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Patrick Bohnet Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 31, 2012.

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August 23, 2013

Shawn Esplin

I only had the pleasure of hanging out with Patrick a couple of times during Anime Weekend Atlanta, but I always appreciated all of the work he put into making it a great event, and getting to spend a little time with him outside of the con (like when a group of us went to a Japanese restaurant during AWA in I believe 2003 or 2004) just reinforced my perception that he was a great guy.

I haven't made an AMV in years, but I promised to do one based on an idea of his, and I still intend to do it. I just wish he could be there to see it when it's done...

January 22, 2013

heros will be always heros.

November 25, 2012

Jeffrey Lee

Patrick has got to be the nicest and smartest guy I have ever had the pleasure of working with.
Jeffrey Lee
(Kennesaw State University)

August 28, 2012

Sarah Stinebaugh

I only meet Patrick once but it was a memorable moment. He and Debra were visiting at my parents next door, we were all talking. when I mentioned our dog. Pat and I walked over to my backyard so he could see Titan. I warned him the dog is big and he might jump on you, so we entered the fence and Titan came running he did jump up to Pats welcome arms. Titan is 144lbs of pure muscle and almost knocked Pat over he just kissed him and knocked his glasses off but Pat stood there loving every minute of it...lol I knew then that Debra had a great man! He will be missed greatly I am so sorry Debra and Sylvia! My love thoughts, and prayers are with you.

August 28, 2012

Omar Jenkins

I first met Pat about ten years ago at Anime Weekend Atlanta. Over the years I got to know him better and understood why he poured so much of his blood sweat and tears into the AMV community. To him, AMVs were a form of art and he was like a curator. He wanted to preserve them and present them to the audience the way the creator had intended. I think that's one of the reasons he spent so much time researching and tweaking the Netstream 2000 playback system that is still in use today. But no matter how much you love a hobby, life comes first.

I remember in 2005 he called me up out of the blue and asked if I'd be interested in taking over the Iron Chef competition. He was suffering burnout from running the AMV tech at so many anime conventions but wanted to make sure that the work he started would continue. I agreed and a short while later, a heavy box full of bronze Iron Chef AMV medallions arrived bearing the phrase "Celerius Difficilus Maius", which roughly translates to "Faster Harder Louder". Eight years later, Iron Editor(f.k.a Iron Chef AMV) is still running strong and has branched out to four conventions across the US.

Pat and I lost touch for a year or so when he stepped back from convention work but we eventually reconnected through food. Pat loved to cook and was always trying out new recipes or new variations on his favorites. Always the inclusionist, he came up with vegetarian versions of his typically meat-filled dishes and taught me just how versatile eggplant can be. We'd spend hours at AWA or online talking about Alton Brown's latest MacGuyver-esque cooking techniques from Good Eats or some other facet of the culinary arts. I can still remember his excited hand gestures as he talked through a recipe and acted out the steps in mid-air. He was so full of enthusiasm.

Pat was a great man first and foremost. He loved Debra and always beamed with pride over Sylvia when I saw them outside the VAT at AWA. Whenever someone needed help he was more than willing to give it; be it tech advice, tasty food, or a bone crushing hug. As a recipient of all three, I know that his memory will live on through all the people he touched and the community he helped inspire.

August 27, 2012

The Garinos

We only knew Patrick for a short time but he became a very good friend in that time. He was a wonderful husband and father. They say that babies and dogs are the best judges of character. According to our daughter, Patrick was undoubtedly one of the best. When she would see him, he would always greet her with a big smile and "Hi"! This would quickly be followed by her running up to him with hands outspread to be picked up, something she normally doesn't do. Whether it was to sit on his shoulders to see everything around or to be half of the famous double-baby lift with her best friend Sylvia, our daughter was always very excited to see Patrick. Debra and Sylvia you are in our thoughts and prayers. *HUGS*

August 27, 2012

Bev Parnell

One evening about eleven years ago, my daughter Debra was telling me about a guy she had become friends with. From the way she spoke—the sound of her voice, her inflection, her demeanor, I could tell I needed to pay attention and this was not just another “friend.” I asked her, “Debra, is this someone I need to know about?” She softly glowed as she said, “Yes.” I knew this was someone very special to her, and I then heard the name Patrick Bohnet for the first time. She laughed as she told about his big bear hug that “cracked my back” when they first met. It was quite some time later that I actually met Patrick, and to be honest, I was quite skeptical. This giant of a guy and his world of gaming and warcraft and computers and anime was so foreign to my world. This protective mother had caution flags popping up at every turn. But the one thing that stood out the most, even more than his size, was his gentleness. We had opposing points of view on many topics, but he always showed absolute respect when we disagreed. I'm sure that is what won me over: his gentleness, his kindness, his thoughtful consideration, his respectful attitude. And over the years, I have been blessed to watch the love between Patrick & Debra grow. I cannot count the number of times Patrick said to me, “I want you to know that I love your daughter, and I just want to take care of her.” And it showed in the way he looked at her, the way he treated her. He absolutely adored her, and she loved him back the same way. Patrick also knew just which of Debra's buttons to push to get the reaction he wanted—sometimes to get a rise out of her, sometimes to get a laugh out of her. (All of Patrick's friends know what I am talking about when I say that he loved pushing people's buttons. You just had to look at the twinkle in his eye and the “gotcha” look, followed by a good chuckle.) What Patrick & Debra had between them was very special. And then along came Sylvia. In all of my life I have never known any man who was so thrilled at being a father. He never stopped being in awe of being a Daddy. Every day he would say, “I'm a Daddy, this is my little girl.” He would pick her up in those big hands of his and she was right where she wanted to be. This Daddy absolutely loved his little girl. Debra was to take second seat for a while, as Sylvia dangled him from her little finger. Everything else could wait when Sylvia was with Daddy; his world revolved around his little girl. My heart breaks in knowing that Sylvia will be denied all those “would-have-been, should-have-been” moments with her Daddy.

As for me personally, I don't know if any man has ever been more considerate of his mother-in-law. So kind, so caring, so considerate in so many ways, even to the point that as they looked to buy a new house, he wanted to make sure that it could accommodate me. Patrick had already made the decision that when I would retire, I would be living with them. I feel that I have lost not a son-in-law, but I have lost a second son. Patrick, you leave a mighty, mighty big hole in so many lives—especially Debra's and Sylvia's, your parents', and mine for sure.

I pray daily for my Debra and Sylvia as they struggle to move forward one step at a time. “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; He rescues those whose spirits are crushed.” (Psalm 34:18 NLT)

August 23, 2012

Bryant Zimmerman

Patrick introduced me to the world of anime. I had the privilege of working with him as a sponsor for several years on the Iron Chef Video Edit competition and anime conventions around the country. The late nights on the phone preparing for the events and cramming people into hotel rooms to make budgets work and the events possible. Patrick was a true man of big ideas and great things. His fun loving spirit and love of being with others was a gift to all that know him. His love for Debra was apparent from the first moment I saw them together something quite special to see. It had been some time since I had last talked with him but he often would come to mind each time I saw a DDR / Iron Chef DVD around the house or office. His legacy will live on in the twinkle of Sylvia's eye and smile on her face. Debra you and Sylvia are in Jen and My prayers may God bless you and give you peace as you walk this road of loss and healing.

Sincerely
Bryant Zimmerman

August 13, 2012

Hugh Miller

He was one of life's great people to know. So very sorry he's gone.

August 11, 2012

Sarah Wenn

I have known Patrick since AWA 8. From the many long drives down to his house, with fellow friends from our college campus, to learn computer editing techniques, watching anime/film shorts, and playing Halo. It was through him that I have met many extraordinary individuals that I would never have guessed had similar interests in certain topics as me. He had a knack of finding connections between people, and making sure that everyone left his presence with a smile and a new friend or two. It is a sad that we will not hear his enthusiasm for the little things during the convention that we take for granted until he points them out. I think we will all miss the random dirty comment or joke to take us off guard and ease the tension or stress in a conversation. For such a big guy, he really could make the largest of bad moments become one of the small things to not fret about with a single hug.

August 10, 2012

Cameron Hagan

Though I new you for a short time, It was full of fun. For all I know of Patrick is that he is a great man.

August 8, 2012

Miles Klub

Didn't know him well, but I know he played a big part in my always-enjoyable AWA experience from behind the scenes. My condolences to his family.

August 6, 2012

S. Wayne Hamilton

Deb and Family, as with you I will miss my friend Patrick and his insightful help. He taught me tons when I was helping him with the AMV videos for AWA so much that I was able to be Assistant Director when he could not spare the time. I will miss his easy teaching method that did not berate you for not knowing something or getting it the first time. I know that Sylvia will miss a great father who did love to spend time with her and help her learn. I know it will be hard for you Deb but there are many friends and I know we will help you all we can. If you need anything and I can get to Atlanta I will gladly help. God Bless you and I think you should get a free pass for a while.

August 4, 2012

Nathaniel Silverthorn

My thoughts and prayers are with Pat's family. I wish I had more time to get to know him better, but I will cherish the time that I did have. I only hope I can be half and man and mentor that he was to me. Rest in piece.

August 3, 2012

Matt Page

His passing is such a great loss and my thoughts and prayers go out to his family. I know he'll be greatly missed by us all and especially AWA and the anime community.

August 2, 2012

Matthew Wagner

Far too soon.

August 2, 2012

Jennifer

My condolences to the family of Patrick. Even though I never knew him personally, I do feel he will be missed by the generations of otaku who attend AWA each year and looked forward to the amazing setups he and the rest of the video team did each year. Your bright shining light in the fandom will be missed Patrick. Now may the Divine shine on your family during this difficult time and guide them onward as they grieve.

August 2, 2012

Jason T. Powell

Though I could not speak at the services, though most of this had been said, I did recite a few words at a lunch gathering after the funeral with his peers. This is what I had to say:

"Being a geek is all about being honest about what you enjoy and not being afraid to demonstrate that affection. It means never having to play it cool about how you like something. Being a geek is extremely liberating." - Simon Pegg

I can think of Patrick when I hear this quote. His love of computers and Japanese animation was never clearer as when he invited people to gather at his place to view and talk about them. And, as a dire part of the Anime Weekend Atlanta convention he was not only able to share his passion with those locally, but to those across the nation. He devoted time to this hobby and traveled around to help those needing it. But in the end, he'd always come home to Debra; his other true love. They shared the same interests and it was being geeks that they found comfort and compassion in each other. He devoted his heart to her. And when the time came that a new addition to the household was to come, he dropped his hobbies and prepared himself to becoming a father for Sylvia. He then devoted his strength to raise his daughter.
I honor this man and salute him. His dedication to his friends, family, and even strangers is something to bewilder. He gave all and asked for nothing. He accomplished more in his short life than I may in my own. Thank you Patrick Bonet for allowing me to have known you. May you rest knowing that you will be in the hearts of many.
I leave with another quote. In Japan, the crane is revered as an auspicious bird, representing authority, longevity, and wisdom. My mother's family has a quote given to those who have done many a good deeds in their life:

"May the cranes sing of your praises as you fly amongst them on your way to your new journey."

August 2, 2012

Jason Navarro-Dimm

I knew Q since old Cingular days and he was kind, easy going, and fun to work with. May God comfort your family in this difficult time.

August 2, 2012

Jason Howard

Patrick was a devoted man. A great man dedicating his life to his wife, daughter, and his passion for computers and Japanese animation. He was loved by his peers and comrades. This gentle giant had a heavy heart and spread happiness to those who met him. He will be missed.

August 2, 2012

Ardyn Lee

Patrick was such a great guy. He had a big heart, and was willing to share it with everyone. He loved life, and especially being a husband and father. The last time I saw Pat he was walking her around the room at the Waverly, it was so sweet. AWA will not be the same without him, and I will miss him dearly. My heart goes out to Debra and Sylvia.

August 2, 2012

Ruth Johnston

I always enjoyed talking to Patrick at AWA. Although I did not know him long I could tell that he was a very wonderful and kind person. He was a very loving father and husband. I will miss him. His friends, and family are in my thoughts and my heart goes out to them.

August 1, 2012

Amanda and Corey

To my Family,
I'm so sorry Corey and I can't be there. May you know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Patrick was and always will be a wonderful person. He had a big heart and loved all of you so much. Sending lots of love!!!

August 1, 2012

David Valentine

My heart goes out to this very loving family to which I hold very dear to my heart. Patrick was and always will be remembered by me as great man, full of knowledge and cared deeply for those around him. It was a pleasure to have known him in this life.

August 1, 2012

Victoria W.F.

I did not know Patrick well, but I do know that he was a good AWA director and a great and loving father and husband. My heart goes out to his family, friends, and loved ones.

August 1, 2012

Terry Cash

Patrick (aka “Que� to his friends after the James Bond character who created all the wonderful gadgets), and I worked together on complementary teams during the "Cingular" days of AT&T. He was always involved and concerned with what my team was doing and he often times would help us strategize for the future.

He was truly a unique and interesting friend I enjoyed our time together immensely. I can't seem to fully comprehend how fragile life really is so I'm trying to cherish the memories of those who have enriched my life over the years and Patrick was certainly one of the memorable people who brought a smile to my face time and time again.

August 1, 2012

Ellinore Wilson

I don't even know what to say here. Many of my happier memories of living in Atl include Big Pat or took place at an event he was involved with or even at his home.

I feel his loss even across these years and miles and my heart goes out to those closest to him who are grieving now.

August 1, 2012

Daniel Razza

I had the distinct pleasure of leading raids in World of Warcraft for almost two years with Patrick, who I knew better as Quutar. He was one of the most skilled, creative and kind people I had the pleasure of playing with. He brought his warm voice to every raid night, and it never felt the same without him on those nights which he was absent.

I had the pleasure of getting to know Patrick in person when I moved down to Atlanta, where he invited me out to see movies and have dinner with him and other friends in the Atlanta area. I will never forget everything he did for me, and how welcome he made me feel to live in Atlanta.

He was the best of men, and my heart goes out to his wife and daughter. Words cannot express how much of an impact he had on my life, and the life of everyone he met.

Godspeed Quutar. You truly were the hero that rose in The Eleventh Hour.

-Morsul

August 1, 2012

Barry & Bob Miller

Kevin and family,
We are heart broken over your loss. We can certainly understand your grief. We can't be at the service Thursday as Bob has eye surgery scheduled but our heart, thoughts and prayers are with you. God bless all of you....

August 1, 2012

R. J. Reda

My heartfelt condolences go out to Patrick's family in their time of need. I had the pleasure of knowing Patrick for the past 7 years and have such fond memories of working with him. While the topics of our conversations were all over the map, the overlying theme was that Patrick was constantly imparting knowledge and gave of himself so freely that it was always extremely easy to talk to him. Every time I walked away from his desk, I felt I gleaned something new. He was such a quality person and a fine mentor and for that I will never forget him.

August 1, 2012

Amy Andrews

I count myself fortunate to have been on the receiving end of one of Quu's signature rib-crushing bear hugs. I'm glad I got to spend a little time with him and other AMVers back in 2005 at AWA.

I am deeply saddened by his passing. I enjoyed following his recipe and cooking adventures. His impact on the AMV community is immeasurable; there are many people feeling his loss on a personal level as well as professional one.

You will be missed, Patrick. RIP.

July 31, 2012

Sean Thordsen

I've only known Patrick (Quu) in passing but for a long time dating back to the days of the Anime Music Video mailing list. He was a great guy with a great attitude. The loss will be felt by the AMV community and those he touched for a long time to come. Rest in peace Quu, you will be missed.

July 31, 2012

Rachel Gold

July 31, 2012

Scott Peterson

Patrick aided me in running my first AMV event in 2003. He flew from Atlanta, GA to Santa Clara, CA bringing all of his own equipment just to make sure my event ran as smooth as possible. Over the next few years he continued to help me, and gradually gave me confidence to run events on my own. Patrick was always willing to help others, but also made all of those around him make themselves better as well. I am a better person because Patrick was in my life and he will continue to live on in those whom lives he touched.

July 31, 2012

Wes McCoy

My wife Deborah and I want to extend our sincere sympathy to Patrick's family, even though we don't really have words to express our deep sadness. Our prayers are for your support and for encouragement now and for the days to come.

July 31, 2012

Louis Perico

Patrick has joined the Immortals; you will be missed, but you will be remembered. Always.

July 31, 2012

R

Patrick, I didn't really know you but I can see how you've touched the lives of so many people. In particular I'm referring to the editors in our community that I do know, and it's amazing, what a difference you've made for them. I'm so sorry your beautiful daughter has to grow up without you, it really breaks my heart to think of it, but I know you'll be watching over her and she'll always remember you with a smile when she hears all the great stories about you.

July 31, 2012

Disa Mouat

Patrick and I shared an office for a long time at AT&T (then it was Cingular). He became my dear friend and that was the case for over 11 years. I loved him like he was my brother and we talked about everything - just one of those people you could discuss anything with. Since we were both of German ancestry, discussion of German food made us both so happy! He was such a giving person: my oldest son learned to build a computer from scratch because Patrick helped me order the parts and then spent an evening at my house showing him how to put it together. I cannot express my sadness at the loss of my friend. I am so glad he got the chance to be a father - I knew from the day I met him he wanted a family. How glad I am that his last years were filled with the love of his adorable daughter! I send my love to Debra and Sylvia.

July 31, 2012

Tom Allmendinger

I wish I could have gotten to know Patrick better over the last year in the AMV Chat room. (Or my 12 years in the community) IM going to miss hearing about what bit of food he is preparing each Friday.

July 31, 2012

John Wendel

Even though I knew Patrick by reputation, I got to actually know Patrick while visiting Atlanta the past couple of years and by reading his Facebook. When I got the news that he had passed away, I was very shocked and saddened by this. My prayers go out to his wife and daughter in this time of loss.

July 31, 2012

Frederick Law

Patrick Bohnet: awesome programmer, video editor, amazing techie, multi-genera gamer, multitalented person, good friend, and wonderful caring person.

Patrick, we miss you, but I draw some comfort knowing that you live on in your many creations and in each of us, particularly your Wife & Daughter.

Thank you for Many Wonderful Memories!

July 31, 2012

Daniel Chang

I knew Patrick Bohnet through a mutual hobby we shared (AMVs) and it's no understatement to say that through my interactions with him and the opportunities he gave me changed my life. Had I not met him, I would not have met some of my closest friends or be the person I am today. Thank you Patrick for being one of the most hard working, patient, and compassionate people I have ever met.

Rest in peace my friend.

July 31, 2012

Isaac Fischer

I met him a few times at some cons, shame to lose him.

July 31, 2012

Sotero Lopez

I just read that a great man in the AMV community passed away last night. I am very saddened for his family, especially his wife and young daughter that he is leaving behind.

I first met Patrick Bohnet at AWA 2002 and even with his giant and intimidating presence, I found him to be a very nice and friendly person. He was also one of the smartest people in the AMV community I knew, always willing to help the young editors participating in the VAT showcases and contests with encoding issues. During the time that myself and Tim Stair were running the VG projects, he was especially helpful in getting our videos shown properly.

Probably my fondest memory of him will be at AWA 2002 when he informed me while we were leaving that he had shown my Utena video "Liquid Petals" at his Sunday showcase. I was really surprised since I didn't think much of the video at the time but the fact that he would show something made in WMM by such a novice editor as myself was a really inspiring moment and gave me the confidence to strive forward in making future vids. I couldn't have thanked him enough then for the confidence boost he gave me and still can't thank him enough now that he is gone. You will be missed Quu...RIP and may all your future renders in heaven go smoothly.

July 31, 2012

David Yip

The first thing I remember about Patrick is how calmly calculating he was. I first met him on the Friday of Anime Central 2003, where he was handling technical details for the AMV contest. It gave the impression that he was in control of whatever situation he was in and that everything would work out fine in the end. (Which it usually did.)

The second thing I remember about Patrick is how dynamically spontaneous he was. I next met Patrick on Saturday evening of Anime Central 2003, where he was in a hotel room with a few others, recounting stories of pranks he pulled and hilarious bets he arranged. (He would eventually end up being the reason for a bet between me and Daniel Chang in 2004 over Otakon AMV contest finals.)

Embracing this contradiction was no problem for Patrick. He was genuinely kind, furious, carefree, prescriptive. You couldn't always tell what'd he do next. (But you knew that he'd get the job done.)

Around 2005 or 2006 (it's been a while) Patrick left the convention scene to focus on his family. The techniques, software, and standards he developed, however, remained, and to this day are still widely used.

The last thing I remember about Patrick is a conversation between him and I spanning 2010 and 2011 about technical details of a next-generation video playback system for video artworks at conventions. I don't know how many people here have seen his LiveJournal posts on the topic, but you should go find and read them. (They're public.) What you'll find is that he driven to get The Right Thing, to find The Truth -- he was just as driven on the subject as I remember him being in 2003. He never lost that charge.

Though I have been on an AMV hiatus for a few years, Patrick still introduced me to a group of people with whom I have been close friends (and, in many cases, roommates) over the past half-decade. He therefore very directly changed my life, in that way and more.

Rest in peace, Patrick.

July 31, 2012

Stewart Ewing

Patrick helped me get aclimated to the technical environment at Cingular Wireless when I joined up 10 years ago. He was an amazing and talented resource who always took time out from what he was doing to help folks out in need. He always had a jovial spirit and clearly enjoyed his life.

July 31, 2012

Kevin Callahan

Patrick and I have known each other since 1999. He encouraged me in so many projects and introduced me to so many creative endeavours, that I am simply unable to express the impact he had on my life. Without his encouragement all those years ago, my life would be very different. I believe he had many more ways to influence his various communities, and we are surely poorer for the loss.

July 31, 2012

Wiley Wilkins

I am so sorry to hear about Patrick. This came as a complete surprise to me. Patrick was always so full of energy and motivated to assist with any challenge that came his way. He will be missed.

July 30, 2012

Robert St.Clair

Patrick was a wonderful man who I always looked forward to any interaction with him. He was always full of generosity and kindness. The world has known a wonderful man, and shall not forget him.

July 30, 2012

Nathan Bezner

In the time I knew him Patrick fed me, gave me a place to sleep, introduced me to some of my longest lasting friendships and invited me into a community that defined who I am as an adult today. He will be sorely missed. I hope he's comparing the size of his hands to Odin in Valhalla.

July 30, 2012

Ana Lilia Gasca

I am so sorry about your loss Debra and Sylvia.. I knew Patrick and I know how much he LOVED you Debra, You both were his WORLD.May God give you strenght to over come this pain. Its going to be a long path but you have great family and friends to help you. Sincerely, Ana Lilia Gasca.

July 30, 2012

Skip Maynard

Deborah, Silvia and family... Our warmest heartfelt blessings to you in your time of loss. Silvia - your daddy was a good man. I worked with him at AT&T for several years now. He was very good at what he did and would always take the time to thoroughly explain the details of what we do to our clients.

July 30, 2012

Katie Tom-Wolverton

I've only had the privilege of meeting Patrick at the last three AWAs but his contributions to the AMV community are legendary. He was the inspiration behind my inspirations. But strangely enough my most vivid memory was observing him as he was conversing with my husband, Peter. He kept glancing at a woman as she was feeding her baby girl and looked positively giddy to be in their presence. I don't think anyone ever actually told me they were his wife and daughter but the look on his face made it obvious. That has stayed with me and I'll never forget it. Our prayers and thoughts are with his family.

July 30, 2012

Jeremiah Soria

Patrick gave so many editors like myself so much inspiration and courage. He was a tremendous asset to AWA and its Video Art Track with his knowledge and genuine heartwarmth.

It was always a pleasure to be with Patrick every year when I went to Atlanta for the AWA staff meetings and the convention itself. I'm extremely fortunate that I got to see him once more this past April at the staff meeting. I am extremely disappointed that the world will no longer have his presence.

Thank you, Patrick, and Godspeed.

Posted by Jeremiah Soria

July 30, 2012

TJ Hamilton

My deepest and most sincere condolences for your sudden loss.

July 30, 2012

Rita Luther

My heart goes out to you Debra! From the pictures you posted on Facebook, I can see how much he loved his family! My prayers are with you! Love you!

July 30, 2012

Adithya Kura

"I am so sorry to hear this.. . I never had a chance to meet Patrick but have worked with Patrick in the same team for almost 4 yrs".

"Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time".....

July 30, 2012

Lee Thompson

Patrick was such was an awesome friend, doting father and loving husband, not to mention a genius and an all-around amazing guy. He taught me how to plan and construct my own computer, and actually drove to Memphis to help me put it together. Of course, he refused to accept money for this selfless act of friendship (though I insisted on providing his accommodations). I am also honored to say that I had a hand in Patrick and Debra meeting, since I hosted the party where the two of them met. I hadn't seen him in almost 4 years, but I used to see him every year at Anime Weekend Atlanta, and occasionally he and Debra would come to Memphis for a visit. Our lives got busy as we became family men, but we still kept in touch through Facebook. He was a prolific member of my "Awesome Dads of the Mid-South" Facebook group, where he would frequently post proud updates about Sylvia, relishing in all her little achievements like her first word, her sign language achievements, and, in fact, a few hours before he passed away, he posted about how much fun he has been having with Sylvia at the swimming pool at the YMCA lately. That Sylvia will grow up without him is a terrible injustice to them both. I'm going to miss him very much, and the world is a shade paler without him in it.

July 30, 2012

kelly alkema

i'm terribly sorry for your loss. I know we only met in person once, but we spent hours together on line over the years. Patrick was always willing to help a friend in need! My thought and prayers are with you and your family.
Hugs
Anukis (A.K.A. Kelly)

July 30, 2012

Larry Greenstein

I met him through another friend of our around 5 years ago and we hit it off great. We talked cooking, gaming and more. Last I saw him was at a friend's 40th and he gushed about Sylvia. I'm really gonna miss him and his great personality and humor.

July 30, 2012

Amy Franz

Patrick was a good friend of mine for a dozen years. He introduced me to so many new friends, and he always had a smile and a hug for me. I'll miss him dearly. Always your bridge bunny, captain.

July 30, 2012

Shelley Jones

Patrick was one of my closest friends for close to 16 years. He was an amazing friend who always tried to make me laugh and helped me when I had to cry, He always was there for me and many of his other friends when we needed him most. He will be greatly missed by many loved ones. My Prayers go out to all of Patrick's friends and family.

July 30, 2012

Amanda Stringer

I feel privlaged to have had Pat as a friend. I will miss him being around at AWA. My thoughts and prayers are out there for Debra and Sylvia.

July 30, 2012

Alena & Aurora Alasdar

My daughter and I have known Patrick for about 13 years and were part of the anime marathon nights "back in the day". Had the honor of working with "Q" at cingular and then AT&T..
Our fav memories were hanging at the house watching new anime. We really appreciate how when he was managing the server for the AMV contest at AWA, he'd make 2 videos for us on VHS tape. One with the best of the best for kids and one for mom.

Always willing to make time to really talk about things that mattered most to him, he was truly a blessing the lives he touched. He was so much more technical than my daughter and I, but he never talked down to us.

Our thoughts and prayers are with his family now. We send you comfort, love and peace. Please know that you are not alone.

Alena, Aurora & Alora
Austell, GA

July 30, 2012

Quinton Nation

I'll miss you big guy. I could always count on your quick witted humor either in whispers or in vent. We had many a good laughs together. I've never met someone with such dedication. Even when I hinted at trying to tame to as a pet, you insisted that hunters can't tame trees, and instead made me your pet. :P

July 30, 2012

Debbie Steed

My heart goes out to all of the family, especially Debra and daughter Sylvia. I worked with Patrick for the past 2 years. I pray that god will carry you through the rough days ahead.

July 30, 2012

Josh Pittman

Some of my fondest memories of staffing for Anime Weekend Atlanta involve Patrick. He was fun to talk to, free with his considerable knowledge regarding so many subjects, made sure every staffer felt appreciated, and he enjoyed people watching as much as I do. Guarding the gates of Habersham won't be the same without him in the other chair.

July 30, 2012

Michelle Gantt

Patrick, though your time here was so very brief, thank you for loving and caring for my sweet cousin, Debra. Through Sylvia, Patrick will live on...God wanted her here with you Debra. If you need anything, please let us know. My love and prayers are with you and our church will be praying for you as well.

July 30, 2012

Chris King

My thoughts and prayers are with Patrick's family. I knew Patrick from work and am very sorry to hear of his passing. Patrick was always in a good mood, friendly and could always make you laugh - He just made work a better place to be. You will truly be missed Patrick.

July 30, 2012

Vlad Pohnert

I've known Patrick for 10 years. He was a great guy who was dedicated to his loving family and hobbies he so loved. Rest in peace my good friend.

July 30, 2012

Julius Najzer

Patrick was a good friend and a very special person. His passing is going to leave a very large hole in my heart. The community and myself will be forever changed.

July 30, 2012

Rodger Hinson

I knew Pat in high school. He was a very bright man who loved all manner of complicated things. I was shocked and saddened to hear of his passing. My deepest sympathies to his wife Debra and their little girl, Sylvia.

July 30, 2012

Cheryl Fredericks

Love you Debra! I never met Patrick but from what I heard he was a wonderful husband and father. My heart breaks for you and your sweet daughter. It's so sad to loose someone so special. Love and hugs, prayers and thoughts to you my cousin.

July 30, 2012

Rob Chang

I've worked with Patrick closely for the past 5 years, but he and I had only met once. He left a strong impression on me and I was quite fond of his stories about his video gaming days and how he created a mod that later became popular. His techinical skills were second to none in this team and he has created some invaluable tools for us. I will miss him and his humor.

July 30, 2012

Prateek Chaturvedi

I worked with Patrick for about 6 years. He was my senior and more importantly a worthy mentor.

I am proud to say that Patrick mentored me through many rough patches. If there was a nomination for "Communication super hero"� then Patrick would win that title in split of a second.

Patrick earned everyone's respect without showing authority… Sounds simple to read but look around you and you will know how extremely difficult it is...impossible for the most.

If Patrick was correct then he would steadily and more importantly - respectfully� continue to convey and convince. If he learned the other opinion was better, he would not only accept it quickly but would also congratulate the junior who suggested. He had no ego issues in apologizing and no fear in standing by what he believed was true.

Patrick had very clean - professor like speech and strong command on English language accompanied by witty sense of humor. We have something called Q messenger... sort of yahoo messenger used within AT&T only for internal communication. Most people put their own photograph there. Patrick placed Patrick's picture on his profile... Oh no... It was NOT Patrick Bohnet's picture... It was picture of Patrick from sponge bob square pants.

I will always remember him as a respectable, very intelligent, active listener and goal oriented mentor. Thanks Patrick for all you did for me.
May god bless his soul.

July 30, 2012

Michelle Kosenka-Evans

Patrick was a great man, so kind and so full of love for his family. It's awful to lose someone, especially someone so good and kind. I send all my love and best wishes.

July 30, 2012

Chris Boggs

I had the pleasure of working with Patrick for several years in Atlanta w/ Cingular and then AT&T. He was the type of guy who would spend 60 minutes to TEACH you how to do something rather than 5 minutes to just give you the answer and get you out of his cube. A completely open, genuine, and honest guy. A good friend and frequent lunch buddy. I'll never forget our long conversations about becoming a father when he learned that he had a daughter on the way. He was SO excited about becoming a father. I could tell from his pics and videos that he was completely wrapped around Sylvia's finger from the day she was born. Patrick will be sorely missed...

July 30, 2012

Uma Kandaswamy

I am soo sorry to hear this..I worked with Patrick for almost 4 yrs in the same team. One of the best human beings with such a beautiful heart..Oh i am still in shock to hear this. Our hearts go out to his and daughter..and family..
Uma Kandaswamy

July 30, 2012

Don Blankenship

I went to high school with Patrick, and remember a very jovial person who enjoyed gaming, music, and computers. I am very sorry to hear of the loss of such a wonderful person. My thoughts are with your family.

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