Nigel Edwin Weston

1969 - 2017

Nigel Edwin Weston obituary, 1969-2017

BORN

1969

DIED

2017

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13001 Katy Fwy

Houston, Texas

Nigel Weston Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on May 4, 2017.

Love for sport, especially your hometown sport, grows stronger when you live away from those home shores for 24 years. It epitomised Nigel's life.

Born in Birkenhead into a generations-old family of Evertonians his first visits to Goodison were when he was 9 years old, watching Bob Latchford score 30 goals in a season, sat on a barrier peering over the standing adults in the Goodison Road stand with various older brothers.

His was a cricketing family and Nigel played with his father and three older brothers from the moment he could stand up. He played Club cricket for Anselmians from the age of 11, and regularly at a County level as a teenager (Wirral, Cheshire, South-West Lancashire). It was on and off the pitch with Anselmians however that the greatest memories live on. To play sport with such a close set of friends is rare indeed. Humour was commonplace, and Nigel was a key instigator of it.

As a rugby player, Nigel played on the wing for the Wallasey Consortium team and after leaving school for New Brighton RFC. He attended St Anselm's College and Henry Meoles School for his Sixth Form. Nigel then attended Sheffield University and achieved a degree in Estate Management. Despite his passion for the subject, and a brief spell working for Mason Owen after qualifying he was not destined to go down that path.

Nigel had first visited the USA when he was 18. It was the first of many visits as he worked as a Soccer Coach for the next years in Texas. He moved to live in Houston in 1993. Not surprisingly he immediately met a like-minded group of ex-pats playing football for Houston United. The club was to become a second home for him and his friends. He organised and led a tour to England and Ireland, memorable times.

When played properly sport gives a code to live by. It certainly did that for Nigel. His large circle of close friends has that in common. It was the key to success as a businessman also. It was on that soccer pitch that Nigel was first introduced to the Wine business and began working for Glazer's Distributing. After 12 years as a distributor he transitioned into the world of supplier. He began working for Frederick Wildman and Sons as a regional manager and stayed with them until the end. Just as their name suggests they are a family oriented company and have stood beside Nigel during his 5-year battle with cancer. Their support was unwavering and Nigel loved his Wildman family. His work defined him and being able to contribute what he could was so important to his spirit and fight.

Nigel was a loving family man. Nigel is father to three beautiful children – Cameron 19, Annabelle 15 and Lily 6 and husband to Sandra. Everything that Nigel did, he did for his family. He was the cook and could often be seen in the kitchen running around cooking elaborate dinners for family or friends. Nigel loved to entertain and travel with his family. Just 2 months before his death Nigel travelled from Houston to Georgia by car to see his son graduate from the US Army. It was a very special day for them both. Nigel will be missed more than words can describe, but his memory will live on through all who knew him.

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May 16, 2017

Jim Walsh

Peace be with you Nigel, it was a pleasure to have known you. God bless your family through this difficult time.

May 12, 2017

Tom Butt

Top bloke, the day spent at the Matetic vineyard in Chile during one of his visits will live long in the memory. Rest in peace Nige, a privilege to have known you mate. Love, Tom and Charlotte Butt.

May 12, 2017

Gareth Simmonds

RIP Nigel, it was always a pleasure talking about football with you even though you weren't always complimentary about Newcastle United. You will be dearly missed.

May 11, 2017

Angela Neikirk

One of Nigels favorite song's

William Blake in 1804

Jerusalem Hymn

And did those feet in ancient time
Walk upon England's mountain green?
And was the holy Lamb of God
On England's pleasant pastures seen?
And did the countenance divine
Shine forth upon our clouded hills?
And was Jerusalem builded here
Among those dark satanic mills?

Bring me my bow of burning gold!
Bring me my arrows of desire!
Bring me my spear! O clouds, unfold!
Bring me my chariot of fire!
I will not cease from mental fight,
Nor shall my sword sleep in my hand,
Till we have built Jerusalem
In England's green and pleasant land.

Annabelle sang this to her dad 3 or 4 years ago when she was taking voice lessons

May 11, 2017

Margaret Foster

We think that Nige is now at peace from the pain - but I do not believe that! Nige will be up and at em. Free of pain he will be embracing the new reality, seeking the next adventure. He had such courage and in fact he had a remarkable life in such a short time, he lived his life well.
It is a terrible thing to live through for all of you - but you can be very proud of the way you handled that precious time. Nigel's courage and determination and the fact that he has put himself forward to trial drugs, drugs which in time will benefit others. He put himself forward for the sake of those he loved and the future! My last photograph of him was with the three children. That photograph was remarkable in that Nige - who was obviously in such pain yet he had the three children laughing!
God bless nephew I am so proud of you!
Aunty' Marg

And my tribute to all of you Sandra, Re, Hal, Andy, Dunc and Nick, and Sandra and Nige's friends - your courage, care and continuous support have made those last years truly memorable.
Marg

May 10, 2017

"Such terrible news. Condolences to all Nigel's family. Nigel was part of Birkenhead Park's 2nd XI that won the league in 1987. He went on to play in the 1st XI the next season and won the league there as well. He was a well liked member of the club."

Phil Lovgreen (Little Sutton, Cheshire, UK)

May 10, 2017

Maureen, Liza, Simon Monaghan

We shall remember Nigel so fondly. Our family parties every Boxing Day were full of fun and joy. The games we shared with Nigel and the boys - snooker, Twister, cards - brought us all closer as a family. He was a special part of our lives. His courage, kindness, good humour and love of sport will shine on. Now...together with Uncle Bri. (The Monaghans)

May 10, 2017

Jerry Ferreira

I had the opportunity to play football with Nigel when our team first joined Houston United. What a pleasure to,have him as a teammate and friend. Nigel was bigger than life and he will be missed.

May 9, 2017

Nigel, to my best friend who I met over 23 years ago in Houston. So many good memories. I'm so glad we became family. Will miss you mate. Love you. Jeremy

May 9, 2017

Michele Haid

I did not know you a long time, but instantly could see what a genuine and kind spirit you have. Comfort to your family during this difficult time.

May 9, 2017

Beryl Martin

I was so very shocked to hear of Nigel's death.

The news brings back many memories from the seventies and eighties. This picture shows Nigel at Old Trafford with my son, Andy, and their friends, Clive and Matt.

My thoughts are with you all at this desperately sad time.

Posted by Beryl Martin

May 9, 2017

NIGEL Our brave beautiful son.You have left us with so many wonderful
happy memories. We are brokenhearted and you will live on in our hearts forever. God bless you MUM and Dad XX

May 8, 2017

Marcio Barros

God bless your family and help them through this difficult time....

May 8, 2017

Patrick McCray

All you had to do was play one game of football with Nigel (for or against) to know everything about him. All fight and heart and a great example of how to not pass quietly through life. He's gone too soon but he will never be forgotten. Rest in peace, Nigel.

May 8, 2017

Patty Crane

Nigel had a heart of gold and always made us laugh on and off the field! He definitely poured his heart and soul into the United Club as a player, Board Member and running his team. They were his brothers. His smiles and wittiness will always be remembered! Now he has join the United Club in the great beyond so we know he will definitely be in good company. We thank you for all of the good times and will never forget you or Everton! Sandra and children you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Patty & Keith Crane

May 8, 2017

Rhonda

Thank you for a decade of great laughs and friendship!!! I am really going to miss you!

May 8, 2017

Steph Weston

Rip uncle nige. I admire the strength and courage you had for the last 5 year. I will cherish the memories made and I feel honoured that you are my uncle. I have fond memories of summer bbq's at nicks house, messing around playing cricket! I will always remember these. Love always, Steph

May 8, 2017

Barry Wisnevitz

Nige,
You were a true fighter and a hero to us all throughout this fight. Throughout your pain, your smile was ever present. Will miss that smile. RIP. We love and miss you.
Barry

May 8, 2017

Andy Weston

So many memories. So many smiles. So much life packed into those years. We won't ever stop remembering and loving.

Posted by Andy Weston

May 8, 2017

Very fond memories.There will never be another Nigel.Love Rosie & Ron Saffron Walden England.

May 7, 2017

Tracy Martin

I am deeply saddened to learn of Nigel's death, following a long and courageous battle.

Nigel was my brother's contemporary. Back in 1973, they began Kingsley Prep School in Upton on the same day.

I picture Nigel as a handsome little boy with white-blond hair, his mischievous grin half-hidden by a floppy school cap.

I send my sympathy to all Nigel's loved ones, remembering in particular Renee and Hal.

May 7, 2017

Sue Denholm

Farewell Nigel, my youngest cousin. We haven't seen each other in a long time but it has been great catching up via social media. Fond memories of cricket games at Backford and Aunty Re allowing me to push you around the garden in your pusher! Rest in peace.

Posted by Sue Denholm

May 6, 2017

Nick Weston

Nige - just too many memories mate. Too many fights, too many laughs, too many drinks and too many silly times and so many lessons learned. Thanks for them all.
It was and is a privilege and honour to have had you as my little brother. It was also an honour and privilege to share your final moments and I will never forget the peace that you finally found. Truly inspiring.
Cheers Nige and thanks for it all - You're never forgotten........ Skinny xx

May 6, 2017

Duncan Weston

RIP Nigel we miss you so much already xx

May 6, 2017

Duncan Weston

To my little brother Nigel. We shared so many good times growing up and although it was less frequent in recent years due to the miles between us you were never ever far from our thoughts. Your determination to battle your illness, your love for Sandra and the kids and the way you kept contact with Mum & Dad however unwell you felt was an inspiration to us all.
We both share a passion for Everton Football Club and every time I watch them play now I will always think of you and know you will be watching from above.
Rest in peace Nige we miss you and always will Love Duncan & Christine xx

May 5, 2017

Lauren Albanese

Mentor and Friend. Nigel will forever be in my heart. My thoughts and prayers to Sandra, his kids, parents and siblings. Too many stories to share. Hilarity to truths. Nigel was golden.

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