Valerie Diana Ephlin Washburn

1958 - 2016

Valerie Diana Ephlin Washburn obituary, 1958-2016

BORN

1958

DIED

2016

FUNERAL HOME

Memphis Funeral Home & Memorial Gardens

3700 North Germantown Parkway

Bartlett, Tennessee

Valerie Washburn Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Dec. 27, 2016.

Valerie Ephlin Washburn, 58, of Bartlett, Tennessee passed away peacefully in her sleep on December 26, 2016. She was born to Bobby and Lorene Ephlin of Wardell, Missouri on July 30, 1958. She was the loving wife of William Washburn, Sr. for thirty-one years and devoted mother of Wakefield and William Washburn, Jr. Valerie was previously deceased by her parents, her brother, James Ephlin, and her sister, Sharon Berry. She is survived by her husband, children, her siblings, Bobbie Harris, Pat Lawler, and Tim Ephlin, as well as numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins. Valerie was an avid Cardinals fan who enjoyed charity projects, bowling, cross-stitching, and serving as a judge at barbeque competitions. Many of her children's friends considered her a second mother, as she was known for never meeting a stranger. The family will receive friends on Thursday, December 29 from six until eight o'clock at Memphis Funeral Home and Memorial Gardens, 3700 N Germantown Road, Bartlett, Tennessee. A graveside service will be held Friday, December 30 at eleven o'clock at the same location. Memorial contributions may be sent to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. Online condolences may be expressed at www.memphisfuneralhome.net.

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January 3, 2017

Dwight Love

Billy,

I am so sad to hear about Valerie, and to learn of your Family's loss. May you and your children be comforted by the wonderful memories of what a sweet, caring person she was.

January 3, 2017

Robert Goodin

Mr Bill, Just found out about your loss. Please know you are in Marie and my prayers. May the Holy Spirit from God comfort and protect you.

December 30, 2016

Joshua Boss

I worked with Valerie for four years and she was my favorite person. My condolences to her family. She was the warmest person I've ever met.

December 30, 2016

Peter Delashmit

So sorry for your families loss Bill.

December 30, 2016

Nicole Taylor

I worked with Mrs. Valerie at West and she was always sweet and kind and very generous. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. She will always be in our hearts and minds.

December 29, 2016

Sheryl Miller

I was very sorry to hear about Valerie's passing. She was a very sweet and loving person. I had the privilege of working with her in the past at West Clinic. I give my condolences and prayers to her family and friends.

December 29, 2016

Dalton Wayman

Bill,

I want to express my deepest condolences to you and your family for the loss of a wife, mother, and friend. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May God comfort and bring you peace during this difficult time.

December 29, 2016

T A

Sorry for the family's loss and sending healing prayers .God watch over all.

December 29, 2016

James Rapp Sr.

December 29, 2016

Cindy Haugen

In loving memory of a wonderful person who I had the honor of working with. She was such a warm giving person. She has touched so many. We will love you and miss you always Valerie.

December 29, 2016

Tami French

Valerie was full of life and always had a smile for everyone. Working with her was a pleasure. My prayers go out to her family and loved ones. She will be missed greatly.

December 29, 2016

Mike Powell

I am sorry for your families loss. I pray for God's peace and comfort during this difficult time. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

December 29, 2016

Tammie James

I worked with Valerie for 6 years at West Clinic and she was a very special lady to me. She was always the same no matter what was going on. Rest in peace sweet angel. We will truly miss you but we know you will watching the Cardinals from heaven.

December 29, 2016

Leslie Brewer

Valerie and I bonded over love for hotdogs and BBQ. She was a great boss
will be greatly missed. Sincerely,
Leslie R. Brewer

December 29, 2016

Valerie was my boss for a short time but I developed such a great love for her. We bonded over our love for hotdogs and BBQ. Prayers are with the family.
Sincerely,
Leslie R. Brewer

December 29, 2016

Sharon Carter

My deepest sympathies to the family. She was such a fun loving spirit. She will truly be missed by many.

December 29, 2016

Judy Hartsell

Valerie, Valerie, Valerie.......I called your name so many times and you were always there by my side to fix something I had broke or help me make a decision that I could not make on my own. There is not enough words to tell you what those many years meant to me. I love you dear friend.

Bill, Ty & BJ ......you all were her life, her love.
May God be with you during this time.

The Broke Chain
We little knew that morning that God was going
to call your name.
In life we loved you death
In death we do the same
It broke our hearts to lose you, you did not go
alone; for part of us went with you, the day
God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories, your love is still
our guide, and though we cannot see you,
you are always at out side.
Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems
the same, but as God calls us one by one
the chain will link again.

December 29, 2016

Fiks

May God's love and comfort be with you and your family Bill.

December 28, 2016

Susan Gent

Our deepest sympathy to Valerie's family. Valerie was such a delight, always funny and smiling. Just a glance from her in a meeting could get me laughing! We will miss her and her love of our St. Louis Cardinals!

Susan & Ed Gent

December 28, 2016

a loved one

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December 28, 2016

Stephanie "Hoot" Powell

Valerie will be missed and, has left a lasting impression on many lives. She was always so nice. Praying for comfort for Mr. Billy and her guys. She loved her family very much.

December 28, 2016

Rebecca Newsom

I am so very sad to hear this news about Valerie. She was such a joy to work with and certainly made work fun. Prayers to her family during this difficult period.

December 28, 2016

Samdy Schmidt

My sweet Valerie gone too soon love you with all my heart so glad we got to keep in touch these last few years you and Bill mean the world to me and the rest of our family rest in peace sweet angel. Love your cousin Sandy.

December 28, 2016

Vickie Ford

Valerie, you will be missed and you are so appreciated for all your help, guidance and funny sayings! You made me laugh a lot! Many prayers of peace for your family!

December 28, 2016

Marian Weber

Bill, my prayers are with you and your family in this time.

December 28, 2016

Sending many thoughts and prayers to the family! Valerie was a joy to work with we will surely miss her.

December 28, 2016

Beth BRENT

Will miss you dearly Valerie

December 28, 2016

Ham's Hocks BBQ Team

Our thoughts and prayers go out to Mr Bill and the rest of the family.

December 28, 2016

Shirley Land

Many thoughts and prayers to the family of a wonderful person, mother, wife, boss, co-worker. She loved life and was one of the happiest people ever. She certainly has gone too soon. Valerie will surely be missed by so many. I feel that I am a better person for knowing her. I know I will think of her often.

December 28, 2016

Jean Butler

Dear Bill and the rest of the Washburn family, May your memories bring you peace during the difficult days ahead. May the knowledge that Valerie is with her heavenly Father now bring you comfort during your time of grief. With love, Jean

December 27, 2016

Toni Wade

Hi, My name is Toni Wade. I was Valerie's last ire in the Coding Department at The West Clinic. I didn't know Valerie very long but I felt like I had. We had the best time. We talked for over an hour about everything under the sun. In that short period of time we truly connected; so I was very sad when she announced that she was leaving shortly after I arrived. With that said, I cannot even begin to fathom how you all are feeling. When Valerie announced she was leaving, she invited us to keep up with her on Facebook, and I did just that.. I saw just how loved she was by so many. I saw how crazy she was about her husband and her children, her Sister and community. I know that you all will miss her terribly and my heart goes out to you. You will all be in my prayers and I leave you with this poem:

After They Are Gone

When someone we love passes away,
We ache but we go on,
Our dear departed would want us to heal
After they are gone

This sorrowful time must still feel so unreal
And you're looking for strength from above
I know how sad you must be to lose the one you love

I hope, from my heart, that your pain will decrease
That your spirit will gain strength again,
I pray that your faith will create inner peace
And that God will send blessings - Amen

My Deepest Condolences,

Toni V. Wade

December 27, 2016

Tari Slayton

In loving memory of a wonderful person. I would not be where I am today with my career had I not met Valerie. She was like a second Mom to me, and I valued her life as much as my own. I will always love and remember her beautiful soul. Prayers for her husband a 2 sons whom she spoke very highly of! I will definitely miss her, very much.

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