Dr. Vincent R. DeSimone

1926 - 2013

Dr. Vincent R. DeSimone obituary, 1926-2013, Miller Place, NY

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Vincent DeSimone Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Nov. 11, 2013.

Vincent R. DeSimone, Ed. D., Age 87 passed away on Veterans Day, November 11, 2013. Husband of the late Anita DeSimone, he leaves behind five children; Nicholas (Angela), Eric (Paula), Denise Mingoia (Sal), Lena Campbell (Clay), Christine Matthews (Daniel): 9 Grandchildren; Adam, Amanda, Danielle, Michael, Alexa, Samantha, Gina, Andrew and Daniel; 1 Great Grandchild, Dylan; and sisters Angelina Ferrauiolla and Antionette Mele.

During World War II, Private First Class DeSimone was an Anti-Aircraft Gunner in the United States Marine Corps. After receiving an honorable discharge, Vincent graduated from Ithaca College with a Bachelor of Science, New York University with a Masters Degree and Nova University with a Doctor of Education. He worked in a number of School Districts as a physical education teacher, coach and principal. Vincent retired in 1984 as Administrative Dean of Walt Whitman High School. He also held various positions with the Town of Brookhaven and Suffolk County including Deputy County Clerk. He belonged to many professional organizations including: Suffolk Executive School Officers Association, East End Principals Association, New York State Teachers Association, National Education Association, Suffolk County Police Association and enthusiastically supported the Republican Party as Past President, Committeeman and Block Captain of the Sound Beach Republican Club. He proudly served as Journal Chairman and personally raised millions of dollars in donations for the Republican Party.

Vincent was very involved in his community. For the last 54 years he was a member and held many offices with the Rocky Point Lions Club. He rose through the ranks to become District Governor of District 20S. He received many service awards including the Melvin Jones Fellowship for Dedicated Humanitarian Service. He was a life and Charter Member of Elks Lodge 2138 in Port Jefferson. In 1962 he assisted in the formation of the Lodge.

Vincent was a communicant of the St. Louis de Montfort Roman Catholic Church where he served as Usher.
Always giving of himself, his dedication to helping others will be missed by his family, friends and the community. He will remain in our hearts forever.

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November 19, 2013

Victor Triolo

Vinny was a good friend that brought us all lots of laughs and a smile to our faces each and everyday we worked together at Walt Whitman HS. My thoughts and prays go out to him and the family.

November 14, 2013

Joey Galvez and Robin Silivanch

Our Deepest Condolences are with you and your family.

November 14, 2013

Michael Welhous

"Brothers and sisters, we do not want you to be uninformed about those who sleep in death, so that you do not grieve like the rest of mankind, who have no hope. For we believe that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him." (1 Thessalonians 4) As Christians, we believe that we will see our loved ones again. I pray that having this knowledge brings your entire family comfort at this difficult time.

November 14, 2013

Carolyn Hadgraft

Nick, Eric, Denise, Lena, and Christine.........So sorry for your loss. I remember spending time with all of you. Your Dad was a special Man. Please know my prayers are with you. Remember the happy times.

November 13, 2013

Angela McCarthy

Dear Nick, Denise and family.....
I was so very saddened to hear about dad, my thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

November 13, 2013

Cathy and Bob Winding

Vinny was an old friend and will be sorely missed. Cathy and I send our condolences to the entire family.

November 13, 2013

Aimee & Jeff

Uncle Eric, Amanda, Adam, Aunt Paula and Desimone Family. I am sorry to hear of your dads (grandfather)passing. He is a very sweet man. May the wonderful memories you have of your time together get you thru this difficult time.

November 12, 2013

Rose Izzo

Jimmy was a very special and dear friend to our family. He will be remembered fondly. Thank you Jimmy for putting a smile on Mom's face, "Rosita"!

All our love and prayers are with your family.

Rose, Barbara, Carol and Debbie

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November 12, 2013

Eric, Nick, Lee, Denise and Christine, We are so very sorry for your loss. But may your Dad's love live on in your memories and bring you peace.

Carol Amyot and Dave

November 12, 2013

Tim, Diane and Pete Vadney

So sorry to hear about your Dad. Your in thoughts and prayers at this sad time.

November 12, 2013

Florence Lehner

To The DeSimone Family, I am deeply sorry for your loss. Florence Lehner

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