BORN

1937

DIED

2016

FUNERAL HOME

COMSTOCK-KAYE Life Celebration Centre

356 Rubidge Street

Peterborough, Ontario

Ronald Setterington Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 19, 2016.

(January 16, 2016)

I had 78 glorious years. By my good fortune, I was to be born in Ontario to parents, Jane and Don Setterington, who cared deeply for me. They nurtured in me a love of learning, a strong appreciation for family and many other natural gifts. They gave me a brother, Gary (Cathy), who always watched out for me. Gary and I shared many exploits and adventures together. I have been so lucky to have him. I have two nieces Laura and Joanne. I grew up surrounded by the love and laughter of numerous Aunts, Uncles and Cousins. I was especially thankful for my cousin, Doug Taylor, who played music with Gary and I for more than 30 years. I enjoyed all the Taylor, Setterington and Daniels reunions throughout the years where I would get to catch up with cousins spread throughout North America.
I married Marjorie, the girl of my dreams, 52 years ago. The YouTube song by Gene Watson "Because you believed in me" expresses the sentiment of our relationship. I loved Marjorie from the first time I saw her and love her still. I don't know how I got so lucky. We have three wonderful children Jill, Jason and Melissa (Ryan). It was such a privilege to watch them grow. Together our family shared many adventures and found great joy in moments, big and small, that we were able to have together. I don't know what I would do without you. One of my favourite things to do with Marjorie (and sometimes our children) was to travel. We had so many great trips where we made such special memories. Marjorie and I were able to go to Egypt in 2006, which fulfilled one of my life-long dreams. I have two lovely granddaughters- Scarlett and Elis Rose. You will never know how much you mean to me. I am so proud of all that you have accomplished. You will be great. Remember sweet girls how much Poppa has loved you.

I married into the Aird family and celebrated many happy occasions with Muriel and Jack, Nancy, Jim, Ross (Heather), Sandy, Ann, Doris and Don, Todd (Stacey, Brecken, Maeve), Chantel (Jeremy, Taylor, Briley), Luke and Cassie (Mike, Ivy). Marjorie and I took great pleasure in hosting the annual "Aird picnic" for many years at our place so that we could get together with the extensive Aird clan and were always happy to swap stories and give rides to the many cousins on the horses.

The natural gifts I received from my parents and the unwavering support of my wife allowed me to achieve a Ph.D. in Psychology, to become a professor at Trent University and to found Tri-County Community Support Services 40 years ago with the goal of assisting intellectually and developmentally disabled persons. It was my great privilege to work with my friend, Gerry Fucile, and many other wonderful colleagues at TCCSS for many years. I have been a very proud member of the Warsaw and District Lions Club for many years. Marjorie and I have been an active member of the Community of Warsaw since we moved there more than 40 years ago. I am honoured, to call so many there my friends.

(From his Children)

We won the lottery when it came to parents. Our childhood filled with love, laughter and adventure. We loved every minute of it. We have had the great privilege to watch our parent's love story and devotion to one another everyday of our lives. Mom is the girl of Dad's dreams and he is her whole world. Our Dad was truly the best man that we have ever known. We are so grateful that he chose to be ours. He was a pilot, a musician, storyteller, adventurer, jokester, juggler, cowboy, leader and instigator of a great many antics, and so many, many other things. He was our number one cheerleader, our beacon in the darkness: our place of safety, our sunshine and the person who somehow knew how to mend our battered hearts. He is our hero.

In lieu of flowers, donations to Parkinson's or Peterborough Association for Riding Disabled, would be appreciated, as these were both causes near to our Dad's heart.

In memory of our Dad, we would ask that you perform an act of kindness, take time to sit under a tree to enjoy the beauty of the world around you or to appreciate what a privilege it is to have the opportunity to be part of a child's life.

The family will receive friends at Comstock Funeral Home, 356 Rubidge Street, Peterborough on Friday, January 22, 2016 at 11:00 a.m. for a celebration of Ronald's Life. Online condolences may be made at www.comstockfuneralhome.com.

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February 15, 2016

Judi Glynn

I was saddened to hear of Ron's passing. I worked for Ron at Trent in the late 70's. He showed me great kindness at difficult time of my life. It was an honour to have known him.

February 6, 2016

Christine Annett

Truly saddened to learn of the loss of such a great man. Dr. Setterington (Ron) was a good friend and colleague of my father at Trent and then later one of my professors. We met again at Tri-County with different roles over the years but also as friends. Very honoured to have known such a good man. He will be missed.

January 28, 2016

Marjorie, Jill, Jason and Mellisa Our Family was so sorry to hear of your loss. Ron will be greatly missed. Our thoughts are with you all.

The Murphy's
Raymond, Veronica, Mitchell, Mackenzie, Dawson and Bailey

January 25, 2016

My dearest Marjorie, Jill, Jason and Melissa.
I am deeply saddened to hear of the loss of your husband and father.
He was a great supporter of the Warsaw community, and it was always a pleasure working with Tri Counties.
Ron was a positive influence for so many.
Sincere regrets,
Pegi Handley-Bernardi

January 23, 2016

Judi Darling

Marjorie,Jill,Jason and mellisa your mom and dad supported my family when needed and continued there support throughout time. Ron will be missed by many. His contribution to our community will be gratefully missed. Your Mom made me the most beautiful guilt. Please give her a hug for me xoxo

January 23, 2016

Larry Bowers

Ron was my first boss at Tri-County Behavioural Services. He helped me launch my long career in behavioural sciences and supported me throughout my time working for him through Trent University. So sad to hear of the loss of such a truly wonderful and kind man. He'll be missed by many.

Larry Bowers

January 22, 2016

Karl Moher

Marjorie and family;
I am sorry to hear of your loss. Ron will be missed as a strong individual who was always giving back to his community. He will be missed. I hope that your fond memories from over the years will help you in the weeks and months ahead.
Leona & Karl Moher

January 22, 2016

Elizabeth Hyde

I attended Ron's service today and was so glad to meet the children he always spoke so fondly of. The service was a wonderful tribute and celebration of Ron's personal and professional life. He will be missed greatly.

January 22, 2016

Dave, Marguerite, Jennifer & Lisa Setterington

So sorry for your loss. Ron was a great person. Family meant a great deal to him and our family thought a lot of him. You are all in our thoughts.

January 22, 2016

Cindy Ambeault

Most of my memories of Ron go back to the days of Bowmanton and on the tobacco farm. He was such a kind and gentle person, with always a good word to say. In recent years in passing the same kindness shone through.
My thoughts are with you all!
Cindy (Carwardine) Ambeault

January 22, 2016

Steve Douglas

Our condolences to the Setterington family.

January 22, 2016

Marjorie, Jill, Jason, Melissa, Ryan and family,
Our thoughts are with you today and during the upcoming days. We feel blessed to have shared family time with you especially at the Setterington reunions. I especially remember Ron for his storytelling, and love for music and animals. His memory will be cherished.

Gary, Cathy and family,
You are in our thoughts today and during the upcoming days. We are so grateful to have had the opportunity to see Ron and Marjorie during our recent visit.

Debbie and Larry Duquette and family

January 22, 2016

Ruth Arnold

Over the years the wisdom he shared made such an impact on so many lives. Ron's wonderful travel stories and sense of humor are cherished memories I will have forever. He will be sadly missed.

January 22, 2016

John Tanner

i was very honoured to know ron through our interaction and adventures in the Lions club in warsaw, he will be missed

January 21, 2016

Harlene Annett

Ron was a colleague of my late husband Bob Annett at Trent. I took the Psych course Exceptional Development from Ron back in the 80s and it was one of the best courses I took and used often in my own job. He was a great guy.

January 21, 2016

Pat and I are deeply sorry for the loss of your father Melissa. Our hearts are with you at this time.

Kathy Hall

January 21, 2016

Jeff Taylor

Marg and Family.
Sorry for the loss of a great husband and father. Ron was always one to start a conversation and always a wise crack or two, which went well with his laugh. He was good at getting into the music with the guitar ,which he dearly loved. His memories will always be remembered

Jeff & Anita Taylor

January 21, 2016

Sara Leeming

Mr Setterington (Ron) truly was one of the best. He was such a caring individual and the villiage of Warsaw will miss him!!
Sara Leeming (Dyer)
Roger and Anna Dyer

January 21, 2016

Ron was a very special PARD volunteer for many years. He not only had the professional expertise to be such an asset for our riders, but he was that wonderful quiet, caring person known to all as just "Ron"....and he loved horses.
He will be remembered and missed.
Marilyn Nornabell

January 21, 2016

marg byer

Ron and Marjorie were one of my favorite customers at Sears Travel and loved to share their travel stories with me, especially their trip to Egypt, one of their travel highlights. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. RIP my friend.......Marg Byer

January 21, 2016

Carlton A. (Daniels cousin)

I only knew Ron via a couple email exchanges, where he was very generous in reaching out to me--a distant cousin--to offer valuable advice based on his expertise. He will be missed.

January 20, 2016

To Ron's Family...Sorry for your loss! We the Daniels family from Tennessee, were pleased to have him and Marjorie join us for the Daniels reunions over the years along with other Taylor kin. RIIP
Alice Daniels Sprague

January 20, 2016

Christine Diaz

I am very sorry for your loss. Professor Setterington was one of the best people I have ever worked with. He was kind and helpful; he had good humour and he spoke so fondly of his family.

January 20, 2016

What an amazing person! We felt blessed to have Ron and many in his family travel south to attend so many of our Daniels Family Reunions. I love...that Ron had so much love in his heart for his family and friends!

Betty Daniels Godby, Seminole, FL

January 20, 2016

So sorry to hear about Ron he will be missed by many ,he made everyone his friend.
Elly Newman & family

January 20, 2016

karen Boyle

My deepest sympathy to Marge.Jill.Jason and Mellissa and your family.Ron was truly an amazing man and he will be very missed

January 20, 2016

bob & janet olver

Our township has lost a great gentleman. Our dearest sympathies to Marjorie & family. Wednesdays in the Lion's Park will never be the same....he will be missed, Bob & Janet Olver

January 20, 2016

Doreen Lasenby

Ron, you remained a valued and supporting friend throughout the years as you made such an impact in so many lives. We had great fun and many challenges in the beginning of our venture and you will not be forgotten.......you are at peace.
Doreen, Terra, Vanessa and Fiona Lasenby

January 20, 2016

Naomi DiRago

Dear Gary and Cathy, our hearts and prayers go out to you and your family during this sorrowful time. I hope your memories will bring you comfort and peace. God bless your family.
Sincerely yours in prayer,
Rocco and Naomi and the DiRago Family

January 20, 2016

Bruce & Kim Aird

So sorry to hear of Ron's passing. Know that we'll keep you in our thoughts and prayers.

January 20, 2016

Terry and Shirley Quirk

so sorry for your loss...we will miss his caring smile

January 20, 2016

Nancy Dunning

Dearest Melissa and Family, I am so sorry for your loss. Even though we don't see each other Melissa, please know that my thoughts are with you at this time. You were a wonderful daughter and gave your dad two beautiful granddaughters who I'm certain brought him much joy and the girls will have precious memories of their time with him, which I hope will help your heart heal...

January 19, 2016

You and Margorie hosting the Aird family summer get togethers was a very special experience, especially for the children who got to ride on your horse. Our thanks to you for helping to keep the family connected.

Isabelle and Tom Reid

January 19, 2016

Dear Marjorie,

We are so very sad to hear of Ron's passing. He was such a lovely man --- thoughtful, friendly and always welcoming throughout the many years of our friendship with you. When Jill, Jason, Melissa and family came into your lives, the two of you were so happy. It was very clear that he loved being a father and grandfather with you by his side. Our memories are truly special.

We will be keeping you all in our hearts and prayers.

With deep condolences and love, Gord and Iris (Marriott)

January 19, 2016

J. Murray Jones

Ron was a good friend and a committed and caring member of his community. We are all better because of Ron. Our deepest sympathy to Marjorie and family.

J.Murray and Anne Jones

January 19, 2016

Our thoughts are with all of you and our hearts are heavy. Will miss that beautiful smile.
Larry and Sharon Harbidge

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