Patrick Robert Parra

1959 - 2012

Patrick Robert Parra obituary, 1959-2012, Chula Vista, CA

BORN

1959

DIED

2012

FUNERAL HOME

Greenwood Memorial Park & Mortuary

4300 Imperial Ave

San Diego, California

Patrick Parra Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 7, 2012.

Patrick Robert Parra 53, passed away on November 3rd after a long battle with cancer. Born and raised in National City, a graduate from Sweetwater High School in 1977.

He lived in Chula Vista and worked for AT&T.

He will be remembered for his kind heart and his warm and caring personality. He is survived by his parents Raymond and Phyllis Parra, his pride and joy of his life, his son Andrew (Andy), his beloved Dora, step-children Gabriel and Natalie his two precious cats Shadow and Ariel and siblings Raymond Jr, Lupe and Ron, numerous nieces and nephews, cousins and many others who shared his life.

A private memorial service will be held on Wednesday, November 7th at Greenwood Memorial Park.

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December 18, 2012

Erin Dunlevy

Patrick was always upbeat when he came into our office despite his circumstances, and was always easy going and willing to go with the flow. I learned alot from his demeanor. He was lucky to have Lupe around, I think she was a great comfort to him.
Erin Dunlevy

December 1, 2012

Miguel Mariscal

Hey Pat we had some fun times working in the kiosk at plaza. I'll miss your sense of humor and the time you in invited me over to watch the Super Bowl I think it was the Seahawks and Arizona. Me and Sara were always happy when you gave us figaro. I know you were happiest when you were talking and bragging about your Andy man. Never forget you bro. I know your at rest and at ease.

November 15, 2012

evelyn bandle/miller

parra family so sorry for your loss. i went to school with pat.I remember him in the band. what a kind person he was.

November 13, 2012

ROSE MARY MAURICIO

Çousin Patrick when YOU left us, YOU did not leave alone. A part of us went with YOU. MY daily prayers Sunday Mass will be offered in your honor. Seems like yesterday, I waited to hear the gate open/close at Grandma's. I would hurry because I wanted to say HI! (I loved your gentle smile) Your calm demeaner was just like Ta Ta your resemblance was unbelievable. Again, I would wait to hear the gate open/close rushing to greet Uncle Raymond for the usual hug and kiss "Hi Mija have YOU been a good girl?" MY answer was "yes". Thank you for the happy memories. Love AND missing YOU from San Antonio, Texas your Cousin Rose Mary, sons Martin, Mark/Terri, Jimmy/Veronica grandchildren Mark (Lompies) Deziree', Martin (Koo), Rosemarie, Megan, Grace, Jimmy Carmichael MAURICIO

November 11, 2012

Patrick, You will be missed. You were a very special person. It is truly a loss for us all. You will always be in our hearts. Prayers go out to your beloved Andy and family. May God bless you.

Love,
Lulu, Martin, Lil Martin & Noelle Torres

November 9, 2012

Adela Avila

God Bless You!

November 9, 2012

Pete (bingo) Mary Irish Charlie and Lucy Giron

Patrick may God bless you. A truly wonderful person. Always had a smile and brought a smile to me and everyone who knew him.

November 9, 2012

Joseph Lemon Jr

Family of Patrick Robert Parra, may God bless you so much more than HE already has.

Patrick would be so proud of you for working together like a real family during the trying time of arranging his final care. I am proud of you too.

As I stated to you personally, it doesn't always go as smoothly as it did with your family. That says something to me about the quality of people your mother and father are.

Take care of the kids and take extra, extra special care of Mom. Remember to trust God (Proverbs 3:5-6) especially now.

Sincerely,

November 8, 2012

Debbie Wiggins

I played drums with Pat at SUHI and he was always a very gentle and kind young man. It was such a pleasure to reconnect with him on Facebook, even though the time was cut short. My deepest sympathy to his family and friends at this difficult time. Rest in peace, my friend.

November 8, 2012

Bryan Fourroux

So long Pat my O'l friend. You will be rememberd as one of the best guys I ever had the pleasure of knowing at High School. I will surely miss you and all the facebook chat sessions we have had. I know you are not suffering any longer. Rest in Peace my friend I'll see ya one day on the other side.

November 8, 2012

Dora and Parra Family, Im so sorry for your loss! I will always remenber Pat's happy smile and kind heart! May our Lord comfort you always. Isidoro "Nuny" Hernandez
Kimball School Class of 1971

November 8, 2012

Liz Enloe

Patrick, may you rest in peace. And may the legacy of your cheer and optimism live forever! I love you!

November 8, 2012

RIP Patrick. Love the Mata Family (Chuco, Sylvia, CB, Jojo & Javie)

November 8, 2012

Angela Marzan

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family. May you take comfort in knowing an angel is watching over you.

November 8, 2012

Pila Aleman-Taijeron

Pat always had a big smile. Now you are smiling in the Kingdom of God. No pain just peace. Dora and family you are in my prayers.

November 8, 2012

Shelvia Prince

My thoughts and prayers go out to Pats family.It was a joy to have known Pat he will be missed dearly.He is loved by all.No more suffering Pat I will love you always RNP my best friend.

November 8, 2012

Dear Andy and family,
We were so sad to hear about your Dad's passing.I will always remember how proud your dad was to watch you play baseball for Hilltop! You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Sincerely,
Mr.&Mrs.Drop and Robbie Drop
Mrs. Mikos(Rob's grandma)

November 7, 2012

Mike & Marti Castillo

Our sincerest condolences to the Parra Family.

November 7, 2012

Ted Perez

Pat always had a smile on his face and never had a bad thing to say about anyone. He was my brother-in-law and my family will never forget him. May God have him in his kingdome and my thoughts and prayers go out to my sister, nephew, niece and all those touched by him.

November 7, 2012

Familia Avila

Rest in peace Patrick You will be missed by Family and Friends.

November 7, 2012

Dora Parra

To my partner, soul mate and best friend. I will miss you tremendously. It's not easy coming home and finding half the bedroom empty. Today meant a lot for me, I got to see you one last time, I seriously thought I wasn't going to get through it but I did, I was so happy to see you again, I wanted to pick you up and hold you but I knew that wasn't allowed. So I touched you and kissed you and left lipstick on your cheek and forehead and I don't care if they say anything, you want to know why...because you're mine. You will always be remembered, I kept your last text message and I even have audio of your voice when you used to wake up in the middle of the night and talk to the angels. And you thought I wasn't watching :) I love you very much Pat, you may now rest in peace my love, and I'll see you someday. MUAH!

November 7, 2012

Roland Fisher

Pat. Thanks or keeping the beat.

November 7, 2012

Richard Real

Dear Parra Family, prayers and good thoughts for you all. Lupe, I recall how fond you were of your little brother and I'm sure that love only .deepened with time. Your entire family was wonderful to be around at a special time in my life. Pray God comfort you all and embrace Patrick with peace.

November 7, 2012

You were just a little guy when I met you at NCJH - we all were...but you always were big of heart. Take care Pat and thanks for your friendship. RIP my friend.

November 7, 2012

Randa Lake

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

November 7, 2012

I'd like to give my condolences to the Parra family...my thoughts and prayers are with you. Pat was a childhood friend of mine from elementary thru High school.I will always remember the good times we had as kids. RIP my friend and God Bless your family. A childhood friend...Bonifacio Munoz(Boni)

November 7, 2012

Eloisa Perez

November 7, 2012

Neil Wright

Pat, you taught me to play the snare drum and read drum music. You were my most patient mentor. I thank you, I love you, and I so swear I'll miss you.

November 7, 2012

Liz Becerra

Definitely one wonderful good hearted and sincere person. You'll be missed by many. May you rest in peace

November 7, 2012

Benny Fontillas

Pat, no more suffering, my friend. Thanks you for making me laugh all these years. We will play music together again one day. God bless you.

November 7, 2012

Melody Buska

Natalie is my best friend since 8th grade. I grew up around her and her family. I always will remember that he had a smile on his face no matter what. My prayers and thoughts are with his family and friends.

November 7, 2012

Nelly (Flaca) Perez

My Twins and I are so sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you all.

November 7, 2012

Dora Parra

It was my pleasure to share my life with someone who was caring, loving, funny and my soul mate. To tell you the truth I don't know how I'm going live without you. You were always there when I needed you or when the kids needed you. I still can't believe that you're gone, I look over to your side of the room in hopes that you're there. The emptiness, shock and numbness that I feel is only temporary and I know that but meanwhile, I will deal with the loss of you and rest assure that Andy will be taken care of. I love you very much and I'll see you again someday. Rest in peace my love.

November 7, 2012

Albert Mendivil

Ray, Phyllis, Ray Jr, Lupe,& Family,
We are so sorry for the loss of your son and brother. Ray, I remember you fondly talking about your son Patrick. The good news is that to be absent from the body is to be present with the LORD. We pray that our KING JESUS will comfort you and provide the peace in your heart that surpasses all human understanding. We pray for the perfect peace that only JESUS can provide. When I was an adolescent Ray Sr spoke life into me through his encouragement as my baseball coach. We stand next to you at this difficult time. GOD bless you. Albert & Channy Mendivil

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