Pamela Cvetnick Miller was born on February 27, 1953 at Myers Clinic in Philippi, West Virginia to Maribelle Digman and T. Max Cvetnick. Pamela moved to Arlington, Va at age six and then later attended Wakefield High School. She attended Virginia Tech University and then returned to Arlington, Va to start her career in the sales industry as well as personal training. She was married to Ronald S. Miller in 1984, and together they birthed what Pamela considered her greatest success in life -- her three children Jared, Paige and Maren. Through the years of raising her children, she was very engaged in every aspect of their lives. From sporting events to volunteering at school activities, she was always there.
During the earlier years of her children's lives, Pamela was very involved in physical fitness, as she became a Certified Personal Trainer and aerobics instructor. One of her children's fondest memories of their mother is hearing her teach step aerobics from the studio in the basement of their home. Pamela also spent time playing slow-pitch softball for several years. She passed her athleticism and knowledge of physical fitness on to her children as all three were involved in many sports as they grew.
Perhaps Pamela's greatest joy was her involvement with her children's sporting events. She spent several years coaching her daughters' softball teams at McLean Little League and when she wasn't coaching she rarely missed a game, always there cheering for her child from the sidelines.
Her love and support for her children continued into their college and adult lives until she suddenly passed away on February 25, 2012 at the age of 58. She is survived by her three children Jared A. Miller (27), Paige C. Miller (25), and Maren A. Miller (22), father, T. Max Cventick, brother, Mark A. Cvetnick, friends, Ronald S. Miller and Verne Myren, and two cats, Daisy and Goldie.
Pamela's second greatest passion in life was her love for animals. She was always supportive of animal rights and never went a day without a pet in her life. In lieu of flowers please send donations to Animal Welfare League of Arlington 2650 South Arlington Mill Drive, Arlington, Virginia 22206.
Arrangements under the direction of Arlington Funeral Home, Arlington, VA.
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March 18, 2012
Lauren Elasik
Dear Jared, Paige, and Maren,
I just learned of your mom's passing when I saw the beautiful pictures of you all with her on facebook. I remember your lovely mom and her vibrant energy from Churchill. I'm so sorry for your loss and I know you'll continue to make her so proud. Thinking of you and sending you love.
March 6, 2012
My son Teddy just shared with me the news of Pam's passing. I am shocked and saddened to hear of this loess. Having lost both of my parents this past year I know what you are going through.
I just ran into Pam recently in the grocery store. Of course after talking about where the kids were now, Pam told me about her new career....watching children! She gave all the credit to Paige for coming up with the idea. She said that she was loving it and also loved being back in McLean. It doesn't seem fair that she is gone.
I will always remember how kind and thoughtful Pam was to my family. She would volunteer to watch my children at a softball game if one of the girls had committed to sitting for me and then unexpectedly have to pitch a game. She always made it work out for everyone and I was forever thankful for it!
Paige and Maren, please feel free to stop by anytime to talk. I am so sorry for this tremendous loss.
Michele and Chris Petersen
March 5, 2012
Sally Oaks Isenhour
March 4, 2012
Becky Wilson Shaia
To Jared, Paige, Maren, Mark and TMAX, and all of those who loved Pam. The service yesterday afternoon was truly one that honored Pam for who she was. I always thought our friendship, strengthened at Virginia Tech, would once again be strong. It will never be, but I am humbled by the love her family demonstrated yesterday. Bless you all.
Love,
Becky
March 3, 2012
del Carril Family
Dear Jared, Paige and Maren, We will remember Pam as a wonderful, caring mother and McLean volunteer who loved and cared deeply for you. Her home was always open to your friends. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and the rest of the family.
Maren: Agustina and I send you our love and hope to see you soon. We regret not being in DC to attend Pam's service.
March 3, 2012
Kate Rossier
We are very sad and shocked to hear of Pam passing away. What a beautiful and vibrant woman! We send our prayers and heartfelt best wishes to all of Pam's family. The Rossiers
March 3, 2012
Pam was a smart, fun and wonderful person. I have not seen her in some time. She will be missed very much. My condolences to her family. Dionne Davies and Dennis Crane (Alexandria, VA)
March 2, 2012
Denny-Brown family
Pam was a wonderful neighbor, a loving Mom, and was always there for PTA meetings at Churchill Road School. She was a generous person and our son Sinan always felt welcome in her family's home. We are sure that her children will carry her love in their hearts forever. Love & prayers
March 2, 2012
Cheryl Jakubowski
Pam had such a kind heart and gentle spirit. Seeing me after close to 40 years she exclaimed "you look the same, I would have known you anywhere". Oh yes very kind (she may have forgotten her glasses)! I have loved reading about all the lives she impacted as a Mom, friend & coach. I will always think of her smile, laughter, and ability to overcome hardship the best way she could. Kindred spirits always Pam. See you on the other side, Love, Cheryl Smith Jakubowski
March 2, 2012
Claudia Engel
Jared, Paige & Maren, My thoughts & my prayers are with you. Keep the memories of your dear mom close to your heart and she will always be with you. Love you!!!!
March 2, 2012
Claudia Engel
Pam was the most energetic volunteer when it came to her children's activities. She ran circles around the rest of us. I will always remember watching all of those baseball and softball games with her. I have such wonderful memories of a beautiful person and a most wonderful mom.
March 2, 2012
Gale Kerns
Our thoughts and prayers are with Jared, Paige, and Maren. God Bless.
Gale Kerns, Sara Hanson, Scott Hanson
March 1, 2012
The Greenwich Family
Pam's radiant smile warmed the hearts of those around her. She was a friendly, generous, and caring woman, whose love for her children was evident. She will be missed by all whose lives she touched. We hope you are comforted in knowing that her love for you will never fade. Love and prayers.
March 1, 2012
Kathleen Brady
March 1, 2012
Pam was a devoted and loving parent who was involved in the community. And boy was she a fierce competitor! She instilled in her children a strong desire to strive. God bless you.
Milloys
March 1, 2012
Nancy Pooley
My thoughts and prayers are with you, Pam, and your family.
March 1, 2012
Kathleen Brady
I will remember the laughter & silly moments & her legacy is her wonderful children. God Bless
February 29, 2012
Matthias Martin
Thanks for hosting me all those times over at Thrasher, cooking me dinner and driving me to baseball even when I was acting psycho. You were a fine Mother who raised three wonderful children, and who created a warm, family environment just across the field for me when things got tense at my house. Show 'em how to work it in heaven Ms. Miller. R.I.P.
February 29, 2012
Courtney Helmer
Pam's personality was bright, kind, and attractive. Her love for animals and sports still lives on through her three beautiful children today. I will never forget the wonderful memories I had with her in her home....Everything from forcing her to watch our dance routines to her laughing at me running through the screen door on my way to the trampoline.
February 29, 2012
Nancy Koprowski
She was beautiful, inside and out. Sending light, love, and a sense of God's presence to her beloved children.
February 29, 2012
Alan Steele
Pam's gift was that she left me and so many others with such warm and pleasant memories. Each memory I have of Pam makes me smile. She was a terrific person and friend and had such a warm and generous heart. I enjoyed our Facebook chats over the last year or two. I'll miss seeing her posts and messages pop up. My thoughts and prayers go out frequently to her family and loved ones.
February 29, 2012
Desbois Family
We will always treasure our memories of all the weekends we spent with Pam at the softball fields. She was a beautiful person and soul, and we will miss her dearly. She is looking down from heaven and watching her family with pride. She will always be with you! Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
February 29, 2012
Ann Church
The world has lost a wonderful and loving woman. I knew Pam as a terrific mother and first met her on the sidelines of our sons' soccer games. She was always friendly and warm to my son Scott as he and Jared grew into fine men.
I also knew Pam as an animal activist who often volunteered at national conferences and with local efforts. We shared our deep love and concern for animals and I know how much that passion meant to her.
We will all miss her and my thoughts are especially focused on Jared, Maren, and Paige, as well as Daisy and Goldie.
February 29, 2012
Jack Harvey
From TJ to Wakefield to the present, Pam always met you with a smile. I'll always smile when I think of her and know that she touched everyone she met. My sympathies go out to her family, but you know she will always be smiling down on you as life goes on.
February 29, 2012
Bruce Hall
I will never forget you Pam. May you bring smiles to the people you meet in heaven the same way you did here on Earth. May your children and loved ones here remember how much you loved and cared for them.
February 28, 2012
Marti Glover
I will always treasure memories of our friendship. I know she loved her children deeply and was very proud of the individuals they have become. May God's love sustain you and bring you peace.
February 28, 2012
The Cooper Family
Pam's beautiful spirit, heart, and love for her family made this world a better place. Wonderful and happy times shared on and off the softball and other sports fields and the great friendship we have shared with Pam and your family will be remembered and cherished forever. May God enfold you all, our dear and true friends, with His love and comfort. Our hearts and prayers are with you all. Heaven has gained a beautiful angel.
February 27, 2012
The Wheat Family
Pam was a wonderful and beautiful mother, coach and friend. She was so proud of her children, they were truly her greatest joy. We will always keep our memories of her in our hearts. May you find comfort in knowing you have a loving angel shining down on you. Love & Prayers, The Wheat Family
February 27, 2012
Wheat Family
Pam was a wonderful and beautiful mother, coach and friend. She was so proud of her children, they were truly her greatest joy. We will always keep our memories of her in our hearts. May you find comfort in knowing you have a loving angel shining down on you. Love & Prayers, The Wheat Family
February 27, 2012
Cvetnick Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
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