Sandra Kay Ashley

1948 - 2013

Sandra Kay Ashley obituary, 1948-2013

BORN

1948

DIED

2013

FUNERAL HOME

Burden-Patience-Montgomery Funeral Home

1806 East Michigan Avenue

Jackson, Michigan

Sandra Ashley Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jan. 27, 2013.

Sandra Kay (Smith) Ashley

Of Jackson, has danced off to another realm on January 26, 2013, after her second battle with oral cancer. Born January 19, 1948, she's the daughter of Eleanor Maxson, still surviving. Preceded in death by her father Richard Maxson, and brother Mathew Maxson. Survived by two children Katrina (Clayton) Striker and Kurt (Denise) Ashley, grandchildren Jessica (Jeff) Dobbs, Daniel and Anthony Striker, brother Gordon (Kathy) Smith, sisters Jackie (Jim) Folk and Debbie Elliott. The love of her life Chester Foulk and his loving children and grandchildren. Numerous aunts, uncles and cousins. She was employed as Assistance Payments Worker by the Department of Human Services for the State of Michigan since February of 2000, and worked weekends as a substitute rural carrier for the U.S. Postal Services from September 1990. Graduate of East Jackson High School, former member of Phi Theta Kappa, recipient of the Jeannette Rankin Award, Associates degree from JCC, ( with awards for writing and learning) and Bachelor of Arts degree from Vermont College of Norwich University. Sandra was a volunteer support person for SPOHNC, head and neck cancer patients, motivational speaker for troubled teens, and volunteer movement leader for stress relief and those going through health problems. She enjoyed time with grandchildren, family and friends, dancing, Red Wings Hockey, the outdoors-Especially hiking in National Parks, flower gardening, reading, crocheting/needlework and social issues. A celebration of her life will be held at the funeral home Wednesday January 30, 2013 at 11:00 A.M. Per her wishes cremation will follow services. Visitation Tuesday 6-8 P.M.

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January 21, 2021

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Connie Engle

Thinkimg of you , your courage and your laughter. Still sharing stories of our friendship. See you when the time comes

February 4, 2013

Marie Young

Sending heart-felt sympathy to Sandra's family. She was a very special lady and she will be missed. Chester...if I would have know in time, I would have attended her service. I'm so sorry for your loss.

February 3, 2013

Prayers to the family of Sandra. I lived in the same neighborhood she lived on Tyson and I lived on Henrietta st. Sandy she was a childhood friend that I never forgot. She was sweet had a great personality. God Bless her family.
Betty (Russell)Curry
Jackson, Mi.

February 2, 2013

Sandra was such a sweet person to know. We always enjoyed watching Chet and her dance. They always brought such joy to those around them. We are sad to loose her here on earth buy know that she is in the arms of God and without pain or suffering now.

February 1, 2013

Connie Engle

Sandra-I don't know how you found the time to be such a wonderful friend and inspiration to so many. I have kept most of your cards as they project a part of you. I know that you are Joy-ful to be remembered for your laughter, friendship and love of dancing! Your service was so becoming of you, I regret that I did not meet Chester as I know how special he is to you. You are still with us and safe. Love Always

January 31, 2013

Amanda Bailey

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

January 30, 2013

Heaven just got another great dancer ! Our thoughts and prayers to her family and Chester. Sandy always had a great smile on whenever she danced (Adrian, Jackson & Hillsdale dances) We will miss her alot.......Cha Cha away - sweet friend.........

Tony Lopez and Mary Carl

January 30, 2013

Rose Romes

Kurt & Denise,

I'm so sorry for the loss of your mom. She was certainly a special lady. I'm glad I got the chance to meet her.

January 30, 2013

Kurt, Thank you so much for bringing Sandy into our family. We love you and our hearts are with you now.

January 30, 2013

Kurt and Denise , I only knew your mom for a short time but it didn't take long to know she was a great person. Thoughts and prayers to you both. Love you Nancy & Russ.

January 30, 2013

Dear Kurt and Denise,
Though we only met Sandy a couple of times she profondly left her mark as a very caring and couragous lady who loved life.
Kurt her love for Yourself and Denise was showing always. Uncle Bob and I are so sorry for your great loss. Cherish your many memories. She will live forever in your hearts.

Love You Both.
Uncle Bob and
Auntie Debbie

January 30, 2013

sabrina fisher

The same smile you gave me everytime i saw you i will always will keep that with me always! Love you!

January 30, 2013

Robin Brubaker

Kurt, thinking of you and your family during this difficult time. Though I didn't know your mom she sounds like an amazing woman. Take comfort in knowing she is in a better place now.

January 30, 2013

Donna Kingsley (Janes)

Your mom and grandma was very special and I know she will be miss. May God comfort you all. To my very special and dear friend, may you have peace in heaven. I remember all the wonderful times we had together in high school. your were very special and I thought of you alot. miss you already.

January 30, 2013

Prudie DeWaters

Thinking of you Kurt and Denise in this time of sorrow. Hang on to the fond memories to get your through.

Prudie DeWaters

January 29, 2013

BRENDA FRIEND

Sandra you will be missed at all the dances. So much fun to be around with and never a dull moment.. Show Heaven all the right moves because its never going to be the same up there. Sending all my prayers for you and your family..

January 29, 2013

Prayers to you family.
Deb Sines

January 29, 2013

Linda Fagan Bennett

So sorry to hear about your loss, my Prayers are with your family and friends.

January 29, 2013

Ed and Jeanine Sale

Thinkihg of you and your family Jessica through these hard times, keeping you in our thoughts and prayers.

January 29, 2013

The Clacks

May God give you many wonderful memories! Mrs. Ashley was our neighbor for many years. She was always so kind and generous. When our youngest son was born she gave us $20 and insisted it go to a savings account for his education. What a blessing she was to all of us! We pray for peace as you learn to live with her in your hearts.

January 29, 2013

Lou Ann Maxson

Sandra was a wonderful gal to work with. She always had some joke to tell or could make you laugh when you were down. It was my pleasure to have been apart of her postal family. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

January 29, 2013

Nikki Roland

Aunt Sandy - such a very special lady. You will be missed, but never fogotten.

January 29, 2013

Clayton Striker

January 29, 2013

Anthony Striker

I know that Grandma is in a better place now, and that is missed and will be missed by all. i love you

January 29, 2013

clayton striker

"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal." ? She shall be missed, but not forgotten. We love you very much!

January 29, 2013

MARGE (HANDS) KERLEY

MY THOUGHT ARE WITH THE FAMILY.SANDY WAS A SPECIAL LADY AND WILL BE SADLEY MISSED BY ALL SHE TOUCHED.

January 29, 2013

Adah Ashley

I loved her like a sister and we called each other about once a month for years.I'm going to miss that.She always remembered to send me birthday cards, Mothers day cards and Christmas cards.

January 29, 2013

Roger Ashley

If ever you were down in the dumps and Sandy was around, her laugh would soon have you laughing too. She will be greatly missed. This world needs a lot more ladies like Sandy.

January 29, 2013

Karan Hands

Sandra has joined Marty in heaven. Do not worry for she is not alone. My condolences to her family and friends.

January 29, 2013

Jessica Dobbs

Grandma. You are now dancing with the angels, enjoying all that Heaven has to offer. I'm sure there are beaches galore for you, and plenty of dancing! I miss you so very much!! You were one of the greatest people I've ever known, and I thank God everyday for allowing you to survive cancer the first time around, so that I could know you and your love. I hope you are resting in peace now, and that you can feel all of our love for you. One day we will meet again, and then we can dance all the time! (We'll even have time for you to teach me some moves!) I love you so much Grandma and miss you dearly.

January 28, 2013

We grew up together, after many years.You will be missed by so many.Love you Sandy.

January 28, 2013

Deborah Green

To the family of Sandra Ashley - I had the pleasure of working with Sandra at the Jackson PO for many years. She was a great worker and an even greater person.

January 28, 2013

Sandra Bishop

Sandra was one of the hardest subs we had at the Jackson Post Office. I so enjoyed working with her. Rest in peace dear one.

January 28, 2013

Henry Fisher

Sandy's warmth and cheerful glow will remain with me always. Heaven is now a little brighter.

January 28, 2013

Mary Peterson

Sandra, you were always so special to me. I was so fortunate to be able to work with you and then, to be able to call you my friend. I loved that you were always so positive and such a very, very strong woman. I loved to hear you talk about dancing, your eyes just sparkled (some of that probably had to do with Chester) and about watching hockey with your son. I know that you are dancing in heaven now. Love, Mary

January 28, 2013

Joy Clegg

Sandra always had a smile and one of the kindest people anyone could have met. Sandra is dancing in heaven as a beautiful angel and will be sadly missed. May you rest in peace.

January 28, 2013

Alisha Young

Sandra, you were a true inspiration to me. I enjoyed the time we had together whether it be a good laugh or a walk downtown on our breaks. May you rest in peace. I hope that you are dancing now and enjoying a nice warm cup of tea. You will be missed.

January 28, 2013

Diana Hopkins

Kurt and Denise, I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.
Always,
D.

January 28, 2013

Pam Richardson, Dept. of Human Services

January 28, 2013

Joan Deem

Such a special gal. I remember many laughs with her at FIA/DHS. Loved her positive attitude and winning smile. She will be missed my so many. My prayers are with your family.

January 28, 2013

mary hamilton

I am very sorry for your loss. Sandra could always brighten my day at the office with her laugh and witty words. We always had good talks. I will miss her.

January 27, 2013

Jackie & JIM Folks

Now your Dancing with Angels

January 27, 2013

Deborah Marriott

Sandra was such a nice person to work with always had a smile and pleasant word. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.

January 27, 2013

Randy & Judy Linna

Wishing all of you comfort, ease, and many happy memories.

January 27, 2013

Janet (Dee) Adamick

My prayers are with you and your family during this most difficult time.

January 27, 2013

Dorothy Toman

You are in my thoughts & prayers.

January 27, 2013

Al & Mary Oliva

Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.

January 27, 2013

Jill Robinson

Sandra you will be missed you always had a smile for everyone rest in peace

January 27, 2013

Michele McAuliffe

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