Thomas Lee Obituary

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Thomas James Lee Jr.

September 8, 1929 - August 1, 2014
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Thomas J. Lee Jr., 84, formerly of Hartford and Enfield, CT, died August 1st, at his home surrounded by his loving wife, Ellen, children, grandchildren, and caregivers. Fondly known as Dad, Papa, Uncle Tommy, Mr. Tommy, and Mr. Tom, he was born in Hartford, son of the late Thomas and Viola (Bernier) Lee. He graduated from Weaver High School, Class of 1947, where he was an all-star in football, track, baseball, and basketball, and superlative "Best Dancer". He joined the U.S. Air Force soon after and served his country during the Korean War. Following his military service, he married a fellow Weaver High School alumnus, Ellen Kelleher,...
Thomas J. Lee Jr., 84, formerly of Hartford and Enfield, CT, died August 1st, at his home surrounded by his loving wife, Ellen, children, grandchildren, and caregivers. Fondly known as Dad, Papa, Uncle Tommy, Mr. Tommy, and Mr. Tom, he was born in Hartford, son of the late Thomas and Viola (Bernier) Lee. He graduated from Weaver High School, Class of 1947, where he was an all-star in football, track, baseball, and basketball, and superlative "Best Dancer". He joined the U.S. Air Force soon after and served his country during the Korean War. Following his military service, he married a fellow Weaver High School alumnus, Ellen Kelleher, whom he met at a friend's wedding. He began work at Pratt & Whitney as an airplane mechanic, transitioning to a Technical Writer, which was his primary job until his retirement in the mid 90's. He was a member of the Knights of Columbus in Enfield and spent many a night tending bar and playing cards. At family parties or weddings you would find him "In The Mood" on the dance floor showing off, clearly the best in the room!!! He was co-patriarch of summers at Old Lyme Shores with the Wardwells and the Goldens, playing horseshoes and trying to corral the young'uns from drinking all the beer. He loved playing golf with his sons and friends George Gobin and Gerry Murray. He was a UConn basketball season ticket holder for over 20 years and loved his NY Football Giants. He enjoyed a good cigar and even better Irish whiskey. Ireland was his home away from home and he would eventually travel there 10 times following his retirement with his wife, friend Jerry Gorman, and various children and grandchildren. There is no doubt he's enjoying a Guinness right now while listening to a Frank Sinatra tune! Besides his wife, he is survived by his children: daughter, Kathleen and Ed Russell of Suffield, daughter Karen Vivian Lee and Joe Milbier of Windsor, son, Kevin and Barbara Lee of East Hartford, and son, Kerry Lee and Laura Graf of Scotland, CT. He was predeceased by his son, Kenneth, and lifelong family friend, Mike Pohorylo. Papa also leaves nine grandchildren, Kevin Russell, Katy Walpole, Candice Wakefield , Tom Russell, Kenzy York , John Lee, Casey Menard, Brandon Lee, and Alex Lee, and six great grandchildren, Elizabeth, Kieva, Harper, Judah, Kenny, and Jack. Of late, he has been cared for by a very special human being, Manny, who fits the word Godsend to a 'T'.
Friends and relatives are invited to call at the Swan Funeral Home in Old Saybrook on Tuesday, August 5th from 2-5pm. A funeral service will begin at 5pm at the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the at www.alz.org/ct. Directions to the funeral home can be found at www.swanfuneralhomeoldsaybrook.com

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