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2015
GASTON – A funeral service for Patrick Shane McAlister, 46, will be held at 2:00 p.m. Thursday, April 2, 2015 at Caughman-Harman Funeral Home, Lexington Chapel. The family will receive friends following the service at the funeral home.
Mr. McAlister was born November 30, 1968 in Columbia, SC. and passed away Monday, March 30, 2015. He was the son of Ernest P. McAlister and Patricia Cromer McAlister. He was a member of Christian Fellowship Baptist Church.
He is survived by his wife, Melissa McAlister; daughter Shaina McAlister; step-son, John Crawford (Roselyn); sisters, Paula Shaffer (Bryant) and Porcia Havird (Jeff); parents; 2 grandchildren and 4 nieces and nephews.
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July 14, 2015
Porcia Havird
I love and miss you bro!!! Love your lil sis!
April 6, 2015
Delaine Kinlaw
Melissa, you and your family and in my thoughts and prayers. My heart hurts for you.I can't even imagine. Life so short. But you will be together again. He really loved you and his family. What a wonderful man.
April 3, 2015
Lisa mooneyham
Sad to hear about Shane's passing. He was a good soul back when we met in the 70's and continued to be throughout his life. My sincere prayers for you all as you adjust. May God wrap His loving arms around you.
April 3, 2015
Stan Cromer
Patricia and Pat, Sorry to learn about Shane's passing. Will keep you and family in my prayers.
April 2, 2015
tara howard
I am so very sorry to hear of Shane's passing. I am baffled that he and my grandpa (Frankie fogle) passed on the same day. Shane and pop were great friends and I know pop and shane are in a much better place, probably driving trucks! I know how hard this is, I am grieving as well but I know time heals many things, and at least they are together. I hope you all can find comfort somehow and always cherish the wonderful memories you will always have!
April 2, 2015
Anna Berger
I was very sorry to hear about Shane's passing. May God give the family strength and comfort today and in the days ahead.
Anna Barnett Berger
April 2, 2015
Youngblood/ Kelley Family
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
April 2, 2015
Nancy Shaffer Daniel
Paula, Pat, and family I am so sorry about Shane. I pray that you will have peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and loving memories to forever hold in your hearts.
April 2, 2015
Diane Muszynski
My thoughts, prayers and deepest sympathy for Shane's family. He will be missed but never forgotten. Very proud that I had an opportunity to know such a sweet caring individual.
April 1, 2015
Praying for the Family , so sorry for your loss. Shane, RIP My Friend !
April 1, 2015
Brenda &Johnny Eason
Shane was a sweet and kind man. He always had a smile on his face. He will be missed. RIP my sweet friend.
April 1, 2015
Marnie Hook Family
Our family was so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. We will be praying for you as you go through the days ahead.
April 1, 2015
Chesley Geyer
Paula, I am heartbroken for you. I have been thinking about you nonstop. I send you love and prayers.
April 1, 2015
Ronnie Rambo
My Prayers are with the Family.
April 1, 2015
Bobby Nelson
May God wrap his arms around you, Shane, and take you into heaven. You will be missed, but I pray rhat we will meet again my brother. God bless your family in this time of. grieving and know that Shane is in a better place.
April 1, 2015
Kathy Treadway
Shane you always had the best and funniest stories, The love you had for Mellissa and Shania will remain with them forever. gonna miss ya Buddy. Watch over Mellissa and Shania as they go through these difficult times. Prayers for you and your family
April 1, 2015
George Shaffer
May God bless and keep you till we meet again one day where there is no more sadness, no more sorrow, no more tears...
April 1, 2015
Loriann wells
You will be so missed you were the type of person that no mater how long it's been since you've seen each other it was like it was yesterday dear friend my deepest sympathy to your family until we meet again dear freind
April 1, 2015
Helen Fields
Paula and Family,
We are so sad to learn of your loss. I pray God will comfort you and lead you through these tough days.
With love,
Helen and Riley Fields
April 1, 2015
Kristi Rogers Collins
So sorry for your loss. Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
April 1, 2015
Judy Chavis-Morris
Thoughts and prayers to Melissa, Shania and the family. Shane was truly a kind sole he always left you with a smile. He will be missed by so many. Love you my dear friend
April 1, 2015
Paula Melton
A good man gone too soon. My prayers are with you all during this time. I will cherish my memories of Shane always, he was a kind soul.
April 1, 2015
Indian & Family
Shane will be truly missed. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.
April 1, 2015
D Thompson
I would like to send my sincere and deepest condolences to my Big Buddy's family. He talked about his wife & daughter always. He was taken much too soon and this world will be amiss without his charming smile and wonderful presences.
April 1, 2015
Havird Bar and Jenny
our prayers,and love are with you,Shania and family. For this You have JESUS. IN HIM, Bar and Jenny Havird
April 1, 2015
Bob Gardner
my deepest sympathy & prayers to the family . Shane is with Jesus & some old friends now .
April 1, 2015
Phil Lawson
Sorry for your loss. God bless your family!
April 1, 2015
Cindy Wingard-Nicholson
My deepest sympathy to the family. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
April 1, 2015
DONNA TUGGLE
YOU WILL BE FOREVER MISSED IT WAS A PRIVLEDGE TO KNOW YOU AND TO HAVE AS A FRIEND
April 1, 2015
Sherelyn Hook-Liles
My sympathy is sent to Shane's family. Shane will forever be remembered by myself and many of the employees at V.B. Hook. He had such quick wit it was hard not to smile the whole time you were in his company.
April 1, 2015
Jack & Frances Stokes
My heart and prayers are with you during this very difficult time.
April 1, 2015
The Staff of Caughman-Harman Funeral Home
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
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