Mr. Rodney Gene Abernathy

1969 - 2010

Mr. Rodney Gene Abernathy obituary, 1969-2010

BORN

1969

DIED

2010

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Hickory Funeral Home

1031 11th Avenue Blvd SE

Hickory, North Carolina

Rodney Abernathy Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 18, 2010.

HICKORY - Rodney G. Abernathy, 41, passed away July 17, 2010 at Frye Regional Medical Center after a period of declining health.

Rodney was born April 1, 1969 in Catawba County. to Pamelia Henkle Sipe and the late Ronnie Abernathy
.
In addition to his father, Ronnie Abernathy, he was also preceded in death by his paternal grandfather; Paul Abernathy and maternal grandparents; Samuel and Jacqueline Henkle and mother-in-law Rose Marie Thompson.

He attended Favor Center and was a Car Salesman at World Suzuki of Hickory.

Surviving are his wife; Doreen Thompson Abernathy of the home, a son; Dylan Abernathy of the home, his mother; Pamelia Henkle Sipe and step-father, Gary of Hudson a step-mother; Tommie Abernathy of Hildebran, paternal grandmother; Eva Abernathy of Hildebran and a brother; Shaun Abernathy of Greensboro.

Memorial Services will be held at 2:00 P.M. on Tuesday July 20th 2010 at The Favor Center with the Dr. Jerry Grillo Jr. and Reverend David Thompson officiating.

The family will receive friends from 12:30 P.M. until 1:45 P.M. on Tuesday July 20th 2010 at The Favor Center.

Condolences may be made online at www.hickoryfh.com.

Hickory Funeral Home, 1031 11th Avenue Blvd. S.E. Hickory, NC 28602 is in charge of arrangements.

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August 10, 2010

Rob Wedding

So sorry to hear the terrible news. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Doreen and Dillon. If there is anything I can do, please let me know.

The Wedding Family

August 10, 2010

Dear Doreen and Dylan,
We just heard about Rodney and are so very sorry. I can still see you guys driving up with Dylan to baseball practice. We have thought of you often. I know he will be greatly missed. Our prayers are with you and Dylan.

Vicki, Rob, Anna and Matthew Wedding

July 25, 2010

My mind is full of memories of Rodney when he was a little boy, I am so sorry for all of you, such a loss is incomprehensible to me, my prayers go up daily, and i will miss him always, he was always joking around and laughing, love you guys Sharon

July 21, 2010

Crystal,Aaron,& Ashlyn Rhoney

Doreen & Dylan, I am so sorry to hear about Rodney. It was such a shock. I have bought many a cars from him! My son Aaron played ball with Dylan and Rodney was coach. I will pray for you and your family and hope that you find peace during such a sad time.

July 20, 2010

PAM
Iam so very sorry to hear of Rodneys untimely death. I know Rodney was your heart, remember when we would talk and talk about our boys at work for hours. Pam, I am truely and deeply sorry.
love always
TINA CARTER,LPN

July 20, 2010

ANGEL TOWNSEL

I am so sorry for your loss, Doreen & family, you are prayed for! May God give you peace.

July 20, 2010

Andrew Shaw

Doreen and Dylan,

Rodney was one of those rare coaches who taught through love, humor, and inspiration. He was my son's first basketball coach, and his best. I am deeply sorry for your loss and hope you know that he touched the Shaw family's life very deeply.

July 20, 2010

Keith Boan

Doreen, Dylan, and the rest of the family -
Please accept my sincere thoughts and prayers for you at this time. I feel fortunate to have known Rodney, both as a customer in the car world and as his optometrist. I never remember seeing him without a smile on his face!

July 20, 2010

Doreen & Dylan, I am so sorry for your loss. Rodney was always great to be around and a lot of fun. I could hardly believe it when Katie called and told us. If there is anything Keith or I can do for you please do not hesitate to call. Our Prayers are with you and Dylan. Love, Keith and Kim Taylor

July 20, 2010

Kris Childs

The Abernathy family-

Rodney introduced me to the car business in the May of 1998. We bantered back and forth for almost 5 years as he taught me how to be a tremendous profesional and work to be the best. I wouldn't admit it at that time but he had a tremendous influence on the direction of my automotive career. For that I'll always be greatful. Heaven has truly gained a good one!

July 20, 2010

"Doreen and Dylan, Our hearts are grieving for you in the loss of your husband and your dad. May God be with you and hold you in His arms and grant you peace. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and all of your family." Love, Joyce and George Brown (Hickory, NC)

July 20, 2010

Deepest sympathy.

VIEWMONT AUTO SALES
HICKORY, NC

July 20, 2010

Leslie Shaw

Doreen and Dylan- Your loss is beyond measure. We thought the world of Rodney and his cheerful, fun-loving nature will certainly be missed. He was truly a gift to this world. Leslie, A.J. & Harrison

July 19, 2010

Sorry for your loss our hearts and prayers go out to your family! Jamal Freeman

July 19, 2010

Betty Thompson

I am so sorry to learn of your loss. We thought the world of Rodney in our office. God bless each of you during this trying time. Lance Cook State Farm Team

July 19, 2010

Larry&Deborah Gragg

Doreen,& Dylan. we are so sorry to hear about Rodney. if there is anything we can do for you, please let us know. You both are in our hearts, and prayers. God Bless. we love you. Larry & deborah gragg.

July 19, 2010

We are so sorry to hear of your great loss. Doreen and Dylan you are in our prayers. May God give you peace in this tough time. Rickey and Tiffany Gregory

July 19, 2010

Pam, I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know his wife or son. I remember him as a child. I pray God's comfort and blessings at this time of loss. Your neighbor.
Loretta Reid

July 19, 2010

Barbara Eyre

Doreen and Dylan -

I worked with Rodney at Robert's Mazda about 8-9 years ago, along with my sister (Joanne) and husband (Don). We were shocked to hear about Rodney's passing. Please know that you and your family are in our prayers. He is now Home and watching over the both of you with much love.

July 19, 2010

Pennie & Tia McCorkle

Doreen & Dylan, We were so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband and father. We know that you were a very close family and his presence in your lives, as well as those who had an opportunity to know him,will be sorely missed. Just know that you both as well as the rest of your family are in our prayers. He fought a good figt while keeping the faith and now he has gained his crown of victory. Weeping may endure for a night but joy wil come in the morning.

July 19, 2010

Lorena & Jeff Foster

A LETTER FROM HEAVEN

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
 
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
 
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
 
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
 
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
 
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
   
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
  
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
 
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
 
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

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