1928
2011
Ruby Mae Barber was born June 7, 1928 in Texas to Ruby and Alex Miller who preceded her in death. She was the fourth of four children. Ruby received her education in Lockhart, Texas. She accepted Christ at an early age.
Her greatest joy was watching her kids play sports, but what Ruby best enjoyed was enjoying her wrestling from her favorite chair.
Ruby was called home on September 17, 2011. Her husband Tom Barber, daughter Doris Fagan, two sisters, Minnie Payne, Allie Davis and brother Pernice Miller preceded her in death.
She leaves to celebrate her life, sons; Donald (Nancy) Barber, Tom Jr (Cathy), Dwight Barber of Oxnard, Douglas Barber of Los Angeles, CA, daughters; Delorma Atkins of Detroit, MI, Tammy (Odis) Perry of El Rio, CA, Thera (Robert) Wright of Los Angeles CA, Sheila (Mark) Plumeri of Chatsworth, CA, a host of grandchildren and great grandchildren, sister-in-law Ester Miller of Martinez, CA and a host of nieces, nephews, family and friends.
Viewing will be held on Friday, September 23, 2011 from 3pm to 8pm. Memorial service will be Saturday September 24, 2011 at 11am at Funeraria Del Angel Conrad's & James Reardon, 401 W. Channel Islands Blvd, Oxnard CA 93033, (805) 487-4911, graveside will follow at Conejo Mountain Memorial Park, 2052 Howard Road, Camarillo, CA.
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October 17, 2011
DONALD BARBER
even though its only been a month , it seems like an eternity . you are missed so much and i truly hurt and miss you and i hope one day i'll begin to adjust to this . its still so fresh and i miss your phone calls just checking up on me . mom , i know you're there with all the rest , but i know you guys are tearing it up like you did before . im so lucky to have the best angel on earth looking after me and the family . mom , i love you and will forever keep you in my heart , your son , don .
October 4, 2011
Brian Barber
Miss you Grandmama!
September 29, 2011
Gary Thomas
Tom Jr, So very sorry to hear of your recent loss. Your Mom was indeed very special. Gary Thomas (San Diego)
September 25, 2011
Joyce Ester
I worked with Tammy & Dwight at Ventura County Medical I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your family at this time.
September 24, 2011
Andrew Winbush
Our condolence to the Barber Family
September 24, 2011
James (Jimmy) Fuhlrodt
I am sorry to hear about your loss, my prayers are with the entire family.....
September 24, 2011
Lena Arias
To the entire Barber family...I just wanted to let you know my thoughts and my prayers are with you and your family through this heartbreaking time. Nothing I can say will ease your pain but just wanted you to know I am thinking of you. Love to you and your family
September 24, 2011
Manny & Debi Godinez
Donald,Brian,Meme and Brandon and the rest of the Family, Our deepest sympathy, may God give you strength to get thru this sad time, but just know she is with her maker now, celebrate her life.
September 24, 2011
Carole Rotella
Dear Donald and Nancy .
I am sorry for your lose and know that you will grieve for her.Good news is she is free of pain, suffering and in the presence of the King of Kings,
September 23, 2011
Ronda Moss
To Donald and Family,
We are so very sorry for your lose. You are in our thoughts and prayers always.
All our love
Ronda Moss and Family
September 23, 2011
Maria Torres
From the Torres Family on G St.
We send you our condelenses to the Barber Family. Dwight be strong for your mom. She will always be there watching over you boys. Take Care
Sincerely,
Maria Torres & Family.
September 23, 2011
Tony & Helen Lopez
To the entire Barber Family, know that you are in our prayers, you were so very lucky to have had such wonderful parents in this life. Now they have reunited again. So sorry for your loss.
Tony and Helen Lopez, and family
September 23, 2011
DONALD BARBER
I CANNOT TELL YOU THE VOID I WILL HAVE LOSING YOU . GOD BLESSED ME WITH SUCH A BEAUTIFUL MOTHER AND MOM , WORDS CAN'T EXPRESS ALL THE LOVE I HAVE FOR YOU . I WILL MISS YOU IN YOUR CHAIR AS THE T.V. WATCHED YOU , LOL MAY YOU REST IN PEACE . GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN , DON
September 23, 2011
Stephanie Carsello
We put our hope in the lprd, he is our protector and our help.
September 23, 2011
Donald and family we send our condolences at the loss of your mom.We know how hard these times will be but God will comfort and guide you and yours through these times.With love John and Martha Ostrowski.
September 22, 2011
Arleene Solis
Dear Doug and family,My condolences go out to you and your family on the loss of your mother.
September 22, 2011
Darla Pena-Ramirez
Dwight& Family, My Sincerest condolences on the loss of your mom. My Prayers are with you and your family and I'm here for you if you need anything, just call me. I will pray for you to have the strength you need at this difficult time.
Friends Always,
Darla Pena-Ramirez & Family
September 22, 2011
Dear Donald and family,
Sorry for your loss. You were blessed having such a great Mom.
Sinerely, Michael J Escalante
September 22, 2011
Michael Escalante
Dear Donald, So sorry for your families loss. You were so blessed to have a great Mom like her.
Sincerely, Michael J. Escalante
September 22, 2011
Sandra Breslin
God bless the barber family in this sad time and my prayers are with you. Sandra Alaina
September 22, 2011
Veronica Velasquez-Zamora
Nino & Nina, our sincere condolence go out to you and the rest of the Barber Family. Momma Barber's sugar will be missed most of all. God be with you all in your time of morning.
September 22, 2011
Gil Ramirez
To the Barber Family, Our prayers are with you.
Gil and Vicki Ramirez
September 22, 2011
Kevin Westbrook
To the Barber Family:
Sunset and evening star,
And one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar,
When I put out to sea,
...
But such a tide as moving seems asleep,
Too full for sound and foam,
When that which drew from out the boundless deep
Turns again home.
Twilight and evening bell,
And after that the dark!
And may there be no sadness of farewell,
When I embark;
For tho' from out our bourne of Time and Place
The flood may bear me far,
I hope to see my Pilot face to face
When I have crost the bar.
September 22, 2011
sandra breslin
September 22, 2011
Nancy Mauthe
Dear Dwight: May you find peace in this time of loss. Taking each day as time does heal. Your Mom and Dad are at peace together, and it was a pleasure to have meet them both.
God be with you and your family.
blessings,
nancy m
September 22, 2011
JESSICA GARCIA
PRAYERS FOR THE FAMILY.
"YOU WILL BE MISSED MRS BARBER!"
September 22, 2011
sandra Breslin
My heart goes out to the Barber family at this time but she is in good hands as she is with god now so sorry for your loss god bless the barber family
September 22, 2011
Tamara Barber
September 22, 2011
Maria Thomas
Donald and Family, I share the lost of your lovely Mother, aka, Peaches, Ruby Mae, and Grandmama, so many names to express such a wonderful and great person with a great sense of humor and has taught me so much, love to you all! you will be missed "GRANDMAMA" but never forgotten!
September 22, 2011
Dee, Tammy, Thera, Donald, Shelia,Tom, Doug, and Dwight,
I share your lost of your lovely Mother and Grandmama, as so many would call her! She taught me so much, I will never forget her and how much love she showed, my children and family! Her great sense of humor, her fighting matches, and her "Medicine" as she would call it "candy" snickers, peanut butter cups, etc, and her famous Buddy Burger! You will be missed and never forgotten! Thank you Grandmama for touching my Life! I love You!
God Bless all of you!
Maria Thomas
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