BORN

1941

DIED

2013

FUNERAL HOME

Nelsen Funeral Home - Williamsburg

3785 Strawberry Plains Rd.

Williamsburg, Virginia

Shirley Killilea Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Jul. 10, 2013.

Shirley Ann Killilea, of Williamsburg, passed away on July 8, 2013, at the age of 71. She was a long time resident of Williamsburg and devoted military wife. Shirley enjoyed traveling and caring for her family during stateside and overseas assignments.
She was a loving and compassionate woman who will be remembered by all who knew her.
Shirley was the cherished wife of her husband of 52 years, James T. Killilea. She was a loving mother, grandmother, and great grandmother. She is survived by her children: James and his wife Dana, Michael and his wife Dawn, Thomas, Kathleen Balser and her husband Michael, and daughter-in-law Colleen; her grandchildren, Stephen, Lauren, James, Megan, Bridget, Karlie, Josh, and; and great grandchild, Ezra.
A private Catholic Memorial Mass will be held for the Killilea family at a future date. In lieu of flowers, a contribution can be made in Shirley's name to St Jude's Children's Research Hospital, 332 N. Lauderdale St, Memphis, TN, 38105.
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July 25, 2013

Trish and Ben Shrader

Jim and family, our deepest sympathy to all of you. Shirley was a wonderful person and I know she will be missed. Wish we were closer but you are in our prayers. Please give the family our condolences. God bless you.

July 24, 2013

Gerri & Aubrey Dugger

Jim and Family,
We are so sorry to hear about Shirley. I remember how you use to buy Shirley flowers every Friday when we worked together at Ft Monroe and how you always smiled while taking about her. Enjoy your cherished memories. Please do not hesitate to let us know if we can do anything for you or your family. We love you.
Gerri & Aubrey

July 23, 2013

Randy Smith

Jim and Killilea Family
My deepest sympathy and condolences on the passing of Shirley. She was truly a wonderful woman with her bright and cheerful smile and sense of humor. May God bless you all during this time of sorrow.

July 22, 2013

Killilea Family,
I am sorry to hear about the death of your love one. Please accept my condolences and sympathy. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grief.
Marcelline St. Pierre

July 22, 2013

Jim & Family.

We were saddened to hear of Shirley's passing. We can never forget her cheery smile & neighborly friendship. Please accept our condolences & deepest sympathy.
Cary & Bob Mangum

July 18, 2013

Elizabeth Hynes

Dear Jim,
Sorry to hear about Shirley. She was always so good and kind to everyone. I had alot of good times in your home. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Bettie

July 18, 2013

Carol Woolever

Jim, we are so sorry to hear of your wife's passing. Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Friends from TRADOC, Carol Woolever, Ruthie Miller & Diann Hershey.

July 18, 2013

Rosemary and Don Stueland

Dear Jim and Family,

Don and I were so sad to hear about the loss of Shirley. She was a lovely and happy woman and wonderful Mother, Grandmother and, of course, a good Wife to you. We couldn't have asked for a better neighbor.
We lived down Tazewell's from you for 17 years and now that we are back in Chicago we remember fondly our life in Williamsburg and do miss our friends.

God be with you.

Rosemary and Don Stueland
2692 Stone Circle
Geneva, Illinois 60134

July 18, 2013

Alison Teagle-Hainley

Kathleen,

I am so sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and your family.

July 17, 2013

Tonie Judd

I was truly upset to hear of Miss Shirley 's passing. She was truly a remarkable woman. I still use her cheesecakes recipe. My prayers go out to her loving family.

July 17, 2013

Oh my goodness. I was so sorry to hear about Miss Shirley. She was such a wonderful woman. I always looked forward to the laughs I knew she would bring. I still us her cheesecakes recipe. My prayers go out to her loving family.

July 17, 2013

Cheryl Stafford

Mike, Dawn and family
Don and I are so sorry to hear of your loss. Dave spent alot of time at your home and always spoke so fondly of your Mom. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family.

July 17, 2013

Raoul & Bobbye LeBlanc

Jim, so very sad to learn about your loss of Shirley's bright and shining presence. Our prayers are with you and your family.

July 17, 2013

Heidi Lugo

Kathleen, my heart goes out to you and your family.

July 17, 2013

Dave Campbell

Mike and Family,
My sincere condolences in the passing of your mother. I smile when I think of cracking wise with your Mom when I spent time at your home in Denbigh. You had to be on your toes around her and I really enjoyed it. God bless you.

July 17, 2013

Bob and Chris Stuebbe

Jim and Family: So sorry to hear about your loss! God's Blessings to you all!

July 17, 2013

Karen Hornstein

Dear Jim and family, I am so sorry to hear about Shirley. I will always remember her big, beautiful smile.
Karen Hornstein

July 17, 2013

David & Lee-Ann Lawrence

Mike; I hope your memories will soften the loss of your Mom. Though you will miss her, she is always going to be in your heart! God bless the family left behind and glory in Heaven with the new resident!

July 17, 2013

Jim and the Killilea Family: Kathie and I extend our condolences and our heartfelt sympathy. We ask God's blessings on Shirley and on all of you.
Joe and Kathie Fortner

July 14, 2013

Elizabeth Hynes-Wood

Dear Killilea Family,
I am so sorry to hear of Shirleys passing. I have many fond memories of visiting her home in Virginia with the Goodwins. She was always so welcoming, warm, thoughtful and kind. I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

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