highly and loving of her family and children. She and Ashley will be greatly missed. She will be watching over everyone still as she moves on.

January 13, 2016

Lyndie Karleski

So sorry to hear of the passing of your loved one. Although I didn't know her personally I had graduated with friend's from Apex that did!!!! May Melissa rest in peace and may God give you strength to get pass the hurt you'll indure in the next coming day's!

January 13, 2016

Alfred, Dianne and Family, Words cannot express the saddest we feel for each of you. Praying God's strength and peace be with you all.
Bobby and Deborah Judd

January 13, 2016

Alfred, Diane and family, we are praying for you. May you feel the Presence of God in the days ahead. Nathan and Barbara Benson

January 13, 2016

Alfred,Diane,and family,
We are so very sorry for your loss.If we can do anything do not hesitate to call.
Donnie and Mike Fowler

January 13, 2016

Mickey Mann

Melissa your smile was contagious, prayers for the entire family and may you all find peace and understanding in our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ

January 13, 2016

Shirley Dangerfield

Caitlin praying for you and your family.

January 13, 2016

So sorry for your loss . Everyone one is in my prayers . Marie swain

January 13, 2016

We lift up our hearts to you and your family. We keep you in our prayers. May the peace of the Lord provide comfort for you.

Bill and Evelyn Sturtevant

January 13, 2016

Holt and Sons Auto

You all are in our thoughts and prayers. May God give you all strength.

January 13, 2016

Steve and Jenn McCarty

So sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for your family.

January 12, 2016

Celia Jones

We are truly sorry about your daughter and granddaughter. Our thoughts and Prayers are with you at this time. Michael and Celia Jones

January 12, 2016

Lesley Mitchell

You brightened so many lives while you were here. The last words you said to me were words of encouragement. I know you and Ashley are with the Angels in heaven. May your beautiful souls rest in peace, with no more of the worries of this world.

January 12, 2016

Shelley Butler

Sending my deepest condolences to the family. I pray each of you find comfort in the memories of the days when life was simple and happy. May God bless you and help to ease your pain and sorrow in these difficult times. Rest In Peace Melissa. You will be missed.

January 12, 2016

Nancy Fish

Alfred, Diane, Todd and family's, I am so sorry for your loss, May God wrap his loving arms around you and give you peace and comfort. I will hold you in my prayers ❤

January 12, 2016

Debbie Evans

Caitlin,
Im so sorry for your loss.we keep you and your family in our prayers.

January 12, 2016

Nell Jones (Goodwin)

Sending love and prayers to your entire family. Caitlin, you have been on my heart and I just wanted to let you know all my love to you. Love lives on and memories never fade <3 Alfred, Diane and Todd, my deepest condolences and you all are in my prayers in the next days, weeks and months!

January 12, 2016

Lisa McNeil

This is so sad. My prayers goes out to all those affected by the loss of these two lives.

January 12, 2016

Deidre Horne

Praying for your daughter and family. You will be truly missed.

January 12, 2016

Peggy Ferguson

Diana & Alfred I have been very saddened to learn about Missy & her daughter. It is very difficult to find the right words to say at this terribly sad and difficult time. The God of love and comfort will be with you holding you close in his arms. Please know that I am sending you my deepest thoughts of sympathy and love. You and your family will be in my prayers.

January 12, 2016

Leah Ketring

Todd and family. So sorry about your loss. My thoughts are with you all

January 12, 2016

Heather Beckwith

Such a tragic loss of 2 beautiful women. So sad.

January 12, 2016

Pete, Betty Jane, Laura & Ray Holt

Our sincerest prayers go out to all of Melissa's and Ashley's family. Heaven has two more sweet angels, who will be looking after their wonderful family until they meet again. May God provide comfort during this most difficult time.

January 12, 2016

Jeff Beckwith

miss you more than you know love,,,,may GOD BE WITH YOU ,YOUR DAUGHTER AND FAMILY

January 12, 2016

Babe Basquill

I will pray for you and your family ~ genuine and fantastic person that will be deeply missed by all

January 12, 2016

Michael scholl

Melissa will be miss beyond words that can be said. We all myself included should live with a happy heart and huge smile as she did. Love the one's you have while we have them.

January 12, 2016

Harold Williford

So very sorry for your lose

January 12, 2016

Sheri Woodie

Melissa, So hard to believe that you are gone. May God comfort Caitlin in this time of sadness. I used to love working with you. God Bless

January 12, 2016

tom airington

Melissa my heart is broken so bad for the lost from this crazy world...but I know that you and Ashley are in a better place...my thoughts and prayers are with the Mitchell family....RIP....

January 12, 2016

cherry hilliard

I am so very sorry for the loss of such a sweet and wonderful person. I know she is looking down on us with that wonderful smile of hers.

January 12, 2016

May the God of comfort wrap his loving arms around ya'll in a special way. Keeping you in prayer.

January 12, 2016

Tim and Ann McCrimmon

Melissa, we are heartbroken you have been taken from this world so soon. You made a difference and touched some many lives. We send prayers to all of your family and friends. Rest in peace our dear dear friend. Love Tim, Ann, Patrick and Jack McCrimmon (Apex, NC).

January 12, 2016

Deborah and Rob Gates

We are so very sorry for the loss of Melissa. We recently saw her at church and she gave us a hug and that is a good memory and so now we send a hug and love to her family and friends.

January 12, 2016

Wade & Doris Cabe

We are so sorry for your loss and keeping you in our prayers. We know how What you must we going through as we experienced and are still trying to deal with the loss of our daughter Pam over 2 years ago. Just know they are both in a lot better place and we will meet again some day. Wade & Doris Cabe

January 12, 2016

Randy and Carolyn Sink

Alfred, Diane, Todd, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

January 12, 2016

Cheryl Thompson

Rest in peace Melissa. I hope you get to go fishing in Heaven! I'll be thinking of you each and every time I catch an eel! I don't think you ever stopped laughing over that one! My fondest memory with you! See you in Heaven. Keep smiling!

January 12, 2016

Neoma Disney

Melissa, I am so heartbroken to have lost you so soon. I wish I could have had you in my life longer. You were loved by many and I pray that your family can find comfort and peace in knowing that you were so well loved. Heaven has gained two beautiful Angels. Love you, Neoma

January 12, 2016

Rev. Robert Rivers

Thank you Lord for allowing Missy to be a part of Pam's and my life. Praying for God to wrap His arms around her family

January 12, 2016

Paul Nelson

The world needs more people like Melissa. She is loved by many and our loss is heaven's gain.

January 12, 2016

Dianne Holland

Diane & Alfred, so sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers

January 11, 2016

Kathy Evans

My thoughts and prayers are with the family during this time. I pray for comfort and peace for the family. Melissa was a beautiful person inside and out, she will be remembered. It is a comfort to know she knew Jesus.

January 11, 2016

Lesley Mitchell

Rest in peace sweet lady.

January 11, 2016

Tracy Collins

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