1964
2011
Scott James Maynes
Scott Maynes was born on the 6th of February, 1964 in Albany, New York. He was born the son of James A. Maynes and Jeannette Miller Maynes. He was the third of five children in the Maynes' family. Scott was diagnosed with Cystic Fybrosis (CF), and it was not known at the time whether or not he would live to the age of ten due to the lack of knowledge of this disease in the medical world. Even with CF, which led to numerous trips to the doctor and several stays in the hospital, Scott lived an active childhood. This left hander enjoyed playing baseball, basketball, hockey on the lake and everything else a boy would do. Through high school his health did not allow him to play on the teams, but he kept involved however he could. Scott also excelled in school, always making honor roll every year. Scott graduated with honors from the St. Mary's high school in Glens Falls, NY.
After graduating from high school Scott started the next journey of his life. He worked at a few different jobs while attending college at the Brevard Community College in Florida. Scott finally settled down at a job at the Brevard Correctional Facility for youthful offenders, where he worked hard and made it to the rank of Sergeant. He also remained involved in sports, becoming an official. Scott officiated an uncountable number of games in football, basketball and soccer. He always remained busy, if he wasn't working or officiating he would be doing odd jobs for people, tiling floors and bathrooms, putting in sprinkler systems or anything someone needed done. No task seemed too hard; he would happily take on any challenge.
One day Scott signed up for a 5K run sponsored by Wuesthoff Hospital in Rockledge, Florida. After completing the run he was hooked and he knew he had found his new challenge. Scott participated in many 5 and 10K runs continuing to progress in the sport and then added bike racing, which led to several mini triathlons. Scott still wanted to do more, so he organized a 5K run sponsored by the Brevard Correctional Institution with the proceeds supporting the Cystic Fybrosis Foundation. Scott hosted this run for several years. Scott still continued to challenge himself, working hard on his running. He participated in and completed six different Marathons: Two Disney, two New York, one LA Marathon and one in Washington DC.
It wasn't until one day in the latter part of the 90's that Scott's life was turned upside down in a great way. He was introduced to a lady named Patty by a mutual friend. After a few dates and spending time with her daughters, Nicole and Kimberly, they decided to spend their lives together. On May 16, 1998 they got married. It was a fun and exciting time for everyone. Scott coached soccer and then began to referee. His new family kept him busy and active in many different ways. Many crazy, fun filled family vacations came Scott's way with Patty's family. Cruises, Disney, Virginia were all part of Scott's happy new life. Patty's family loved Scott like a son, and brother. His nieces and nephews also were very involved with Uncle Scott . Holidays were never the same again for Scott when he was surrounded by Patty and her family. Scott raised his new daughters with discipline and love, as if he was truly their father. Scott had 14 great years of fun and love with his new family.
When Scott's health began to fail, he started a new kind of fight. He faced his first transplant with courage and strength. For two years he was without oxygen and although he had some ups and downs he felt pretty good. He was able to go for long walks with his dogs and Patty and more great cruises. He continued to work and lead a pretty normal life. When his new lungs began to reject, he again faced the courage he needed to do it again. The second transplant did not go quite as well. Scott was almost called home to God once. Scott and Patty were given five additional months of being together, even though it was at the hospital. They had lots of laughs and fun together. Scott found a new family with all the staff at Jackson Memorial Hospital. They also came to love him. In the end, though, God decided he needed Scott up in heaven to be with him and become our Angel to watch over all who knew him.
Arrangements under the direction of Florida Memorial Funeral Home, Rockledge, FL.
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May 11, 2012
Nancy Dean
I miss you my friend....
February 4, 2012
Donna Rennee
Dear Patty,
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know Scott was the love of your life and my heart goes out to you. I heard Scott was a great guy and you both made beautiful memories together. I wish I had the chance to meet him.
Donna
January 27, 2012
Denise Pinkerton Kinne
Dear Patty,
I am so sorry to hear of Scott's passing. I can remember when you two got together, you loved him so very much, I can't even imagine what you are going through. May God Bless you and keep you strong..Love Denise
January 12, 2012
Jessica Gilmartin
Even though he was not a blood relative to me, i still considered him my family. I called him Uncle because that is how close he had made me feel. Uncle Scott was a type of man that was very loving and warm hearted. I did not see him that much, but the times that i did, he always welcomed me in as I was part of the family. This past summer when i went to Florida with the Groskopf's, I got the honor to spend multiple days with the Mayne family. We had gone out to dinner one night all together and Uncle Scott was as strong as always. He had taken his oxygen tank with him and I remember asking if he needed help carrying it and he told me no thank you I got it. He never asked for help from any of us that night and it was just amazing to see how strong a man like him could be! He fought like it was his job to do so! I am very happy i had gotten to see him this past summer and knew he wasn't giving up! He was even helping my Uncle jimmy and Ryan mow the lawn!! I am so deeply sorry to see a man like him go! It was his time to become an angel and we all know he is looking down on his family. Loved and missed deeply! xoxo
January 10, 2012
Laura and Marc Locker
Dear Patty and Family,
We can't even begin to imagine what you are going through, but just want you to know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Scott was an amazing man who had so many wonderful people who loved him. We are so honored to have known him and his memory will forever live within all of our hearts.
Our deepest sympathy.
January 4, 2012
Kate Durant
Scott was always the super jock, really smart, nice kid that was my friend and comrade on the Glen Lake Rd. bus. Our families had the masses (ya know- lots of kids from one family) and we had a common bond with the Maynes family that will last forever. I lost touch with Scott after high school but I am so happy to see that his life was led to the fullest despite his condition. I can see from his photos that he triumphed many challenges and shared the life of a great love and family. He seemed really happy with all of his accomplishments and I am saddened to hear of his passing. May your family know that we are thinking of your family and he will be in our hearts.
January 3, 2012
Lorie Stansberry
Patty & Family,
Please accept our thoughts and prayers as we are so saddened by Scotts' passing. Scott was such a great man and it was truly an honor to get to know him. He made such an impression on so many people! If there is anything you need please call.
With Love, Bruce, Lorie & Meagan
January 3, 2012
Maryann Scarangello
RIP Scott and to the Maynes family... truly sorry for your loss.
January 2, 2012
Pete Puricelli
I am very sorry for your great loss. I hadn't seen Scott in many years, but a testament to who he was is the permanent imprint he made on everyone who lucky enough to know him. I am proud to say that I was one of the lucky ones...what a great spirit and soul he had...
January 2, 2012
Jimmy Groskopf
When I met Scott some 13 years ago, I remember how it amazed me how quickly and effortlessly he fit into our family.I knew that he was already a huge part of Patty,Nicole and Kim's lives,but I just didn't realize that this was only the beginning. He quickly touched us all with his love of conversation and upbeat attitude. Scott was a talker and and would debate any topic under the sun. The only topic he seemed to avoid was that of himself. Scott never talked about being sick or of the many concerns he lived with every day. It was never about him.
I suppose, to those of you who knew Scott when he was younger,it wasn't a surprise that he met a girl with two young daughters and became serious. You were aware of the marathons, biathlons and his love for big challenges. I remember the transition period when Scott and his new family got to know each other. There were rough patches but ultimately it became obvious that Scott was in it for the long haul. Scott came to love and treat Nicole and Kim as his own daughters and the rest,as they say, is history.
Scotty Boy, as I have affectionately come to know him, and I hit it off immediately. And why wouldn't we? We had plenty in common. Scott and I were five days apart in age, we married sisters, worked as Correction Officers and most importantly were both Home Depot junkies. Sometimes I think we dreamed up projects just so we could justify buying some new tool that we just had to have. As you all know, Scott was quick to use his handyman skills to help others. Scott would help out with any project, but usually didn't leave until ceramic tile was installed in some shape or form.
I remember one time Scott and I decided to tile my master bathroom during one of his New York visits. The tile was purchased and the project was scheduled to begin the next day, after I returned home from a seven to three shift. Needless to say, I returned home at three thirty to find the job half finished and Patty happy for me to relieve her as Scott's apprentice. I don't think Patty had tiling in mind when planning the visit. This is one example of how Scott lived his life.Time always seemed precious to him and he wasn't about to waste even a few hours of it. There was just too much that he wanted to do.
Scott was able to succeed where most could not and somehow stretched his life into forty seven quality years. Not bad for a guy who almost died four times before the age of fifteen. By his example,Scott provides hope to others for quality in their lives and the possibility of many tomorrows.
It was Scott's unwavering desire to succeed and compete that bring me to my closing thoughts. I am at peace with where he has gone. I am comforted by his spirituality and devout faith. It is these tangibles that make me realize that Scott didn't quit, he hasn't succumbed to a disease and he certainly has not lost any fight. Scott has merely moved on to his next great challenge. I believe that God has raised the bar in Heaven and has called Scott home to be an Angel. I can't think of anyone more qualified for the job. I know now that he is watching over us all, encouraging us to live our lives as he did and prepare ourselves to meet up with him one day.
We miss you Scott and will always remember your fierce will to live life, your courage in the face of adversity and your uncanny ability to make us all better for simply knowing you.
January 2, 2012
Carolyn Hall
Dear Patty and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will always hold fond memories of the soccer days and his great coaching skills. He will be missed by all. He certainly touched everyone he came in contact with. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
December 31, 2011
Caleb & Gabriel Maynes
Uncle Scott was a fighter his whole life and now he is resting watching over us. We will always remember our many andventures while spending time with you and Aunt Patty. May there be many more new adventures with Aunt Patty. We love you Both.
December 31, 2011
Marti Maynes
Scott you are a true inpsiration and strength. Full of determination and dedication proving that anything is possible and there are not limits. You will always be with us in our hearts and memories.
December 31, 2011
Don & Ashleigh Nardone
Our deepest sympathies to you. You are in our prayers.
December 30, 2011
Michelle Diamond
So very sorry for your loss. Heartfelt sympathy to your entire famly.... ~~Michelle Diamond
December 30, 2011
Beth Maynes
Scott thank you for all the memories and talks - I will miss creating more but know that you are looking, and will continue to guide us all. Love ya, Beth
December 30, 2011
Donna , Mike and family
Dear Patty and family,
Although I never had the chance to meet Scott, everyone who ever spoke of him in my presents told me what a amazing person he was. Our deepest sympathies during your time of loss. Much love,
December 30, 2011
George & Carol Groskopf
Our sincerest condolences to Patty and family. It is our good fortune that you shared Scott with us. His courage his fight to live and his smile, always, have made our lives richer.
George and Carol Ann
December 30, 2011
Linda Patricks
Sometimes this walk is short-- sometimes this walk seems like miles - but for you Scott - my friend this walk was mountains high - you inspired so many of us --------- you struggled, faught, enjoyed, pushed, pulled and loved --------- you were somebody I was proud to call my friend........... Rest in Peace my friend------
December 30, 2011
Our deepest sympathy for the family of Scott. Scott was a great guy, a team player and always upbeat and eager to help others. He was a good friend and will be missed.
Larry Cruce
December 30, 2011
Deepest condolences to Scott's family, gone but never forgotten. Thanks for sharing your family time with Brandon and me. Eli
December 30, 2011
Eric Maynes
Scott, my brother, brother-in-law, uncle and my best friend. Our long life of memories will be charished and never forgotten. God speed to you in your future journey until we meet again. You will always be in our hearts and thoughts because you will truely be missed.
December 30, 2011
Andrew and Jaclyn Lau
Although your journey through this world was short, you encountered more obstacles than most. With each hurdle you crossed, you fought with amazing courage and faith. You are an inspiration to people with childhood diseases and an example of perserverence to those with little hope. We are beyond proud to have known you and hope your story will bring strength and will-power to those with little faith. We are blessed to have such a remarkable angel in heaven to watch over Aunt Patty and our family. Love you
December 30, 2011
The McDonel family
gone but never forgotten we love you and will miss you my prayers are with the family we love you all
December 30, 2011
Bill and Danielle Guttadauro
Rest in peace, Scott. You are, and always will be, an inspiration with your courage, strength, and kindness.
December 30, 2011
Christina Cacioppo
I'm so sorry for your loss. Scott was such a strong person and he was always so happy. He will be missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
December 30, 2011
Ryan Groskopf
I'll miss and love you, you were the strongest man i've ever known. I remember the time i was doing yard work and you were right there with me on the mower with your oxygen tank.
December 30, 2011
Amanda Groskopf
Uncle Scott was the strongest fighter i've ever known. I'm so glad he came into our family. He made the best out of the worst situations and that is truly inspiring. I will never ever forget Uncle Scott and he will be missed by all.
December 30, 2011
Christina & Tom Vogt
Although you have only been in our family 13 years, we will miss like a son. You have always helped us with work in our houses and everytime we look at that work it will remind us of you. I also remember our trip to Tunica and how happy you were. We are also happy you shared our family cruise for our anniversay. I bonded with you for 6 weeks when I helped Patty with your care in Miami. Even though you were unconscience 4 of those weeks I talked to you, rubbed your arm and held your hand to reassure you someone was there. I also made you listen & eventully watch Lets Make a Deal & Price is Right everyday. When I would step out of the room you would change the channel and make me go thru 100 or so channels to get back to mine. It was good to see you still had a sense of humor. We will all miss you, but glad you are not suffering. Until we meet again. Love Mom & Dad Vogt
December 30, 2011
Robin Maynes
We are sorry to hear of Scott's passing. He fought a long, hard battle and never gave up. The family will be in our prayers during this difficult time and beyond.
Robin, Kayla and Zachary Maynes
December 30, 2011
Dan & Ellen Dixon
Our thoughts and prayers are with Patty and her entire family. Scott's fighting spirit, loving and caring ways touched all who knew him. Our wish is that we all try to live our lives with the same values and zest for life that he had. He will never be forgotten and always in our prayers.
December 30, 2011
God will see you through this difficult time. May Scott's memory forever live on in the hearts of all who he touched. YOUR BCI FAMILY
December 29, 2011
Megan Groskopf
Uncle Scott was my role model, he inspired me to find the good in the bad. Uncle Scott always had a smile on his face and where he is now, i know he's much stronger and happier because he is looking down on all of us and protecting us and I'm sure that must give him a good feeling knowing that we all know he's there to protect us. I love you dearly Uncle Scott. I'll always treasure the memories we had.
Love and miss you, your neice Megan
December 29, 2011
Evelyn Bradburn
Scott was the most courageous fighter I have ever had the honor of knowing. He had a good heart and always gave a smile to you. He truly loved his family and life. My deepest condolences to you, Patty, and all of his family.
December 29, 2011
Krissy Groskopf
Scott was one of the most courageous people that I had the honor of knowing. He joined our family 13 years ago and touched everyone's heart with his geniune love for life. He was a true inspiration for all of us. Heaven is now blessed to have a new Guardian Angel watching over all of us. Love and Miss you Scott, Until we meet again.
December 29, 2011
Debbie Barker
Dear Patty,
I'm so sorry. You fought the long battle right beside Scott for many years and I can't begin to understand how painful this must be for you. I hope you and the girls will be ok and I am thinking about the three of you. I'm living in Washington State now but will never forget how kind Kim was to Kailyn.
Deb Barker
December 29, 2011
Keith Kiser
Our deepest condolences to the entire Maynes' family. We share this loss with his family. Scott touched everyone he came into contact with in a positive and caring manner.
December 29, 2011
Sandy Wilson
Scott officiated basketball for years at the high school level. He was very good and a lot of fun to work with. He worked Vince Carters' final home game at Mainland H.S. He'll always be remembered by the old timers.
Sandy
December 29, 2011
Gone But never "FORGOTTEN" thanks, SGT SCOTT MAYNES for all the great times.
December 29, 2011
McCarron
Scott always fought the most valient fight and kept on running. We remember him from our days at BCI and how well he supported fellow officers.
Ron & Sandee McCarron, Sr.
December 28, 2011
nancy &jim collins
our deepest sympathy to the family nancy&jim collins
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